₦airaland Forum

unohbethel:
Is buhari realy jubrin?

That is the question na.

Hmmmmmm.

Congratulations, God bless her & family.

Acidosis:
You guys should stop disturbing the Internet with this Linda nonsense.

Linda never wanted marriage in the first place. If you think Linda, at this point in her life, will desire marriage, then you need to have your head examined. She only needed a baby, especially one with a multimillionaire father, and since the opportunity clicked, she quickly grabbed, got pregnant and walked away!

Majority of women in her shoes don't want marriage. You guys should think and stop wasting your time with her "breakup" stories. Wait till you read the baby daddy's side of the story. The only thing that keeps many married women is the joint responsibility. Share N2bn among 20 married women, 19 will walk away from their marriages.

@ bold: are Nigerian men so bad?

Poor and shoddy.

A marriage ceremony is a life time experience and you must be dressed the part.

He doesn't need a designer suit to look good.

He could have bought a second hand suit with clean pair of shirt and trousers with N5k.

Don't tell me he don't have the money: he should have saved or done only trad where they could wear a nice Ankara and be done.

If he is this thoughtless about his appearance on his biggest day, I hope it doesn't spill into the marriage.

Toke, the woman who tans her pictures to look darker than she is.

zlantanfan:
He can keep wailing, Obama doesn't know he exists

If Obama doesn't know he existed, then the US Consulate would not address the issue.

I am sure if I wrote a book citing how President Trump stopped me from getting a job, he would be advised to glance over it.

Now this response even makes the book intriguing to read.

She looks like a disproportionate transgender.

Double blessings for your loss.

Worried about all these single mothers projecting their sons as husbands and lovers.

Your son, your inestimable jewel etc. is enough.

Want to call someone hubby et all, please look for one.

grandstar:
It wasn't IVF, i am sure it was simply sex but the wife must never know

He could have been offered such a large sum, his friend has a preference for someone he knows

This seems more likely.

IVF? Why two girls instead of a boy and a girl since it is twins?

I am worried a lot of people especially females do not see anything wrong in the husband donating his sperm without her agreement /married.

Once married, you both belong to one another and ideally have to agree on all things.

Even if the man want to open a semen donation business, they both have to be aware.

Anyways, the deed has been done and the other family already paying for their betrayal. If they let the wife in, she would have told them hubby is AS and they looked for someone else.

Very difficult to move on.

Hope Genny is getting recognized.

Ugly dress by the way.

I marvel when people especially women act like fake friendship and backstabbing and its branches are for women only.

I dearsay ant woman who runs away from female friends and claim they are all evil bla bla has serious issues herself and must be the problem.

Not to exclude women however Nollywood's stereotype has always been evil male friends/partners/brothers etc.

Fair-weather friends come in all shades.

That said, Omoni is not Uche Jumbo's friend. She was extremely busy to attend Uche's premier yet could magically make time for Mo Abudu's premier.

Ini Edo's comment obviously opened Uche's eyes.

Chioma, Uche and Ufoma are enough.

Good news.

We want more of this.

Good one and God bless their home.

Happy birthday and God's blessings upon you both.

This is looking like a pre-wedding pose.

ArticleBeast:
Come out to vote who? Buhari abi Atiku? I better be watching Nigeria Premier League highlight than to queue and vote rebranded thieves.

A host of others are coming out. Why must it be Buhari or Atiku?

Hmmmm.

The LGBT community is obviously more phobic than the non-LGBT community.

So sad that people can't air their views without the lenses of political correctness.

CityNGR:
This is not the first time she'll be embarrassing the husband

The third picture shows she's likely older than her husband. Which kind of explains the husband's need for younger females.. Which she's termed paedophilia

What is the aim of your thread?

To repair what is broken or to further destroy?

Madam has apologized on National TV, what else do you want?

Mizwisdom:
How many cases of mothers molesting their sons have you heard of? No my huby will not be aware of my distrust, I'll just tell him it's a family law and that's the way I was raised. It's a deal breaker for me so we'll discuss it before we tie the knot.

Interesting.

You will tell your husband that it is a family (your nuclear family's) law for fathers not to bathe their daughters.

It is wise that you will discuss it before marriage as a deal breaker; it will be wiser not to marry a man you don't trust in the first place.

A pedophile doesn't need to bathe his child before he rapes her.

Wrong title.

Men don't marry dumb wives is more like it.

The boss was pressuring her, she did not resign, she did not rant to her husband, she did not switch departments, she did not take for him and damn the consequences etc.

She chose to torment her husband.

She is also very wicked. Why didn't she die in peace and move on? Why guilt tripping your husband for life.?

