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Aunt Asa sends chills down their spines. The truth was talking to these sets of corrupt leaders in black. They couldn't deny it. They couldn't withstand it. I know their minds and hearts were seething with hate and disgust.

Even though they will never change except through a tsunami of push-back by the masses, it is good they hear the truth in its raw bedroom voice. They don't read the news, but the truth always has a way of finding you when it wants to. They came for enjoyment but will leave with pounding hearts, hearts filled with genuine guilt for their evils and crimes.

Asa always doing the Lord's work. A good embodiment for the passage of this truth at a time like this.

May Asa live long. She may not witness the change. And same as many of us. But at least, it has been recorded on air that she did her best in singing truth to the ears of her oppressors.

Hope you all now see the efficacy of good music. Quality always trumps nonsensical quantities of chunks in whatever fashion.

Asa is good!

DAY 200, REDPILL 2022.

LINK: https://www.nairaland.com/7233715/drug-ruining-relationship#114837728

CaveAdullam:
1. Advise within and outside the intersexual dynamics (sexual relationship) always differs.

2. When it comes to sexual relationships women are blunt, smart, fast, and straightforward. They don't care if you are poor and broke. Or, a pedophile. Or, a rehab patient. In as much they are not getting what they want from you at the moment, they discard you. If you are not stable, they discard you. If you are not what they expect you to be, they don't blink their eyes twice, they discard you and fly away.

This is the reality. It is how women behave in sexual relationships. They won't come to your rescue or show great sympathy.

3. So, why should you care as a man? Why should you put yourself in a dilemma when it comes to women and their problems? Why should you bother yourself about the way she decides to live her life or the predicaments she's facing?

4. Men have that evolutionary instinct to help and rescue those that are weaker. Being the stronger sex with larger bones and muscles indicates dominance and protectiveness. Men protect women, children, and their territory. This is understandable from a biological point of view.

5. However, do these women worth it? Time and again, women have proven to be ingrates. They don't appreciate it. Even if they do, they are so grudgingly and quick about it. What you have done for them doesn't stay in their memory for long because they are far too emotional. They don't reciprocate. Your kindness aside from charity to them is a waste!

To clarify your mind properly there is a place called friendzone. Go there and see for yourself and you will understand better.

6. If what you are providing is not tangible and loud, forget it, you will constantly be denigrated. Ditto if you have challenges in providing.

7. Men are among ingrates. But they are far more appreciative than women. Better to help men than help women. It is gambling to help ingrates when they are in dire need, but a good stake is on men.

Help women through men connected to them.

You want to help a wife, help her husband. A girlfriend, help her boyfriend. Why? Because it is men's instinctual nature to help their own - women and kids. If you help a man, you have helped women and other men too.

8. If you deprive men of help, women will look for it themselves, and since they are independent in the search for help, they get consumed in the process.

The proliferation and avalanche of hook-up culture, prostitution, sexual depravity, and sexual liberation of women in search of money and a better life is a result of fathers, husbands, brothers, and uncles being deprived of help coupled with the poor economic and political situation on the ground.

When men are deprived of help, hope, and authority, everyone suffers. Women and children hardly passed this stage successfully. And even if they do, it is with painful and unnecessary scars.

Sorry, I digress.

9. This is the intersexual dynamics, and to be blunt, sincere, and truthful, you need to dump her. You cannot manage her long-term especially if she decides to veer off towards other drugs that can remedy her ailment. What you're experiencing now is but a trailer; the real movie has not started yet.

10. Dear friend, dump her and have peace of mind. That's what she will do if the case was reversed.

Ok.

What if she's my sister, mother, niece, cousin, or friend?

11. When adults decide to perform any action or behavior, it is difficult to change their minds especially if that behavior or action appeals to their senses and is deeply rooted.

Adults only change of their own volition with time or when they suffer greater harm or consequences. They can change too if there is a quid pro quo of incentives.

12. She must be shown the consequences of her actions through a medical report, maybe it will help her change her mind. She needs to know what's going on inside of her body.

