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Good points.

In addendum:

1. Don't be overly optimistic. To avoid depression work with quality knowledge and reality.

2. Life doesn't always go as planned. You don't need to lament over this till death, it is life for you. Create options. Even your options may fail.

3. Don't live to please anybody. They will not come to your rescue when you fail.

4. Don't be ashamed to work yourself out of shame. You will be ridiculed, mocked, and henpecked, but as far as you learn something, gain something and make little progress you'll become better and even more than them.

5. Do good with no expectation of reciprocity. However, pen down the names of the ungrateful.

6. Everything that seems complex will become simple only if you dedicate time to it. So, if a task seems daunting and challenging, set a good time for it and repeat it until simple.

7. I'm not a fan of "saving". However, save from your abundance. Don't deprive yourself of good wear and food because you are saving for the future. Learn from King Pharoah and prime minister Joseph. They saved during abundance.

8. You may die tomorrow, so don't deprive yourself of any good today. Refer to 7 above.

9. Character, integrity, honor, intelligence, and wisdom are the exceptions, but they are the beauty that sets you apart.

10. You can easily judge people's character by using yourself as a yardstick, but this can only be possible if you appreciate truth, light, and knowledge. Refer to 9 above.

11. Empathy and sociopathy come from a place of experience and self-reflection. Refer to 9 and 10 above.

12. Respect people. But take note of the humble and arrogant. Refer to 5 above.

13. Women need protection and provision from both men and society, including men themselves - funny right? Even men want to be provided for and protected. But as an individual you must develop yourself to the extent you become less dependent on people. This will grant you leverage when they disappoint you.

14. Embarrassment and unnecessary pressure are because you depend more on people. Learn to depend less. Refer to 2 and 13 above.

15. Avoid hoods that are prevalent with crimes and animals. You don't need to act like James Bond to fools and criminals, because they are always in groups and will embarrass you. Better to avoid them.

16. Build strength and energy because a day will come when your strength is needed. Refer to 15 above.

17. Don't argue with the less intelligent. They will embarrass you with their dumbness and waste your precious time. Refer to 9 and 10 above.

18. Never be caught looking tattered and rejected. With the little you have, tend to look good. Humans fall for the halo effect; you don't know who you will come across as you step out.

19. Respect family. Respect elders. Respect quality friends. Among them are some of the people that may come to your rescue when situations get tough for you. Don't say " I don't need them", it is foolish to talk.

20. Live according to your resources. Avoid greed. Aim higher. Refer to 3 above.

21. Insist to work for them rather than beg them. Embarrassment is minimised when there is an exchange of value. Howebeit small, strive for mutual relationships. You don't want the roof of your head when the cloud is dark right?

It is time to break this stream of thoughts...

Thanks.

DAY 257, REDPILL 2022

These men are not responsible a bit.

The thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7331429/why-it-some-men-dont#116642551

1. This is the 21st century and women have the right and ability to not make pregnancy happen.

A. There is the monthly birth control pill.

B. There is a female condom.

C. There is a female instant birth control pill.

D. She has the full right to say no. And if he persists, she tender the case to the relevant security unit.

E. Lastly, there is abortion.

2. Life is a game, if you act dumb you will be treated like a doormat. If she's not ready to be a mother she must refuse the man or know how to control pregnancy.

3. Counterintuitive, why doesn't the man stay away from sex when he can't provide for a mother and child? That's why I said it is a game, a h0rny man doesn't impregnate women from his imagination, if there is a willing and h0rny woman, he will fvck her.

It is then left for the woman to judge the man before sexual Intercourse. In the animal kingdom, females are the choosy sex, that is, they choose males they will mate with and females are the gatekeepers of sex. If women say no sex, so be it. Nothing happens. No reproduction.

The cost of pregnancy is risky and high, any woman that is reckless with her womb will not go unpunished. She must be wise.

4. This is not to exonerate the expectant father, he must be forced to provide for his child and the mother because as far as he knows that he is not ready to be a father he should have abstained from sex or used a contraceptive even though he expected the woman not to be negligent. Both should carry their cross.

5. Unwanted pregnancy, sorry to say, is her fault, the same way a guy spends all his money on her without him having sex with her or receiving the relevant returns.

There are always red flags that tell if a partner is a real or fake deal, but romance and luxury blind the eyes of men and women respectively thereby making them choose the wrong deal.

Sigh.

The absurdity here is not in the joy of her pregnancy but in other females who will become jealous of her position, attack her or want a share of her cake. This innocent foolish gesture has aroused anger and hate in her close and family circle.

She didn't come out and tell us that she did her job well and was able to secure a higher education or better business deals with her boss. Anyways, what for? If you can get free omelets why break your eggs? This goes to show that men, children, and having a family are at the core of the feminine heart.

Nothing to say much here, she got what a woman needs as she played her game right and smart.

May she deliver safely and she and her child live long.

