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Ultimate36:
Good day Nairalander,

With all sincerity, please is it advisable to sponsor a lady's education throughout?

Pls what is the chances of not losing in the end?

Chances of losing in the end: 102%

1. Are you educated? If no, educate yourself. If yes, further your education.

2. What about your family members/relatives? Spot the one with a good prospect if you want to reap some seeds via academics.

3. If you want to marry the lady in future, better use the money to perform the marriage ceremony now, because probability that she will ever use her certificate to earn profitably in a third world country like Nigeria is almost zero + a high relationship disappointment rate after graduation.

4. Or, start a business with the money and take her as part of the employees.

Thanks.

For those into full stack web development, how are you guys coping? Because this beginner's stage is...I hold my tears in peace.

Off topic: so you all aren't interested in business, money and investments since the business thread was created. Or, are you guys doing some underground gigs. Lol!

For those into full stack web development, how are you guys coping? Because this beginner's stage is...I hold my tears in peace.

Beautiful.

Nasri100:
Guys I want to know your final Opinion on paying for S*x in Nigeria?

Whether a small amount or large sum is it worth it or madness?

If you follow Ubunja perspective on being chosen, that is the girls that like you for you, it works cause then you are dealing with girls that have serious attraction to you. Even better when you have that awesome body girls like.

However I have noticed overtime the girl becomes overly invested after s*x and even stylishly ask for favors considering the poverty situation of shit hole Nigeria.

So the thing is Should you have a tinder if you are red pilled?

Now you getting so many requests from these girls for hookup on the app. These hotshots text you first. Not like you are buying their attention. They give it to you first but of course they want money to get down.

Do you give in at a reasonable price - Should you pay for sex or just focus on the girls that want you for you.

Seriously need an opinion on this.

All roads lead to sex

Since the beginning of the year, my brain cells has been calling me to do a re-evaluation of this topic.

'Not paying for sex' as I'm typing now still wins a good percentage, but there are some gaps that must be analyzed. Example: waiting vs saving time.

Probably, this can be a round table talk on the best approach method, when, where and how to switch positions. Some of the things that can help us with a good analysis: confidence level, genetics, location, desire, time, patience,money, number of women, categories of women/men, hypergamy, libido, sexual control, rejection level, demography, physique etc.

This is a reevaluation I will love to do with all of the reputable goons here privately before drawing all conclusions to the public.

Thanks.

Cc. Ubunja.

Calibrator:
You are not obligated to defend the sovereignty of your fatherland?
So if someone shows up tomorrow at your ancestral home, you will willingly sign over the ownership of the land to him?

Status, territories, mates, resources etc. are the reasons men evolved to become violent, muscular, disagreeable, aggressive, non conflict avoidant and adventurous. Defending your rights, remaining unfazed in the midst of danger, protecting yourself and loved ones are traits of masculinity. In fact, ensuring your survival and those sharing same genetic traits with you is how you progress in the gene pool.

An agreeable man can be easily manipulated. However, there are two sides to this: agreeableness from a machiavellic or virtuous angle. The former is a facade with an end goal in mind because at that current state, he is weak and must comply. Or, full of strength and doesn't want to get involved in pyrrhic victory. The later is done for the sake of peace and thinks compliance is a remedy. However, in most cases, it does turns out to have a negative feedback.

So, it is better to sacrifice ownership today, protect your life, go back to your cave, improve yourself and comeback with a large intestinal fortitude to claim what's yours. If you hasten to war, you will not see the light of another day.

Coupled with the fact that one is quickly forgotten when he dies, it is better to live protecting his life.

Calibrator:
Cowards and empty barrels abound!
And you lots are always quick to point to the great men of times past as true patriarchs when you can't even meet up to the barest minimum of what patriarchy entails.

Masculinity is responsibility! Patriarchy was patriarchy under a a traditional setting which is no longer in vogue as a result of the social changes we're experiencing on a daily basis. Patriarchs of old were more safer in an environment they carried out their responsibility plus the needed remunerations.

Modern day men can meet up to that standard of patriarchs quite alright. But the question is: how safe is their environment? Will their remunerations be consistent? Who will later cater for them after demonstrating their responsibilities?

