Health › Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by CaptainFM1: 8:51pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann: It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....
I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...
I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....
Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
sorry for the long post. Mods please help this thread to front page for more advice Seek lawyers, medical personnel for the professional advise....esp about the legal consequences. Most importantly, the person in question (your dad) and the entire family must be in unison on the matter. Euthanizing can be murderous if not properly done. Doctors are aware of this. |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Burns Nasco Cornflakes Over Terrorism Sponsorship by CaptainFM1: 1:15pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
deeptechcool: Hmmmn.
There is fire on the mountain And nobody seems to be on the run Oh, there is fire on the mountaintop And no one is a-runnin' I wake up in the mornin' Tell you what I see on my TV screen I see the blood of an innocent child And everybody's watchin' Now I'm looking out my window And what do I see? I see an army of a soldier man Marching across the street, yeah Hey, Mr. Soldier man Tomorrow is the day you go to war But you are fighting for another man's cause And you don't even know him Oooh! What did he say to make you so blind To your conscience and reason? Could it be love for your country? Or for the gun you use in killing? So... there is fire on the mountain And nobody seems to be on the run Oh, there is fire on the mountaintop And no one is a-runnin' Hey, Mr. Lover man Can I get a chance to talk to you? 'Cause you are fooling with a dead man's corpse And you don't know what you do So you say you have a lover And you love her like no other So you buy her a diamond that someone has died on Don't you think there something wrong with this? Tell me! Who's responsible for what we teach our children? Is it the Internet or the stars on television? Why? Oh why? Why? Oh, Why? Oh! So little Lucy turns 16 And like the movie, she's been seen She has a lover in her daddy She can't tell nobody 'til she makes the evening news For there is fire on the mountain And there is nobody seems to be on the run Oh, there is fire on the mountaintop And no one is a-runnin', oh yes One day the river will overflow And there'll be nowhere for us to go And we will run, run Wishing we had put out the fire, oh For there is fire on the mountain, yeah, yeah And there ain't nobody seems to be on the run Nobody, nobody, oh! Oh, there is fire on the mountaintop And no one is a-runnin', so, yeah, yeah, yeah There is fire on the mountain (fire in Africa, oh) Nobody seems to be on the run (Fire everywhere, everywhere in the sea, yeah!) Fire on the mountaintop (fire in the ocean, la-da!) No one is a-runnin' Fire on the mountain (fire, fire, fire, yeah) Nobody seems to be on the run (nobody)
ASA, THE PROPHET. FELA, The prophet. ASA, The prophetess. |
Politics › Re: Lamido Sanusi Visits Vice President Yemi Osinbajo by CaptainFM1: 12:56pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
jaxxy: There are many capable and widely acceptable people bt they are unknown in political circles. The question is will the greedy southeastern politicians support such technocrats?
Look how Jonathan enter politics, Peter Obi, osinbajo. These were outsiders brought into politics and presented cos of their qualities.
Tinubu are the humble pie and presented osinbajo. Can the East do same when necessary? I hope so cos we don’t lack great men. I agree with you that there are quality people in the East....my concern is, they are not having political footing. |
Politics › Re: Lamido Sanusi Visits Vice President Yemi Osinbajo by CaptainFM1: 11:38am On Oct 05, 2021 |
jaxxy: U cannot marginalize the East.  I always pity the East. Bring a name forward that can be reckoned with from the East. Much as I want someone from the East too, all I see there are baby politicians. I've been thinking of someone that the entire zone totally rally with and I'm yet to find. This is how politics is played in modern Nigeria. The more they are divided politically, the more difficult it is for the East to present a "front figure". |
Sports › Re: When Giants Were Humbled: Bayern, Real, PSG, Barca & Ajax All Lost Last Weekend by CaptainFM1: 6:25am On Oct 04, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Adamawa, Kaduna, Plateau Move To Join FIRS In VAT Collection Tussle Suit by CaptainFM1: 6:19am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Dmano: Will it make vat to be in exclusive list? This alone is a clear win for states to collect their tax themselves |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Won't Text Back by CaptainFM1: 5:39pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Frank20219: I was in a relationship with a girl for 8 months. I feel she is too much for me. She has everything I want in a woman but she is just too good to be true. She is intelligent, kind, hardworking, beautiful, she has a good job, earns more than me and she is more educated than I am.
