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Biglittlelois:
Op change your topic to "46 years of living together" they were never married, they were living in sin-fornication, without paying bride price or dowry any form of "marriage" is useless.

I thought they did statuory marriage?

Spain007:
Abeg I prefer d garlic smell to unnecessary fat upandan

Hahahaha!

You are not the one making the choices dude.

Elder0001:
If she had stayed in her home this wouldn't have occurred.

This is Nigeria not USA so those thoughts of lawsuits blabla...

Irresponsibility begets irresponsibility

Irresponsibility begets irresponsibility.

The summary of the matter.

sanpipita:
Nigeria is indeed a dangerous place for women to live in, tufiakwa and some rabid mor0ns will come justify this.

Even if Nigeria is a dangerous place, it is not on this matter.

Which decent girl enters a pool with men not her relatives or lovers?

Do you know if they paid the girls to show up and she is breaching the contract?

You do not cast your pearls in front of swines.

chilisauce:
Let's just tell ourselves the truth and not deceive ourselves. Even if she slim like broomstick with banging figure 8, guys will still fvck outside if they want to. It's in our nature to cheat as men, all this talk of too fat, yad a yad a yad is just for moral justification.

Beyonce is like a Venus to many guys, but even with her perfect body, baba Jay Z still carry dick go outside.

As 'hot' as Tiwa savage be, what happened with Uncle Tee?

Ironically, many women have braced themselves even before marriage, knowing that the chances of men cheating is higher than the chances of rain falling in July. Many of them no dey even carry am for head again, they wantu live long.

You see all the effort they put into looking sex.y for their fans: that is the market they sell.

You do not know if when they get home, they tie wrappers till the next show.

Beyonce is rumoured to like garlic which if true means she would have an offensive odor except she works extra hard to smell nice.

So while you are seeing honey skinned Beyonce,
Jay-Z might be living with garlic breath Mama Blue Ivy.

G1STM0RE:
Married Man Cries out over His Wife's Sudden Weight Gain, Says Her Body No Longer Arouse Him.

Read his facebook post below...

News via Gistmore - http://gistmore.com/married-man-cries-wifes-sudden-weight-gain-says-body-no-longer-arouse

@OP:

My heartfelt sympathy to the husband.

There is nothing as frustrating as a spouse who puts up a front and let all loose after marriage.

The husband has clearly stated efforts towards getting the wife to lose weight which she obviously doesn't want to lose.

Unfortunately, desire can almost not be negotiated and the heart wants what it wants.

It is the duty of the wife to make herself as sexually pleasing as possible to her husband else she is denying him part of his sexu.al rights.

The man has unconsciously withdrawn se.x; he can up the ante by buying smaller sized clothes, praising the old her etc. till she is willing to put her effort in slimming down.

Her reluctance clearly shows she doesn't respect and love her husband.

Negotiate:
Good for her...

Her mates are hustling, she’s there stalking celebrities.

Jim is rude, but no one ever got served while minding their own business.

Gbam! 100% co-sign.

[quote author=rOsy247 post=72506954][/quote]Let's disagree then.

Rewarding bad behaviour doesn't put a stop to it.

Besides, I am all for the quality of a marriage over quantity so what classifies as 'working' for you might not cut it for me.

And it takes two to make it work.

rOsy247:
So are you saying cos op's hubby is about to cheat with a strange woman, op should give him tit for tat treatment?

Ma'am, did I anyway imply that the wife (I didn't even get to see the OP) should cheat on the husband? Of what good what that be?

I am saying that the wife should find the root cause of the infidelity and address it. If she is the cause (not an excuse), she should adjust and if there is no fault from her side, she weighs her options if she is willing to give him a 2nd/nth chance or move on.

If she is giving him another chance, then extra cooking and care will not resolve any issue. The husband has 80% at home and is trying to get the balance 20% outside. The wife giving him 90% (by doing extra) means the husband is getting 110% and there is no incentive for him to change/repent.

Mindfulness:

ignant:
That's the new term now, eh?

Abi na.