Congratulations wise woman. But be careful!

1. This is the 21st century and women have the right and ability to not make pregnancy happen.

A. There is the monthly birth control pill.

B. There is a female condom.

C. There is a female instant birth control pill.

D. She has the full right to say no. And if he persists, she tender the case to the relevant security unit.

E. Lastly, there is abortion.

2. Life is a game, if you act dumb you will be treated like a doormat. If she's not ready to be a mother she must refuse the man or know how to control pregnancy.

3. Counterintuitive, why doesn't the man stay away from sex when he can't provide for a mother and child? That's why I said it is a game, a h0rny man doesn't impregnate women from his imagination, if there is a willing and h0rny woman, he will fvck her.

It is then left for the woman to judge the man before sexual Intercourse. In the animal kingdom, females are the choosy sex, that is, they choose males they will mate with and females are the gatekeepers of sex. If women say no sex, so be it. Nothing happens. No reproduction.

The cost of pregnancy is risky and high, any woman that is reckless with her womb will not go unpunished. She must be wise.

4. This is not to exonerate the expectant father, he must be forced to provide for his child and the mother because as far as he knows that he is not ready to be a father he should have abstained from sex or used a contraceptive even though he expected the woman not to be negligent. Both should carry their cross.

5. Unwanted pregnancy, sorry to say, is her fault, the same way a guy spends all his money on her without him having sex with her or receiving the relevant returns.

There are always red flags that tell if a partner is a real or fake deal, but romance and luxury blind the eyes of men and women respectively thereby making them choose the wrong deal.

Sigh.

1. Dear friend, don't see this as an opportunity. Don't see it as an opportunity to show your "missionary skill" either as religious or secular folk. See it as a business.

2. What provision has been made for her feeding? You can't give a stranger accommodation and still feed the stranger for 2months+. Determine this first and be serious with every party involved.

3. What about her health history? You must allow her to show a good medical certificate before she cohabits with you. Don't hastily embrace her without knowing her health history.

3. House chores shouldn't be an issue. Common sense should tell her that's her role as a stranger under free accommodation. You must verify her level of responsibility at home, and the way she does her duties.

4. What's the nature of her character and behavior? You must verify her relationship with her parents and those close to her. You need to know if she is the obstinate type or the obedient type. Is she the calm type that stays at home or goes around lollygagging with strangers? Hope you don't want to come home one day with foreign foreigners binging on your food and drinks.

5. The moment you start fvcking her, just know she starts seeing you as her boyfriend, husband, and father, which also means that you will start taking care of her needs. Be prepared for this.

6. Once you start fvcking her, also know that disrespect will begin to grow bit by bit. So, be ready to perform your husband's duties.

7. You must discuss with her guardians concerning unforeseen circumstances and relating to her behavior should in case she becomes too inconvenient before the 2 months elapse.

8. The chances of you not fvcking this girl or getting jealous when other guys start screwing her are ultra slim.

Please, fvck with a good condom, because the cost of raising a family in the recent economy is hyper-expensive; the risk of abortion is not what you must toy with. And also protect your sexual health.

But better you decline this offer my man.

Thanks.

The strength of political leaders or any leader at all is the ability to capture the mind of the masses or followers either by good leadership or force.

Until the minds of the masses are revamped with a glaring mirror standing before them to see how far they have gone deep in poverty, shame, and penury and how their leaders are the masterminds behind their predicaments, they will continue to sing praises to the tyrannical hands that rule them and drop crumbs on their tables.

Solution first comes from a standpoint of knowledge, that is, knowing the origin of your problem and devising the necessary materials to solve it. The problem with the masses is a mind broadcasted with little to no knowledge, truth, and holy anger. If not, corrupt leaders would have adjusted or not being bold enough to display their illicit wealth in public.

Thanks.

The politician is not yet a good leader until he can move freely and interact with the masses without heavy networks of security and armed men.

Agelastus:
Then it gets scary...

1. Money is a tool that you can use to unravel the internal and external core of humans. Spin money on the table, introduce money to the equation and you can determine how the game goes or be perplexed about the unfolding of mysteries and secrets that you were oblivious to.

2. Money is the god of men and the messiah of women. Your sexual fantasies as a man can be stretched to the moon and back in a day, week, or month as the case may be; trust my beautiful women, they never disappoint.

3. If you are a fan of nightclubs you will get my point well. Women can fvck anything and will fvck for anything when cash is on the table. There is no way you will visit the nightclubs once, twice...and still have an atom of faith in women except for the younger ones under the watchful eyes of their parents and are virgins too. But for the record, women of this generation are a lost cause!

4. And I find it stupid how boyfriends, fiances, and husbands boast about women they never met as virgins and still within their frame. These women below are angels to their spouses, absolute nonsense! The same women will seek repentance in the future and want REAL MEN, absolutely disgusting! That's a mockery of masculinity.

