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satandeterrible:
Very intelligent post.
Thank you for rebuffung those bluepilled vibes.

How can any same man think the best thing for him is to commit to used up, washed out cum depots?
So as a man after struggling to make it, you then decide to settle down for an old hen who has hit the wall after crossing her hoe phase?

They are advising men to settle for less, because they can't find anything better. Or because they think they atr not worth anything better.

That why they are advising men to commit to 30+ women, because those women won't have much options at that moment. How ridiculous!!

I cannot believe that on a redpill thread, a supposedly redpill preacher is advising men to settle down with women who have hit the wall, because they no longer have options at that stage.

What is the difference then between a redpill guy and a bluepilled simp?
Both ate committing to women who have been sexed severally by other men and have now retired.
Quite shameful.

BigBashiru:
My dear times hv changed... social media, feminism etc - has caused that young girls are no longer interested in marriage.
The most important reason why girls are not interested in marriage is the expectation that they could potentially get a better guy coming....
I have interviewed my female friends in their early 20s and they all agree with this my position....

To have a stable marriage, the woman must believe she cannot get a better guy; and this typically happens when they start getting old...

However the oldies keep demanding the burdens of the partriarchy (provision) but by then she cant do anything if you dont meet those demands as she no longer has the looks (or if she does, its fast dwindling)...

My position is marry the oldies (and tell her to use her money to fend for herself in the marriage) and date the younggies and give your money to the youngins... and I mean no disrespect for the older females - because guys get old too...

BigBashiru:
The ones who do get married young are unstable in the marriage, they have their eyes outside the marriage because they are wondering "what if I find a better man"....they keep wondering this until they hit their decline...

What I recommend to guys is to marry the 29 yo but don't play patriarchy I e she has to fend for herself financially in the marriage....then be with ur younger hotter girlfriends...

jeromestarks:
If women lower their standards, it will be bad for human race.
Weak men shouldn't sure a child.
Weak men should not be father's. No.
Poor men should not have children. No!
The next generation should be sired by strong and successful men.

Women having high standards has nothing to do with religion or any personal reason. It is simply evolutionary.

CaveAdullam:
1. some readily available men will look past the flaws of these ladies and marry them. But these ladies will never agree to marriage because they have an absurd standard about the kind of men they want. They are low value and impure women but are obstinately in need of high value and wealthy men.

2. Rather than reduce their nonsensical standard, humble themselves in shame and get married to innocent men who wouldn't pay attention to their past lives, they will prefer to stay in the church from dawn to dusk expecting God to bring forth a mate made in heaven.

3. Women should start opting for polygamy, sharing the available men instead of waiting and wasting time. Because in this day, men are getting wiser and they are coming to the reality that there is zilch for them in marriage. If for the sake of children and civilization man decides to enter marriage, he must be constantly applauded and rewarded because he makes the bulk of the sacrifice in providing and protecting a family.

4. If women insist on monogamy they must cut down on their standards, take hypergamy by the reins and lead it to their advantage. By nature, women date higher, but if they desire the love and commitment of a man, they must look past hypergamy consciously.

5. The video shows that time is no friend to women but many of these women are not aware of their biology and future needs and ambitions because they lack quality parental leadership. They would have made good choices under a good family system. However, they only come to this shocking reality when they have passed their prime.

6. Though time may favor men as per biology is concerned, however, if he is unable to rise from bottom to top he will wail like the women who has passed their prime with no man's commitment.

7. Every appearance of change by these women will be superficial because they never built it from the beginning or found its importance. But for the benefit of the doubt, if they can build character, become kind and modest, take care of their trade, control their emotions, and not disdain any man that has an interest in them, they may be lucky with the best man.

Thanks.

GREATIGBOMAN:
With your mentality you need not try anything tangible on the global scale

You've already been defeated mentally.
You can never be redeemed.

