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yinkaOdutuyo:You've stated raw facts man. Leave that fine man alone. "Born again in the flesh ko, born again in the spirit ni". |
inumidun2010:"You Neva Shee sometin". Looool. I've noticed that good tutorship matters a lot in this journey. Many tutors in their videos always start as if everyone are like them or are professionals, yet, they do say their video is for beginners with zero knowledge. |
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ubunja:Screeeeeeee. Who said men/redpillers should all head towards marriage. Personally, I don't see myself getting married except by a cosmic or divine intervention. What we're discussing here is among promiscuity, monogamy and polygamy which has a better option for a man in this modern age? Staying single costs a lot not to talk of starting and raising a family. However, evolutionarily, raising a family - either through polygamy or monogamy - is a good and very wise move than staying single especially when the couples are in good union. Spinning plates is still the ideal for a man/redpiller. Have a nice day man. |
Smartb0y:Looool. The fact is that when you're the perpetrator, your actions always have a positive justification. But when you're the victim, the perpetrator is heartless. Rape and murder has a sound evolutionary explanation, but it will be stupid to run amok with it because it's my personal choice + the world is sinking. (You won't even wait for me to start quoting evolutionary biologists before you chop off my head when I r*pe or murder any of your relative). You're as a human is dependent on other humans, the only possible way you won't truly give a damn about how the world is going is when you're a god/God. As far as you are human, the actions of others will play on you whether you like or not. The personal choices you're even talking about will come to a halt when you enter the corridor of superior powers. Calm down man! The question is do you like the way the world is going? And what makes you even think you can enjoy your personal choices + interests in a sinking world? (The plane is about crashing and you're boasting of flying a first class. LoL). I'm definitely all for men putting themselves first. But there will always come a time in life when a man must make sacrifices or trade-offs in order to get to another height. We can't always have our cakes and eat it. This is not about morality or immorality or amorality. It is simple cause and effect. Thanks. |
ubunja:To burst your bubbles man, many of these researches and results came out from the laboratory of scientists and experts that are atheists and bear no affiliation with any religion. Redpill is based on facts and results, at least, most of it, and we can't throw away the results that don't contain with us, be it monogamy or polygamy. Just take a look above men's sexual interest, you'll find out polygamy is a bad option for him. Reproductive wise, it is a good option. But on a mental, social, economic, emotional, psychological, physical scale, he just set himself up. Humans are thinking humans you know, though sex is already a basic need, but sex is not what's running in hearts or will continue to run in our hearts 24/7. Thanks. |
JESHAL:You want to see how it will play out in the long run. Loooool. How's Africa + middle eastern nations where polygamy is the norm? Can you ever compare them to their western counterparts? This thing is bigger than sex, that's why it's a matrix. Nobody is stopping any man to have as many women as he wants, he must be clear about it from the onset and run along with it + be ready to bear every burdens that comes with it. What I'm bringing to you today is that every single thing you do, either good, bad or neutral will always have an effect. Monogamy has its pros and cons, same as promiscuity and polygamy. Keep all these alpha, beta, simp, phrases one side bro. On this table, after weighing all options, which is more better? That's what I'm talking about. Thanks. |
ubunja:LoL. Monogamy, polygamy and promiscuity has undergone scrutinized scientific study. It's not a matter of men's or women's interest. It is the results I'm sharing. It is the result that truly matters on a large scale and the effects of every of our actions. Personally, I don't believe in karma, an innocent man can suffer for the mistake or crime of another - life's reality. I'm neither against polygamy or male's promiscuity. But if you check the results, monogamy is a better option. We can't have our cake and eat it. Life is a trade-off, you must break eggs if you want to taste omelettes. We shouldn't only consider our sexual interests per se but the other domino effects, the unintended consequences. Pretending or playing blind will not stop reality. Or, the effects of every actions. Thanks. |
ubunja:That's where the different/erroneous interpretations comes in vogue. Except I've been the one missing some letters or words, I have not really come across a place where the Bible expressly singled out MONOGAMY. If a man has the resources + can be able to manage polygamy as a Christian, that's fine. The burden is on him and his understanding of the Bible. However, MONOGAMY is still a better game than POLYGAMY. If a man wishes to fúck as many women as he wants, he should defer monogamy until he's fully satisfied with his sexual escapades. Thanks. |