5. And men are being harangued to go get married and raise kids in a distorted world full of all patterns of absurdities, an anomalous disorganized, and confused world! The painful part is that these men are happy that they found "good things" because they find "a wife". My friend shut up! You are already losing even before the day of the match.

My heart goes to those men who don't have control of their families, wives, and daughters. May they find peace.

Sigh.

ProphetJeroboam:
Your reminder that women know we live in a world that caters to their demands. They will not hesitate to use this to their advantage if need be. This particular woman is celebrating the continuous suspension of Shola on twitter. I don’t follow a lot of Shola’s post but the summary of his posts seems to be “Guys, do not entertain leeches disguised as women” , genuinely curious, where is the women hate in this message? Where is the misogyny? Women and their simp slaves on twitter seem to hate this message which seems like perfectly reasonable advice to any hustling man. I am confused; D

1. To the woman, disrespect is when you don't grant her an opportunity to perform ridiculously even if it is detrimental to others, provided her feelings are satiated.

2. To the woman, truth is rooted in "how does this benefits me?" Not how " credible and useful is this information?" Whatever does not appeal to her sentiments is false.

3. Therefore, in the metaphysical sense, women are weaker vessels and symmetrical to their muscular physique, though, in this sense, muscle and strength don't count, but women are weak because they only cluster around where things are comfortable and easy even though the value of that thing is low and bad. The weak are not bold enough to either challenge falsehood or handle the truth, that domain belongs to the stout-hearted.

4. Weak is not because their muscles are small which indicates less strength but because their minds are narrow and timid to understand the truth. And the harshness of truth will make them reject it. They will prefer the destructiveness of lies and falsehoods because it appears endearing and soft.

5. Superficial products are many times veneered by their outward characteristics; talk of wolves in sheep clothing's. Since a woman judge based on feelings and the outward appearance of things, they will pick what's superficial than what's hard 9/10 times. Women can't be deep because their dealings are exteriors, more reasons they can't travel the rabbit hole is because its interior is deep.

The same category of women will call men d0gs after realizing their mistakes in choosing fvck and lazy boys.

6. It takes great pain and the highest level of sacrifice for women to accept the brutal reality of truth. The sacrifice is that she lacks other options while the pain is her watching the truth take different turns on how - metaphysical "rápe".

7. However, if the truth becomes unbearable and inevitable, she makes a caricature of it and accepts the result; she imbibes herself in her newly found 'reality' and scout or harangue others to her corridor - the herd mentality.

Women are antagonistic to the truth, oblivious to the fact that respect is rooted in an ability to know the truth and focus on ambition.

DAY 253, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Avoid the unchanging weak and emotional.

Goalty01:
Pls don't do it again.

Most of them are going to use it for scams.

Please I'm begging you

It is because of the scam I even posted my figures above. Because kdp has now become the new "fast oil" money.

$4989; 500books; laptop and phone screenshot.

Cc. Yamali

onez:
For real, let's lower the mic. Colonization though painful but also has it's good side. God bless us all. May the soul of late Queen Elizabeth rest in peace.

Colonization has a good side? Like what did I just read.

Damn!

Below is a little help.

CaveAdullam:
1. You are the one not really intelligent here. So, in your narrow mind, African leaders were the ones that invited European and American exploiters to Africa right?

2. Ok, if African rulers were the ones that invited white traders to Africa, why was there no advancement in science and technology? Why was there no advancement in agriculture? How come goods from Africa never reached Europe except for the minerals that were exploited? How come Africans were never the ones in charge of the mines, industries, and banks in Africa? How come Africa never had control of its goods and trade?

3. So, in your timid and underdeveloped mind, African leaders invited these exploiters to come rubbish and destroy their lands and people for gunpowder, mirrors, and gums, right?

4. The "slave trade" between African communities was not exploitative. Both parties benefitted and their communities developed. Cases, where the trade became intense are a result of the coming of the Europeans and the feudalism Africa was approaching.

5. Comparing this "slave trade" to the slave trade of blacks across the transatlantic ocean is like comparing the fight between two teenage brothers in their bedroom and a war between two countries.


6. I stated this before in the first post you quoted.

7. African leaders were working with them because the exploiters had all the power: they were in control of sea trades. They own guns and other weapons. They had the military and police. They stimulated fighting between African communities using the divide and conquer strategy. And coupled with the fact that the British made the trade profitable albeit destructive, African rulers succumb.

8. African rulers were used because of their ignorance and greed: It is on this note that I don't hold any grudges against the Europeans and America because life is a game; business is a game; politics is a game; in war, the dumb and the weak cannot survive.

9. Yeah, had it been African rulers unanimously ruled against the exploitation of Britain, Europe, and North America, the effect would not have been destructive and cancerous even up to this moment.



10. Just imagine the nonsense you spilled out of your mouth and yet you claimed to be wise and intelligent. Pathetic!

So, the British stopped the slave trade, the slave trade they introduce and sponsored to the day it was abolished, has now become a great help to Africans, right?