13. The cause of her insomnia must be traced to the root and apprehended.

14. Visit a psychiatrist or neuroscientist for further and lasting help.

15. Search for an alternative help that's less or not harmful.

16. Tell her to choose between her pills and her relationship. If she fails, at least you know you have done your best and can end the relationship on a good note.

Thanks.

Authority: Don't be a parachute that's only useful when people are dying.

1. Advise within and outside the intersexual dynamics (sexual relationship) always differs.

2. When it comes to sexual relationships women are blunt, smart, fast, and straightforward. They don't care if you are poor and broke. Or, a pedophile. Or, a rehab patient. In as much they are not getting what they want from you at the moment, they discard you. If you are not stable, they discard you. If you are not what they expect you to be, they don't blink their eyes twice, they discard you and fly away.

This is the reality. It is how women behave in sexual relationships. They won't come to your rescue or show great sympathy.

3. So, why should you care as a man? Why should you put yourself in a dilemma when it comes to women and their problems? Why should you bother yourself about the way she decides to live her life or the predicaments she's facing?

4. Men have that evolutionary instinct to help and rescue those that are weaker. Being the stronger sex with larger bones and muscles indicates dominance and protectiveness. Men protect women, children, and their territory. This is understandable from a biological point of view.

5. However, do these women worth it? Time and again, women have proven to be ingrates. They don't appreciate it. Even if they do, they are so grudgingly and quick about it. What you have done for them doesn't stay in their memory for long because they are far too emotional. They don't reciprocate. Your kindness aside from charity to them is a waste!

To clarify your mind properly there is a place called friendzone. Go there and see for yourself and you will understand better.

6. If what you are providing is not tangible and loud, forget it, you will constantly be denigrated. Ditto if you have challenges in providing.

7. Men are among ingrates. But they are far more appreciative than women. Better to help men than help women. It is gambling to help ingrates when they are in dire need, but a good stake is on men.

Help women through men connected to them.

You want to help a wife, help her husband. A girlfriend, help her boyfriend. Why? Because it is men's instinctual nature to help their own - women and kids. If you help a man, you have helped women and other men too.

8. If you deprive men of help, women will look for it themselves, and since they are independent in the search for help, they get consumed in the process.

The proliferation and avalanche of hook-up culture, prostitution, sexual depravity, and sexual liberation of women in search of money and a better life is a result of fathers, husbands, brothers, and uncles being deprived of help coupled with the poor economic and political situation on the ground.

When men are deprived of help, hope, and authority, everyone suffers. Women and children hardly passed this stage successfully. And even if they do, it is with painful and unnecessary scars.

Sorry, I digress.

9. This is the intersexual dynamics, and to be blunt, sincere, and truthful, you need to dump her. You cannot manage her long-term especially if she decides to veer off towards other drugs that can remedy her ailment. What you're experiencing now is but a trailer; the real movie has not started yet.

10. Dear friend, dump her and have peace of mind. That's what she will do if the case was reversed.

Ok.

What if she's my sister, mother, niece, cousin, or friend?

11. When adults decide to perform any action or behavior, it is difficult to change their minds especially if that behavior or action appeals to their senses and is deeply rooted.

Adults only change of their own volition with time or when they suffer greater harm or consequences. They can change too if there is a quid pro quo of incentives.

12. She must be shown the consequences of her actions through a medical report, maybe it will help her change her mind. She needs to know what's going on inside of her body.

13. The cause of her insomnia must be traced to the root and apprehended.

14. Visit a psychiatrist or neuroscientist for further and lasting help.

15. Search for an alternative help that's less or not harmful.

16. Tell her to choose between her pills and her relationship. If she fails, at least you know you have done your best and can end the relationship on a good note.

Thanks.

MITCHELL96:
Oh, sorry about that, I'm also in your shoes, Twitter has deactivated over 7 accounts I created since joining the app, so I gave up on creating new ones because I ran out of emails to use.

But, I was ready to create a new one today just because of you and to engage in your tweets.

About the Facebook page and YouTube channel, please if you haven't created any yet, please do and inform me so I can follow up.

