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cuteshantel39:
I appreciate all your comments and I wish he is on this forum to see for himself. I want to state here that the wife is a full house wife. Its the man that feeds,clothes,houses her and does every other thing. I spoke with him yesterday and he told me she was cooking because they had a visitor from another state. I have pressurized him to tell me everything that has transpired btw them but he keeps saying nothing happened that she has been like that. All the same thank you all for your contributions I will keep u updated

BABE3:
I do a two layer wrap before I step in the shower.
- cover it with a water prof bag
- then hair bonnet.

As for night time, I don't park it at night. Braids are very low maintenance. I let them breathe.

I apply mousse twice week to smoothen the strands sticking out (if any).

I apply oil every other day to my hair gan-gan.

And edges cream for my edges (optional).

You don't even need any of those things honestly. I just like efizy.

BABE3:
I cut am. Giving the natural hair thing a try again.
I'm a low cut babe though. Even when relaxed, my hair is always short.


I have super long box braids on now (protective style).




Yes. I hope I get it right this time. I'm always tempted to relax. I love my pixie cuts.

Thanks for the video.

Maryannlive:
Very well spoken

cococandy:
Wait so hair has types again?
I didn't know that.
@edwife,Chillisauce and efemenaxy?
See stress

I just cut mine yesterday.

Some funky low cut style. Folks are loving it.

5minsmadness:
Honestly I don't see the need to argue this.
Let me open a thread and ask nairaland girls if they would prefer romantically presented roses over material gifts. They will laugh me off the thread.

ireneidiva:
You'll always know if you are marrying a man of his word. And this is an entirely different issue from the topic. Women should aways try to rise to the top of their career.

5minsmadness:
Thank you for being realistic.
I try if na Facebook wall.
I dey write am for paper seal am inside envelope come spray the envelope with male perfume . When I could have simply pinged
The Roses were imported and cost a pretty penny. Sista jus laugh thank me with one fake voice troway the tin for corner.


Money talks far Iouder than foolish words.

EfemenaXY:
Thanks Bukky, but I use Johnson's Baby Leave-in detangling Conditioner. It works wonders and is Paraben free...

Moca: Hope this answers your question... And yes, it's 100% natural, 100% Nigerian (Isoko)

LexaP:
My sister, no be small thing o

5minsmadness:
Lol!!!!!!
I can only believe what you wrote, I cant go and confirm it for myself. There is nothing to be disappointed in

ireneidiva:
That needs to be discussed before marriage.

EfemenaXY:
Lol!

Our regime is simple but effective:

~ Applying the LOC method daily. Liquid (water), Oil, and Conditioner. Although I condition once every fortnight after shampooing.

~ Adopting protective styles to preserve her tips to prevent breakage

~ Never, ever, dry combing. I finger comb and detangle (took me 4 hours on Saturday) and only use a very wide-toothed comb just before styling. But even then, her hair would have been spritzed and properly conditioned to make it super soft.

(cough...cough) Bride price? You go fit afford am so?

Chillisauce:
You welcome.
The trick is to pre boil your meat stock with tomato puree. The acidic taste of the Tomate disappears after a long time and it gives the stock, palm oil color. Then you can use 2 - 3 table spoon for soup.
worked for me for vegetable, okra, ogbolo, egusi soups.

Will try it next for ofe owerri.

5minsmadness:
Hmn, ok.
good for you then.

5minsmadness:
True you can force a horse to the stream but you cant force it to drink.
this applies both ways.

man comes home, no food for him meanwhile he provided money and left the house without any quarrel.
he asks wife(not barks, nobody is barking here) and wife refuses. husband asks what is wrong wife says nothing then makes food for herself and her son. Husband insists wife doesnt eat cos its from the same pot wife should have served him food. son can eat since he is a kid. next day husband jejely sends wife home to recover from whatever she is suffering from. If she doesnt want to come back she should stay there.shikena. the world will go on without her.
No time for BULLshit.

5minsmadness:
I don't mean any insults but can you honestly tell me you married the man who wrote the most poems for you? Who adored you the most?

5minsmadness:
Where did I say the above?

Do not extrapolate or jump to conclusions.

A man can be caring and will still be stern. A man can provide all the needs of the house and when he comes home after a day's work he tells his wife with an assertive voice to make his food let him eat. if she refuses and makes for only her son he will know the reason why or end the relationship right there. An assertive man won't carry face and ignore and stagger into the kitchen himself cos he doesn't want to offend the wife, meanwhile he is dying inside.