Buhari is 'poor' and managed to keep the faith.

Then how on earth does he finance his wife and kids?

BTW, lack of growth is not a sign of integrity; it is a lack of foresight and visionary thinking.

Even God abhors anyone who cannot maximise and multiply his/her resources.

If they are looking to get married, it is good to start seeking counsel from spiritual leaders and their parents.

Good luck to them.

Having se. x on camera is awful however, it is not how far but how well.

What's the Government's business with the nitty gritty of wedding ceremonies like types of gifts and number of guests?

Except there is a confirmed spike in crimes since the rise of lavish weddings with proven correlation, the Govt should let their people express themselves.

Most people hope to marry once and spurge on it.

Have se.x for 15hrs straight or after sex, be satisfied for the next 15 hours?

If it is the former, I an afraid the lady is either drunk, mentally unstable or attention seeking which I greatly suspect to be the case.

SouLPoison:
All this guys hitting on the submission thing, it actually depends on the character of the man, I don't think anybody would want their sister to be wih an abusive and disrespectful husband. Nigeria men needs grooming too, I know what am seeing in this my area here alone

Nigerian husbands my brother.

LordKO:
Personally, I dislike use of the verb word "submit" (or its noun; submission) - both in word and action - in relation to a man and woman in a romantic affair. I prefer its euphemism like submissive (submissiveness). Submission in this regard always makes it look as if it's a master-servant thing.

So, if the word is submissiveness, I'll say yes, women who aren't submissive to their men - aristocratic men - can never have lasting (healthy) marriage. The difference between submissiveness and love is just in their names and applications - just as the difference between a man and a woman is simply in their genders, and roles by extension. Neither submissiveness nor love is a sign of weakness - just as difference in human genders don't mean inequality.

Both submissiveness and love are products - compound products - of goodness. Submissiveness begets selflessness, meekness and sweetness, etc. Love begets kindness, politeness, thoughtfulness, etc. Men love your wives and women be submissive to your husbands.

Love how she still looks like a lady

ifyalways:
Employed by the grandmother, where are the parents?

Now,they will vomit that money they are chasing from every hole on their bodies and still pray they get back their tod's in one piece.

Making babies is not making bread. Plan and create time.before popping children. Its high time parents are held accountable abeg. Im so pained to.think of the pain and trauma the tods are going through now and frankly dont give a toss about the parents.

I pray for the childrens sake, they are found soon and in one piece. Same way i look at parents looking for nannies for their tods online, in this very Nigeria?. Unserious, irresponsible parents everywhere.

What do you suggest/propose?

Justwantafriend:
Please this is only for mature minds and that's why am putting it in this section because I believe there are lots of married people here.
Though am married but not to a man who love me. I married a man who only see me as baby production machine and the only time he shows little care is when am pregnant. This is my second pregnancy anyway and he has suddenly changed. He only gave me 25,000 to buy baby things and so far so good I have spent more than 100k of my money buying what I think my baby need. I don't bother him for money for upkeep or any other thing because i have business fetching me money. The only money he drop is feeding money which is like 1000 in a day and I don't complain instead I add my own money and cook any meal we need to eat.
The painful part of these is hes a chronic cheat, he woo any girl (ugly,beautiful,married,young and women older than him) I saw this on his Facebook inbox without him knowing. And despite not giving me anything, he's promising them heaven and earth. This is a man I do buy expensive shoe and wears for so I can be admiring him instead of admiring other men outside. He has never buy anything for me and since the beginning of this year, I have been the one clothing myself and my first child. He never appreciate that.
I have been given 14th as my EDD (expected day of delivery) and this man don't even ask of my health any more. I do cry myself to sleep every night asking God why he allowed me to marry my enemy, he should have just allow me die as single girl than putting me in bondage. I swore never to have abotger baby for him after my first child but he always rape me. he doesn't know how to make love at all. He will just open my cloth from behind and shook his dick anytime he's Hot not minding if am enjoying it or not. I am fed up of life, if not for my first child, I would commit suicide because am just so unfortunate in life.
Am sorry for all the grammatical error. God bless you

What do you want?

It is either:

1. He changes for the better
2. He changes for the worse
3. He remains the same.

Think long and hard about what you want and be prepared to face the consequences of your decisions.

@OP:

The husbands must not go with them.

Marriage is too long a space to do something you are miserable with especially when it is not 'mandatory'.

Funnily, I really don't fancy my husband going to the market with me. I do 9 - 5 so going to the market is an opportunity for me to reconnect with the society and see the new trends/products available.

lilbest4:
her marrying you is not a favor. When will you pússies learn this?
You are either a pússy nigga or a girl

Actually it is.

It is even a favor from God.