Remember: nature doesn't care who wins a war! Nature only cares about those who are alive! A man either acts smart or get deracinated out of the gene pool.

Calibrator:
Redpill dictates that men embrace masculinity and female act their part by staying feminine.
What is masculine about cowardice?

No cowardice in masculinity! Masculinity is braveness! Masculinity is strength! Masculinity is confidence! Masculinity is positive cunning! Masculinity is positive ruthlessness/positive "talibanism!". Masculinity is hope! Masculinity is kindness! Masculinity is courage!

Because of the fast evolving nature of our environment and myriads of social changes occuring, intellectual strength will always win any day or time when compared to muscular strength. Therefore, cowardice is not escaping a war, you aren't equipped for. Though men by nature are designed to fight with physical strength, but in our modern world, victors win through other means from the comfort of their caves. Positioning yourself at the warfront will do you no good.

It is seeking for glory via pyrrhic victory that's cowardice! Choose your battles wisely!

Calibrator:
Continue focusing on only sex and don't broaden your understanding of what masculinity is really is.

You need to broaden your understanding about this "sex talk". You all just think it is dangling your d!ck before every pvssy, no, there is more to it.

Sex is power! Sex is politics! Sex is money! Sex is masculinity! Sex is feminity! But before all these, sex is procreation, nature's first lovely baby.

Calibrator:
Even if the opening theme of the thread was about getting sex or whatever, anybody who has ever seen the four walls of a learning institution knows that the introductory lessons of every course are the easiest to grasp so as to lay ground work for the more difficult lessons to come.

Nonsense!

That's why the redpill is a matrix! Go slow, one at a time.

Thanks.

iamprofessork:
congratulations.. success ahead.. I saw a video on yabaleft's Instagram handle.. the guy literally went from looking skinny to looking like Jack Reacher in two years.. I was inspired.. you can achieve your goal, just be disciplined.. I'm going to start soon as well.. or should I say resume.. I was hitting the gym during the lockdown.. men!!!! I really fell in love with myself.. activities has taken most of my time but in terminators voice "I'll be back!!!!"

After a long hiatus, I finally resumed yesterday. Body was very stiffed though, hardly broke through.

What's your routine like?

sajmark:
So it's better to keep my problems to myself? Do drugs or alcohol to ease the pressure?
I never said share your problems with society, I mentioned Fathers, brothers and cycle of real niggaz, and I made it clear that they might not solve the problems for you but talking about it helps ease the burden... Kinda like a therapy session.
Society wants men to shut up no matter what we face and I see redpillers saying the same thing?

1. The world is a cold place, no body really cares about you. Even you you're after your well-being and not until you are able to cater for yourself, no one exist in your horizon.

2. Family is an outlier though, at least, in most cases, family is your last and strongest backbone. Friends and strangers may help, but family is surest. However, this doesn't means that family will always be there 24/7, but based on comparison, they will be there in both tough and darkest times.

Treat family right and make sure you build competence alongside.

3. Extrapolating lessons from religious tales, you will find out that religion is a good coping mechanism. Majority of religious adherents always have their God to rely on in their toughest moments as they already have an idea of their common enemy---Satan. So, depression and suicide is not as common with them when compared to the secular world.

Instead of looking for help where there isn't, why not "look up to heaven...help cometh from God".

4. The burden of responsibility is upon the shoulders of men, a leader complaining or sharing problem will be deemed weak by his followers.

5. Ego is inflated when a man has done something laudable and deflated when he has nothing to offer. Because of ego, and that men don't want to be seen as weak, they don't normally share their problems.

6. With modern day technology, humans are really experiencing a genome lag. Technology is fast evolving but human nature isn't. Had it been no technology and the current environment is similar to those of our hunter gatherers, cooperation and relations would have been easier as a man is surrounded by families and love ones.

I, my uncle and brother-in-law strolled out yesterday to fix a particular problem. When we arrived there we were offered a small bench to sit down. We chitchatted for about 2 minutes and the next thing three of us were separated by our android devices, each trying to sort out his problems online. Technology is good though, but that spirit of camaraderie, that emotional bond can only be built on the physical.

