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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:04am On Mar 25, 2022
sajmark:
She doesn't think you're important enough to call her, but you can always join the hundreds of thirsty BETAs in her DM.
MOVE ON.
Even if she give the number, you'll be enlisted into WhatsApp status viewers so that you can buy weavon + lipstick + shoe + bag.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam:
CaveAdullam:
Tales of a woman who has been ransacked by many types of d!cks.

She's quoting Christianity, but Christianity says "without holiness no man shall see God".

Looool.
Even the groom in Matthew's parable of the 5 wise virgins + 5 foolish virgins choose the five wise virgins with EXTRA OIL. And dumped the other 5 virgins. Virgins o, virgins for that matter, he dumped them because no OIL.

"Awon" feminists + repentant h0es + wh0res that are neither virgins and even owing Saudi
Arabia OIL will not let us hear word and drink water in peace.

Fvcking a dry woman is one hell of an experience. OIL + EXTRA OIL is for a purpose: to avoid friction.

Buhahahawawaahahahaha.

Smartb0y and Jeshal, "una see wetin I dey see so".
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:41pm On Mar 24, 2022
DAY 83, REDPILL 2022

Women are impatient and will give no excuse for men's failure.

Dear man, follow suite. No need for substandard women except for...

Authority: Be wise.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:30pm On Mar 24, 2022
ProphetJeroboam:
A King in this position can make “all moves”
In that position, a king will fvck her orifices at all corners.

Loooool.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:18pm On Mar 24, 2022
ubunja:
True. The moment you see a girl that you like and you make up your mind to get her, you've already started the game at a losing score: You 0, the Girl 1.

Its not that it's a crime to like someone but by liking her you're already more invested than she is because she feels ZERO emotions for you while you're on fire for her. You're already chasing.

This is how inexperienced amateurs do it....
Among the different groups of people, prostitutes are seen as the worst. But you know what, when it comes to the sexual game, they are very calm - they don't chase! All they do is to put on their wears and hang somewhere, definitely a man with wads of cash will come meet them. Despite their occupation, all they do is send greenlights - they are cheap but with a good price.

Same with the ugly and average women, all they do is to look good and wait for men to gravitate towards them. By nature, the sexes desires each other, women are bothered about men not gravitating towards them, however, much of these complaints are within; definitely, they know that one man will surely come but with time. The good woman will develop herself and wait for her good man and not fall victim to effeminate men.

The majority of women especially in this digital age can't wait, so they suppress patience and leverage on their sexuality on social media. Yes, men will be attracted to them but at a cost - good men and wise men never take them serious. Ditto for feminists: they start exhibiting belligerent behaviours, become a parody of masculinity hoping to get all the attention; they do get it but at a cost - reasonable men never take them serious.

It has been espoused several times here why men don't wait but chase from an evolutionary standpoint. For modern women, they have perfected hypergamy by taking advantage of social media + marriage law while their mates are still living in the renaissance period. We can't blame the modern man for such wiring, but herein he needs to become deliberate with it.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:42pm On Mar 24, 2022
Ishil0ve:
Disgusting thread. Utterly revolting and disgusting. The things we see on the internet.


*unfollows*
Looooooool

Welcome to hell. Aka Taliban Network.

Hahahahaha.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:29pm On Mar 24, 2022
stevesawo:
Woman, telling men not to have choice
Tales of a woman who has been ransacked by many types of d!cks.

She's quoting Christianity, but Christianity says "without holiness no man shall see God".

Looool.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:27am On Mar 23, 2022
DAY 82, REDPILL 2022

Woman is man's weakness.

Absence of man is woman's weakness.

To leverage on the weakness of the other is how both exhibit sexual strength.

Authority: Maintain frame.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:11pm On Mar 22, 2022
DAY 81, REDPILL 2022

Spinning plates grants you the opportunity to mingle with many different women. There's confidence + fun in abundance.