Nairaland doesnt send notifications that CaveAdullam just posted and stuffs like that, so I might miss Lot from you.

No qualms man.

But do keep up with nairaland "following" to get notifications on new posts.

Thanks.

MITCHELL96:
You're Welcome Buddy, And Do Have A Nice Day Too.

And please what's your Twitter handle if you don't mind?

Or mail me your handle if it's confidential to you please

Lol, just showed my sister some of your comments on here and she said you're a smartass

The Twitter algorithm has not been fair to my tweets. It is like trying to store water in a basket; it doesn't get to my audience. Hence, I reluctantly comment or tweet. Many vital tweets just go down the drain.

However, I'm aiming to start something on Facebook, and if possible Youtube.

Nairaland has always been my love as engagements have been fair.

Anyway, I will keep you posted when any hot soup drops.

Thanks once more.

Hedgefunds:
Seconded I will dedicate next quarter to reading all his posts again. The guy is a genius @CaveAdullam

Thanks for this, and thanks for the last-time gift. I do appreciate all.

Remember, nothing is set in stone, as we keep learning, relearning, and learning which is a refining process, we will get better as each day passes.

Straight forward but versatile.

Promise to serve better.

Have a nice day.

MITCHELL96:
Damn!

I remember praising you some time ago, the comment you made under a thread was amazing and that was the reason I got to know you and started following you

Your opinion(s) on posts keeps mesmerising me, they're always top notch.

Bro, You're genius,! Big time Genius!
You always have a solution for problems regardless of what it is, your brain is as sharp as a war sword! Damn!

I hope to keep seeing and learning more from you even outside Nairaland.

Only me, all these laudations.

I'm happy that in my unlearning, relearning, and learning, you still found some words profitable to you.

Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it.

And I promise to do better. More blunt. Unappealing. But refining.

Lastly, I will love to learn from you too. No man is an island of anything.

Have a nice day.

pegix:
nice and brilliant piece
God bless you man

Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it.

Ensure you learn a skill. It is paramount. No pun intended.

Have a nice day.

Kayouzka:
Meticulously said. My own opinion of life; is that try to escape the rat race, try to have the necessities of life, and just focus on doing more of what makes you happy irrespective of whatever people say remember a short life doing what you enjoy is better than a long life doing what you hate.

Well said. I concur.

1. To try to escape the rat race is a rat race itself. Even if you escape the marathon rat race run by everyone, you'll still enter a race run by elites. Or a race that involves maintaining peace of mind. Life is an unending race. The only true escape or rest is death.

2. Humans have an insatiable void that must constantly be fed. You are hungry, you run the race to get food; and when you eventually get the food you want to store plenty of it so that you won't race for food again. Once you have gathered plenty you want to secure it. Once you have secured it you want to search for people you'll love to share with...the hole is infinite.

Contentment is a temporal phase. True contentment is only achievable through death.

3. Though I concur with your submission, I AM NOT A FAN OF DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. Happiness is subjective, it is based on bias, sentiments, and feelings. With that line of thought, it will be hypocritical to condemn evildoers, because doing evil makes them happy.

Corruption makes some people happy. Oppression makes some people happy. Murder makes some people happy. Stealing makes some people happy. Evil in whatever style, font, and color makes some people happy.

4. You can't condemn the people above for their crimes because it is what makes them happy. And since happiness is subjective, you can't compel anyone to love what you love or to follow what makes you happy.

5. Communal strength grows when individuals forsake their sentiments and pursue a common long-lasting goal. This is how civilization grows. If the military arm and security arm of government should choose what makes them happy, we all would have been dead by now.

6. Civilization is built by the hands of men who see a better future that they will not participate in, but still, break their backs through sweat and blood to make that future attainable for generations unborn.

If great icons like Michael Faraday, Isaac Newton, Nikola Tesla, Martin Luther King Jr., Nelson Mandela, Abraham Lincoln, Albert Einstein, etc. decided to do what makes them happy, probably, we wouldn't have reached this stage.