7. In this modern world, it's better you solve your problem on your own than look for outside; here technology becomes an advantage. Truth be told, it is the outliers amongst men that are truly pragmatic, their successes just rob on all men. Because, on an emotional level, 99% men and 100% women are the same, both will shame you when you come for help.

8. Every man is after their own head, so don't expect anyone to ignore himself or give you the maximum help that you need. They might do for sometime, but eventually, along the road, you will be neglected. Rare are those friends, strangers and relatives that will always be there.

9. That empathy/sympathy being sort for by any man can never be achieved! Only women and children can at least have a taste of it.

What is the kind of man you want to be to yourself and to others? Start building yourself like that archetype and it will serves as a sieve to help you separate chaffs from wheats. It is the wheats that will help you. Good thing is that you can find these wheats both online and offline, though, rare.

PS: Maybe here can be of help if you can share.

Thanks.

@emmaodet, a nice essay you got there.

1. To be a man is both a curse and a blessing. A curse because at the bottom you're treated ignominiously than women and children. A blessing because at the zenith, everything falls under your influence.

2. Masculinity is responsibility, it's the way nature has shaped it. And it is that same responsibility that grants men an authoritarian staff. Women, like followers, don't want to be at the front because it's scary, hence, will always come second and follow behind.

3. Living an exuberant and care free life doesn't amount to anything, hence, hardly can you find women's footprints along the line of civilization, growth, innovations, inventions, say procreation.

4. Matriarchy is all about comfort! And when comfort becomes the default state, redundancy takes form. Women just want to live within the comfort of their family, friends and environment. Men on the other hand want to explore the world, and with every exploration comes a great risk which can either lead to something good or a lesson learnt.

5. Once men are erased from the equation or are suffered harshly without recompense, chaos is imminent; this chaos is also imminent when matriarchy rules. This is the trend the world is touring at the moment.

6. How can men become great again? When men uplifts each other. There's no argument that men help men. But it's also obvious that men willingly give a freehand to women because what women want is comfort and what men want is an empire. To build an empire is much difficult than to provide this comfort that comes from partying, foods, drinks, luxuries etc. And you know that humans will prefer the easiest path always.

7. Nature has already shaped us differently, each man to his own cross.

8. Masculinity shines when it is built on masculinity. And feminity, when it's supported by masculinity. No need feeling sober about your side of coin, refine yourself and become better.

Thanks.

An excellent thread!

Well done op.

ProphetJeroboam will be the prophet that will announce the rapture.

No need arguing further, I'm so confident that the folks thinking that "all roads leads to sex" or, "procreation is the goal of humans" or, "nature has wired into humans, the preservation, proliferation and perpetuation of their species" is stupid, nonsense blah blah blah have no fundamental understanding of biology---MR NIGER D, or probably, missed their biology classes.

Even when one don't know biology, at least there has been mentioned of: "conscious vs subconscious", "direct vs indirect", "brain vs body", "nature", "senses", "underlying", "genes", "instincts", "evolutionary", "biology". These are enough to give one an insight, without running into confusion.

They will agree that "all women are like that (AWALT)/hypergamy, alpha fvcks beta bucks, because it can be easily deciphered from the environment but don't even know that it is an evolutionary instinct in women to act like that.

I was just waiting for Dr. Tonnyray to say spoil. You're lucky my doctor, "Your license would have been withdrawn by the end of the month". Even Dr. Adambeatz got it.

Kudos men.

Skepticus:
For those of you always complaining about the red pill constantly talking about women, you may need to stay off for a while, because the red pill is mostly about women, not men or some individual interest.

When the majority of men associate with their fellow men in any situation, most of the time, there are no hormones and neurotransmitters messing with their brains and bodies. No erections etc, so, they think logically and act rationally. With women, it is another ball game, even when such association is platonic, because of the hard-wired biological conditioning and social blue-pilled conditioning to make us (men) see women differently. This is where men lose it and women understanding this, play the field to their own advantage. This is the reason why you hear guys say things like: "The red pill is not easy" "I left this thread and I started to simp" etc.

Some folks also complain that we keep repeating the same things (which is true) and you'll find same on all platforms where the red pill is being discussed at full length. This is done to constantly to keep one updated, and keep you from falling back into the blue-pill which is our default state. Hence, you hear things like, "Taking the red pill a day, keeps simping away" etc.