Not too long ago the Japanese/Americans also had same mentality of the Chinese.... yet the Chinese always had hope that one day they'll be global power not just on Tech, but on other sectors.

Not too long ago the British had same mentality of the Indians you're currently praising over your own country.

You're a dumb fellow who knows nothing of your history and who thinks the black man is the clown of the earth when in fact you're the kings/Princes of the earth.

You're really dumb.... You can never be redeemed.

You'll remain a slave of mind all your life!

When you ever migrate abroad and you find yourself in the same group as the Indians or other nation

Don't even bother pushing or competing for anything among them.... u can never be ahead of them because they have defeated your mind before you even migrated.

Dunce

RepoMan007:
Nigerians can only smell the range Indians are attaining in aspects that involves basic PC usages. Complex engineering like refinery design and construction.that involves engineering tangible parts isn't our thing. Potential is one thing, attaining it is another.

Epositive:
Banana gum is a scam. I don't even chew it for long. After extracting the sugary taste for the first minutes, I threw it away before it eventually becomes tough.

YoobaNesan:
@CaveAdulllam, just lay my hands on this great works among other books.

CaveAdullam:
1. Such is life for you: some have it good from birth till death; others have it good at the middle, and the rest remain in perpetual penury.

2. It is why all religions hope and await judgment day and after that day, a life of peace, harmony, and comfort in eternity is guaranteed.

3. Life is full of ups and downs, sometimes we are victims of problems we never caused while at other times we are victims of our problems because of our mistakes or wrong strategies.

4. There is simply nothing you can do about it. This is life, welcome to life. We are in a world where incentives rules: if I'm not going to gain, ain't doing it and if I'm to lose, why should I even bother?

5. No matter how much you preach good, evil will persists in a world where morality, amorality, and immorality are in a close-a-door caucus meeting in the hearts of every man that breathes.

Don't be deceived, your pastor or imam will play whatever card that will give him more incentives or at least minimize his loss even if it means playing the immoral card. Those that claim explicit morality, and virtue signallers are criminals behind the scenes.

6. Evil continues to persist because good always finds a way to adjust and keep on moving. These are the C's students in colleges, they just want to pass and get promoted, unlike the A's students who want to binge on every higher score.

7. Good people have never for once, thought of leveraging the violence, ruthlessness, and cunning of evil to manifest good in a larger dimension. They are the nice men and nice women, the sheep-like religious adherents that get both faces messed up with hard slaps.

8. Evil persists because it is leveraging on a potent tool that is required by good. Woke and progressive cultures are successful because of this simple fact. The more violent and ruthless win. Life doesn't care about who is good or bad, it is those in charge that matter. Going further, Jesus Christ said, "the children of the world are wiser than the children of light".

That's why in the Christian circle, "the violent take it by force" if the kingdom of God - a symbol of peace, hope, prosperity, and unity suffers evil violence.

9. Under the clouds of the earth, we are under the control of factors beyond our control. Life doesn't care about your determination and ambitions; if they don't meander in the same pathway as life, you'll end up despondent, and you my friend is at this junction.

10. Probably, you have not done evil or involve in a dirty crime, but here you are getting stripped of every hope and ambition you once had. My friend, welcome to life, things don't always go as planned. Refer to 9 above.

11. Don't launch into complaints, murmuring, and lamentations because if you do, you are adding more tinctures of pains to your predicaments. Evil and good will continue to persist. What you need to do is to maneuver across the hurdles life has presented along your paths. Refer to 5 and 9 above.

12. You and I are on death ground. We are facing a wall, and it's impossible to pass through. This is the place life has brought us and it is high time we turn our backs to the wall and fight the war that has been chasing us and that we've been postponing through hope, faith, and prayer. Remember: "the violent take it by force". Refer to 8 above.

13. We are not only victims of our mistakes but our resolutions, our big dreams, and ambitions; these are important, but in life, you plan with reality creating a chance for flexibility and adaptability. "Power of positive thinking or think big" will not help you when life is going left and you are going right. Things don't go that way.

