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EfemenaXY:
LADIES!!

I DID IT OH!

I increased my jogging distance today from 6 laps (9.0 miles) to 8 laps (12.0 miles) and it took me 1hr 50mins to complete. So, I'm actually getting better at this as per I was expecting this to take me exactly 2hrs to complete. Although I must admit that I noticed I was completing my 6 laps in much shorter times (1hr 20mins as opposed to 1hr 30mins).

Maybe today being Sunday and less traffic contributed to this...In the meantime, I'll stick with the 8 laps till my body flatlines and gets used to the distance properly.

So, Efe's getting there - slowly but steadily. 12.0miles. Nearly half a marathon.

CC: Chillisauce. Edwife. Babe3. Moca. Cococandy. Smartmom. Bukatyne...et al. What d'you ladies think of this?

Congratulations on your feat.

We are solidly behind you Keep running, you can make it

How is your day going?

Tallesty1:
Scary.





I won't join the army

When you stress your body too much, it wears out quicker and packs up.

Use it with care and it would last longer.

Ever wondered why ancient Greece had very low life expectancy.

Good one

What kind of stupidity possessed thus lady?

She should have taken to her heels when the mother confessed that the kids were for him.

What kind of MIL deny the existence of her DIL?

What kind of man deny his wife and children?

nicequeen:
Wat do u do to a husband that calls you stoopid, silly etc for any little disagreement.
It hurts me soooo much.
I've spoken to him about it and he apologised but still abuse anytime we have quarrels.
What do i do cos verbal insults from loved ones usually pain me so bad . And i was brought up in a family that verbal abuse is a taboo and intend to train my kids that way.
For those that'll say didnt i notice it b4 marriage. No, he never did.
Sometyms i feel like insulting him back but its not in my nature but right now i dont no

What inspired the first insult fest?

babyosisi:
It's culture

My son for instance is American with a tinge of nigerian
His dad ,my husband, is Nigerian with a tinge of American
Big difference

It is well

Oye50:
I finally said to myself, that I've got so much a potential to live life that way. The best way to prove to an uncaring father is by making it with your own sweat. Besides I'm personally doing fine. At least, I can boast of having over a million all by myself so I practically don't need to do that to be so great in life. In the nearest future I can come boldly to him and say, I made it with or without your support. I initially got pissed with his attitude but my conscience won't allow me. Thanks everyone for your contributions

Thank God for your decision

You'll make it.

EfemenaXY:
It's a good thing she knows exactly what she wants but at 33 she's not a child and shouldn't be hung up on Nigerian men. Our men are what they are and no tribe/race is perfect. Sure our men have their imperfections, but who doesn't?

She can go marry a Black American if she likes. Why is she so hung up on our men? Na by force to marry? If she's meeting the wrong type, then she should either expand her dating pool (like she knows she should), or she should take a deeper look within herself to find out what sort of person she portrays herself as or the message she gives off about her person

She says she's not trying to bash our men but her video isn't far off from it. Let her find who'll make her happy and quit with the slagging off.

Her comment annoys me jor.

CC: Chillisauce. Smartmom. Bukatyne. Ifyalways. Edwife.

Hi Efe,

This my mention is going haywire.

Didn't watch the clip.

What really is it about?

babyosisi:
But everything she says is true sha
Our men are tough
Only our women can handle them as they are
Go and see naija men married to AA or Oyibo,they do what you could never believe our men are capable of
They will be cooking and cleaning and baking without complaining
Yes honey
Yes sweetie
Running around serving guests

We went to visit one and he was baking
An Igbo man o,wearing apron and baking and serving guests
Had his wife been nigerian that will never happen
He will sit and be cracking jokes while his wife is cooking and serving

For them to marry Americans they make major adjustments which many of our men are not willing to make

This girl is very correct in her observation

From your experience, Why do you think it happens that way?

How are your kids now?