Also, looking for ways to make money is not uniquely red pill because a lot of folks making money are blue-pilled. Staying fit and healthy is not uniquely red pilled. A lot of folks in the blue pilled world are equally staying fit and healthy. Their only relevance to the red pill is the self-improvement part where a red-pilled man is encouraged not to lose himself, even when he has to act blue-pilled. He must always have his red pill lenses on as it takes a split of a second to revert back to the blue pill.

For those on this thread who are knowledgeable about self improvement topics that are not related to the romance section and find the discussion about women boring, they should simply create threads unique to their area of knowledge in their specific section rather than complaining. This is the romance section. When I want business ideas, I simply go to the business section of the platform.

Thou o greek god, Skepticus, you're becoming too based these days. May your light shine upon me!

"Your redpill na pepper".

Kudos man.

adambeatz:
Yep, and they couldn’t do a good job in camouflaging it. I could be wrong from my perspective and it could be they just wanna pull his legs or something else or plain ignorance as they don’t seem the be able to grasp the message he’s trying to pass across. It’s a common theme now a days that people can’t just seem to calm down and understand what someone says, they always in a hurry to just read/listen and reply.
Probably a disorder if I may say

Not only that bro, many readers lacks the ability to parse nuanced statements, hence, they insinuate meanings not intended by the writer. Their inability to think in 2, 3, 4...order effects is a problem.

Secondly, once a post doesn't confirm with their already established beliefs they tend to wrestle with it. This is common to all humans though, and that's why one must be able to understand where the other is coming from in order to reach an accurate conclusion. Difficult though because humans easily fall for the confirmation bias and are highly ego invested in many of their beliefs.

Lastly, many readers can't comprehend a writer. Rather than listen and ask questions or counter respectively and reasonably, they allow their confusion confuse them and they extrapolate that confusion to the round table, thereby causing chaos.

Thanks.

Nezzjnr:
Omooooo same people saying Pussy isn't a value.

Now saying Pussy is the end goal of everything.

But if you object towards it... They'll start calling you names.

Now I see why Pas.onphist said Redpill isn't all about women.

Like I said everyone to his own ideology

1. See, let me tell y'all something, once it comes to the redpill in the manosphere, it is all about intersexual dynamics---sex and romance. It's not about self development! (And neither am I saying self development is useless).

2. What's the biology behind sex? What's the psychology driving it? What's the necessary chemistry to make it happen? What's the end goal of sex? This is what I and Ubunja is expantiating on. So, if you decide to run amok in sexual indulgence or not, that's none of our business. Our business is to dissect sex in all of its facets to the best of our abilities.

3. Should in case you missed that post of mine, I mentioned SEX FOR PLEASURE which will later leads to SEX FOR PROCREATION: the end goal of sex.

Alpha fvcks beta bvcks! Now, what the brain needs is different from what the body needs. Normally, nice guys ought to be treated nice by women and bad boys rejected, however, the reverse is the case. It is absurd but that's what it is.
Same applies to you as a man. Your brain wants to enjoy life, have money, status, influence and power. But your body wants women and your genes already knows that once you can achieved all these you can take them to the next generation. Therefore, there's a cooperation between your brain and body(genes).

Your genes are not concerned about your achievements, what it's concerned about is you taking them to the next generation. It is the men that makes it to the next generation that nature and biology cares about. If you separate yourself from the gene pool, all the achievements you've made will be directly or indirectly used to further the procreation of other genes aside yours whether you're dead or alive. Life is what mother nature cares about.

4. This is not an ideology, but simple biology. It is about the survival of the fittest.

Men want pvssy because of this procreation, hence, both sexes are complementary as the strength of one, offsets the weakness of the other. Aside pleasure or procreation, men don't need women as women are time consuming and overly demanding.

5. I'm not saying go fvck around and procreate many kids without developing yourself. As a matter of fact, if your offsprings lacks resources to live a healthy lifestyle, they will die, which is similar to you not procreating at all.

6. You don't want to reproduce, fine. You don't want any future generations, fine. You want to live the best of life, fine.

