₦airaland Forum

heniford2:
why not ask your daughter to marry a fulani/Hausa person this country can never love other again the politician has spoiled the country beyond repair

My two grandmothers are Fulani. My two aunts are married to Hausa. My big sis is married to a man from Delta. I will marry from Anambra or Abia. The politicians are not the ones spoiling anything. We are the ones hating each other. Or rather, Igbos are the ones peddling "hate". The Igbos are an exclusive group. They do not want other people in their ranks. It is why they always say "we have nothing in common", "we are not one people", "we can never be one with almajiri or afonja". Most Igbos will rather claim Jew than Nigerian. Most of them consider themselves superior to other Africans. What a joke! Truth is, whether we like it or not WE ARE ONE PEOPLE. Igbos will be the only ones to argue that. But they will then be the first to turn around to shout everybody hate them. The only problem the Hausa man has is Islam.

Notasyouthink:
The truth is that I don't need to see you to know you hate anything Igbo.

You said IPOB pose a bigger threat and am asking you how?? Is it because they're agitating for freedom??

In your feeble mind what bigger threat do you think IPOB is posing when fulani terrorists are busy killing and ravaging people's ancestral lands??

IPOB as a bigger threat is threatening the very existence of your beloved nation, while bandits and fulani herdsmen terrorists are strengthening the existence of the nation clap for your self your brain is working

The big picture you failed to see is that, this government is fulani government and there is no way you can stop their jihady terror foot soldiers with peace.

As for togetherness, we can never be together because we are not one people and we don't practice one religion maybe that's the reason why most of you hate Igbos with passion.

"we can never be together because we are not one people" that's hatred.

rummmy:
so is ipob that is everywhere and they have properties scattered everywhere?
The comment was purely dirrected to the igbos and I can assure you that he just succeeded in making more igbo enemies from the very few that still believe in him.

You guys will hold on to any reed just so you can keep peddling this "everybody hate Igbo" nonsense. It will only harm you people more because you will actually be creating enemies when you move around with that unreasonable mindset. It is the same thing muslims are doing. They carry this "Islamophobia" mantra they become unreasonably intolerable. It is pathetic really. "IPOB are like a dot in a circle ..." and "... Their people are spread all over the country doing business" does not sound anything like 'Hate towards Igbos' from everybody. Igbos are actually the most loved people in Nigeria because you will find them been accomodated everywhere far more than everyone else. But you guys will always be insecure and paranoid.

heniford2:
we are special naw your just finding out know

Boss! Everyone is special. Na Igbo geh I wan marry shah! But please, stop the hate. You people are mostly Christians, and Christianity is Love not hate! The major reason I want the actualization of Biafra is that ones we go our separate ways, everybody will appreciate the beauty of each culture. The three major ethnicities right now each thinks they are the best thing to happen to Nigeria. But once we divide, each will see what they lacked and what the others contribute. Most (about 90%-99%) of those calling for a breakup do not really know what it entails. We are only shouting "Biafra", "Ouduwa" or "Arewa" simplyout of hate because we each, somehow, think we are superior to the rest. If I have a son, I will want him to marry an Igbo girl. If a daugter, she's definitely marrying a Yoruba boy. Nigeria is beautiful as it is. Lets stop the hate and take advantage of this land together. We are not each other's enemies!

ScamHunter:
Even your Igbo hating tendency is all over your comment. I repeat that Nigerians, even you have innate hatred for Igbo. It's in you. Show me one Nigeria n tribe that their hatred for Igbo isn't borne out of jealousy and I'll show you a Nigerian tribe that all are Christians. Even Jonathan you guys voted out was partly on account of Igbo. Yes, disprove that. You see, even your so-called Igbo coup was a reflection of hate for Igbo since it's obviously not Igbo coup. Show me which ethnic group that didn't use the opportunity to murder Igbos. Take it, even though the Fulani may be the murderous tribe by nature towards Igbo, there's none of you that wouldn't if you had the opportunity and guts. In '67, Igbos were murdered by the northerners, the Tivs, Yoruba and even Bini. What other evidence do you need of your hatred!

right now, I have nothing to say. But you can't make me hate the Igbos or any other Nigerian even if you try, so save your voice. Get well soon.

Notasyouthink:
What do you mean by you can't answer that??
What proof do you need to know that nigeria security agents are fulani controlled, when your country's security agents cannot go after fulani terrorist herdsmen and bandits, but will rush to SE with the speed of light only to be killing Innocent Igbo youths.

