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ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Out 100 Nigerians willing to go into tech, 99.9% usually drop out, not because there aren't jobs involved but the fact that they don't have what it takes to persevere should the journey becomes tough...For example coding requires one to take stretches of time, I mean, like 6-7 hours at a go without feeling fatigue, you know how it is playing video games from sun up till sundown or midnight till daybreak ? You must that same vigil for programming...That's why I always advocate for passion... If you are passionate towards coding, I believe, you will learn a whole way of doing things... Spending time looking at a computer screen from 5am till 1pm won't faze you but you have to ask yourself...do you have the balls?[/color]

DieRich5:
While men on the otherhand are distributing their sexuality freely + even paying to get it satiated.

Na dem.......

Seconded!

The reason is as a result of social media + female sexuality. But I tell you, these women are not cheap; men are! Social media is a tool women have used to the advantage of their sexuality. The sexual market place is where the truth is laid bare. Men hustle for sex, while women just stay calm. Simps are men! Friendzoned are men. Even prostitutes are not cheap. In fact, those ones are operating on another level of abundance mindset: they fvck with a price tag, same way you must settle the price for an automobile or gadget before using it. Regardless of how you used it, you've already paid for it.

''But wait Mr Cave, women are getting naked, strippers increasing in the club..." Yeah, true! However, you lose before you can gain these women. It is the 20/80 principle. They are cheap for a few (the men women choose) but expensive for the majority (the men that chases women). The fact that women choose doesn't stop other men from chasing them + will not block other men from contacting them. This is where female weaponised their sexuality. Since many men hasn't been chosen or still waiting to pick signal, they will patronize these women selling their sexuality. Sell the illusion of sex and ransacking their pockets is guaranteed.

This can also be traced to men's evolutionary make-up. Men are more sexual than women but it ends up that women are the ones advertising their sexuality---using scarcity to profits of their sexuality. While men on the otherhand are distributing their sexuality freely + even paying to get it satiated. That's game!

Women are not cheap because they take sex + resource while men take only sex. This is where the redpill comes into place: stand as a guard to men so that they won't be seriously pillaged by the illusion of sex and female sexuality.

DAY 65, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be wise.

chikasnight:
The society keeps selling people the fantasy that woman are cheap
But the real ones know that in the sexual market men are selling the cheapest

Emperor88:
You are very intelligent..you deserve a better environment than this backward country...The op claims he is not religious,yet he is superstitious!... People will blame their misfortune on sex and I wonder why people like Snoop dogg, Lil wayne,, Dangote, Donald Trump, Tu face, Wizkid, Davido are not experiencing financial problems.

Lifeisokay:
I started dating this guy about 2years ago, I gave it my all but it didn't work out.
Around the time I started dating my ex I got a good job, it didn't pay much but was enough for me to be financially independent. I was being paid 20k a month, this guy didn't have anything but still I loved him, I begged him to get a job but he refused saying that the payment was too small, I buy him everything from food to clothes, if he's sick, I will buy him drugs, I was even saving up money to help him learn a trade, I never really complain because he doesn't have and I thought if I was broke and he had money he will give me. Besides all I needed was love
Before we started dating I told him that I don't deal with Yahoo boys. I love living a simple life free of corruption and fraud, I'm comfortable with the little I have. He lied to be that me that he wasn't into fraud, well he lied, I begged him to stop but nope instead he broke up with me.
Now I'm not without my faults I suffer from depression and anxiety. Because there are no mental health establishment which I know of, I have to deal with it. A lot of people have issues with my anxiety and mood swings, a pastor once called me a madwoman because my mom told him I love to be alone for days at a time. I tried to reason with him about my mental health but I guess he didn't understand.

Now last month my ex told me he loved me and wanted me back but only one condition that I don't call him because he wants his space,if he sees me on the road he simply looks at me and walk pass without saying a word, this has been going on for about 3weeks.
I have tried to move on but it's been hard, I tried looking for a new relationship but I don't want to hurt anyone feeling. I can't bare causing pain to someone
Please how do I get over my ex

Kobojunkie:
Your ex doesn't love you at all ___ whatever it is he is doing, it does not share the same zipcode as love___ so dead that thought.

As for moving on, please don't be too hard on yourself. You are already struggling with depression and anxiety, that is enough load to handle abeg. Honestly, I highly recommend getting treatment or counseling instead of mopping around all day ___ and I say that as one who understands there is a lot of that you find unable to help yourself doing when stuck in that pit of depression.

I really wish there was more I could do to help.