However, you must know that your ancestors sought for resources and territories in order to get the best mates that will enable them into the next generation---same line you're are following, however, you are bringing to your cerebral consciousness that YOU WANT TO DEVELOP YOURSELF AND NOT TO GET PVSSY. Meanwhile, subconsciously, you're simply following the footsteps of your hunter gatherer ancestors.

7. Sex is wired tightly in the human psyche and no amount of speech can change it, not even a genetic engineering and any attempt to even do that proves the fact.

Have sex. Develop yourself. Or, you can choose the one to follow.

Have a nice day.

Nezzjnr:
Most people have their own end driven goals.

Some politicians accumulate enough wealth that can be passed on to their upcoming generations in the next 100 years so their name won't be soiled once they're gone.

You might have your own ideology about the end goal of men... Mine is way different.

Do you subscribe to alpha fvcks beta bucks?

Nezzjnr:
Anything their Lord and Saviour say is always True.

When The North Korea leader was busy testing his missiles... He was thinking about sex as the end goal

After Kim Joung-un or Vladimir Putin has destroyed the whole human population with their missiles, what's next? How are they going to make their own people occupy the whole earth that was formerly inhabited by their enemies?

This might serve as an insight:

KJV:And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth
Genesis 1:28

Even God/gods are very concerned about procreation. Y'all may not like it, but it is what it is!

emmaodet:
Gbam!!!
I wrote that statement ''The world is a sex driven society and at the end of the day, All roads lead to SEX''
Most people won't understand that statement because many people see statement from above and not deeply.
It is a case of the more you look, the less you see.
A case of Eye Wide Shut - Though open yet blind to the letters boldly written.
Most world top secrets are hidden in plane sight because they know most people lack the spirit of discernment. The don't have the needed knowledge or key to decode the information in plain sight.

True sir!

Sex is a major factor on the different turns a society takes. Use sex, power and money as a guideline, and you can quickly diagnose into the hearts of men.

No denial about this!

Thanks.

DieRich5:
thanks boss

I understand ur point now about the sex (reproduction) not for Pleasure

1. But it's that pleasure that comes first, then, reproduction. However, the goal of sex is reproduction! It's a matter of your ancestral genes and the genetic pool, not your senses.
And neither is anyone saying you must live a hedonistic lifestyle and abandon a transcendent one---at least, your status in the hierarchy will determine your access to many women, and even if you don't get women at last, you'll still enjoy other benefits of being at the top.

2. Sex, power and money are the basis of human operations and are very interrelated, all other things takes their root from them. It is what it is and that's what I bring to you.

PS: just to reason in an utopic way, if all the sugar babies withdraws sex and urge corrupt politicians and wealthy men who are their major sponsorers to develop their communities before sex is resumed, I bet you, there will be a noticeable change in politics and power as a result of this sex withdrawal. This method is far easier than men starting from the bottom of the hierarchy to bring a change, of which many are not gonna make it.

Sex is womanly weapon, and man's weakness. To weild it to your advantage is to master Its operations.

Thanks.

ubunja:
What are you here for? are you here for money or women? If you're here for money then this thread won't be of much use to you. Because it's not business focused. I fully respect your mission to accumulate wealth and I respect the story behind it as you shared last time. But still what really are you looking for on this thread? Women? Then you must understand the red pill is set up to help men win with women not using money but using your body, of which your dick is central. Cause that's the primary way of getting a woman that's not blue pill.

@DieRich5, I'm sorry about your lose, condolences bro.

Ubunja, from a metaphysical view, dierich5 as a result of his travail is trying by all means to hit it large in life so that he can make dad proud wherever he is, offset what dad did wrong and be able to better himself and family.

Unknowingly/subconsciously, it is his dad's gene and mum's gene that's motivating him to do this because owning territories and resources means more women to mate with, which leads to more offsprings, and many genes in the genetic pool.

Even though dierich5 decide to remain celibate all through his life, part of his resources will be diverted to his siblings amongst whom will reproduce; reproduction as a result of sex. Though he didn't reproduce, meaning the end of the road for his full(100%) genetic line, he has already contributed resources to his siblings to further about 50% of his genetic line through their offsprings.

Left or right, sex is a motivating factor.

Thanks.