You can't answer that, but you can narrative buharis interview abi?
Anyway am not surprised because mere looking at you, one can dictate hypocrisy, lies, nepotism and hate towards the great Igbos.

that's the problem I have with most Igbos. The way you guys are so insecure baffles me. You can't even see me but you have already concluded I hate Igbos 'from my looks'. Na wa o. Why is it so hard to understand that IPOB possed a bigger threat? They are threatening the very existence of the nation. I support Biafra too but not one born out of hate and violence. Fulani are ravaging criminals and, TOGETHER we can stop them; IPOB is threatening that TOGETHERNESS.

BigSarah:
They’re not gunmen.

If that is true then that will amount to genocide. The Ohanaeze should gather enough evidence then charge the bastards that did it to the ICC.

Jman24:
But in same Statement, the FG said Ipob are all over the country doing business; a supposed proscribed group...
You and I know it is the Igbos that are all over doing business

well that is true! I don't want to be caught dead defending Buhari's statements. He's a curse to this country. But I think the hate is mutual between the so-called IPOB and Buhari.

Hilda23:
what's there to respect

His liberalism, activism and humility. He is a man who lives his life the way he wants to and allows his children to choose their own paths too. He also speaks against bad government policies. And how many African men you know can actually apologize to their kids whenever they are wrong.

BigSarah:
I disagree with you, it’s incomparable...
But if you think it is that’s your opinion it’s fine

Can't really speak for anybody. I hate this present administration as much, if not even much more than most Igbos. But the 513 killed Igbos, are they gunmen, IPOB or just Igbo people. Specify! If they are just 513 'Igbo' people then Buhari and his minions must face justice. But if they are among those killing police and burning their stations and vehicles, then let them rot in hell.

Notasyouthink:
If every igbo is not IPOB like you said and Buhari did not threaten the Igbos in his interview as you want us to understand, why is the fulani control security agents killing innocent IGBO youths in the name of IPOB??

Honestly, I can't answer that? I don't know if the security agents doing the killing are under Fulani control. I don't know if the ones been killed are just innocent Igbos or IPOB gunmen. But even in the Northeast, the NAF also makes mistakes and sometimes bomb innocent wrong targets in IDP camps. I can't rule that as a campaign against the IDP's. Besides, if the military was actually targeting just any Igbos they would've killed far more than that figure in an hour not in 160 days.

BigSarah:
I don’t think this is an appropriate response to my comment, but this thread is about Igbos losses.. so when a thread comes up about other tribes or about all tribes I’m sure you’ll see satisfying responses there...
May we a find the peace we desire.

We need that peace gaskiya! The topic and the responses are misleading ne! When they say "Buhari's FG has killed 513 Igbos", it is like muMURIC saying "Buhari's FG has killed 630 'muslims' in Sambisa ..."

BigSarah:
Does IPOB have investments all over the country?, are IPOB in every part of the country
Even though I don’t support MNK tactlessness, that doesn’t mean one shouldn’t decipher .

Are Igbos the only victims under Buhari? How many ethnic group have some of their people killing law enforcement agencies as a group. So the Igbos are saying a campaign against any group that is fighting the government is a campaign against the Igbos as long as that group is an Igbo group. You people are making it look like only the deaths of Igbo people matter. Look around you; more Yorubas die under Buhari than Igbos. Some of them are in Benin republic. Just last week, 120 people were killed in just one village in Kebbi state. Go and ask the Benue people also. Stop making it look like all these lives don't matter simply because 500 Igbos die in six years. Let's fight this thing together; we are all dieing under this government. Elrufa'i even paid the Fulanis for killing my people.

ScamHunter:
Nigerians hate Ndigbo. Other tribes just cannot stand them. Igbo themselves are not aware that too much success and unquenchable drive could be dangerous for them. Maybe, this time, their position has finally been hardened to the realization that there is no future for Igbo with these Nigerian tribes.

Jesus Christ! You people are intolerable with this "everybody hates Igbos" rubbish. Gosh! Igbos have always seen themselves as some kind of special [or even superior] breed. They always separate themselves out of paranoia and disdain for others they consider 'inferior' or even 'osu'. This is what the Jews did in the middle ages that got them (is still getting them) killed. It is because you breed hatred for anything 'not Igbo', that's why you all think everybody 'hates' you! Even If I am to hate anybody for been successful I won't go for Igbos. I will go for Yorubas and Fulanis. Bini people are successful too but they relate so much with every one else.