11. The simple reason the slave trade was abolished was that slaves were no longer needed in large numbers in fields due to the rise in science and technology. The industrial revolution led to the abolishment because the profits and work involved in the slave trade is not worthy compared to machines and industries.

12. Even after the abolishment of the slave trade, the exploiters still had a strong hold on African soil as they exploited the land further, and pillaged the mineral resources. They had a strong military presence in their former colonies. They controlled African trade, politics, economics, and the military.

13. Slave trade may have been abolished, but the exploiters still rule even till today as a result of the different policies they have set - on the external you think it is to develop Africa, but deciphering within, you will come to understand that these policies ensure the continuous pillaging of Africans.

14. Shaka of Zululand, Jaja of oppo (Tada, and one king of Kongo - (don't get their names correctly), etc. rebelled, but their strength was not enough compared to the exploiters.

NB: The black slave trade is an African problem, not Nigeria alone.

PS: Don't quote me again and talk nonsense. Else, have a nice day.

Modified: the seeming attack was a response to another moniker. Please, don't take it to heart.

Parachoko:
You're not Intelligent

Did I invite the robbers to my house?[/b]

1. You are the one not really intelligent here. So, in your narrow mind, African leaders were the ones that invited European and American exploiters to Africa right?

2. Ok, if African rulers were the ones that invited white traders to Africa, why was there no advancement in science and technology? Why was there no advancement in agriculture? How come goods from Africa never reached Europe except for the minerals that were exploited? How come Africans were never the ones in charge of the mines, industries, and banks in Africa? How come Africa never had control of its goods and trade?

3. So, in your timid and underdeveloped mind, African leaders invited these exploiters to come rubbish and destroy their lands and people for gunpowder, mirrors, and gums, right?

4. The "slave trade" between African communities was not exploitative. Both parties benefitted and their communities developed. Cases, where the trade became intense are a result of the coming of the Europeans and the feudalism Africa was approaching.

5. Comparing this "slave trade" to the slave trade of blacks across the transatlantic ocean is like comparing the fight between two teenage brothers in their bedroom and a war between two countries.

Parachoko:
The British were working with rulers in Africa when they came.[/b]

6. I stated this before in the first post you quoted.

7. African leaders were working with them because the exploiters had all the power: they were in control of sea trades. They own guns and other weapons. They had the military and police. They stimulated fighting between African communities using the divide and conquer strategy. And coupled with the fact that the British made the trade profitable albeit destructive, African rulers succumb.

8. African rulers were used because of their ignorance and greed: It is on this note that I don't hold any grudges against the Europeans and America because life is a game; business is a game; politics is a game; in war, the dumb and the weak cannot survive.

9. Yeah, had it been African rulers unanimously ruled against the exploitation of Britain, Europe, and North America, the effect would not have been destructive and cancerous even up to this moment.

Parachoko:
In fact, if the British didn't stop the slave trade, African Rulers had no plans to stop engaging in the business.

10. Just imagine the nonsense you spilled out of your mouth and yet you claimed to be wise and intelligent. Pathetic!

So, the British stopped the slave trade, the slave trade they introduce and sponsored to the day it was abolished, has now become a great help to Africans, right?

11. The simple reason the slave trade was abolished was that slaves were no longer needed in large numbers in fields due to the rise in science and technology. The industrial revolution led to the abolishment because the profits and work involved in the slave trade is not worthy compared to machines and industries.

12. Even after the abolishment of the slave trade, the exploiters still had a strong hold on African soil as they exploited the land further, and pillaged the mineral resources. They had a strong military presence in their former colonies. They controlled African trade, politics, economics, and the military.

13. Slave trade may have been abolished, but the exploiters still rule even till today as a result of the different policies they have set - on the external you think it is to develop Africa, but deciphering within, you will come to understand that these policies ensure the continuous pillaging of Africans.

Parachoko:
You can lead out the kings in Nigeria who was fighting against the slave trade with the white men make I see.

14. Shaka of Zululand, Jaja of oppo (Tada, and one king of Kongo - (don't get their names correctly), etc. rebelled, but their strength was not enough compared to the exploiters.

NB: The black slave trade is an African problem, not Nigeria alone.

PS: Don't quote me again and talk nonsense. Else, have a nice day.

Parachoko:
Should Foreigners be blamed for the exploitation of Africa or African leaders?

I address this question in 3 above.

Now my question:

Should you blame the robbers that broke into your house and raped your 15-year-old daughter and have now caused her emotional and psychological disorders?

How do you want that your daughter to feel when she later discovered that you are friends with the robbers to date?

