₦airaland Forum

vbiye:
Dear Nairalanders, I need advice, i have been dating this guy for a couple of months now, initially i really liked him but now that i have been spending time with him, his attitude puts me off. He is the kind of guy that believes a woman should take care of herself and all her needs, this is not really a problem for me because i work and earn a good salary, but i have come to notice that he is always complaining of being broke, it's annoying because i know he works with a good oil company, he complains endlessly when his Siblings ask him for money, if i tell him its normal that i used to ask my elders ones for money when i was in school he gets angry and says i never take sides with him on any issue, whenever we are together he is either complaining of being broke, or being angry because his colleagues provoked him at work or he is hassling me for sex and he never takes no for an answer. The only time i asked him for money to make my hair he told me other women carry one hairstyle for 3 months that i should start carrying my own like that too and he didn't give me anything. on my last birthday he said the country's economy is so bad and so he could not afford a birthday gift for me. He always complains that i don't call him everyday but he has never recharged my phone,to make matters worse he is always asking me to borrow him money to fuel his car whereas he has never given me as much as 1k for tfare when i visit him. My question is this his attitude normal with guy's.

SpotlezDonald25:
Abia girls are useless

tuk2ato:
At list 22, the groom retroactively paid for the schooling of the bride. All these demands will make one think that the family of the bride wants to open a bar of some sort, by the way who is the person that wants to smoke the 2 packets of Benson and Hedges. Didnt know Star beer is that popular in the East. Ibos dont joke with 'Ahcohal'

donfemo:
This is just what you pay apart form the expenses of the wedding day itself. Well after everything the lady does not expect you to be equal in that marriage. You will be her Lord and personal saviour.

Greene66:
Women are confused species. See this one now.

You want authority that will dominate. Yet you want your opinion to count. Can you put your hand in fire and say it won't burn?

Hahaha.. women ehn.. make una dey deceive una self

TANTUMERGO007:
like i care

fellis:
Shoprite malls in the East have children playground attached to them, shoprite Enugu has one kain swing like that that use to turn round and go round in circles, it will go up and waind down again

abeg I no sabi the swing name and I'm too lazy to Google it

tjskii:
Looks igbotic esp with that akpoche red dress

PoliticalThuG:
This lady in question is a nice lady. She is almost a perfect lady.

She is intelligent
beautiful
romantic
neat
clean
booblicious
asslicious

she is really helpful to me.
She gives me money when i need it (i am not poor tho)

she washes my clothes, cook me food, sweeps my compound.

Now just last week, she asked me if i would date her. I told her - let me think about it.

She gave me 2 weeks to think about it.

Now i am confused because i have vowed not to date a short lady.

This lady is short - I dont mean dwarf ooo. She is just short.

How can i say no to her without hurting her?

Your advice is needed!!!!!

jimi4us:
If am a senator and my number gets expose by SR , hmm them don buy case be that o. Wether they are hiding I. America , UK or even Nigeria I will sue and make sure I destroy them.

theconsortium:
Why is the ooni wife not smiling? Just asking

londonrivals:
Hajia Maryam Mairo, second wife of Sokoto State Governor, Aminu Tambuwal released her official portrait today on her official pet project Facebook page. The portrait reads: Wife of the Executive Governor of Sokoto State. When a Facebook user, Mirna Aliyu referred to her as the First Lady, a member of her team clarified writing: "She is the wife of the governor, not the First Lady.

dukie25:
Expect private numbers of Buhari, Tinubu, Atiku very soon.

By the time PDP starts releasing personal numbers of Amaechi and Co, APC supporters would have forgotten they applauded when it happened to their foes.

P:S
The only number I actually want is that of Adamu Aliyu Oshiomhole. I want to propose to Adamu I can get his hoe pregnant within 2 days.

Destined2win:
Because there is hardship doesn't mean that those who have the money should not live life to the fullest. What is all these?

CHIJIOKE1314:
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All I said is MY child not yours..

I don't care who is better or who is not..
I would rather be dead than to live and watch ANITHER human being teach my underage child hate called religion...

CHIJIOKE1314:
Teach my child one word about MOHAMMED and watch me burn down your school..

I swear!!

panini:
Nice pic.

The lady is pretty. If I compliment her, will those other guys beat me to comma?

Medley:
I think i understand what you are aiming at. The word may not sound well in your lexicon, but what still stands is that people are raped because of signs being misconstrued and this cases seem to be increasing.

coolitempa:
Old man...don't you have any shame...I just don't get it...how can you sell your conscience for a mere mesh of porridge

mysticgal:
Please what do I do;I just really broke up with my boyfriend and he is not taking it funny, he's been crying, refusing to eat for days and now he is threatening to kill himself. I feel guilty for leaving him though he was the architect of the problems which we both reacted to childishly.
If I go back, it will be because of pity which will deprive me of my happiness. I don't want him to commit suicide because me as it will hang on for the rest of my life. Please advise me sincerely, like you would a friend or sister

Medley:
If you don't seek the consent of anyone before trying to sleep with him/her you may find yourself battling a case of sexual assault when this was done unconsciously - one of you was not consenting. Or you may even be embarrassed if he/she is still weighing options or path to be taking in the relationship.

Relying on signs has been major reason why rape cases are growing by the day.

rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

Toks2008:
That person that you usually think about in bed at night before you sleep is who your heart truly longs for...

TANTUMERGO007:
and you compare all these 'whatsapp' obas to the great OBA OF BENIN, its indeed an insult

firstolalekan:
And why should a male doctor operate on a female patient in the first fûcking place


Why do we have female doctors?

Go to any medical school in this country, the population of female medical students is always 50% or higher to the male's population.

I CAN NEVER ALLOW MY WIFE TO VISIT A MALE GYNECOLOGIST.

WHERE ARE ALL THE FÚCKING FEMALE DOCTORS?