Na wa o. You can't just blame everything on Buhari na. I know he's one of the worst things to happen to Nigeria, but we are really our own problem. Buhari said "IPOB" not "Igbos" are like a dot in a circle. People are twisting his words to mean whatever they want. Is IPOB a group or another name for Igbo people? Or do all Igbo people belong to the group. The Federal government says it is only after IPOB members, not Igbos. Stop shouting more than the bereaved.
Anyways, wetin I know sef!

If all men cheat, who do they cheat with? Oga change that stupid topic. And go tell the woman to better decide fast and take action. Never let this thing fester. She even seem like a lucky woman to me since her husband is admitting his mess-up and willing to apologize. Agidi pipo like us will deny the accusation with fire and thunder and still demand an apology from the two ladies.

My brother did his wedding this April. He spent a little bit above N850K from the introduction to the wedding after party. His budget was N600k total, but family contributed N200K. His wifey still complains to me that the wedding was too outrageous.

I just have so much respect and admiration for this man!

Jashub:
Oga, what the Nigerian law enforcement agencies were doing in the past made them lose credibility in the eyes of the public. There have been instances of criminals attacking and killing innocent citizens only to be arrested and later released by this same police. Let me give you an example : My brother has a friend who works for the DSS, and he narrated how they would spend hours tracing and arresting armed bandits in the bushes only to for some "mysterious ogas " at the top to tell them to release the bandits in their custody. Which just goes to show how compromised our security is. So I support Bakasi boys even though it is wrong but at least it would put a sense of fear into those who do wrong

Honestly, I agree with you. The NPF has been compromised. I just wish there's a way we can demand accountability from them without resorting to self-help. With the NPF, we can do that (demand accountability to the law), but with the other ones: well they are their law.

Jashub:
If we had a functioning police force, there would be no need of Bakasi boys or other vigilante groups.

When known and unknown gunmen were busy doing target-practice with the police force and setting their vehicles and stations ablaze, I knew something like this will crop up. No matter how bad law enforcement agencies become, it is still better than anarchy. ESN, UGM and the Bakassi boys are on a free-for-all, because they are not accountable to any authority.

I have a friend/cousin who is like that. I discovered the more I correct him, the more he finds a way to avoid me. The more I try to point out the error in his logic, the more he lies and hides things from me. So I stopped probing into his decisions. Now he's opening up a little. I now start agreeing with him on everything. I always suggest other options to him then tell him I trust him to make the best decision. If he messes up, I always let him know he tried his best. Sometimes I knowingly follow him to go do a terrible flop, then try to let him see the effects of it. I usually write down how I think the stuff will play out before we go then when we get back, I let him read it before we work out other options. But what I am doing now is connecting him with good people whose advice he will respect. I don't want to admit he's a slowpoke(I actually just did) because he's a good guy. You can't change some people. And anger won't solve their issue too; they'll only learn to avoid you. They're adults afterall.

I do not know the name of the body type but any lady whose upper body is heavier than her lower body is not for me. I dislike large boobies, hanging belly and flabby arms.

The Fulanis have already infiltrated the North so much you can't fully identify who is Fulani or not now. They are the ruling class in all of Hausaland. These people are fearless and deliberate; unlike the rest of us. It is why Bubu is appointing Fulanis into key positions in the Nigerian government. Whether we like this or not, THE ONLY WAY WE CAN STOP THE FULANIS IS TOGETHER. The Fulanis are somewhat like the Yorubas; they do not truly belong to any of the two major religions. (who remembers Buhari's words: "i belong to everybody and to nobody"?). They only use it to achieve their agenda. The Fulanis only shout "ISLAM" because that is the best way to get sympathy across the region and beyond. It is why I enjoy watching the sneaky powerplay between the Yoruba and the Fulani. Both of them trying to play each other. Lets wait and see who wins in this Game of Thrones. But the Fulanis are already planets ahead, and even if they are to lose, they won't mind bringing the nation going down with them!