ubunja:I had same experience along this line during my service year. I can bet that this Christian girl was a virgin + she had a boyfriend/fiance back at home. For this girl, it is a guarantee that she could make a good wife + a good home as at that time. Man, I tempted this young lady for all I cared but she didn't give in. I was overly flirtatious with her, and there I discovered that these religious women has a dark side that can only be unleashed by a "bad guy". (I'm not a bad guy though, but I can't tuck in sexual innuendos and flirtings). She told me that if she wants to get married, she will love to get married to a guy like me, that she will not love a gentle guy or a pastor for a husband. That she can't be cool and her husband cool at the same time. It came to a particular day that we were discussing, she told me if not for her strong head + her religion + fear of God she would have bowed to my demands. This is the kind of religious woman I'm talking about. Good girl needs bad boy for commitment. Because she wants to exhume her dark side. Bad girl needs good boy for commitment. Because she wants to infer her dark side, so that she will not lose his commitment. Wow! |
ubunja:What you stated here is actually correct! Especially when we take men's sexuality into cognizance. Religious restrictions on sex actually hinders men sexual prowess. However, this restriction is an advantage when it comes to long term commitment to both sexes. Because promiscuity on the side of the woman makes bonding impossible and (same as the man). While promiscuity on the side of the man leads to less productivity. (Though, men are checking out of the sexual market place, which indicates low sex rate for men. But I don't really categorize it as a lack of sex per se, but that there are less quality women to commit to). The secular world is void of religious constraints, yet, same problem is still recognized there. Then, on the issue of money, men will not feel jilted when they keep sex/lust aside, as all money given must have good returns. Once they've this at the side of their minds they won't persuade women into their web with their money + resources, (however, these are what women are really attracted to). Be as it may, you made a valid point. Thanks. |
ubunja:I will not really concur that religion put a lot of power in the hands of women. Because if you really check it in the Bible you'll find out it was men calling all the shots from Genesis to Revelations, women's aspect was not really pronounced. Different religious interpretations + the government now in charge of marriage + (the advent of simps) are the real culprits. Add tolerance to this equation and you'll arrive at the current mess we are talking about. If we're to even follow the Christian doctrine unbiased, women don't have any power. Even Christian men are way more effeminate than their biblical counterparts. Many are just running with a baton they don't understand how come about + there's a mixture of religious doctrines and secularism. What women are truly taking advantage of in religion is the doctrine of forgiveness, and it is really a good leverage for them. And this same 'forgiveness' is the downfall of Christian men because in order to be seen as saints of God, they must recede into the feminine imperative. After all, they are practicing what their religion admonish them. Lest I forget, what about Rehab, Mary Magdalene and the adulterous woman? They were all forgiven. ubunja:Christian men will always misconstrue vetting as being judgmental..."judge not so that ye may not be judge..." Many even want to please their clergymen, so once this clergyman spot a repentant wh0re, they don't waste time in commiting, couple alongside the sexual deprivation they've experienced for a long time..."thank you o Lord, it is high time I cúm". The fear of missing out, family pressure, religious pressure etc always makes these men hasten into a long term relationship. Though, it will be impossible to achieve a singular religious interpretation, however, to the nemeses splayed across the sexual market place, religion will be an effective tool as a means of correction. Let religion be in full charge of marriage or let the state accords punishment as necessary, and these messes will greatly reduce. Thanks. |
ubunja:1. Religion is a perfect niche repentant wh0res, unrepentant wh0res and pretentious folks normally recede to when exhibiting their charcter. The essence is for you to loose guard because religious people are seen as people with better character than their secular counterparts. So, these pretentious folks mimicks or camouflage themselves with religion in order to wave off any suspicion. 2. Men normally fall for this when it comes to women because what they truly need in a woman is not her status, beauty or money - though these are important, but men used this religious insignia to judge a woman's chastity, modesty and submissiveness because these qualities ensures a better and lasting union. If she's obedient to God, definitely, she must be obedient to her husband and respect him. However, this is not the case when it comes to those with religious affectations - they are wolves in sheep clothings. 3. Because men are pragmatic they can hold on to moral codes and conduct, emotional beings like women lacks good sense of justice and will rationalize around it in order to come to their own satisfaction, rather than the truth in particular. This is because women are scared of the punishment that comes in failing with keeping up with their duties and responsibilities; accusations and punishment is like ostracism, and because they're weak by nature and can't fully fend and cater for themselves, they'll not keep up to fairness, justice and truth when they're being tested. 