A father can be caring yet you won't mess with him.

If the husband above has already set certain boundaries then madam knows the house wont be comfortable if she doesn't make the meal for him but makes for her son instead.

bellong:
Sister Bukky, there are many teenagers and infants here. Don't kwarupt our holy and innocent soul fah...

Timbuktou:
Funny, you don't seem tolerant enough here.

5minsmadness:
This was regular for me. I had to stop it when one of the girls that got really close to me told me about it. if you are my girlfriend i would carry you on a silver platter. I believe in the old ways and i would write poems and compose songs( yeah i admit it, silly now i come to think about it) and all this done during the facebook era o. I was a hopeless romantic.

Its all BULLshit.

Now I know the secret I'm having difficulty choosing who to marry cos the girls are too many.
Girls want men. No scratch that, Girls NEED men. Not pansies. It makes them feel fulfilled and womanly. It probably sounds obnoxious the way i'm saying it but its the gospel truth.

bellong:
Priscilla taught Apollos? A man mighty in scriptures? Priscilla's house was used as a local assembly at the time. Women can express the gifts of the Spirit in the church and can partake in other activities including joining the choir except teaching.

Their calling was to be an evangelist not Apostles. The fact that great Grace was upon them in doing exploit led them to start a movement. The fact that they did it doesn't mean it was right.

The diet is not easy but it is worth it. I hope after the diet, your husband will allow you to be going out because "na munching time always..."

5minsmadness:
Majority of menfolk who behave like the guy in my example live to regret it.
The women take them for granted.
They start bossing the men around. This isn't theory, this is what i have seen first hand.
you can even read it in the few men that come on nairaland to complain.
Women don't like men that treat them like queens all the time, fact.

If a guy makes the mistake of asking his wife "may i have sex with you?" as a routine , he will regret it.
Before you know it sex will only come at her behest, NEVER at his.

A man who cooks and cleans and washes and does the dishes will soon find himself doing it alllll the time, the woman just sits back and becomes lazy.

I had a girl once when i was naive, I bought her flowers for valentine (not that i didnt have money but i thought roses would have a more significant meaning than any material gift, silly me ), I would carry her books to class and all the romantic stuff. Women can't stand that behavior for long. They want a man to be in control, to tell them what to do, to OWN them. This doesnt necessarily mean the man should be wicked or a slave-master, simply that being a man he should be more assertive, more confident, more steadfast and determined in what his likes and dislikes are.

I ended up handing my first love to another guy on a silver platter. she went after him because he was more assertive. he slapped her on the second week of thier dating because she made the mistake of thinking she could behave with him the way she did with me. she came to me to report but they made up the next day. they are married now with three kids.

This is the truth of the world we live in, men should stop taking examples from telemundo. Women want heroes, men they can look up to, not men who will worship them.

LexaP:
hi bellong, y can't we exceed 13 days, I weigh over 95kg and need to shed weight fast

Ralphlauren:
what about dropping the kids off at a very good daycare center?

i do not understand all the noise about women unable to combine career with raising kids or giving up their career because of their kids.

being a 'stay-at-home' mum doesnt mean you will have the most intelligent kids on earth. Heck! I am surrounded by people with 1st class degrees with excellent jobs whose mothers all combined motherhood with their careers and they retired as executive directors, MDs of top companies.

having a very good job/impressive career if anything sets a good example for your kids. it shows you are successful, independent, motivated and hardworking

why would someone with a geology degree aspire for a teaching job under the guise of ''you want to raise your kids''? what happened to oil and gas firms? do you know you can work in the office and not on a rig with your degree? oil and gas jobs are actually the least stressful. by 4pm, the staff bus is waiting to drive everyone home.

why did you study geology in the first place? you must have known you were going to be a mother some day, so why didnt you just get a degree in education rather than putting yourself through the rigours of acquiring a degree in geology?

one day those kids will leave home. dont forget that. by age 12/13, they are off to boarding school. in sane countries, a 16yr old is classed an adult. by age 18, they are off to university. before you know it, they are married. so dont give up on your dreams/career because of them.

women, stop limiting yourselves!!

dre11:
Amen


Because I don't know what could have made a supposed good man on account of his wife to start thinking of divorcing her...........
A lot are covered in secrecy

dre11:
Yes.... The truth will surface

MrsOJ:
Yes with spice grinder that comes with blender.