I wanted to apologize for what I am about to say, but really, I am not sorry to say it o:- this is the reason Christianity will always be a religion of the more enlightened compared to Islam; Christianity and the Bible is always open to scrutiny by anybody and everybody, while Islam and the Qur'an will always be shut to the open-minded and objective mind. Sometimes I feel like Muslims know, deep within, that their religion can never withstand the kind of scrutiny Christianity had endured and even conquered through the ages, that's why even their book is not translated to other languages for everybody and they don't tolerate dissents. I am still a searcher of truth, but Islam had already failed way way below the mark the test of "truth". After braving it to read through the English Qur'an (which most of them denounced) and some Hadiths, I no longer waste my time reading anything Islam anymore except for some comic relief. It is a total waste of my precious time.

@PeaceJoyLove I've never seen your posts, but I think you just described me. I have been a bible teacher for a long time, but right now, I am just not into all that "God" thing. Sometimes I feel "God" is really just a "Wish". Most times I just don't bother. I really don't see God in any of the religions I came across. I feel like 'there should be God or gods, but like all these religions are choking Him or them. I really don't blame any person; in the end, we are all just human looking for answers. I really feel like I can't find God without some help from Him. I see some traces of what I can call "God" in the bible, but I really have issues with the book as a whole. You try expressing your thoughts out loud and every body call you names or condemn you to hell. God knows I am an honest searcher. THERE SHOULD BE GOD. Some times I feel like He's just playing games with us to see who can excape from this cocoon of religious blankets to truly find him. I have broken free from the fear of a hell. I am just me now.

baralatie:
You guys are really messed up psychologically

Honestly, I know! I will always appreciate any form of help!

I always bragged about how I can't bear to even touch a lady that's been bedded by another man. But recently, shawty just told me about a man she dated not more than three years ago(we actually saw him passing by) who was twice her age at the time and married. She was eighteen then. I was/am so heartbroken about it and I just withdrew myself from her. But, instead of hating her for that (I am dissappointed), I hated the man. Why would you just sleep with a girl that you know will be someone's joy some day? So you see, it is a Human problem not limited to one gender. Humans are weaklings when it comes to sexual purity. Even as a man, I wish never to have more than five body counts. But just put it in your mind that "every lady is DEFINITELY getting cocked by someone. The next lady you will meet is probably having an orgy with two married men right now. Nobody is a saint; the world don rotty already. With my shawty, there's nothing to forgive; she's still my joy. I understand how you feel, but this is life.

rawtouch:


who will enforce it

Exactly! It is not about churning out laws that nobody will obey. Our law enforcement agencies cannot enforce this kind of law when there are clergies stuffing people's head with rubbish. The National Orientation Agency should do their work first.

kus4fame:
Pls, how old is the world again?

The universe is approximately 14Billion years old. Your blue little speck of a planet formed at least 4.8 billion years ago. Dinosaurs lived hundreds millions of years ago and mammals are the last borns, appearing only lately: not more than a hundred millions years ago. WIKIPEDIA!

How they managed to convince an entire generation that "science is false" but "scriptures are truth" really baffles the ghosts out of me. People prefer to be awed by 'miracles' than to be educated with facts. I cringe whenever I see somebody using their phones (which is a product of science) to post something like: "scientists sabi lie."Wikipedia is free! But you will not open it because the managed to convince you that wikipedia dey lie. Stupid pipo!

Hypocrites! Nobody's business! He should deactivate his brain too if he has any. I am convinced Buhari really wants the division of this country so they will have their own Fulani controlled North to themselves but he's doing it systematically so the Northern elites will not suspect a thing. But he's too dumb to be systematic about it because it seems every decision he takes is geared towards division. He's not even making efforts to mask his ineptittude and wickedness.

As much as I want to agree with this, I still need to chip in that "a man's life is not an easy one".(a woman's life too; but we are talking about men here). It is not a man's responsibility to heal you from whatever ills you foolishly brought on yourself with a wanton lifestyle. The world is damaged so everybody needs to excuse everybody's pasts, but nobody should have to tolerate unneccessary baggage. I try as much as possible not to know too much of any lady's past, but if I do and do not like what I hear, I WALK! The past will always affect the present, either physically, psychologically or emotionally. A body count of more than five, for me is a NO! Even I as a man wish never to have more than five. A past of wild parties and sugar daddies is a NO! I cannot pamper you the way they do or give you the unrealistic lifestyle they gave you. A woman should make herself the trophy; only the winner gets the prize, NOT the ball; where just about any available player can touch. But lets agree to disagree shah!