14. You can always achieve anything you want to achieve in life, but think about reality first and the newer tools you'll use in achieving it when things don't go as planned. Nothing is impossible, however, time, chance, knowledge, energy, life, and patience happen to them all. Refer to 13 above.

15. Setting unnecessary resolutions without thinking about the style and shape every dawn will take is a contribution to our depression when we don't meet up.

We all want to get married, own a house, a large farm, 5 wives and 30 grandchildren by age 70 but neglected the political, environmental, and socioeconomic terrain - these are what matter, not our hopes or ambitions.

It dawns on us all as life begins to take several kicks and blows on us. And by that time, we are weak and anxious.

16. At the end of the day, you'll come to ask yourself: do this life worth all these struggles?

Some will experience the pain and seek nihilism while others will become philanthropic. It all depends on the angle you are viewing things from.

However, if life doesn't have something good for you even though it is minute, it would not have produced you. You are either here to create beauty or enjoy the beauty or pass beauty. Life my friend is beautiful once you understand the nature of things and their mechanism.

17. You are perishing because you lack knowledge, but once you seek that specific knowledge you will experience prosperity in a crescendo.

18. Cut down on your ego. Since ego hasn't helped you, it is time to cut down on it so that you'll not be blinded by it and not do things that are capable of bringing you prosperity and beauty.

19. Don't look for encouragement, my friend. Look for quality knowledge.

20. No longer waste time on things and people that matter less. Look for good connections. Seek and you shall find.

21. Don't relent. Sow here and there, you don't know which will bear good fruits.

22. Swing into action. This war will not kill you. You will come out as a winner only if you will fight.

Run, run, run my friend. See you on the last lap.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
1. Human civilization has gone through many different trends, like genetic traits, some cultures and beliefs were able to survive up to this moment while others were lost.

2. Culture either changes or gets enhanced. The mode of dressing has changed over time.

3. Mode of dressing is an important core in every tradition. Those that have not enhanced their mode of dressing are still considered backward. Cultures that still celebrate nudity or go ahead with their daily activities with half-clothedness are lesser than the ones with a good style of dressing covering their unclothedness.
Take note: I'm talking about deep rough rural areas that are still far away from the light of urban civilization.

4. Female promiscuity has always been a dialogue for ages. Cultures that don't restrict their females are always backward. And many of these cultures were found to be godless. These are rural areas I'm talking about.

5. The global North experienced prosperity because they had a fear of God + female promiscuity was minimized, hence, their mental and social energy increased for more growth and development. Monogamy is for a reason in the Western world.

But coming back today, you'll observe that as the fear of god/God declines, the female is going naked and their growth is skewing to the negative side.

6. When females are promiscuous, men will do nothing because they will want to quench their libido, thereby reducing their time for work which makes civilization postpone. Cultures that have lower female promiscuity are always rational and full of energy.

7. Promiscuity affects both men and women negatively but differently. Women suffer more because they are the emotional sex, and base everything they do on emotions. Men are not emotionally bound to sex, unlike women. Hence, women suffer the aftermath of promiscuity the most. Only those that think men and women are equal want women to be as promiscuous as men.

8. A promiscuous woman has a lower value than a promiscuous man because men are not judged based on their sexuality, unlike women. Men value women for their sexuality. And a woman who is not chaste is a bad investment for a man. He wants to believe that his woman is chaste enough to bear his kids and nurture them. If he is not aware of their sexuality, he will be a victim of paternity fraud.

9. Why is she a bad investment? Because women absorb energy. As weaker sex, wherever you lead them they go. If they have had sex with men with different behaviors and characters they absorb a bit of this men at a time, forming a large part of their nature.

10. Most of the things women know are a result of their interaction with men. A woman is a representation of the quality of the men that surrounds her. If the men around her are nonchalant, she will become like them soon and even worst.