You seem vast in the operation of both parties.

rOsy247:
So u saying since the hubby is about to start something with a strange woman she should stop her wifely roles?

You know that if a husband/wife is cheating/threatening to cheat and the victim decides to up the ante, they just make the cheating attractive for the person.

Imagine give special attention to a child throwing tantrums, he soon learns that throwing tantrums is the best way to get what he wants..

Now, the exception is if the wronged spouse was failing in his/her duties initially which again is debatable.

ignant:
See that first pic? I don't know if he is aware or it is even intentional but dude is throwing gay signals.

One of the ways gay men "flash colours" is by revealing their physical specimen eg buttcrack, pelvic region etc. I won't even talk about the nipple piercing.

It's the equivalent of lesbians who "flash colours" by forming a "V" shape with their fingers on their lips.

Lesgay

lexy2014:
There's NOTHING about SM that makes people shameless. SM is only a reflection of how people live their lives in d real world. If this "busty lady" can b saying this 2a married man on SM, it just tells u how she lives her life sleeping with married men

You have a solid point.

So sad.

May God grant those left the fortitude to bear the loss.

Who benefits most from his death?

Dinho20:
TRUE

Ditto a man.

This woman lacks shame.

There seems to something about SM that make people shameless.

Hmmmm

Hear is a screenshot

I stumbled on Madam Ibunkun Awosika 's response to someone who said 'the future is female' on IG and that woman makes a whole lot of sense!

Mindfulness:
I liked the part where he addressed the issue of po*rnography. We can no longer act like our parents and make s*ex a taboo because our kids have an easy access to p*orn. If they do not learn from us, that s*exuality is emotional and women are not objects to be used and abused, they will learn from the p*orn industry and there is some really sick stuff out there for them to learn from.

Very true.

Learning about sex from p*orn also distorts what intimacy should be between male & female.

Good morning.

@clarathomp: found the sensual/sexual and modified to sensual.

Thanks

missdee384:
they flare from the waist actually

Thanks and modified

sexybaby22:
She had the daughter very young just like Genevieve. Both Sikiratu and Genevieve also attended the same secondary school.

Very young ke?

Pulse.ng has it that she was 21 when she had her daughter.

https://www.pulse.ng/entertainment/movies/tayo-odueke-5-things-you-should-know-about-sikiratu-sindodo-id4713393.html

pDudd:
The guy is a biker.

The lady is a poser.

There is a difference.

Even when it was stated that she travelled from Nigeria to Senegal and back on her bike alone?

They are not her brothers.

Seeing their posture tells you that they do not want to be too near the lady.

Gbemishile1:
Hello nairalanders,i doubt if most of you know the answer to this question
A mother to your wife is called a MOTHER-IN-LAW
a father to your wife is called a FATHER-IN-LAW
a brother to your wife is called a BROTHER-IN-LAW
a sister to your wife is called is called a SISTER-IN-LAW
Then your wife is called?
Nairalanders,drop your comments below

Fvckmate-in-law

mizz2posh:
You can use Jergens natural glow, if you can find the original, it will make your skin glow.

You typed an epistle na, where is it?

GoodFaith:
He just said it the way it is
Please explain yourself

Explain myself how?

almakiyyun:
Yes, my beloved wife to be is a village girls who knows all the principles of my religion, who knows extramarital life is forbidden, who knows cheating on ones spouse is forbidden and a great sin.
Show me one graduate that keep all this and I will tell you what campus boys have turned her to.
Western education came to spread indecency and immorality both in the school and at work place.

Really?

BlackPantherCri:
The friend of my friend is a friend

Nothing is free in Free Town.

ahnie:
Thankhui your highness....wud get it this week.

Make sure you testify when it starts working.

And I will collect tithe o

Mindfulness:
Let me add my two cents.

No amount of cosmetics will keep you beautiful if you do not drink enough water, maintain a healthy diet and work out on a regular basis.
Also, your smile is your most attractive asset so keep your teeth white and shiny.

By the way, men should also look good. Women have two eyes too.

Very very true.