But you may say the actions of these people made them happy as they were passionate about their professions. But you must also consider that these actions or professions served the whole population. It is not even easy demonstrating their feats. That's why they are few compared to the general population.

7. Individuals desire some specific things for themselves, everyone doesn't want the same thing and it is fine. But in our pursuit of individual gratification, we must not forget the communal bond we share and civilization growth. Because once we fail to, we bounce back to chaos again.

8. Hence, I AM A FAN OF PURSUE TRUTH AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT EVEN THOUGH IT GOES AGAINST YOUR FEELINGS.

Once you submit yourself to truth, wisdom, knowledge, and understanding, you can then know what happiness and peace of mind entail. It is a transcendent life that's void of useless guilt, calculating, and boldness. It is built to understand human nature, actions, and behaviors and how to counter it. Because truth be told evil can't be eradicated. But everyone must be built to fight it in whatever manner they appear - oppressors, manipulators, predators, and dictators.

This is how you will enjoy your life even though it is short.

9. But if we continue to find enjoyment in what makes us happy and hedonism, we shouldn't complain about the evils of others because that's what makes them happy too.

Thanks.

1. It takes colleagues of high machiavellian tactics to pull office romance effectively. They are but few. Others lacking in this quality always end up messing things up for themselves and the organization. Ergo, it is advisable to desist from it. It doesn't end well most times.

2. You don't need to be bothered about how other men peacock around your girlfriend. She is old enough to set her boundaries and how she runs her affairs. It is a simple something.

3. Rather than bother about what your girlfriend is doing with her life, channel that energy to better your life.

You'll truly have total authority and leadership over her when you take her for a wife. So, this lovey-dovey drama is transient.

4. She reported her colleague to you today which is fine. But do you trust her enough not fvck him when the right time and place becomes convenient? Will she report the affairs she's having with other men clandestine?

5. You men just like overworking yourself over women that don't truly care about your existence from within. Y'all fall for the drama, pretence, and facades.

6. Focus on your life man. Your girlfriend is mature enough to handle that situation.

I just hope "las las" everything don't turn red in your eyes.

Thanks.

Martinez39s, it is high time you take a break from sabbatical. Hope you are fine.

Ok.

stanluiz:
You are very realistic sir! God bless you.

Hope you are learning a skill. "Me sha" is learning.

Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it.

1. How far you will go in life is dependent on a melange of factors y'all don't seem to consider, take note of or blatantly choose to be oblivious.

2. Everyone just wants to think and grow rich, become a richer dad, and think big with some power of positive thinking. Alongside, determination, endurance, persistency, consistency, zealouness, and medium to long-term insomnia in the pursuit of your big dreams.
Wait. All these are vital in the race to success, they must be included in your toolbox. But some factors are the true determinant of success, and if these factors don't play in your favor, you may not win in the race of life - many don't win, and it is not their fault.

3. We have been blinded and romance by the survivorship bias: we see the few successful people and don't care about the majority that tried and failed. We always see the exceptions and do think we are the exceptions - those majority had the same thought too.

4. The most important factors:

A. Your country of birth.

B. Your genetics.

C. Your biology.

D. Your family background.

E. Your place of residence.

F. State of politics in your place of residence.

G. State of economics in your place of residence.

H. The information you are allowed to access.

I. The information you are not allowed to access.

J. The zeitgeist of your place of residence.

K. The legislature of your place of residence.

L. Your place of residence and foreign politics.

M. The existing religions circulating your place of residence.

O. Time and chance.

P. actions and behaviors of people.

Q. State of affair in your place of residence. Are there infrastructures? What about basic human necessities?

R. Luck (the most underrated of all).

5. As a teenager, where do you find yourself in reference to 4 above? Are you at an advantage or disadvantage? You must ask yourself these questions because suffering is imminent regardless of the path you choose to follow. And if any or all don't fall in your favor, you will struggle hard. I mean "extremely" hard and difficult.

Take for example: by birth, princes and princesses born into a Saudi monarchy family already have a sweet position in the affairs of life. Same with those born with golden and silver spoons.

