₦airaland Forum

classicB:
Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.
Men knows this simple trick and that is why a cheating husband would not allow his wife cheat back.
Some women cannot live with a cheating husband that is why a woman will have to move out, but some women dnt really care as long as the husband is performing is duty, wetin concern them?

Dheartless:
it's the mans property, women should start building houses.

edwife:
chillisauce thank you dear for your prayers,i can't thank you enough.

@damiso and kimoni thank you.

I didn't want to bring it here,but at this point i need all the prayers.

My family and I are going through tough time.During Friday’s Paris attacks, two of my cousins were affected-we didn't know where they were as they left for the soccer then to a birthday party in one of the restaurant until we got the news on Sunday night that one died and the other in the hospital (intensive care).

As if it was not enough,only for me to get a call this afternoon that the one in intensive care fell into coma and my aunt(their mum) had a stroke immediately.The woman is a widow who took care of her two boys and now that they are grown,she is about to lose both just like that?how fair is it? I grew up with them,it's like losing two brothers at the same time.I am confused.

cococandy:
Which one is lebu garri?

naijababe:
Chisos! I can't think of anything more disgusting. Lebu is only good for sprinkling on beans. Even the eba is nothing to write home about.



Chop knuckle jare and I went to a boarding school.

cococandy:
Thanks everyone.

After the storm we went out and had some food.

Utilities still not restored

More than 200,000 people affected according to the news update. Hopefully it will be restored by the time we get home today.
Make person no go break into the house as garage door is manually opened and can't be closed back.
Security system disarmed cos of power failure.
And this kind weather without heat is like calling for pneumonia.

Na wa. One man even died as tree crush his car.
I cried for his family.
God may I not experience such a horrific loss.

Cc damiso
Bukatyne
Freecocoa
Burntpalace
Babygirlfl


Lol Buky cold garri in this freezing weather.
I'll just die.
I love it when the weather is hotish with plenty of milk and peanuts and sugar.

cococandy:
Very stormy and windy out here mehn.
Power outage
Wifi went down
Gas disconnected.
Only cellular network available
And no one knows when it will stop.
The trees are swaying so close I'm afraid one might uproot and land on my house.

Now I'm seating downstairs afriad to go up in case the roof wants to cave in so I can run out on time
The storm no be here o. Never seen anything like it in a while.

Now I miss my naija. All these ones no be anything at home.
At least generator go dey and gas supply is personal.

I'm hungry but Can't cook or bath or even go out because the garage door won't open (no power)
Not like it's safe to even drive anyway.

add the depressing lack of sunshine.

This is a recipe for nervous breakdown.

damiso:
eeya pele cococandy. hope you have eaten now?

I am sure we saw like 1/10th with storm barney and my son kept saying ' mummy the wind is screaming' *smiley*(cant use smileys on my work computer) the wind almost pushed him down yesterday.

Ewuro4 why do you people keep spoiling garri with milk I don't get it hubby says its cos I did not go to boarding school but I haaaaate garri and milk with a passion. soaked garri ( the iejbu variety esp) is a flavour on its own and yall keep spoiling with milk.

Maximus85:
The man can't cope, he'd feel lesser and that's not how he's wired.

To the second question, I agree and that's why we have soo many over 30s still unmarried.

Maximus85:
You amass wealth even more than King Solomon. But can you submit to a lesser man in terms of wealth? They won't even come to you. No man wants to marry a competition.

Now you can start vomiting all you want.

The truth they say is not only bitter but also irritating.

Slimolobe:
You can ask all your cooking questions here and now, you're sure to get instant answers.

sexydiva21:
I have been married for about 5 years now. Intercourse has really being work for me. All oga says is remind me of amount of yams and bride prize he brought whenever he wants to get down atlast we get down.

He doesn't even kiss and romance anymore he just goes straight to the point. When he is eventually done he gets up and hits to the bathroom. I really don't know what is going on

Please advise no curses

obowunmi:
How am I impatient? I am 30. How long should I wait?

Estharfabian:
LoL! didn't even Read that part....

obowunmi:
Nothing. She doesn't want to leave and I'm tired of searching.

Estharfabian:
....And i thought i've Seen Everything!!

Weirdos just Keep Rising Everyday....

The Mother Should Be circumcised! Again! And Again!

Buh seriously, How Old is This Boy? If he's Up to 16..Then , The blame should be On Both parties...There's Obviously more to this story!

frisky2good:
The one one the left is an albino. Apart from that, they look alike.

obowunmi:
NO.

obowunmi:
Has anyone been in a situation like mine?

Chillisauce:
We are fine over here. Just indoors .

Rip to the dead .
Thanks for asking

raumdeuter:
In Nigeria all those child care are usually contracted out to younger relatives Mother In law or househelps same with the homecare

How many women here actually sweep the floor with broom every day?. When they are new brides they have househelps and relatives who help and by the time the kids are over 8 they are already handling most of the household duties. By the time they are 12, Most of the cooking.

A lot of houses also have gadgets that do all these like washing machine, rice cooker, vacuum cleaner etc

So when we get to the real sense of it How many women actually do these chores by themselves

But how many Nigerian women have actually dealt with a Nigerian mechanic before. Typically the car is bad, they park it and the husband does the worry, same with other masculine chores. either done by the man or contracted out

Slimolobe:
This thread is for women who find it quite difficult to satisfy the stomach needs of their family. Share your experiences.

fem29:
Nah I just hate seeing their posts . They just rile me up and I know they are subjugating women in real life. Their wives and girlfriend's are suffering

ronald4lif:
Hmmm power, we all love power and authority so no one relinquishes a position of authority willingly.

Any lady (or individual) who believes that men are generally more inclined to excel than her has issues with her potentials and her inherent ability to grow and develop, which by itself is a catalyst for failure.

The emboldened phrase you highlighted was intended to euphemize the 'real man' dictum to be applicable to all sex, not just some, or men. Perhaps, my expression wasn't pellucid and concise enough.

raumdeuter:
Ok if they are bound by religion. I dont make comments or judgment when it comes to religion or cultural issues especially those that arent mine,
Have you explored what islam says about woman owning and developing a property without her husbands knowledge. Have you viewed all her complaint from the Islamic prism? I dont know about Islam so I cant really say

raumdeuter:
But I think its unfair to say Its Islam that forbids her from paying her kids fees yet not considering the impact of Islam on other aspect too

raumdeuter:
These chores come up daily and they are usually overlooked because one party does it regularly. I saw a movie where they took all the men to war, leaving women alone,. the first few days was chaotic as many of the women have never even taken trash out of their house before.

Let each party stay separate for a weekend to appreciate what each person bring to the family table

raumdeuter:
they split bills, the wife does childcare, the man does the heavy lifting like fixing cars, fixing electrical, and plumbing issues cut the lawn etc

How is that not sharing responsibilities

raumdeuter:
You read those 2 sentences and you dont think the woman has issues?

babygirlfl:
In parkistani, a very well known public figure whose wife was a doctor was involved in the honour killing of their daughter. Education and status does not always change people's mentality. A well placed educated person doesn't always mean they are the best of people. After all, most of Nigerian politicians are highly placed people yet very corrupt.

MadCow1:
I will quit you if you quit your job to spend time with me.