For months, she has maintained consistent behaviour and she did not change. That was when I fell in love with her, even when I misbehaved she never insulted me instead she handled everything maturely despite me being older than her.
From the beginning, I kept a little secret from her. I have a daughter from my other relationship. My daughter is 8 years now and she lives with her mother. I pay something to the mother every month but I have not seen my ex or my daughter for 5 years.
From the beginning, she asked if I had a child before and she told me she hates dishonesty. I told her I don't have a child because I sensed she might not want to pursue a relationship with me.
I started to feel guilty when I realised our relationship was getting serious so I started distancing myself from her and asked her to give me some space. She was not offended instead she still kept interacting with me.
Two weeks ago, I broke up with her over text, she did not respond. This is someone who calls me and texts me regularly, but after seeing my break up message she did not call or text me. She did not even acknowledge the break up.
The truth is that I wanted her to beg so that I can open up about my daughter. I know she is emotionally involved with me and at this stage it will be easier for her to accept me despite having a child.
What can I do for her to want me back and reach out first? I still love her. Guy...leave this babe for another better man. You are just going to mess her life up in the long run. Leave her. Find your class that you can control. Awon Omo shepeteri lo fit e' man! |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Are You Thanking God For As A Nigerian? by CaptainFM1: 9:34am On Oct 03, 2021 |
That I'm a Nigerian and not Syrian or Afghan alone is enough to thank God. |
Travel › Re: I Am Traveling By Air For The First Time by CaptainFM1: 8:25am On Oct 03, 2021 |
rottable: Na within naija now. No big deal It's a lot of big deal. It's going to be his first! |
Autos › Re: The Installation Process Of Innoson New Automated Plant Nnewi (Video, Photos) by CaptainFM1: 1:42am On Oct 02, 2021 |
Commentor: This man no listen to Ipob?
They say sit at home. That order is for the rank and file! |
Romance › Re: What Does She Mean By This? by CaptainFM1: 6:26pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Installing Twitter Seditious Under Penal Code Of Northern Nigeria - AGF Malami by CaptainFM1: 8:28pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
When we have separate laws everywhere, why can't we have separate country? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Female Pastor: Eating Draw Soup Makes You Accessible For Kingdom Of Darkness by CaptainFM1: 8:24pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
So all Ewedu and Okro eater are susceptible! Wahala dey! End time pastor! |
Politics › Re: Akwa Ibom @ 34: Osinbajo Commissions Dakkada Towers, Flags Off Dakkada Luxury by CaptainFM1: 11:11pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
Smart governor. He has built a convertible retirement luxurious hotel for himself! |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu: We Will Complete Red, Blue Line Train Projects As Promised by CaptainFM1: 11:03pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
seborrhic: 11 years and counting. If SanwoOlu actually believes that even the blue line,not both would be up and running in 2023,then he must be clowning. Asides not being physically possible based on the level of construction so far and what is left to complete,2022 is an election campaign year that would put major funds guzzling projects in Nigeria like this sacrificial lambs for diversion of funds to campaigns and electioneering activities. 2025 is an achievable target,but 2026/27 looks the most realistic date for those lines to be up and running. Progress is better, however slow it is. One day they will complete it...I guess we will all be old and grey by then. This is Nigeria. Don't expect anything at lighting speed. Even this message will be delivered in 15minutes time at 23:03! |
Food › Re: Pharmacist Angry As The ₦2,500 Food He Ordered Was Packaged With Ponmo & Egg by CaptainFM1: 3:32pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