Powerboi:
Cave you're a fuc*** gem to this thread, you keep spilling bars each day here, I always look forard to reading your posts, gracias

DAY 252, REDPILL 2022

My reaction to: https://www.nairaland.com/7320727/what-did-wrong-supporting-career#116439492

The reaction: https://www.nairaland.com/7320727/what-did-wrong-supporting-career/1#116492742

Or, below:

1. Though the stories many of you share here are fictional, however, it reflects the true state of men when it comes to women and romantic relationship. Even fiction still encodes truth and reality.

2. Women are manipulative when it comes to sexual relationships. They are logical about it and will take proper steps before execution.

But men on the other hand, just want women for sex and reproduction. Women are practical about romance and relationships, men are oblivious to the facts that belie.

3. Your story is another credit to the fact that at the right time, right place, and right man, women will fvck regardless of their romantic engagement with their boyfriends, fiance, or husband. This is the alpha fvck side of women's nature termed hypergamy(alpha fvcks; beta bucks).

4. All women may not experience this but it is a tendency that is rooted in women's psychology. Women never want to miss that chance of getting a quality gene for their offspring. It is fvck now and thinks later.

5. Religion understands this hence, so much restriction is placed on women's sexuality. Raw data from social science and research carried out prof J.D Unwin came up with substantial facts that if women are allowed to be promiscuous, the rate of societal growth will decline.

6. Religious men from different parts of the world understood this early, especially middle eastern men, and for that reason, placed huge restrictions on women.

7. However, the world is now secular and liberal, with no codes and conducts to guide men and women and protect society, everyone has gone wild.

We are all victims of the mess we created and yet still complain about it. Cognitive dissonance? Oh yeah. Hypocrisy? You are right.

8. The true test of a woman's loyalty is when she has access to other men. If she doesn't succumb to their titillating carrots, then, she is someone worth committing to. However, this is true for the outliers amongst women. Women are first loyal to their feelings, to defy that feeling at that moment is to be raised and guided by strict adherence to principles and masculine leadership. Just a few women; the majority will soon succumb.

9. It is because women cannot be trusted to this extent when it comes to seduction and temptation that they must be constantly watched. You must hold their hands from infancy to death, else, any slight opportunity, they will leverage their sexuality, emotions, and beauty to cause emotional and psychological damage to themselves. And like it or not, any damage they cause, it returns to affect men and society both directly and indirectly. Refer to 5 above.

10. You don't place women in the face of temptation and expect them not to succumb. They will, even the religious among them. Women hardly walk through temptations and hell without coming out dàmaged. For this reason, once you decide to commit to women, just know that you are about to increase your work and make many sacrifices.

11. The telltale that a relationship is coming to an end is when she cheats on you or compares you to other men sexually, physically, or financially. Once you notice this, please don't bother looking for any marriage counselor to advise and help you, end the relationship and let her go.

12. There are many ways to identify these red flags, but if you are too point-focused on the satisfaction of your libido and bamboozled by her body and romance you will fail to see these red flags. Women are loyal to their feelings but with time as a result of physical contact and interactions, they will expose themselves.

13. Bro, from a humanity standpoint, you have done well for her. But don't be taken away that if you help a woman she will always be there for you. Help her out of charity and not romance, else, you will always meet with disappointments.

14. Women are loyal to their feelings and when it comes to their feelings no matter how tangible your good to them in the past, not even yesterday, they will never show sympathy. Refer to 8 and 13 above.

15. The most efficient way to even help a woman is to help her father, brothers, boyfriend, fiance, and husband. These are males that will in turn take care of her. Because once a woman's status is in a crescendo, she will never consider these men any longer or show them respect. Just look around and observe the behavior of so-called independent women - arrogance, contemptuousness, entitlement mentality, and the like.


16. A woman can only be loyal to one man, and if she is the type that distributes herself among different men, it means her pair bonding ability has fallen drastically. And you should leave her and let her go, she is for the street.

Avoid claiming a monopoly for a product that wants to be commercialized by the public.

Be a wise man.

Authority: Be a wise man.

1. Though the stories many of you share here are fictional, however, it reflects the true state of men when it comes to women and romantic relationship. Even fiction still encodes truth and reality.

2. Women are manipulative when it comes to sexual relationships. They are logical about it and will take proper steps before execution.

But men on the other hand, just want women for sex and reproduction. Women are practical about romance and relationships, men are oblivious to the facts that belie.

3. Your story is another credit to the fact that at the right time, right place, and right man, women will fvck regardless of their romantic engagement with their boyfriends, fiance, or husband. This is the alpha fvck side of women's nature termed hypergamy(alpha fvcks; beta bucks).

4. All women may not experience this but it is a tendency that is rooted in women's psychology. Women never want to miss that chance of getting a quality gene for their offspring. It is fvck now and thinks later.

5. Religion understands this hence, so much restriction is placed on women's sexuality. Raw data from social science and research carried out prof J.D Unwin came up with substantial facts that if women are allowed to be promiscuous, the rate of societal growth will decline.

6. Religious men from different parts of the world understood this early, especially middle eastern men, and for that reason, placed huge restrictions on women.