6. Possibly there is hope. And that hope is that we don't want to be classified among the majority at the bottom. We must thrive. Refer to the 3 above.

7. The teenager must:

A. Learn how to think in order, read, write and speak.

B. Be able to express himself calmly and confidently.

C. Must see his name as a brand and must build it to have a reputation.

D. Must show respect for people. But first, must learn how to understand human behaviors and actions.

E. Must be humble but deadly. He must not allow himself to consistently fall prey to predators and manipulators.

F. Must be conservative even in hedonism. Pleasure is good for the body but will destroy the soul. (Not in the religious sense though).

G. He must learn how to calibrate his time based on his productive activities.

H. He must subject himself to learning. And must be willing to learn from all corners: light, dark, big, small, joyful, and sorrowful.

I. Learn sales and marketing.

J. If chance, and has the IQ and or patience to study in a higher academic institution, he must only consider the STEM field. Other courses of interest can be studied in the library. No need to waste time and money.

K. Surround himself with people better than him. Or in the spirit - the library.

L. Must sought for truth and information in all corners.

M. Must be willing to embrace suffering and gain from all his experiences and interactions.

N. Must endeavor to work and earn for himself no matter how little or demeaning. It is a process.

O. Must not be overwhelmed by ego. He must protect it but not let it ruin him.

P. Must be flexible and versatile especially towards the right direction.

8. If he can get a mentor, that's fine. If not, he must hold himself accountable and put all that he has learned into practice.

With his toolbox complete and with the hope that time and chance will favor him, that he will be lucky before he breaths his last, he will come out successful at the finish line.

Thanks.

MisterKennedy:
Nice write-up bro.

You took the words right off my mouth

You are not just intelligent but a man of great wisdom

1. Scientific research has it that: it is people that were born with a silver spoon that shows more empathy with people at the bottom of the hierarchy when compared to people that struggled their way to the top.

2. Once you become successful, you quickly forget your struggling days. The fact is that time and chance favored you. And of course, endurance, persistency, consistency, and determination are good catalysts to propel you. But if the right person and situation that will make it yield results are absent, your dream will never come true.

3. Many of us do underestimate luck. We always think it is because of our power and might. We judge people unfairly without first taking a tour into their predicament. Some persons are the genesis of their problem, but do you think any man plans to bring downfall to himself? Even criminals are in a struggle for existence.

4. When judging, we don't put the economic system, political system, infrastructures, family and cultural backgrounds, individual biology, and genetics into consideration. Location is not considered. The individual energy level is not considered.

5. The funniest or will I say stupid of them all is when these sets of go "learn a skill" people demand money from a $0 broke guy to buy a course and be able to learn a skill...it is funny. They hoard information as if when they die they are taking anything to the grave...they are stupid!

Sir/Ma, let me go continue with my 'learning a skill. Since Africa/Nigeria is under a spell, we must endeavor to break ourselves out. We'll keep trying.

Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it.

1. Sometimes when you all start announcing the term "learn a skill" I do wonder if you all think learning a skill is just as easy as the air you breathe.

2. You need to pay for an apprenticeship before learning any physical skill. Even as you are learning, you need to feed at least twice daily. You need to pay for transport. These are basic needs. But you all never consider this. In your minds, these youths are lazy, they don't have the power of positive thinking, and they can't think and grow rich.

3. Digital skills requires a laptop. At least one needs a 100k flat to consider buying a fairly used one. Where is the learner going to see this money? What about data, how is he going to sort himself out? What about electricity, how is he going to cope when it is glaring that the power supply in Nigeria is more epileptic than epilepsy.

4. We should not even talk about getting your first job or customer in a third-world nation... let's wait till you learn a skill.

5. It is so unfortunate that in a country like Nigeria, the only means of survival as it currently stands is through the internet either for a positive or negative purpose. We have not even considered the IQ of the Black nation, knowing fully well that their IQ is below average (85/100). Yes, you can beat it and succeed in science or computer science, but how many will be consistent, persistent, patient, and determined to overcome that phase. It's just like convincing a snail to reach the finish line in a race with hares, antelopes, and wild cats.

