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PunkyVeer:
It still doesn't make much sense. Did he shrink & wither overnight? I refuse to believe she had no idea, unless he walked around in a fatsuit like Martin in Big Momma's House How is that possible that she couldn't even imagine how small he is with or without clothes? Sorry to say this, but she sounds like a dummy

She picked him, she can now live with that choice. Tough!

thorpido:
Pro Unitate
It's a shame the schools are not the way they were in those days.

Kachisbarbie:
Amen. God that brought us all this far, would most definitely see us through.
There is no provision for divorce in my marriage, just love and more love.

thorpido:
Your school sounded like one.I attended one too.

FrancisTony:
Yup! I remember; the one that was posted on education section 2014.
Wasn't active on family section and didn't know you then.
I remember you commented why female cutoff mark is higher than male own and a dude quoted and insulted you saying it's all about feminism you know.

@2nd bolded, I attended day & boarding mixed school and can relate.

dinachi:
Wrong. God loves everyone EQUALLY!

thorpido:
Did you attend a Fed. Govt. College?

FrancisTony:
Lmao! This is unity cutoff mark.
Male and female have the same cutoff mark in other states.
Check this and tell me which gender is being cheated.

https://www.nairaland.com/2562674/shocking-cut-off-marks-federal#37477817

Kebbi – Male (9) Female (20)

Sokoto – Male (9) Female (13)

Taraba – Male (3) Female (11)

Yobe – Male (2) Female (27)

Zamfara – Male (4) Female (2)

Kachisbarbie:
See this one... men like that plenty. If my husband were a book, I would print/photocopy and sell to your lot, he would definitely be an International Best Seller ...

Imperfect me, loved and pampered perfectly. It's grace dear

babygirlfl:
Word.

cococandy:
No be nairaland?
Dem dey shift position as the spirit leads.

All the people on this thread that are acting confused like they don't know such things as stated by the OP happen in real life, will be the first on another thread to tell a woman how she should make sure she limits herself to accommodate what the man wants in a wife.

lilmax:
certainly not me

lilmax:
where please?

damiso:
Thank you dear

naijababe:
Thanks buckie

tivta:
Hello Mrs, can I ask a question? What are the benefits of marriage to a man? Especially when he is the only one paying all the bills? Cause I know from my folks that financial responsibility in marriage should be shared according to capacity, what pisses me of is how women of today leave all financial responsibility for the man. Eg, buying boxers for birthday but expecting a car? Please speak to your single friends not to make such mistakes

lilmax:
i don't know who told nigerian women not to buy cars ,which societal norms dem dey follow?

If its the olden days, it's acceptable. But in this present day where women are educated there's no excuse

53cur3m0d3:
Concerned Nairalanders, Here's the sequel to this thread.. www.nairaland.com/2708508/wife-beats-me-up-when/

thorpido:
Just to add,she should get nice lingerie and be sexy.Get some cool red pants and bra.

Mindfulness:
I am neither a self-proclaimed advocate nor expert so I am asking the advocate and expert to educate me on the history of marriage and how divorce was never part of it. You are such a perfect role model for Christianity, you won't deny a request, will you?

Let me help you, divorce has ALWAYS been an option in the history of marriage and exclusivity is tied to the Christian doctrine but not universal to all cultures.






Bukatyne, go a few pages back and have a look at all the research cited there that disproves all the sentimental statements made on this thread, especially with regard to females and math.

I wanted to take the topic further and show how some initiatives narrowed the gender gap in several fields and subjects but someone ran away.

doublex:
@ bukatyne ,i have just been wondering why so many men here in nairaland are obsessed and paranoid with feminist/m,am fairly new here and already i see in many topics i go to,they randomly accuse many women of being femist when woman disagrees with their immoral views.MAYBE THEY HAVE NIGHTMARES ABOUT FEMINISTS hehehehe

cococandy:
I must say she does have a knack for picking them.
And I won't be surprised she was with the actual person that abused her far longer than she was with the others who probably didn't even do anything worth divorcing for.
Her not naming him might even imply she still is into him and may not mind going back.

I'll never understand girls women like this.

Setaje:
pickabeau1. Honestly I've been asking g myself this same question. Marry and divorce once, it's understandable, marry and divorce second time, still forgiveable, marry and divorce a third. It's OUTRAGEOUS biko!!!!!!!.


Not be fourth one she just divorced so? Abeg babe get issues o. All of em can't be wrong. Babe should check herself. I think though, from her biography something seemed amiss when she was growing up.

TV01:
TV01...always to the point and on point .

No problem with that - especially since my belief system is plain "Christianity" . No hybrids or syncretism - such as "christian feminsit", which may confuse poster and responder

TV01:
Makes sense so far...albeit repetitively But as ever you trip at the first hurdle - why not address an issue where it arises, instead of reading it into a random thread. That says more about you and your agenda than the actual alleged "theme" .

TV01:
And no, I don't see it as a popular belief and certainly not one I personally espouse - more evidence of your paranoid equalist agenda. Bukatyne, it's hurting you !

TV01:
It's standard diagnosis for sour feminists. Hence (1) Your whining about a "superiority theme" where non exists, and totally off-point rant about women having to be fat then thin? and (2) your "equalist approach to every issue. It's boring and bland - almost every thread there's a comment from you along the lines of "...it would be different if it were a man" or "apply that to the husband". Boring, bland and predictable.

TV01:
Address them as they appear and be specific as to who you callout. As well as making more sense, you'd probably get better results. Weak attempts to read meaning into an innocent post so as to further your campaign merely mark you as befuddled. Friendly heads-up !

It's writ large Bukatyne. Our thoughts and prayers - Christian not Feminian - are with you !

TV

delly2015:
my husband is accusing me of wanting to sleep with his junior brother, based on the fact that his brother came to the house when he wasn't around. infact he is just speculating. I have never cheated on my husband ever since I knew him even when we were dating.. and now his family have heard about it and they are not happy with him. how will he face his junior brother now, pls I need advice[color=#990000][/color]