7. However, the world is now secular and liberal, with no codes and conducts to guide men and women and protect society, everyone has gone wild.

We are all victims of the mess we created and yet still complain about it. Cognitive dissonance? Oh yeah. Hypocrisy? You are right.

8. The true test of a woman's loyalty is when she has access to other men. If she doesn't succumb to their titillating carrots, then, she is someone worth committing to. However, this is true for the outliers amongst women. Women are first loyal to their feelings, to defy that feeling at that moment is to be raised and guided by strict adherence to principles and masculine leadership. Just a few women; the majority will soon succumb.

9. It is because women cannot be trusted to this extent when it comes to seduction and temptation that they must be constantly watched. You must hold their hands from infancy to death, else, any slight opportunity, they will leverage their sexuality, emotions, and beauty to cause emotional and psychological damage to themselves. And like it or not, any damage they cause, it returns to affect men and society both directly and indirectly. Refer to 5 above.

10. You don't place women in the face of temptation and expect them not to succumb. They will, even the religious among them. Women hardly walk through temptations and hell without coming out dàmaged. For this reason, once you decide to commit to women, just know that you are about to increase your work and make many sacrifices.

11. The telltale that a relationship is coming to an end is when she cheats on you or compares you to other men sexually, physically, or financially. Once you notice this, please don't bother looking for any marriage counselor to advise and help you, end the relationship and let her go.

12. There are many ways to identify these red flags, but if you are too point-focused on the satisfaction of your libido and bamboozled by her body and romance you will fail to see these red flags. Women are loyal to their feelings but with time as a result of physical contact and interactions, they will expose themselves.

13. Bro, from a humanity standpoint, you have done well for her. But don't be taken away that if you help a woman she will always be there for you. Help her out of charity and not romance, else, you will always meet with disappointments.

14. Women are loyal to their feelings and when it comes to their feelings no matter how tangible your good to them in the past, not even yesterday, they will never show sympathy. Refer to 8 and 13 above.

15. The most efficient way to even help a woman is to help her father, brothers, boyfriend, fiance, and husband. These are males that will in turn take care of her. Because once a woman's status is in a crescendo, she will never consider these men any longer or show them respect. Just look around and observe the behavior of so-called independent women - arrogance, contemptuousness, entitlement mentality, and the like.

16. A woman can only be loyal to one man, and if she is the type that distributes herself among different men, it means her pair bonding ability has fallen drastically. And you should leave her and let her go, she is for the street.

Avoid claiming a monopoly for a product that wants to be commercialized by the public.

Be a wise man.

Thanks.

1. Rather than focus on the hate speech why not focus on the root of the hate speech. This is not the usual media rants from trolls and sadistic individuals, her claims/hate is rooted in reality and that reality is that Britain/Europe, and America contributed to the backwardness of Africa.

2. Trade is being exploited. Economics is being manipulated. African politics is being decided by those in the UK, USA, Japan, France, and Germany. Why will she not rant?

3. Our leaders who are in a relationship with these remote overlords have sold us for tiny pieces of gold and foreign passports.

You will not understand Uju Anya's pain until you get a glimpse of how tough are the grips of Europe and America on our jugulars.

Whatever good you see is a decoy to manipulate us further.

Until we know this, we will continue to celebrate our oppressors and oppressors of our forefathers.

Thanks.

Powerboi:
Cave you're a fuc*** gem to this thread, you keep spilling bars each day here, I always look forward to reading your posts, gracias

Thank you for your kind words. I do appreciate it. I promise to improve and do better.

Thanks.

Uju Anya's tweets are from a place of pain and naked reality on the adverse effects of Europeans and America on the soil of Africa/Nigeria.

There is no way on earth you can remain happy when you chew these bitter pills.

Just imagine our ancestors and forefathers watching us from their graves celebrating the death of their oppressors, our oppressors. Pathetic.

May Africans get it oh Lord!

And her soul rests in peace.

Sigh.

etrange:
Dude, gender has no role in IQ. Nothing you write here remotely invalidates that fact. You can go on and on your quest for supremacy, but take it or leave it, environmental factors and other genetic factors determines intelligence, not gender.

Why are you confusing yourself, man?

Is gender not born out of biology and genetics? Or, is there anyone that's given a brain after birth? You're making conflicting statements man, calm down.

And who said the environment factor doesn't work together with genetics?

If genetics can give rise to a different gender, then, why do you think it can't when it comes to intelligence?

Go check the bell curve of intelligence and IQ distribution.

Have a nice day.

FearlessOG:
Do not be deceived by anyone claiming that females rarely comment on threads because of misogyny or sexism. I’ve seen this erroneous claim times without number. That is a blatant lie!!! In fact, it is quite ironic that females on Nairaland comment far more on threads where misogyny/sexism is prevalent than on other threads where misogyny/sexism is virtually non-existent. Any person who has been on Nairaland long enough (either as a guest or as an active user) and has a modicum of sincerity can easily confirm this.