Lols

I think she still has to do a change of name from Miss to Mrs

Congrats to them and God bless their home.

thetruthnl:
ahahahha this bit.ch is so boring yawn...
So tell me, exactly how much semen do you have to swallow to become that stupid?
You act as though your stupidity is a virtue.
Waiting,pffff that's all you do ,and what is there not to wait?Husband is probably enjoying himself with someone new and sweet,while you here .
You have all the facts written on your post,you need none!Loneliness,frustration and stupidity.
You need to find a solution to your lonely life,Damn!you are very sad,i know...
Stand by,i am here to keep you company,eh thank me later .

You are Repeating same things over and over.

Go and find something productive to with yourself.

Only a sad, lonely and frustrated person thinks everyone is same.

Goodbye and hope you find the peace that has So eluded you all This while

OP:

Sorry for derailing your thread and I hope you find a lasting solution.

Is divorce Or seperation a taboo where she is from?

She will just rot her fine self in prison

thetruthnl:
I am here to expose people like you,fake bitc.hes who have no life and find comfort on a faceless Forum.
You think you are important?Bitc.h you ain't even important to the man you call husband and you think i actually care for you?
At least i have time,but for a so called married woman like you,you actually have a looooooot of time trolling the internet.
You lonely frustrated wife!How do you even cope?NL is the only life you have and you know it.

You product of a witch,me having orgasm for a overused nonentity like you?You must be dreaming.
Forming born again,pray very hard,maybe just maybe you will be forgiven of all the atrocities you committed for 8 years.

You have not read my posts to get new facts?

Spending a lot of time means frustrated? A number of your friends spend long hours too

Perhaps We are all frustrated.

To think it is lack of comprehension that made you start jumping about like catfish

I am waiting for new facts.

thetruthnl:
You must be very stupid not to differentiate between you and I who is mad.
No one can even date you on facebook,that's a prestige for you.You had to hang on to the so called husband because you know ain't nobody checking an overused hymen.

Go and beg your husband to take you out,anywhere even if it's an empty field.
Looser!

You seem to know all about me while I do not even know you exist

Is it the fact We were together for 8yrs that is your problem? Or is not my fault Nobody can stand your disgusting self for long?

Pele, I can understand.

I mean who has the time to stalk people and release facts If not bitter lonely people?

Is This the only thing you know about me? Read my post history, you might get something for your next post.

You This child conceived from a broken condom
And to think the person you are having an orgasm for denied you.

So so sad

MAY his soul rest in gentle peace.

Condolences to his family.

thetruthnl:
You should be very ashamed of yourself,she obviously has more class and maturity than you have.
You are a coward for not answering her after you stupidly quoted her with your childish and classless behaviour.
I thought you were newlywed?what happened to your husband that you are everyday around the clock on NL?

You are frustrated and you know why?because there is nothing for the man to see or explore in you after ruffling you for 8 years before marrying you.you have been overused!You are bored and so does your so cold husband.In a saturday like this,when couple spend time together,you are here as early as 8:00 am and you still here. .

Your madness has started abi?

I thought you would say I was frustrated because I dated someone at 2go or facebook

Of course, anyone who dances to your tune per thread obviously has class even when the person sang another tune on another thread

Now run along you imp!

cococandy:
Abi?
I can imagine different scenarios of such a thread.
The lady would be evil because she didn't want her kids to visit her mother-in-law meaning she's suspecting her of something.
We would ask her if she would have said no if it was her own mother.

Anyway that's NL for you. Get used to it

This is NL....

You are right.

edwife:
Glad you called it my stance and I really don't see the need of this now,you couldn't reply yesterday and you chose today?

At the bolded,I don't have anything to say to you.

SMH.

Better late than never.

Don't let your pretty head fall off; We still need you in the healthy living thread.

edwife:
And why?

Because your stance on the thread where wifey had issues is different from This.

When Some of us explained that Some in-laws are a serious pain in the neck, We became people who lack home training and 'badly behaved wives.

I was expecting who lacked authority or blaming the man or telling him to take his MIL as his mother.