11. Men are not valued for their sexuality but for status and power. Engaging their libido will limit their desire for status and power; men are 24/7 h0rny.

Take note: Let this misconception that women enjoy sex more than men be corrected today. For the record, men desire and enjoy sexual satisfaction more than women. Men desire more sexual duration than women. Men think and imagine sex daily and even have wet dreams more than women. The simple reason for this: is the high volume of testosterone hormone.

12. So, you see why men should also practice chastity. They can only practice chastity if women are unwilling to give sex - sex cannot happen without women's consent, ràpe is a rare exception.

There's no way a man can engage in constant sex and be productive. No way! Great men/scientists in history either abstained from women completely or for a long time. Ditto for women, however, the feminine psyche has a larger predisposition towards children and family, unlike men who just use sex as a way of relaxation from work.

13. Any culture that celebrates nudity and promiscuity is less rational and productive. They don't do well.

14. You would have thought that many Muslim nations would have been doing fine because females' promiscuousness is reduced; it's not the case because their men are allowed to engage with more than 1 woman. Refer to 12 above.

And if you observe well in these nations, the rate of violence is high because mate distribution is unequal - young men don't have women because many of the women are wives to the high-status men. Where do you hear of terrorism most? Instinctually, women are the cause.

15. At the end of the day, promiscuity doesn't favor men and women. Women suffer more because the effect takes a negative turn on their emotions and psychology. And they only discover this when they get older and are rejected by most men. Refer to 8 above.

Men on the other hand will not be productive, however, once they discover their level in the hierarchy and are at the bottom, they can make amend. But TIME is a factor that waits for no man.

16. Men are not getting married these days because females' promiscuity is without restraints and boundaries. Commitment to modern-day women is like sowing fertile seeds on rocky grounds. Women are getting more independent and arrogant, so they represent a bad mating choice. The corollary effect is that there is an increased rate of effeminate and weak men. Therefore, there can be no interlocking in love and holy matrimony.

17. To restore order, family law must be reviewed. Men must know that promiscuity limits their growth. Women must know that promiscuity truly damages them. No excuse whatsoever. Only the wise among them will survive this harsh reality.

Men should take over leadership and authority and women as convenient companions making the best use of themselves and time.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
1. Such is life for you: some have it good from birth till death; others have it good at the middle, and the rest remain in perpetual penury.

2. It is why all religions hope and await judgment day and after that day, a life of peace, harmony, and comfort in eternity is guaranteed.

3. Life is full of ups and downs, sometimes we are victims of problems we never caused while at other times we are victims of our problems because of our mistakes or wrong strategies.

4. There is simply nothing you can do about it. This is life, welcome to life. We are in a world where incentives rules: if I'm not going to gain, ain't doing it and if I'm to lose, why should I even bother?

5. No matter how much you preach good, evil will persists in a world where morality, amorality, and immorality are in a close-a-door caucus meeting in the hearts of every man that breathes.

Don't be deceived, your pastor or imam will play whatever card that will give him more incentives or at least minimize his loss even if it means playing the immoral card. Those that claim explicit morality, and virtue signallers are criminals behind the scenes.

6. Evil continues to persist because good always finds a way to adjust and keep on moving. These are the C's students in colleges, they just want to pass and get promoted, unlike the A's students who want to binge on every higher score.

7. Good people have never for once, thought of leveraging the violence, ruthlessness, and cunning of evil to manifest good in a larger dimension. They are the nice men and nice women, the sheep-like religious adherents that get both faces messed up with hard slaps.

8. Evil persists because it is leveraging on a potent tool that is required by good. Woke and progressive cultures are successful because of this simple fact. The more violent and ruthless win. Life doesn't care about who is good or bad, it is those in charge that matter. Going further, Jesus Christ said, "the children of the world are wiser than the children of light".

That's why in the Christian circle, "the violent take it by force" if the kingdom of God - a symbol of peace, hope, prosperity, and unity suffers evil violence.