I wholeheartedly welcome anyone to call my bluff. Go and verify the following:
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on football threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on political threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on investment threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on automobile threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
There are many more examples but the above should suffice.

After answering those questions, kindly proceed to verify the following:
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on romance threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on celebrity threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on family threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?

By the time you are done getting answers to the above questions, it will become crystal clear that females on Nairaland are overwhelmingly present on threads that have to do with sex and relationships (Romance, Family, Celebrities, etc). Those are the same threads where the misogyny and sexism are also present, so it’s a no-brainer. Perhaps the only section where females dominate on Nairaland with little/no misogyny/sexism is the Food section. Conversely, there are numerous sections where males dominate on Nairaland with little/no misogyny/sexism, but females are rarely ever interested in such threads.

PS: Don’t even get me started on the misandry and androphobia exhibited by females on this forum that rarely ever gets called out. All these are exceptionally easy to verify on the same misogynistic and sexist threads that females “supposedly rarely ever comment on.”

Much ado about nothing.

This is excellent.

Thanks.

saladinnoir:
You misunderstood him. He didn't say men were intellectually superior he said men are more likely to be appreciated for their intellectual endeavors rather than their looks and vice versa for women. No one wants to see a naked man and no one cares much about brains when boobs are involved.

Even at that, men are both intellectually inferior and superior to women.

Most dumb people/with low IQ are men.

On average intelligence, women are slightly higher than men.

Most High IQ individuals are men.

Women are higher in verbal intelligence than men, hence, many women make up fields like social science, health care, business, etc. But men have high 3D spatial mental ability than women, hence, you find many men in engineering fields, military, physics, mathematics, science, and technology.

Thanks.

etrange:
Human nature? Where did you get this from? This idea that men are superior beings and that they do better when brainpower is required while women are relegated to the matters of looks (primarily for men's pleasure) is a typical supremacist's mindset. In other words, it's a complex exhibited by anyone who feels superior to another. They usually attribute it to human nature and when asked to present evidence of that nature, they quote history and statistics with no empirical/clinical evidence. But we all know that history/statistics are easily influenced by all sorts of factors. The ratio of women to men on Quora is 43/57. The gap is not much, and it's better interpreted as a reflection of the ratio women to men in the world accentuated by the impossibility of equality in this case. Biology and psychology have made it clear that there's no gender difference when it comes to human IQ. The narrative that men are intellectually superior is propagated by men, and it's a dangerous one because of its rippling effects on society.

Yes, there was a time when only men used to go to school. They had the intellectually tasking jobs and made a good deal of the breakthroughs we know today. Even today, a poor man would rather send his male child to school and marry off his female child. This has led to the belief that men are more intelligent. We're still battling the effects of this belief today in our workspaces and political space. It's also demoralizing to the hardworking ladies out there cause you're telling them that just because of thier gender, they can never measure up regardless of how they try. But in reality, that is not true. It's simply gendered bias. Nothing proves that a man is likely to do better in Law, Medicine, etc. with all things being equal.

#Opinion.

You already said it is an "opinion" of yours and I'm glad about it. However, this post of yours/opinion is utterly false.

1. There is gender and race difference when it comes to IQ.

2. 43:57; men and women respectively on Quora's age is not much gap you say? The differences are higher than what separates man from chimpanzees. Yet, you can see the differences between humans and apes. Not to talk of more than 1%.

3. For your information, there are enough statistics to counter your claims.

4. To shock you once more, these gender differences are easily identified in Scandinavian countries where gender polarity is low.

Man, you got to review your facts.

Thanks.

etrange:
A good deal of NL members are men, that's very obvious. However, there are more ladies than you think. They just don't comment on threads due to the intense misogyny going on here. The guys are always on every thread abusing and sexualizing women. To some of these guys, it's fun; to others, it's way to make themselves feel better about thier own underachieving life; while the rest just want to belong. You see threads where men commit all sorts of crimes, and we all gather to criticize the men in question (though we sometimes foolishly make it about thier tribes or religion). However, when a lady is the culprit, it becomes a gender thing for the guys. You'd read "fear women", "Nigerian women are wicked", "Nigerian girls are useless", "olosho", etc. Even on threads where women are doing great, you'd still read "this one punna go sweet o", "her husband dey enjoy o", and other expressions that objectify them and undermine thier achievements. These comments are made by people who complain thier tribes are being marginalized or that the white man is a racist. Yet they boldly make these misogynistic statements without identifying them as discriminatory.

