₦airaland Forum

Baba419:
Nowadays that no woman wants to sit at home for fear of being called a housewife, how we go do am now?

hapiness44:
Dear Wife, I know how heartbroken you feel, but concentrate more on yourself and your kids, a stray dog will definatly find his way back home, trust me... That does not mean you should let yourself go, and stop doing the things oga fell in love with.

Dear Side chics, aka husband snatchers aka, enemies of progress, I have just one line 4 you 'what goes around surely do wat? I hope you get married someday.

Dear Hussy, hmm..every lady cannot be Kim K, c'mon, we wish we ad that killer body too. You met me when I was 20, full of life with the libido of a possessd being, 20 years later, you don't expect the same fire,'our doctors can tell you that'. we try our best to stay fit but some of us cannot just stay slim forever.. As long as we are ready to tolerate your protruded tommys, and shrinked 'juniors* (I heard it happens to you guys) please, accept us the way we are.

Chillisauce:
Brocoli eba

Texture like amala. So I ate it it with okra soup.

Less cal

Edwife
cococandy
Babe3
efemenaxy

Amhappy:
Lovely,Thanks for sharing

lolaredvelvet:
Im surprised at some of these comments. So its now a "favour" for a woman to cook for her husband? I guess its also a "favour" that he paid her bride price, put her in HIS home rent-free, gives her money for food stuffs and other things, makes love to her, contributes to taking care of their kids (if they have any). Well, Mrs Entitled needs to also start thanking him for every big and little thing he does for her too!

She insists on the greeting. Lol. If you dont "greet" her nko? What will she do about it...pack out and go back to her parents house where she'll be greeted well for carrying out the chores?

Feminism, ego and unnecessary entitlement is slowly killing family life

write2obi:
He is the HEAD of the house. So u don't "instill" saying thank you into him like some child or house boy, if he is not used to saying thank you after eating the food he provided in his own house, i expect a sane woman to understand and move on and not nag.

cococandy:
we are doing great

Yours?

This one Na foolish attention she dey seek.
She will just attract her death with her own words if she keeps giving off the message that she's fine with being hit.

mmb:
Hello,

There is a girl whom I want to take as a second wife. One day my wife saw my conversation with the girl on whatsapp when I went out and left the phone in the living room unlocked.

Mehn! My wife just called the lady and blasted her even threatining her, with things like: she will realise her mistake, she will never see person who will marry her in life and lots more.

My fiancee called me and narrated it to me telling me that she can no longer tolerate this that it is better to call off the relationship. I calmed her that she shouldnt be bothered if she really loves me. she should stand by my side and realise our dream of getting married.

Please your matured candid advice is needed on how to handle this because two head is better than one.

Phema:
True that.

Never been better. You and yours?

cococandy:
lmao

Phema:
Aswear, she lucky die!

Phema:
Yes oooo. We really need the killing beating to stay humble. . .

cococandy:
Well let's agree to disagree.

misreal:
rip to the gal.

cococandy:
Hmm.
I don't want to go into all these, but I kinda took it for granted that you of all people would know what child psychology entails, their over active imaginations, night terrors and sometimes sleep disorders (too many to type here) that they interprete as witch gathering because of mind conditioning by over zealous prayer warriors.

I'm not saying there aren't bad people who practice juju things or black Magic (if it works is a topic for another day by itself) but to think a child is into witchcraft is something I can't believe.

These beliefs contribute to child abuse, torture and even killing in the name of trying to exorcise the kids of their demons. SMH

Pls help protect the Nigerian nay african child's future by kicking against anyone or anything that would seek to harm them. Child-witch theory is one such harmful thing.

It stunts their creativity and discourages eccentrics because any child who's weird or different becomes labeled a witch.

Owliver:
sorry. I read all the pages during midnight and I was right about what I said. am happy you are in lagos at least I know you know deep down the OP is wrong and damn wrong. I won't even argue the topic with you cos if your in lagos as stated then same naija female mentality is in you. Keep denying. In your vie for equality in a marriage setting you are bound to compete with your husband to meet up. Same right, same say, nobody is the head, no superior? I can't recall seeing where a ship has two captains. And yes unequal but depending on the environment. What do you expect? We talking about family. I have said enough "Lagos woman

cococandy:
How did they have sex?

cococandy:
You know child-witches exist?

How do you know this?

Owliver:
judging from that single post you made that was all I could pick. You talked as though something is wrong with a man wanting headship. That was why I asked what's wrong with headship, or you want women to do the headship in a family? In a family setting you females are bad at it especially being a bread-winner. You can't even handle toasting a guy and getting a "NO" haha And yes two people should do things equally if you want "Equality" that term brings about competition which brings about rivalry which brings problem in a home. unless you have a different meaning to that term pls share let me know. I ask again... Are you in Nigeria?

freecocoa:
I believe you don't mean that.

cococandy:
bukatyne he's 8yrs old.
What are you not telling us?
You believe in those child-witch things?

edithokoye0096:
Disappointed in you