9. Under the clouds of the earth, we are under the control of factors beyond our control. Life doesn't care about your determination and ambitions; if they don't meander in the same pathway as life, you'll end up despondent, and you my friend is at this junction.

10. Probably, you have not done evil or involve in a dirty crime, but here you are getting stripped of every hope and ambition you once had. My friend, welcome to life, things don't always go as planned. Refer to 9 above.

11. Don't launch into complaints, murmuring, and lamentations because if you do, you are adding more tinctures of pains to your predicaments. Evil and good will continue to persist. What you need to do is to maneuver across the hurdles life has presented along your paths. Refer to 5 and 9 above.

12. You and I are on death ground. We are facing a wall, and it's impossible to pass through. This is the place life has brought us and it is high time we turn our backs to the wall and fight the war that has been chasing us and that we've been postponing through hope, faith, and prayer. Remember: "the violent take it by force". Refer to 8 above.

13. We are not only victims of our mistakes but our resolutions, our big dreams, and ambitions; these are important, but in life, you plan with reality creating a chance for flexibility and adaptability. "Power of positive thinking or think big" will not help you when life is going left and you are going right. Things don't go that way.

14. You can always achieve anything you want to achieve in life, but think about reality first and the newer tools you'll use in achieving it when things don't go as planned. Nothing is impossible, however, time, chance, knowledge, energy, life, and patience happen to them all. Refer to 13 above.

15. Setting unnecessary resolutions without thinking about the style and shape every dawn will take is a contribution to our depression when we don't meet up.

We all want to get married, own a house, a large farm, 5 wives and 30 grandchildren by age 70 but neglected the political, environmental, and socioeconomic terrain - these are what matter, not our hopes or ambitions.

It dawns on us all as life begins to take several kicks and blows on us. And by that time, we are weak and anxious.

16. At the end of the day, you'll come to ask yourself: do this life worth all these struggles?

Some will experience the pain and seek nihilism while others will become philanthropic. It all depends on the angle you are viewing things from.

However, if life doesn't have something good for you even though it is minute, it would not have produced you. You are either here to create beauty or enjoy the beauty or pass beauty. Life my friend is beautiful once you understand the nature of things and their mechanism.

17. You are perishing because you lack knowledge, but once you seek that specific knowledge you will experience prosperity in a crescendo.

18. Cut down on your ego. Since ego hasn't helped you, it is time to cut down on it so that you'll not be blinded by it and not do things that are capable of bringing you prosperity and beauty.

19. Don't look for encouragement, my friend. Look for quality knowledge.

20. No longer waste time on things and people that matter less. Look for good connections. Seek and you shall find.

21. Don't relent. Sow here and there, you don't know which will bear good fruits.

22. Swing into action. This war will not kill you. You will come out as a winner only if you will fight.

Run, run, run my friend. See you on the last lap.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
1. During IT in our undergraduate studies some years ago when conditions of work were stupid and tough but were forced to do it, a beautiful female friend of mine, Ebere, during chit chats when complaining about the duties we met to finish, said something - "Life is simple but we try to make it complicated".

2. I don't have big dreams. I don't have ambiguous ambitions. All I desire in life is to enjoy life's beauty, interact with good people and pass quality and beauty to all. If the resultant effect becomes something big that's a plus.

3. Only those not aware of DEATH are the people rollercoastering along the four cardinal points of the earth like restless doe in their estrus cycle.

4. It is good to have all the luxuries in life and enjoy them because they do make life more easier and comfortable. But in cases when they are not available, we must devise other means in achieving our peace and happiness. However, it is funny that we all think of "having multiple streams of income" but fail to think about how to "achieve multiple streams of peace" so that in case one fails, there is another to act as a substitute.

5. Humans are competitive beings. Competition is rooted in our psyche because it shows us what we lack and how we must do better. Life is survival of the strongest, if you don't have all it takes to fight and survive, you'll not pass your genes successfully.