L1TTLE:
I've been dating her for over three months now, first day I saw her I didn't like her or anything, I just did some biz with her, had a short Convo and left, so along the line we got familiar and we exchanged contacts, went on a casual date, then she painted herself as a God fearing girl, who don't want anything with guys, then I asked her how come her relationship status isn't single on fb, she said she put that to deter guys, I was wondering what she's doing with me since I'm also a guy then she gave me a shocker, that immediately she saw me she knew God want us to be a thing.

Honestly I'm not a God guy, I'm not religious at all, but I have good morals, I have been single for long so I decided to give it a go and we started dating.

not long after that she came to my place, and one thing led to the other and we had sex, it was a very foolish mistake I made because we agreed not to indulge, at least for like three months, and barely two weeks into the relationship we had sex, then I started noticing changes, first she became possessive, like she always wants to know what I am doing, who I am with, where I am at, and I hate that, I don't like feeling like someone owns me but she would always throw a tantrum when I point that out.

Things started going bad for me, financially I was failing here and there, it was a clusterfvck, bad luck everywhere, but I didn't think she was the cause because like I said, I'm not religious, I just believed it's just trying times they come and go, but it started shortly after the sex, I'm just stating it because it's significant.

Second, she calls herself a goddess, at first I thought it was this self appraisal thing girls do, I discovered it's not self appraisal at all, her birth name is some kind of deity where she's from, at this point I started wondering what I got myself into like she's all over me, I can't breathe, I sat her down and tried to talk to her that maybe we should breakup, she started crying and guilt tripped me into having sex with her, and since then whenever she comes around it's always sex, like I'm tired of it now, I will resist and she'll do things, touch me in places and I'll be aroused in seconds, for someone who claimed she's not into sex, she's a vixen on bed, I feel like I don't even know her anymore, lastly I have terrible nightmares now, and it's always sexual, that wasn't the case before I met her, right now I can't think of a way to free myself from her shackles, I just want to undo everything, make everybody dey him dey.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] I am a Self Taught Software Engineer working remotely (not naming where because my employers could be watching this space).... I based solely on Python Programming Language...I write all sorts of codes for Web dev, Game dev, Quant Algo dev, Mobile App dev, DB dev etc all for a living...Yeah,imagine Squid Game for programmers but in real life. So I know what it means to code under extreme pressure and empty stomach ,never mind,mind burgling workloads,workflows and code sprints...I could share you page from my book of experience, if you don't mind, it could blow away the brain fog that you passing through. [/color]

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] I am a Self Taught Software Engineer working remotely (not naming where because my employers could be watching this space).... I based solely on Python Programming Language...I write all sorts of codes for Web dev, Game dev, Quant A lgo dev, Mobile App dev, DB dev etc all for a living...Yeah,imagine Squid Game for programmers but in real life. So I know what it means to code under extreme pressure and empty stomach ,never mind,mind burgling workloads,workflows and code sprints...I could share you page from my book of experience, if you don't mind, it could blow away the brain fog that you passing through. [/color]

Altairx440:
welcome to our world boss. Enjoy the ride, stay motivated.

Altairx440:
nothing major, just command line apps like tic tac toe, to-do list, number guessing game, hangman, and some others. The major one is Hog, an online dice game with gui, though I don't consider it my project since we were given skeleton code, it's the first project in the course I'm currently taking.

I have stopped doing personal projects though, they require you to have some solid fundamentals if not you'll just make a mess, I tried to make a youtube video downloader but i failed, completely.

Altairx440:
lol, funny thing is I started with javascript, totally javascript

tensazangetsu20:
You are 16. If I were you I will focus on competitive programming and find ways to connect with programmers of my age in countries like China, Japan, India and the USA. Don't waste this opportunity.

Altairx440:
Hi boss, saw your quote.

Hotspotbro:
Javascript, eh?

Altairx440:
lol don't cry yet, there's still more : )

I was Introduced to programming by my senior bro (I'm 16) and honestly its the one of the best thing that's ever happened to me, since the redpill .

when i started 3 months ago I didn't niche down, i just learned everything that came my way, now i know a lot of languages, concepts, and fundamentals.

however that's really not enough, I want to be a god at solving problems and that's why I'm focusing on back end stuffs.

that's what i chose, at least for now.

Altairx440:
lol don't cry yet, there's still more : )

I was Introduced to programming by my senior bro (I'm 16) and honestly its the one of the best thing that's ever happened to me, since the redpill .

when i started 3 months ago I didn't niche down, i just learned everything that came my way, now i know a lot of languages, concepts, and fundamentals.

however that's really not enough, I want to be a god at solving problems and that's why I'm focusing on back end stuffs.

that's what i chose, at least for now.

luminouz:
Where is the thread bro?
I wanna join

Alexgeneration:
Link to the thread please.