It is not easy to perform a job that is beyond your physical and intellectual ability. You must go the extra mile. But what's the guarantee?

6. What about the jobless and underemployed graduates? These sets of humans worked their lives in gaining a degree...or, do you all think spending 4 - 13 years in a higher academic institution is a joke?

7. It is so easy to say go learn a skill when you forgot to consider those who helped you behind the scene. During your go "learn a skill" seminar you never consider these people and the sheer luck that shone upon you. Or, do you think all humans have the same opportunity?

8. Learning a skill is not bad. Nigeria/Africa has left for the gutters, sinking and wallowing in bribery, corruption, poverty, inept leaders, insecurity, social vices, and other evils you can think of.

And as a result, learning a skill becomes paramount.

9. But what I want you all to take note of especially those motivational speakers that hide behind various forms of crime with a saintly look should know that before learning a skill, an individual basic needs must be met. They include food, shelter, clothing, security, electricity, good road, and data. If these things are not provided it will take grace for a few to scale through, and that's why many that started learning a skill never made it to the finish line. You all should give these people a break, please.

10. Before learning a skill you just need to undergo therapy because depression and suicidal thoughts are real.

11. Alright. Since we can't easily savage the situation on the ground, we will endeavor to learn a skill with the hope of success.

Stay aloof from crime. I know. I understand. But just try. We must survive.

Thanks.

olaolaking:
He has legal paper. He is not doing so bad but if he has what he has there here, he will enjoy life more.

Apart from infrastructures. Don't places are not really better

Apart from infrastructures, in what other ways is Nigeria/Africa better than Australia?

Except for courses that ultimately need their practitioners to be well qualified because of how delicate the field is, there is no need to waste money on any other courses. The establishment and proliferation of universities and departments/courses is a government scam. The scam is not to impart knowledge but to make a profit while dishing their students information with no tangible real-life application.

The awarded degree is to finally take your mind off this scam and make you feel more important than others who don't have it. And also make those who don't have to feel less and get motivated to go get one degree or more. It is a vicious cycle. Also take note that for them to employ you you need this certificate/degree and to climb higher, you need more degrees. It is an (unintended) control mechanism. You can't even use the knowledge they have impacted you to develop the state of affairs because you've been dwarfed by them, if you try to go against the norm they punish you and withdraw the degree.
Meanwhile, those that call the shot in every nation and economy rarely have any degree attached to their names.

The important courses include those relating to the medical field e .g medicine and surgery, pharmacy, nursing, dentistry, neuroscience, etc., and physical sciences - computer science, mathematics, and physics. Engineering is good. (To include Economics is a dire issue, but I will grudgingly do so).

For other courses, just enroll in a library, or buy books that cover whichever course of study you intend.

You may ask, are these books in the library not written by those who studied the related courses? Yes. It is true. But do you know the way they arrive at their results? Observation, field, and sample testing. That's why these fields require a lot of constant research as their results sometimes don't correlate. Every other jargon they used in trying to qualify their theory is a scam to distract and deceive you. They are not truly important.

After reading in the library, try and understand human behaviors (Evolutionarily courses are then important to study). Learn sales. Use the internet to your advantage. After all the goal is to make money, make it in a reasonable and non-time-consuming way.

If you can easily practice any course of study without formally studying it in school and with little to no impediment in real-life application, please, don't waste your money on that course. E.g. Agricultural science, marketing, political science, guidance and counseling, Literature, English, Mass communication, etc.

Many courses are useless wasting time studying them in the university. Save your time, health, money, and energy.

Thanks.

sajmark:
Women have reached the highest level of degradation ever recorded, a lot of women will weep for being single and lonely 30 years from now because men have lost interest in marriage.
If women degrade any more than this, they'll be walking stark naked on the streets and for the cost of a peanut, they'll bang you in public.