6. Most people, rather than observe their situations and try to make them better, become anxious when they are lacking or in the worst case become envious and pathological. This always happens when you don't know your strength and territory before going to battle.

7. Social media is not even helping matters; it is so prevalent that the majority are blinded by it and thereby unable to separate chaffs from wheat - the more you look, the less you see.

8. We are even in a society that doesn't reward good, and ignores or pays lip service to evil-doers; incentives are all that matter. Nothing will work well in such a society.

9. It is good to have big dreams. Having bigger ambitions is fine. Having intentions to make exploits makes sense. Aiming for the Guinness book of records is a good plan. But what guarantees such a landmark: walking with reality!

10. We all are in a race and struggling to achieve a better life. It is not always greener on the other side of the fence, but we can all make our side of the fence greener when we think and act according to reality.

11. May time and chance favor us. May we not lose our health, life, and energy.

Blackoven:
Great discourse sir @CaveAdullam, this is priceless!

A little diversion requiring your perspective:

Knowing that bulk of women scary this days and (worthless) sex is everywhere. What advise will you give a young man in his mid-20s whose just starting life and finding his footing trying to secure capital to delve into business (through jobs here and there).

Is it ideal to postpone marriage for a few years (age 29-34). Knowing that the economy is very harsh and one needs to build multiple streams of income.

Is it also sensible to eschew postgraduate education (MSc and MBA) and solely focus on securing getting a better job and looking for other ways to generate capital. (Japa is out of the equation for now—funds ish).

OR can postgraduate be combines with a job, business, (and marriage)?

Thanks sir.
I read posts from the posters below, (Guest/Ghostmode). I'll appreciate your contributions: @Messrs Franchasofficia, Emmaodet, Martinez39s, and Tensazangetsu20.

Thanks.

Calibrator:
CaveAdullam posts dey always gbemi debe

CaveAdullam:
1. During IT in our undergraduate studies some years ago when conditions of work were stupid and tough but were forced to do it, a beautiful female friend of mine, Ebere, during chit chats when complaining about the duties we met to finish, said something - "Life is simple but we try to make it complicated".

2. I don't have big dreams. I don't have ambiguous ambitions. All I desire in life is to enjoy life's beauty, interact with good people and pass quality and beauty to all. If the resultant effect becomes something big that's a plus.

3. Only those not aware of DEATH are the people rollercoastering along the four cardinal points of the earth like a restless doe in their estrus cycle.

4. It is good to have all the luxuries in life and enjoy them because they do make life more easier and comfortable. But in cases when they are not available, we must devise other means in achieving our peace and happiness. However, it is funny that we all think of "having multiple streams of income" but fail to think about how to "achieve multiple streams of peace" so that in case one fails, there is another to act as a substitute.

5. Humans are competitive beings. Competition is rooted in our psyche because it shows us what we lack and how we must do better. Life is survival of the strongest, if you don't have all it takes to fight and survive, you'll not pass your genes successfully.

6. Most people, rather than observe their situations and try to make them better, become anxious when they are lacking or in the worst case become envious and pathological. This always happens when you don't know your strength and territory before going to battle.

7. Social media is not even helping matters; it is so prevalent that the majority are blinded by it and thereby unable to separate chaffs from wheat - the more you look, the less you see.

8. We are even in a society that doesn't reward good, and ignores or pays lip service to evil-doers; incentives are all that matter. Nothing will work well in such a society.

9. It is good to have big dreams. Having bigger ambitions is fine. Having intentions to make exploits makes sense. Aiming for the Guinness book of records is a good plan. But what guarantees such a landmark: walking with reality!

10. We all are in a race and struggling to achieve a better life. It is not always greener on the other side of the fence, but we can all make our side of the fence greener when we think and act according to reality.

11. May time and chance favor us. May we not lose our health, life, and energy.

Thank you for your kind words. I do appreciate it. Promise to improve and do better.