There are some things you should never order online......esp in Nigeria. |
Celebrities › Re: How Five Davido’s Aides Died In Four Years by CaptainFM1: 7:11pm On Sep 24, 2021 |
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Family › Re: If Your Daughter Did This To Your Car, What Would You Do? (Photo) by CaptainFM1: 5:25pm On Sep 24, 2021 |
I will drive it with pride. May poverty not come my way to scold or beat the child. |
Politics › Re: September 22 Imole Osun Day In Pictures by CaptainFM1: 1:45pm On Sep 23, 2021 |
Sammerboi: Can’t still believe peoples still dey follow politicians up and down in 2021z I said I will not vote again because of the crop of representatives we are getting. But then I realized that if I don't then I give room for incompetent leaders like bubu to rule us. My advice to my Southern people is they should all get reg registered and get their voters card ready. Democracy starts with us. |
Politics › Re: September 22 Imole Osun Day In Pictures by CaptainFM1: 12:34pm On Sep 23, 2021 |
Johnnyessence: I've edit it back. just stop your clueless rant here. imole de *I've editted....* |
Family › Re: Do You Want A Career Woman Or A House Wife? by CaptainFM1: 5:07pm On Sep 22, 2021 |
I want House-Career woman |
Politics › Re: Maduka Assists Victims Of Fire Outbreak In Onitsha, Promises More Support by CaptainFM1: 9:40pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
tutudesz:
politicans playing on the intelligent of voters Person wey dem suppose stone. Dem dey laff with am! |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Signs Anti-Open Grazing Bill Into Law by CaptainFM1: 4:45pm On Sep 20, 2021 |
Thank you Mr Governor. We shall confiscate and barbecue any cattle we see roaming the street! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Online Or Physical Church? by CaptainFM1: 12:28pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Lamasta: I love the physical gathering of saints Saints gather online too na. We serving a modern and digital "God" now. |
Politics › Re: Obadiah Mailafia Is Dead: Former CBN Deputy Governor Dies In Abuja by CaptainFM1: 12:21pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Kyase: What killed him Unpopular government! |
Politics › Re: Defection To APC: Watch This Before Comparing Jonathan And I To FFK - Reno by CaptainFM1: 8:52pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
Betece: Reno Omokri is a man of mysterious tendencies, he can subdue, overdue and in cure retrospective osmosis. Jonathan on the other hand is pivotal and Bonvita when it comes to depreciating paralysis in a candle, he singlehandedly upheld a coercive concussion without diagnosing it for further exploitation . I hate talking about FFK honestly, so I won't say anything I cant make a sense of your writeup! |
Career › Re: "The Girl I Dumped Years Ago Became My Boss At Work" by CaptainFM1: 8:43pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
There is nothing wrong if you work "UNDER" her. If you are "alpha" enough, you will show her again. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Keeps Showing Me Chats Of A Guy Asking Her Out. by CaptainFM1: 8:29pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
She's mounting defence ready for you. Better prepare for eventualities. Start showing her pics of girls disturbing you too |
Sports › Re: Mark Clattenburg: "I Once Threw My Boots At Mourinho" - EPL Referee by CaptainFM1: 6:13pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
DropsMic: That old fraud has a name  I think he's referring to Ororo the Goat -Ronaldo |
Celebrities › Re: Oluwayemisi Ajayi: Helen Prest Was My Late Husband’s Concubine - Widow To Court by CaptainFM1: 2:08pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
Nackzy: Hmmm, wealth and its many problem It's prick and it's many problem. |
Travel › Re: Ogun Residents Scoop Fuel From A Fallen Tanker (Pictures & Video) by CaptainFM1: 10:37am On Sep 18, 2021 |
They will never learn. May their souls rest in pieces if fire occurs. |
Politics › Re: Pay Pentecost Tax – Osinbajo Advises Preachers by CaptainFM1: 10:35am On Sep 18, 2021 |
jlinkd78: Loading!!! What taxes should Muslim preachers pay Mr mere Commissioner Terrorism Tax |