I read a comment from a guy who had his deek in a woman's mouth while she was talking to her fiance on phone the fiance asked what she was eating and she said noodles, he then said she is enjoying it and should remain for him... the said girl hissed after the call and put her phone on flight mode, she went on to bang the guy for several rounds.

Dear Kings,
This is the kind of woman we are dealing with today, focus on yourself, Have fun, and don't be in a haste to commit or marry.

1. To be sincere, vetting a woman, her being a virgin, chaste, feminine blah blah blah though important when it comes to sexual relationships will not suffice in modern-day marriage. The stated qualities are notable prerequisites but the leakage that has been created by social media, hookup culture, hedonism, debauchery, and hyper promiscuity will not allow "our beautiful young virgin damsel" to pay all necessary attention to her husband and children.

2. The only possible solution to make the marriage work is if the government seals it as the contract it ought to be and not just after divorce proceedings. If the government or any other delegated authority doesn't take complete custody of marriage it will continue to dive rocks.

3. If men are not recognized as the head of the home, the one with the rod and staff of power and authority, who must be submitted to and respected as a result of his love and leadership, marriage will not work.

Also, women must be harangued daily about their specific roles in the family. Laying them side by side with their husbands will always breed contempt.

4. Marriage(monogamy/polygamy) will continue to fail and only appeal to gold diggers and sexually thirsty beta men if the government keeps mute but wallow in the dividends of divorce. (But is it not the government/government allies that are working against the nuclear and extended family)?

5. For now, men intending to marry must be ultra cautious. Modern-day women are not like our grandmothers.

Hmmm.

Degrezhaa:
I can relate to this, but i was lucky, i was able to get close to my Dad before he died 2 weeks ago.
Feathers love and wisdom are not to be disregarded.

Accept my condolence man.

Degrezhaa:
I can relate to this, but i was lucky, i was able to get close to my Dad before he died 2 weeks ago.
Feathers love and wisdom are not to be disregarded.

Accept my condolences man.

We will make dad proud!

sajmark:
You're 100% right, I think the right word to describe the type of love I was talking about is ANOMALY.
The type that Reminderz was talking about on the other hand is the NORMAL and more common love we see day to day.
Hypergamy is always present in women but while hypergamy plays out faster in the NORMAL love, it plays out very slow in the ANOMALY love... Which you also touched on.

We're all unique, there's only one YOU in this world, So if a woman falls for a chain of YOUR characteristics rather than your affluence or status, hypergamy plays out very slow because it is easy to find a richer guy than you but very difficult to find a guy born with the exact chain of characteristics she fell for, talk more of the guy being better than you in that very chain of characteristics.
Since replacing you is now difficult, she will find herself SIMPin for you... which was what brought us to the matter.

I agree.

And there is more to this. (Can't collate every thoughts at the moment. Will get back later).

Thanks.

pillager:
Sad reality
Same resume different genders, issoright

1. Women know that their work can't easily match those of men in terms of competence, and labor intensity. And time difference too.

2. The constant harangue of feminists and the proliferation of feminist and social justice workers posts that need to be politically correct that especially on social media gaslighted women to think that they deserve equal pay as men even though their nature of work is in great disparity.

3. The post below may be either true or false. I'm not confident about many ideas and information shared online these days, many are to chase clouts or pollute one's cognitive process. However, here are few takes:

A. That patriarchy is oppression to women is a big lie.

B. That if patriarchy was oppressive and tyrannical, the poster would have been favored more in his male gender identity.

C. That the patriarchy and society consider women first before men.

D. That as a man, you must prove yourself in this current day and age.

E. That nobody cares about you as a man, you only have yourself to yourself and must work hard to cater for it.

5. Despite our pains and sorrows; challenges and bad lucks; woes and antagonists, rejection and sadness; neglect and reproach; darkness and storm, the MASCULINE keeps pushing and making waves everywhere.

The masculine though deemed grotesque is the perfect beauty everyone looks unto. It is the strength of nations. It is the hope of civilizations. The joy of family. The pillar of the earth. The cool Zephyr that brings comfort. He is what his enemies want to become no matter how envious of him.