PS: No need to lend you any knowledge my boss, fresher ones keep churning out every dawn of the day. You just need to sit down, relax, observe and sniff it.

Bekermann:
Ah! Omo! This is a legendary piece. Pls permit me to put this on my WhatsApp status boss...

Smartb0y:
For all those so called guys that like to think their girlfriends are a rare gem because she's not billing them,just know that someone somewhere is being billed by her.
She's using you for dick and validation while she uses other men for financial freedom.

Wake up

iamphenomenal:
Like I told my guy, it is a school that is corrupting and destroying youths, especially girls. Most yahoo boys and hook-up girls are students

Meanwhile, parents spend their hard-earned money and sweat sending children to school to better their lives, not knowing that the reverse is the case
If parents could watch videos of what their daughters (beloved princesses) are doing in school, they might kill her or commit suicide

The reason it seemed we had more decent girls in the past generations is that female education was not much priority

Education is doing more harm than good

Hedgefunds:
My Oga , You Finish Work here. Kilode ...borrow me small knowledge Aberg .

CaveAdullam:
1. Such is life for you: some have it good from birth till death; others have it good at the middle, and the rest remain in perpetual penury.

2. It is why all religions hope and await judgment day and after that day, a life of peace, harmony, and comfort in eternity is guaranteed.

3. Life is full of ups and downs, sometimes we are victims of problems we never caused while at other times we are victims of our problems because of our mistakes or wrong strategies.

4. There is simply nothing you can do about it. This is life, welcome to life. We are in a world where incentives rules: if I'm not going to gain, ain't doing it and if I'm to lose, why should I even bother?

5. No matter how much you preach good, evil will persists in a world where morality, amorality, and immorality are in a close-a-door caucus meeting in the hearts of every man that breathes.

Don't be deceived, your pastor or imam will play whatever card that will give him more incentives or at least minimize his loss even if it means playing the immoral card. Those that claim explicit morality, and virtue signallers are criminals behind the scenes.

6. Evil continues to persist because good always finds a way to adjust and keep on moving. These are the C's students in colleges, they just want to pass and get promoted, unlike the A's students who want to binge on every higher score.

7. Good people have never for once, thought of leveraging the violence, ruthlessness, and cunning of evil to manifest good in a larger dimension. They are the nice men and nice women, the sheep-like religious adherents that get both faces messed up with hard slaps.

8. Evil persists because it is leveraging on a potent tool that is required by good. Woke and progressive cultures are successful because of this simple fact. The more violent and ruthless win. Life doesn't care about who is good or bad, it is those in charge that matter. Going further, Jesus Christ said, "the children of the world are wiser than the children of light".

That's why in the Christian circle, "the violent take it by force" if the kingdom of God - a symbol of peace, hope, prosperity, and unity suffers evil violence.

9. Under the clouds of the earth, we are under the control of factors beyond our control. Life doesn't care about your determination and ambitions; if they don't meander in the same pathway as life, you'll end up despondent, and you my friend is at this junction.

10. Probably, you have not done evil or involve in a dirty crime, but here you are getting stripped of every hope and ambition you once had. My friend, welcome to life, things don't always go as planned. Refer to 9 above.

11. Don't launch into complaints, murmuring, and lamentations because if you do, you are adding more tinctures of pains to your predicaments. Evil and good will continue to persist. What you need to do is to maneuver across the hurdles life has presented along your paths. Refer to 5 and 9 above.

12. You and I are on death ground. We are facing a wall, and it's impossible to pass through. This is the place life has brought us and it is high time we turn our backs to the wall and fight the war that has been chasing us and that we've been postponing through hope, faith, and prayer. Remember: "the violent take it by force". Refer to 8 above.

13. We are not only victims of our mistakes but our resolutions, our big dreams, and ambitions; these are important, but in life, you plan with reality creating a chance for flexibility and adaptability. "Power of positive thinking or think big" will not help you when life is going left and you are going right. Things don't go that way.