4. Women are more religious than men, yet are ruthless when it comes to sexual relationship. This is because of their love for mysteries, and religion carries that mysteries. Superstitions, folktales and myths only works true for those that are highly emotional, and women falls into this category. Women also love religion because they're able to decipher the part of it that best favours their nature and either throw away or subdue the other part that scares them. 5. These pretentious women always make a funny but cunning move. That is, they always like persuading their prey/spouse to their religious circle. This is done so that their victim can loose guard and not doubt them. And when their victim fails to comply, they accuse them of worldliness, which is another way of projecting their shortcomings to their unsuspecting victim and taking the position of a judge. 6. Since religion frowns against divorce and should be seek as a last option, these women always used it to compel the man to remain in that relationship. Now, the man wants to both keep to the tenets of his religion + want to make the relationship work, however, he's very unsatisfied about it. Remember that religion preaches tolerance, peace and forgiveness; welcome to the last machine in women's arsenal; "if God can forgive you and all of us our sins, why do you find it difficult to forgive me?" Tears is always accompanied with this phrase in order to demonstrate her genuineness and change of heart. And at the end, the man is tethered to her. 7. Women will never find it difficult to fvck a man they desire, religion or not. The religious ones that want to fvck will always run back to God for forgiveness after satisfying their hypergamous instinct - resources and/or quality genes. But on vetting women, this even is a dealbreaker, because if she's not faithful to her God who is more superior than her man, then she will definitely betray that man at any given opportunity. Like I'm about bringing myself to a stalemate here and now. Looool! 8. Religious women are still the best when it comes to a long term relationship, but herein, as a man, before you commit, you must not be swayed by her religious harangues. It is your duty to vet her within and without. Two or more of the most important factors to check before you commit to them: A. Age. If she is not close to the wall + faithful to her God, it indicates quality. B. Virginity. No need to be pretentious or nice when it comes to questioning a woman's sexuality, however, it must be done with intelligence and subtlety in order to get to the end point. If you're satisfied with her sexual history you can decide what to do from there. C. Materialism. Is she contented with what you give? Does she weigh you with other men? Does she keeps quiet when you squander your resources? Does she has a long term investment plan? Religion preaches contentment, but once you sense an unappreciative lifestyle + entitlement mentality, call off the relationship. 9. Like I said before, religion or not, women will fvck when they want to fvck and can choose to start a relationship from there. If she gravitates towards your sexual flirtations but yet still maintaining a good boundary with her God and you alone, not adding other men secretly to the equation, then, she's a good bet. This is very difficult I must say. Sigh! Without further ado: DAY 91, REDPILL 2022 Authority: Learn to separate chaffs from wheats. |
DAY 90, REDPILL 2022 At that moment women will be angry for your intransigence; for calling out their bullsh!ts and holding them accountable; and shunning all their nonsensical attitudes. Days later... Respect increase. Submissive increase. Attraction gets better. Why? Because you have sent a message to her subconsciousness that you can do with or without her and can even get better replacements. There's no way a woman will know this and toy with you. Hence, in intersexual dynamics, the man must always remain on the pedestal by building himself daily. Authority: Improve! PS: Zabiboy, Adambeatz et al. hope you dudes are fine? |
Smartb0y:"The love of money is the root of all evil". It's so pitiable that one can easily trust the layman in the street these days compared to experts, professionals, scientists etc. Science which ought to be a neutral ground in searching for what's correct, validating claims, invalidating claims has now become a pawn in the hands of men with rapacious big pot bellies. It takes years to test/come up with a vaccine, but all of a sudden, within months that Covid-19 became prevalent, more than 3 vaccines started flying around. The most infuriating of all is that you need to take 1,2,3 jabs in order to build resistance; all these happening in a space of 2 years. Is it the over inflated covid-19 cases and death rates by the MSM? The fear instilled in the minds of citizens to remain lockdown for months? Fvck it! Scientific research and experiments has turned sour. Figures are manipulated. Experts are threatened. Accurate results are not publish. Counter studies here and there. And these leaves the average citizen confused and mesmerized. Had it been the world was more competitive the way it was hundreds of years ago, like in the industrial and scientific era, where men were rattling their brains in different academic and non-academic circles to bring civilization, I don't think Western nations would have fell carelessly. Now, the world is just rotating around their asses, except for some few eastern nations like Russia and China, who are trying to either win or bring the West to a stalemate. Others are just busy binging on dopamine hits. This is a good time for all nations to tighten their seatbelts and think of the way forward, however, this is not the case especially in third world poverty nations/Africa. They keep lollygagging around the mess of the western world neglecting their good sides which is actually needed for growth and sustainability. The truth in life is that nobody cares about you, you must endeavor to build yourself and stay firm. Thanks. |