The downside is that you'll be coerced to manage different emotional bandwidths, and many a times, wrecked personalities - many women are on this table. This is the price you'll have to pay to have fun with women on a large scale + a macro understanding about the female nature.

Many men can never and will not be lucky to maintain and enjoy neutrality; this balance is for the outliers amongst men. For the majority, half will get consumed in hedonism while the other half will want to manage emotionally + personality damaged women.

Authority: Maintain frame.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 11:25pm On Mar 21, 2022
Smartb0y:
Simps will always learn,one way or another grin
Either how to fvck or how to save. Simps are grateful to the Lord for the later. While players keep asking the Lord for more because they love the former.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 2:51pm On Mar 21, 2022
DAY 80, REDPILL 2022

She doesn't want you to be careful with her, that's why she surrendered herself to you. And if you're scared, it means the attraction level is low.

Authority: Maintain frame.
RomanceRe: Use “hospital Language” To Describe Your Current Relationship by CaveAdullam: 2:36pm On Mar 21, 2022
Make sure you maintain this healthy lifestyle. This is the first time I am seeing a patient completely free of parasites, microbes and virus.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:41pm On Mar 20, 2022
DAY 79, REDPILL 2022

Shame works on men's ego because they have a sense of honour and will want to meet up.

If certain rules are not in place, women will not be move by shame because honour to them is attraction from men.

Authority: Be sharp.
RomanceRe: MEN!! These Are The Only Kind Of Women SIMPS Will Surely End Up With!! (Photo) by CaveAdullam: 6:46pm On Mar 20, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
Very well brother, Nigeria is fvvcking hot!
And it's not getting close to cooling at all. Seems we are gradually approaching the sun.

Ok. I'm seeking your guidance about book publishing. Please, do guide me.

Thanks.
CelebritiesRe: Uche Ogbodo Heavily Blast Trolls And Body Shamers Who Mocks & Criticize Her Body by CaveAdullam: 2:55pm On Mar 20, 2022
Tell me you're here to sell without telling me you're here to sell. What a perfect marketing strategy.

Simps rush. Bruuuuuuh.
RomanceRe: MEN!! These Are The Only Kind Of Women SIMPS Will Surely End Up With!! (Photo) by CaveAdullam: 2:42pm On Mar 20, 2022
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What's up man. How are you?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 11:34am On Mar 20, 2022
sajmark:
ubvnja
Martinez39$
CaveAdull@m

I'll like to send you guys an email.
I will also like to read your mail bro. No p.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:27pm On Mar 19, 2022
DAY 78, REDPILL 2022

You're not loyal to yourself, so don't expect her to be loyal to you.

Loyalty is part of the boundary, it forms the frame of the relationship and must not be contemplated.

Authority: Improve.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:10pm On Mar 18, 2022
Elder0001:
Cap. If you can cook when she's not around, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't be able to cook when she's around.

Anyways, let's agree to disagree. Every mallam with em kettle. ✌️
Hope she will be glad to pay the bills in full maybe for a year or two?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:24am On Mar 18, 2022

DAY 77, REDPILL 2022


Dear man, she is not doing you a favour by staying with you. Both of you were meant to accompany each other.

Authority: Don't be a simp!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:09am On Mar 18, 2022
ubunja:
On Maintaining Frame....

Any understanding of how to maintain frame begins with understand this phrase:
WOMEN MAKE RULES FOR BETAS AND BREAK THEM FOR ALPHAS

This explains how frames work.

"frame" is reality. And "maintaining frame" simply means being in charge of your reality, your world, as in, it's your rules and your programme. You will is done.

Now, women make rules for Betas and break them for Alphas:

Every human being has his or her own frame. Men and women have their own frame. And generally 80% of the Male population (the Beta majority) by default break frame when they deal with women,, as in they leave their own frame and enter a woman's frame, as in they abandon their own dominance of their reality and break their own rules to satisfy/align with/live by, the woman's rules - which is her frame.

This is why, by default, women have control in conventional relationships and hold all the power. It's because women have maintained frame. And men have broken frame.