Come to think of it, would the husband report to the police If it was his family who vandalized his property?

We would never know.

The laughter was not as a result of frustration contrary to your friend.

At least, it is obvious Some in-laws will be crazy irrespective of the wife's or husband's behavior

cococandy:
well there's nothing wrong in advising someone to make peace as the bigger person even if they weren't the first to attack.


There's only a BIG problem when we blindly refuse to address the wrong party.

Very true at first paragraph

@2nd, I honestly do not understand it. See How We all blamed the in-laws because they do not have the right to slap the guy or vandalize his cars even If he told his MIL an outright no. They are his kids and decides whereever they spend their hols same as wify.

We did not start wondering How the husband spoke to the MIL or. If he truly called her a witch.

Let a woman open This thread with exactly same details:
She for hear am.

It is well

Evina:
Bukatyne, you never disappoint me.

The next set of pictures are lovely

justwise:
You can't be a pastor of a mega church with millions of followers if you don't show those qualities you mentioned. People will not come to your church or believe in you if you are behaving way worldly. Those cheating men of God did not become pastors by jumping out of night clubs, they all pretend to be filled by Holy Spirit, cast and ban devil and speak in tongues...people see those qualities and rushed to their churches but at the end their true colour comes out.

The operative word here is being genuine.

Gboliwe:
Some people sha! I just taya!

She has a husband - Wahala

She doesn't have a husband- Wahala

She is Divorced- Wahala

She is separated - Wahala

The husband sets a boundary- Wahala

The husband interferes - Wahala

What exactly do we want for women in spotlight?

Na wa ooo

All of the above

Evina:
LOL. I don't mean to start an argument cos my friends here have admonished me to stop arguing LOL.

But, there's a LOT you don't get. Yes, loving God passionately MAKES you a great husband material.

Firstly, if you love God, you want to ALWAYS please Him. The bible is detailed and clear in how a man should treat his wife. From romance, to tolerance, to infidelity...the list is extensive. When we had our premarital counseling, I was so shocked at what was hidden in the book.

Secondly, every time I ask my fiancé, sweetie, why are you so different? I mean I hear stories and you are so different. He says, because I strive to be like Jesus. He listens and ALWAYS strives to conduct his affairs according to how he believes God demands.

This man, I have never complained about something twice with him.(okay, that's an exaggeration). But, I have ABSOLUTE peace with him. No stress, no worries. You see how we look in those pics? We have both past our 20's.

No, I am not saying we both don't have weaknesses, but we are so happy and at peace with each other that we find it hard noticing the weaknesses. In fact, whenever we upset each other, and in the process of trashing it out, he says, I have to pray about this attitude of yours. LOL. And he does, and we see constant change.

So, once again I repeat, the most fulfilling kind or relationship is the one where God is at the center. I'm typing from experience.

Very very correct.

Love God Here is not being a pastor or owing a church. It is striving to do What His word says and having the fruits of the Holy Spirit.

Cc: justwise

Evina:
Hehehe. On Mount Horeb.








Actually, we met in church. We were both in the drama unit. He was the hawtest dude, the funniest, kindest and filled with the Holy Ghost. Sharp sharp I watched and prayed him into my life and never let go. Hehehe.

Now, come May 16, we will go back to that same church to wed.

So sweet

A day to my wedding Anniversary

Bia, you must to pay me o!

Were together for 8yrs too.

Lucky them

DanceVille:
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What's wrong with number 7?

bellong:
Bukatyne,
You were referring to Acts 18:26. The instruction was not single-handedly done by Priscilla, her husband, Aquila was there. It wouldn't be out of place to say Priscilla was more like offering supporting service.

Sorry just responding

Sure? Priscilla's name was mentioned first. I am 100% it was for a reason

The Bible guys don't sound like someone who would let such slide

akinsal:
Correct. above all dia are some other criteria that should b considered and not only d V. or no V. thinggy

Very True