How glorious and eminent to be a man. A gender with a penis blessed with testosterone. We may not reach our final destination but we won't relent. We will keep pushing and pushing and pushing. Our footprints must be inscribed on the sands of time and generations upon generations upon generations will never fail to applaud us for the show of strength and our contribution to every revival civilization experience no matter how tiny our contributions.

DAY 194, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be a man.

fattprince:
Not fair. You just didn't want to argue further, you know he's wrong. A girl chose me and even till now I still don't know why. She has a suitor that it was the guy's mum who introduced them and the guy disturbing her but still with me. It's only distance that is fucking us up. After not reaching out for like months and I feel it's ended bam she calls and then we talk again till the ghost mode cycle continues. I'm sure she wants to end it due to my indifferent attitude, but she just couldn't. She prefers to hope that one day we will come together. I ain't marrying though

1. To be frank, Sajmark and Reminderz are correct. The former based his claims on what's unseen (I don't want to use the term 'quality '. Let's use the term immaterial). While the latter based his claims on quantity/the material.

2. What is hypergamy? It means that women date men higher than them in whatever shape, style, color, and size. You may call yourself broke because you have $2 in your account. But a woman who has $0 in her account will still be attracted to you because you're richer than her. Are you broke? Yes. But will that stop hypergamy? No. Extrapolate this idea to other areas of life ( see some of these qualities below).

3. Following Sajmark, a woman can choose you based on your personality, intelligence, good physique, innocence, calmness, good looks, sarcastic attitude, discipline, morality, arrogance, dominance, confidence, courage, braveness, cockiness, comic nature, sonorous voice, good dress sense, etc.

4. One or all of these qualities form you and because you express them unconsciously you don't see them as anything...just the way it takes you to breath in and breath out effortlessly.

5. Remember hypergamy right? By nature, women are the weaker sex which makes them get attracted to dominant and confident men. You don't see these qualities as anything because they don't cost you anything, however, it coincides with women's evolutionary need. Here she chooses you based on the immaterial. The material becomes an added advantage. (ALPHA FVCKS BORDERS HERE).

6. Reminderz still focused on the qualities above on one side of his mind but qualifies them with the material - gifts, dates, money, etc.

7. Back to hypergamy. Women don't have that warrior ability to provide for themselves independently from dawn till dusk without a man or men coming to her rescue. They need this provision for themselves and children.

Women will leave you when you no longer provide for them their material needs. Here she chooses you because of the material. (BETA BUCKS BORDERS HERE).

8. Hypergamy is always intact anytime or day. Women's nature is natural - can only be worked with by both men and women but cannot be altered.

9. If you lose your immaterial qualities, her respect for you will plummet. Great alphas have been turned into simps (married men). Ditto if you lose your material qualities (simps and gold diggers).

10. By and large, hypergamy is not blind, it always sees something in you that's higher than hers.

11. It is genuine desire because you were just busy focusing on your business, upgrading and living your life oblivious to her existence and never drag and fought for her attention - but you were UPGRADING YOUR LIFE...and your life was much better than the majority of other men she comes across.

Thanks.

1. He knew you were replaceable, ergo was fast doing it.

2. Maybe you've gone astray several times and this current situation exploded the whole dish. He kind of waited patiently for all your wrongs to get to the summit before sacking you.

3. You didn't do well man. At least you w
Should have informed him. Perhaps, you were unable. But work ethics must be obeyed and followed, you signed for it.

But he should have still shown mercy because the current economic and political climate is evil, poor, and worse.

4. What next? Rally around your town and vicinity for any vacancy or work related to your field that can pay you salary. Hold the job for the main time as you strategize better plans for moving forward.

5. If you go seek your boss for mercy he may retain you. However, just know that his respect for you will drop down.

6. Don't fret. Be calm. This too shall pass away.

Thanks.

ubunja:
alpha, beta is as simple as......

Perhaps, this is strong advice FOR MEN from the horse's mouth.

Tell men a secret without telling men a secret.

Lasisieniola77:
This is so insightful

Thank you sir/ma. Promise to do better.