mdpeace:That feeling mhen, then, you'll start questioning yourself how you eventually found yourself on this route. Looool. IT field has a good prospect, and this is what I normally console myself with, that it will worth everything if only you stick to the end. Our senior colleagues can't wait to welcome us to JavaScript. "Wahala". |
mdpeace:Still on CSS too. Mhen, this route is only for the strong and mighty. It's only sweet on paper, but in reality, you + your laptop, it's a dread game. |
Indeed, you've made good points. In addendum: Calibrator:Me too. The reason I do this is to learn. Or, trying to avoid arguments which will lead to vitiating our relationship especially when I've a lot to gain or lose. The average human is emotional, so no need trying to compel them out of their shell, because it will never work. Best you can do is to make suggestions here and there. Calibrator:Redpill is amoral in the sense that everything it expantiates on has an evolutionary explanation, and since it's like this, you can't say it is moral or immoral because nature is neither good nor bad. However, humans are blessed with higher intelligence than their other animal cousins. Meaning that we have the mental capacity to decipher which part of nature will be beneficial to us in the long run + on a communal level. Most guys that do scream "redpill is amoral" at any given interval do this because they're on the beneficial side, but once the game is reversed, for example, a man of 50 fvck the hell out of their 15years old daughter; their 5 years old son get molested by an older aunt; their wives/girlfriends get bunked by their best friends etc. they all appeal to MORALITY. LoL. None of them will be happy to see their naive little daughter who just clock 18 one month ago seriously fvcked by a drug addict down the street lane. Why? Because they're not on the beneficial side! But redpill is AMORAL if they are the drug addict, older aunt, older man etc. Calibrator:You can't really track if one is a practicing redpiller or not, because each has its own motives when utilizing the redpill knowledge. You can run with it whichever way best suits you but the actions you will bear solely. Redpill is a mirror, what you do with what it reflects is none of its business. Calibrator:To some extent this is true. But there may be factors that wouldn't allow you to practice your beliefs. For example: 1. Many atheists still wear religious cloak because once they openly declare their stand, they will lose many things they've built for long. 2. You can't challenge your boss excesses because doing so means losing your job. 3. There are many intelligent and creative youths in many poverty nations but because of their country's state of affair, they can't manifest their potential. 4. Many people are redpill within but bluepill outside because of the antagonistic atmosphere they find themselves. Hence, you don't see them rallying around. 5. If genetics didn't favour you, your knowledge you can't utilize. If your knowledge doesn't match your current environment + good health/genetics there'll hardly be any tangible result. Migration isn't possible by the way. So, you see, one can be knowledgeable but unable to manifest because of some of these factors. Only when you've everything checked you can fully manifest your potentials. (Donald Trump comes to mind, though as powerful as he was, he was still shut down by the media). Now you see what I'm talking about. Calibrator:Doesn't matter how they see or utilize it but its guidelines is what they can't change except they've got something better. Calibrator:Redpill or no redpill, by default, men will always provide whether little or much when it comes to the intersexual dynamics. All rationalizations will definitely lead to bear the burden of performance either now or later. The problem is not in man's provision as men have always been providing for aeons. The question is: do these women worth it? If provision truly elicits submissiveness why are men friendzoned? Why do women after attaining a good position abandon men that stood by them through thick and thin? Why do women abandon their male friends and go fvck jerks? Provision is how a man can take control of his relationship, however, it works both sides: by providing he has control; and Provision without watching his shoulders can lead to his detriment especially when hypergamy blows its alarm. So, it's not really a matter of men finding it difficult to provide but that they're are now overly skeptical when it comes to the character of the women they're meant to provide for. The 12k issue was one I never really wanted to discuss about because dudes that replied focus on the 12k, but didn't saw that the guy was only able to compel the twitter female doctor out of her shell through series of chats. If his chats was highly sexual, 12k wouldn't be an issue + the guy wasn't chosen by the twitter lady + the lady came to weigh the guy if he's up to the standard of other men aiming for her. Once chats are sexually laced, first date always starts or ends in the bedroom. Or, at least, some sexual activities. Surprisingly if that young man can wait and watch, a girl will come his way that wouldn't even care much for that 12k + will be submissive and that is the chosen method. Calibrator:By design humans are selfish, though, still maintaining altruism. Whether "sugar boy, gigolo, walking dîldo, male stripper", everything boils down to the money/their gains. What do these men want in the first place: sex + money + no commitment. So, they don't care whatever attitudes the women they are involve with showcase provided they get what they want. And they can decide to exit when they've got their fill or tending to lead to their own detriment. From your angle, it may be a decline of male honour of which I agree, but the world has gone beyond that era, if you're not cunning enough, you'll lose. However, male honour, integrity, reputation and braveness ought not to be sullened on the altar of sex and materialism. Calibrator:As usual, I always come in peace. Thanks. |