But, Women break rules for the alpha.....

If a woman perceives you to be Alpha, she's more than willing to "break frame" for you and enter your frame. This is the "women break rules for the alpha" part.

When you're a weak man, women enjoy controlling you, that is they pull you into their frame and you become a puppet on strings, doing their bidding (women make rules for Betas) saying lame stuff like "happy wife happy life"

But when you're strong, women WANT and are WILLING to hand over control and rest in their femininity with the full confidence that they're safe with you, that you know what you're doing and you're able to lead, protect etc (women break rules for alphas).

A weak man awakens a woman's masculinity. And gets pulled into her frame.

A strong man awakens a woman's femininity. And inspires her to break frame for him.

Whatever state you're in, a woman will automatically become the opposite of it, because male/female interactions are by nature based on contrasts.
True!

It happens like a mental switch, it's as if women had deliberately categorized men into the "feminine and masculine type". However, this phenomenon is instinctual and quick.

You'd be surprise that the woman with a cool demeanor with a particular guy will become a thorn in the flesh of another. This attitude has really helped women in screening men perfectly. Once they are engage to the minority of men with high virility, sorting out betas/simps becomes easy for them thereby granting hypergamy a smooth playground. They can easily spot who to fvck and who will pay the bvcks.

This is a manipulative tendency, however, it's one that branches two ways: acting innocently inorder to siphon simps which is a deliberate act, and a way of survival which is an instinctual response to strong masculinity as a result of the feminine wiring.

"Instilling fear, overt control, tyranny" rather than a natural or wellbuilt display of dominance is a bye pass which is temporal. Once the facade wears off men and women will succumb to their imperatives and mostly disastrous in long term relationship. This is what I was enunciating to DEMZEE/JESHAL.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam:
DAY 76, REDPILL 2022

Dear man, at any particular time it gets to the point that you're the one seriously bargaining, just take your L and move. Bargaining already relinquished more rights to her.

Again, you're the leader, and the burden of the relationship lies on your shoulders, so make solid decisions on the best way to go and refuse the bargaining table. Coupled with the fact that women base decisions on emotions + aren't clear about present conditions and future outcomes + are myopic, are reasons you must maintain your legs on good grounds.

Authority: Be sharp!
TravelRe: Re: Japa Its Not Easy Anywhere. by CaveAdullam: 1:20am On Mar 17, 2022
dasparrow:
True. This is why we should all insist that we break up Nigeria to save lives. I don't like the idea of living in other people's country forever because the truth of the matter is, they have the right to ask you to leave at anytime. Even if they have managed to give you their citizenship, they can come up with a new immigration and nationality bill or policy that will say, if you don't have ancestral ties to this land, in other words, if you are not an indigenous son or daughter of the soil, you have to leave. Then what do you do then? You will have to leave.

And don't underestimate racism and racial hate. White Nationalists are not smiling. Their numbers are increasing daily all around Europe and in other white nations and many of them don't want Black people in their spaces or faces. They want a racially homogeneous all white nation and I guess that is their right.

Your physical presence can trigger them and they won't mind killing you too because they see you as a lesser human being anyway. They won't care that you are an IT professional and that you have come to make money. In their minds, they are thinking, why can't your Black behind make money back in Africa? Why are you coming to their homelands?

Lastly, never you underestimate other racial groups. Just because the white man gave you a job does not mean they or the society the white man comes from likes you. Don't get it twisted. But some of you white-worshiping Nigerian coons will have to end up learning things the hard way.
Two things I easily spotted out here:

A. Your post is a coping mechanism.

B. You're among the <20% of the total population that has things going well for him/her because the pastures are greener and the places both cozy and rosy. At least, you can conveniently pay your bills with little to no stress.