It has become so normal that while mods are fighting tribalism, nobody really cares about the sexism. Words have power. It's easy to speak someone into depression/anxiety or low self esteem. It's easy to spoil someone's day with words. These words can make someone give up because regardless of what they do, the outcome is the same. I mean, if I were a lady, I'd stay away from such a demoralizing platform. So some of these ladies decided to leave the platform for the guys. Some are still here but hardly comment. Others have removed the gender identifier or even identify as male. I mean, look at it, the other day, someone created a thread asking why we have many women on the BBN thread. He called them jobless. The person forgot that the rest of NL including the dirty sexuality section are filled with men. It's becoming increasingly difficult for the ladies here. It's as if we're going back to those days where women had to use thier husbands' names or even fake male names to advance thier achievements like Margaret Keane, Trotula of Salerno, Jocelyn Bell Burnell, Lise Meitner and numerous others.

1.I came here because of this comment.

I want you to read at bolded text severally again.

Then my question: How do you criticize men? In what words and languages?

You agreed that both sexes suffer criticisms but you still went ahead and curated it as a gender "misogynistic" problem. So, where is the misandry if men are also criticized?

2. Let me shock you, IT IS WOMEN THAT SLUT SHAME WOMEN THAN MEN. That's scientific information with good data.

3. There are gender differences when it comes to social media usage. Women are more active than men on Instagram, Snapchat, Pinterest, and Facebook. But we don't see men screaming "misandry" all day long. Respect human nature and gender differences.

Overall, women are the most active social media users. Look beyond Nairaland man/woman.

4. Women recede into their shells or come under male monikers because from an evolutionary perspective women are conflict avoidant, the weaker sex, and less muscular. Ostracism exposes them to the tough world, hence, they avoid trouble. So, it is better to keep silent and maintain a herd mentality. That's why war isn't instigated by women concomitantly they don't fight a war. Also, are fewer victims of murder. The homicide rate for men is >70% instigated by men.

5. Women are more interested in making new friends and interacting and bonding emotionally with people. That's why they are more active in social media apps that reveal status and appearances. Men care about information and data, are disagreeable, risk-taking, hence, they are more active than women on Twitter, Reddit, and our dear Nairaland.

6. Of course, there is a need for improvement in social media usage so that individuals can benefit from each other. However, that will not be the case because low-IQ individuals are luxurious and most times extroverts. So expect the craziness.

Thanks.

Alhabaze:
Nice!

What stood out for me was the fact that you said texting kills communicate & sexual vibes.

What's your thought on sexting? By this, I mean sex chatting a girl.

Do you think it's possible to elicit the sexual tension via sexting which hitherto would have been impossible via normal texting?

Harddon touched on this during his early days & how he had escapades with them lady folks via texting alone. In fact, to him, it's for newbies who are still learning the ropes.

Thanks.

You are not the only one sexting her, there are truckloads of men in queue doing that. The worst-case scenario for you is that some of your competitors are using money to game her.

Sexting is not canceled out here, but it should be used to build upon what has already be established.

Physical contact, then sexual play is how you get it right and faster with women. At that moment you and her are the only ones in the race, with no other competitors.

Calm down man. I already expounded this in the post you quoted.

Vicboy1:
There is a different between shit test and not being interested. Before going into relationship watch if the girl is interested. And mind me even your wife will shit test u from time to time. Shit test never come to end,

"Yeah, that's true. Shit tests are to verify for hypergamy so that she will not make a mistake".

Vicboy1:
And what happens is that a lot of guys do fail the shit test thereby appearing needy. If a girl is not interested don't assume she is interested but playing hard to get.

"You don't force rapport with women, if the vibe is not coming from both ends, leave her alone and take a U-turn. It is scarcity mentality and the chase for validation that makes men remain in the friend zone - "I know she's testing me and will soon change her mind and love me for who I am". That's nonsense".

Vicboy1:
the only way to stop shit test is by manipulating her back

Since the shit test is to validate for hypergamy, shit tests cannot stop because women are constantly watching to see if the man they once submitted to is still the same man they are in a relationship with. This can result in divorce even after many years of relationship when the man isn't the same and has depleted in his frame.

However, shit tests can be reduced if she is committed to the relationship.

"Manipulating her back" will not stop her shit tests, well it may reduce them but there are other possible methods to counter shit tests:

1. Maintain frame. Your frame bounces back every color and shape of the shit test. Once she knows what you stand for she will not bother shit testing further even after some trials because your answer will always be either No or Yes.

2. Reverse her shit tests.

For example:

Her: I need 5k for small chops.

You: As I'm here, if I have 2k I will be among the world's happiest men.

3. Ensure genuine desire. If she is the one that chooses you, she limits her shit tests.

4. She's invested in the relationship as a result of genuine desire. Refer to 3 above.

5. Raise your standard, and become a more high-value man. Once she senses that you are flying far above her she will want to shit test less because you now have access to other women. This is a matrix:

A. She may shit tests you to bring you back to your former state to deal with you as previously.

B. She may limit shit tests to make you lower your guard and manipulate you.

You must be vigilant to decipher wheats from tares.

6. Ignore her by maintaining silence or walking away from her.

PS: shit test can be consciously or unconsciously/overt or covert.

Thanks.