ubunja:Never wanted to get involve in this discussion as I settled my take on it within. I almost post a write-up here but end up deleting it. I knew it was staged! But the only evidence I had was the way Chris Rock maintained balance + tucked his hands backward when attacked. Rock didn't move or try to defend himself. I believe he didn't even "blink" his eyes. What I had in mind was that Will Smith is trying to form the macho man for his wife + rekindle the fire in his relationship. Now, Pfizer Ritlecitinib: a drug for alopecia + Chris Rock getting more sales for his upcoming comedy + Will Smith now the talk of all social media houses, brings more evidences that it was staged as fvck! By the way, both Chris Rock and Will Smith are ACTORS! There has been a decrease in award television views for sometime now especially in the year 2021. So, anything to bring back those views is highly welcome. The masses don't know that the media propaganda + whatever they dish out are purely BLUEPILLED. We're getting fed with lies + condensed truth on a daily basis. The redpill really has a great role to play; the rabbit hole continues. Thanks. |
HARDESTNIGGAINT:She's not going to turn the world into anything, she will only sell her nation: United States of America, which will give an easy route to top eastern nations to penetrate through and even uplift themselves, thereby overthrowning America as a world power. But another thing: this is a game of the elites, those in control of politics but not seen around political corridors. There are more to this bro, let just fold our hands and watch or better still, prepare ourselves as the future unfurls. Thanks. |
When you are hungry, you ask for food. When you are need of money, you beg the rich. When you are sick, you seek medical advice. When you are lost, you seek for direction. All these phenomenons flows easily regardless of who is at the giving or receiving end - male or female. They are all normal right? But how is it a sin, a thing of shame when a man ask a woman for sex? Food, money, pills are necessities of life same as sex. But the whole world will shake when a woman bashes a man as a result of his sexual advances/flirtations. Am I now saying promiscuity doesn't have it's negative side? No! Am I now in support of sexual molestation? No! What about lack of sexual discipline?No! By the way, lack of sexual discipline is not asking for sex/flirting, it's going extra miles to get sexual satisfaction - rape, sexual assault, blackmailing, neglecting ambitions for sex etc. Even women do harass men sexually, but everyone expect the man - victim - to be happy about it, but once the case is reversed - flirting not harassment- hell break loose! Men has been shamed, gaslighted and manipulated to think that being bold before women is toxicity, no, it is not! Women are seen as the boss when they exhibit confidence, so why should men filter themselves out? Once you get involve with these women, quickly initiate your sexual interest. Women will not hesitate to drill you financially, emotionally, physically and psychologically on a first date or encounter; also, don't hesitate to demand romance, kisses, flirtings, quickie, f0replay or coitus at that same spot. Both money and sex are basic requirements for humans. This post is a reaction to one @dj_dimplenipple nonsensical accusations + D' Prince. (Even if D' Prince asked for sex, it is neither a crime nor a sin)! (Religion has really messed up our psyche though). Ok, let it just roll as: DAY 89, REDPILL 2022 Authority: Be bold! |
Calibrator:Their rationalizations always land them into more stupidity. In trying to play smart, they end up duping themselves. Now that you're divorce what next? |
iLegendd:I go for number 2. Not one post though. PS: I will really miss you if truly you're going into hibernation. |
DAY 88, REDPILL 2022 Genuine desire hides no secret; she will cross boundaries for you. Authority: Stay chosen. |
DAY 87, REDPILL 2022 The more hastiness she place on your side, the most likely she's setting you up for something not good. Authority: Be vigilant. |
DAY 86, REDPILL 2022 In neolithic days, women choose the best warriors and hunters because they signify dominance. In our modern age, that dominance can be extrapolated from the bedroom - women choose men with good fvcking skills and able to lead in bed; alpha fvcks. Sexual anticipation + sexual skill is how you keep these women coming. Authority: Up your sexual game. |
Heryormilekan:That's correct. Just playing around to understand better instead of procrastinating. Thanks. |
Good day gurus in the house. I bought a domain at namesilo, I tried selling on afternic, dan.com but I don't know if I did everything correctly. I'm a newbie, decided to try my hands after reading some articles and YouTube tutorials. I've following this thread. Please, I need help. I await all responses. Thanks. |
DAY 85, REDPILL 2022 Dear men, look for dealbreakers in dating not commitment. Authority: Maintain frame. |
DAY 84, REDPILL 2022 How far she has come is tantamount to her far she will go with you. The woman who never took time to enhance herself will never see time to follow your leadership. It is an absolute waste of time to redirect these women. Dump! Authority: Stay calm. |
Smartb0y:Jeshal wowed a big breasted girl but she didn't complied with his mating call, hence the "bitterness". Lool |
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