I'm not arguing the case against racism, it is true. However, it's way different as the media wants us to view it. The major factor which I think is more detrimental to blacks which is tantamount to racism is 'black in black crimes'. Many blacks in diaspora are doing well and living peacefully with their foreign neighbors; same way many blacks out of dumbness and myopic inclinations are causing serious damages both home and abroad. Hardly any serious crime in the world, that a black man won't be involved regardless of the location it happened. It might not be pure black/African, but at least, there must be a trace of black which is not far-fetched. Black is Blacks problem because of their black minds. Various restrictions and sanctions has been placed on Africans/Nigerians because of black crimes. An ordinary innocent Nigerian can't work smoothly or get international jobs because their foreign counterparts are scared. Only with efficiency and great competency with enough credibility do few blacks scale pass the hurdles.

Can anything good come out of Nigeria? No! Except by a divine intervention. Or, an asteroid helps filter out all the useless leaders from the head to the tail. The high level of deliberation and consciousness (political) leaders of the nation perfect their rapaciousness and various crimes in broad daylight is a telling signal that the country is heading to the dusts.

There's no need trying to claim father's land blah blah blah. Wherever you find peace and have rest of mind is truly your father's land. And if living in diaspora can fulfill that hope, it is a great joy and a welcome development. Better to live in a foreigner's land and achieve your dream than in a third world nation you claim citizenship by birth but have nothing to boast of.

More grease to your elbow as you search for more hands to join you repair this damaged nation. As for me and the op, "we don wash our hands comot from Nigeria matter...na make we see legit opportunity to take Japa na we dey look for so".

Thanks.
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Regrets Inconvenience Caused By Petrol, Electricity Shortages by CaveAdullam: 12:45am On Mar 17, 2022
Your existence in that presidential and ministerial seats is more of an inconvenience than the resulting consequences of your ineptitude.

Mtcheeeeew.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:30pm On Mar 16, 2022
JESHAL:
It's only wishful thinking if he decides to marry poor or average and settle with damaged hoes if he becomes a successful outlier high valued man, again we are not in liberal western societies which is totally gynocratic in it's laws and institutions, he's probably marrying in a conservative or theocratic societies where the system is still patriarchal with cultural norms and religious institutions, so it's far easier to have the frame he's talking about especially with his redpill awareness, confidence and high socio-economic status that's if he attains it
LoL.

Is it your Nigeria that's theocratic or conservative? Religious or partriarchial or cultural norms "na for mouth". It is not even applicable to rural girls/women swallowing d!ck left, right and center, not to even talk about their urban counterparts. What about the younger males that are into different crimes here and there? How has theocracy or partriarchy curb it? Both parents and government are hard on them but with soft hands. Traditional this or that is a mask. All humans have their specific masks by the way.

In Africa, poverty is on the rise, the highest bidder takes the largest cut when it comes to women. Even the growing generations are beginning to identify many of the errors in religion (religion has its importance though). In Western nation, all thanks to the family law. So, where exactly are you aiming to instill fear, control and dominate her? Is it a woman that has access to a plethora of men offline and offline via lingerie? Is it a woman that can easily work away? Or, do you want to force her to stay? Is it even possible in a nation where men are the ones forcing marriage on the women? Or, a nation with the highest rate of paternity fraud?

Every woman whether poor or rich, low or high value always have a plan B. If your busybody is too much they will exit. It is men that always think women will stay no matter what...till death do us part. Modern day women are now bold enough to exit once they sense any discomfort, unlike men that will want to make the relationship work. But is this fair? No! But is it reality? Yes!

Wait bro, there are still good women(outliers) out there. Or, women who will submit under fear, control, and tyranny. Goodluck as you get them.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 4:45pm On Mar 16, 2022
ubunja:
You're making a case for monogamy, which in itself is not a bad thing cause polygamy is detrimental for the society in that many men are cut off sex resulting in instability. This is the argument the Beta Males have used to suppress the alpha fuccs and usher in civilization. It has worked for ages, but in modern society with women themselves becoming less and less interested in marriage and becoming more and more independent, the argument is losing its power. The almost 50% divorce rate in the west, with almost 80% of the divorces initiated by women, is testament of how desperate women want out of monogamy.