14. You can always achieve anything you want to achieve in life, but think about reality first and the newer tools you'll use in achieving it when things don't go as planned. Nothing is impossible, however, time, chance, knowledge, energy, life, and patience happen to them all. Refer to 13 above.

15. Setting unnecessary resolutions without thinking about the style and shape every dawn will take is a contribution to our depression when we don't meet up.

We all want to get married, own a house, a large farm, 5 wives and 30 grandchildren by age 70 but neglected the political, environmental, and socioeconomic terrain - these are what matter, not our hopes or ambitions.

It dawns on us all as life begins to take several kicks and blows on us. And by that time, we are weak and anxious.

16. At the end of the day, you'll come to ask yourself: do this life worth all these struggles?

Some will experience the pain and seek nihilism while others will become philanthropic. It all depends on the angle you are viewing things from.

However, if life doesn't have something good for you even though it is minute, it would not have produced you. You are either here to create beauty or enjoy the beauty or pass beauty. Life my friend is beautiful once you understand the nature of things and their mechanism.

17. You are perishing because you lack knowledge, but once you seek that specific knowledge you will experience prosperity in a crescendo.

18. Cut down on your ego. Since ego hasn't helped you, it is time to cut down on it so that you'll not be blinded by it and not do things that are capable of bringing you prosperity and beauty.

19. Don't look for encouragement, my friend. Look for quality knowledge.

20. No longer waste time on things and people that matter less. Look for good connections. Seek and you shall find.

21. Don't relent. Sow here and there, you don't know which will bear good fruits.

22. Swing into action. This war will not kill you. You will come out as a winner only if you will fight.

Run, run, run my friend. See you on the last lap.

Thanks.

virginboy1:
Number 9, very important. Thanks for always sharing...You are a great guy

emmaodet:
This obsessive need to be employed is one of the relics of colonialism. In the past, most Nigerians used to be tradesmen, and employment is actually freelancing, that guaranteed workers freedom and the right to negotiate equally. For example, calling Mr. Alabi to come to clear your farm and pay him off, or the drummer to play at your event. Especially with the Igbos, you can see it through their names. Nnaji means ''father of yam'', Nwosu means the child of a herbalist'', and so forth. From the surname, one can tell the economical pattern of the family. -
You are right. Even me, my surname which i used for my moniker ''ode'' means a hunter. My grandfather was a hunter and farmer. Ogun means God of Iron, so ogunsola/ogunwande etc are from the Ogun's family. Oba is king, Ade is crown so anybody bearing Obasanjo/Adebanjo etc is from the royal family and has opportunity of becoming king.
Names were identities then not now that everyone is forming posh and foreign with Kelvins, Jessicas were you start struggling to identify the country they came from not to talk of region or tribe.

Sometimes I wonder what the point of schooling is if it can't really open the student's eyes, and their mind and make them think and see the realities right in front of them. School now is becoming a joke - It has become the breeding ground for prostitution, cultism etc instead of a place of enlightment and innovation.

If you pick random students in either uni or high school, you will observe that most of their parents are blue-collar workers. They didn't go to school, but they have trade and will train their kids through it and still even feed the graduate while he is busy waiting for a job. How can you explain that? An illiterate bankrolling a so-called literate - smiles. A woman close to me who buy and sell locust beans in bulk from north used the business to build her house, train her 3 kids through university but the children are out now working in a hotel in my place for 30k per month. When i questioned her why the kids can not follow her foot step and trade, she said they claim not to be interested. Can you imagine not interested in what trained them? We lack continuity in Africa.
Our parents and grandparents always die with their trades, knowledge and experiences. My grandfather who was a cocoa farmer with many plantations died last year and i can categorically tell you that he was richer than all his 7 graduate/employed children. What a shame for being educated.
There are so many LEGALLY rich illiterates in Nigeria than educated folks and that is shameful.