It's not hard to see that Polygamy came before Monogamy since even on this thread it has been said that historically more women have reproduced than men. Meaning more women have had mates compared to men. Which means humanity's origins are polygamous - with a few top men hoarding all the women. That is, Until the Betas made the argument you're making and each man was allocated a wife, then civilization began.

But we've come full circle. Monogamy has reached its expiry date. But instead of polygamy making a come back, the new Mating Strategy (especially in the west) that's gaining speed, is POLYAMORY.
Mating strategies always come with costs and benefits as I have mentioned earlier. Monogamy, polygamy, polyamory, hook up blah blah have their pros and cons.

I'm not for one and against the other but espousing what each entails full term and the ones with higher benefits.

Women will share high value men which is a feature of polygamy. But will men accept cuckoldry; will polyamory override their jealousy instincts when it comes to their mates?

Each man should just settle down for whatever rocks his boat and pleasing to him without neglecting the pros and cons.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 4:33pm On Mar 16, 2022
@Smartb0y, another one has bite the dust upstair. Have you seen him?

Loooool.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 4:29pm On Mar 16, 2022
DEMZEE:
THAT IS WHY MEN SHOULD SEEK TO BE THE BEST VERSION OF THEMSELVES AND SEE PUSSY AS A BYPRODUCT OF THEIR SUCCESS

MEN SHOULD BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY FROM PUSSY, GENUINE DESIRE OR NOT!

PUNISH BAD BEHAVIOR
REWARD GOOD BEHAVIOR

CONTROL YOUR WOMAN OVERTLY AND COVERTLY

SEEK FEAR AND RESPECT FROM FEMALES YOU DEAL WITH SEXUALLY FOREMOSTLY
See bro, we're not in the year 1900.

Your modern day women don't give a fvck on whatever way you decide to play your game as a man, all thanks to the digitalized world. Though I'm not disputing your facts but you just need to take a stroll down the streets, a telescope around the globe and see that these women don't care! They only start to care when they're about retiring and even at that, they still got available men for the sour taste pvssy. Get it!

The advantage of the redpill/manosphere is to bring men this reality, to understand feminine nature and the ability to walk away intact.

"Control her, instill fear, show dominance, command respect..." are getting obsolete as the sun rise and set. By the way, you don't really need all these when the woman knows your worth + you understand the nature of the game + will walk away when the engagement becomes burdensome.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 4:07pm On Mar 16, 2022
Lightway:
Yes, that's what it means.

Not all men are born good looking, tall, with a big dick

Not all men can or will get rich

Simple
I agree.

We do like to think that with the power of positive thinking, a positive mindset, discipline, determination, consistency, everyone can achieve whatever they desire. To some extent it's true but there are more to it.

Genetics (IQ, immune system, facial outlook, height), socioeconomic status, family background, race, country, politics, economy, are an important determinants more than positive mindset on how successful every individuals will turn out. What about unforseen circumstances like sickness, war, natural disasters, fire outbreak, accidents.

This is a sad reality the populations of humans are oblivious to. Humans that are highly successful are those that were favoured on the positive side of the aforementioned factors. The majority at the bottom of the hierarchy always think those at the top got there by a positive mindset which is false.
And after adhering to a positive mindset with nothing in return, many do resort to criminal activities while others finds solace in religion.

Imagine in a third world poverty nation like Nigeria, where the only mode of escape out of penury, pain, hunger, useless politics is via the internet (either for good or bad purpose). What then would have happened to the entire population had it been the internet is absent?

Only few will eventually struggle their way through to the top(even the top got categories. LoL)! While the majority will never make it except by pure serendipity. Acknowledging this with a weak heart can either drive one to misanthropic, nihilistic or pessimistic tendencies.

Positive mindset is good. However, if you eventually get to the top, kudos. And if you never get there, kudos too, you tried even though the universe never favored you.

A sad reality indeed!

Thanks.

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