Calibrator:
Can you please tell me why the best of mankind are pouring billions of dollars into research that will enable the procreation of human life without conventional sex?

We are all free to individually state whatever motivate us. Mine is definitely not sex!

Thanks.

Alright. Alright. I got a glimpse into this glitch: Sex for pleasure.

Just to reiterate, the end goal of sex is procreation, not for pleasure. The former is to serve an evolutionary purpose while the later is for bodily purpose which happens consciously.

Yes, not all sex leads to reproduction. Why? Because the end route has been byepassed by contraceptives. If sex wouldn't have led to procreation, humans wouldn't have deviced various means to byepassed it.

So, I'm not necessarily concerned about sex for pleasure, but how sex leads to procreation and how procreation brings civilization through the innovations brought by humans. However, it is this pleasure that brings procreation.

Thanks.

Calibrator:
Can you please tell me why the best of mankind are pouring billions of dollars into research that will enable the procreation of human life without conventional sex?

We are all free to individually state whatever motivate us. Mine is definitely not sex!

Thanks.

You're still confirming what I said before @first paragraph via your question.

Whether through laboratory methods or conventional sex, procreation is expedient for civilization. Without humans, no civilization! All those researches are after getting quality humans as only them can effectively run and sustain civilization. The concept of eugenics is also tied to this.

@second paragraph, I already stated that in the section D part of my post.

Thanks.

0neal:
Guys what do you think of this quote, from Carl Jung's book "Psychological types," I tried to read the book but mehn e pass my power, I still they battle with "FOOLED BY RANDOMNESS"

think I'm losing hair follicles reading one chapter like three times or more just to understand the writer

cc
Ubunja
Pansophist
CaveAdullam

Thanks

1. There are two quotes there, one by Carl Jung and the other by Dante Alighieri. Both are saying same thing; and what are they saying? Hypergamy!

2. When Ubunja said all roads leads to sex at the end of the day y'all are angry because y'all lack a fundamental understanding of human biology and evolutionary psychology. Civilization comes to a halt without reproduction. By the way, this is what forms the redpill, and the reason the redpill say: AWALT. Because this tenet is rooted in the human female psyche with little environmental or social influences. You guys are having problem with it because y'all are judging from a social worker angle. But once y'all have a bird eye view you'll all understand where that man is coming from.

3. However, this is not to say we must be slaves to one of our core primal instincts: sex, because our environment is fast evolving. However, humans are still wired with genes structured in the wild. More than 6 million years in the wild with genes developed for survival cannot be easily wiped away by social media or social changes. The only thing for us now is to become open and cognizant about our evolutionary psychology, biology etc and adapt to the current change willing through force.
This evolutionary disequilibrium: current environment not fitted with genetic adaptation, is obvious for humans!

3. Many updates has been made on Carl Jung though, the reason I don't bother myself with him any longer. But he still got several quality information.

A. Remember: whatever men are today is as a result of hypergamy. Men fought in the wild for territories, resources and food because only the men that has these are able to mate. No matter your achievement, if you can't mate, you aren't going to the next generation! Humans alive today are as a result of their ancestors who broke through the odds in the wild. If you make it to the next generation, it means your territories, resources etc. are safe.

B. Also take note that women don't fvck lesser male, hypergamy will always look for the best male. So, as a man, to get mates you must become higher than other men, and these cannot be done collectively as it takes a sperm from one man to fertilize one woman, hence, the rise of INDIVIDUALISM in men. Since women now realized subconsciously via hypergamy that men will do anything to have them, there comes a need to become more better than other women, hence, the rise of INDIVIDUALISM in women; the reason is that the more nubile a woman, the more she can gain from a man.

C. Dante is still saying same thing, these struggles as a result of mate quality which stems from hypergamy, is a kind of "woman worship", however, it has led men to the uncovering of many things which brings about change and growth in civilization and gaining insight because man's soul became strengthend in trying to satiate hypergamy and by doing this, he discovered the needs of his soul.

D. From a conscious deliberate reasoning, men are doing these great things for themselves not for pvssy, but subconsciously, it boils down to sex because that's what their ancestral genes is concerned about: take us to the next generation, or else, you and your ancestors will be erased from the gene pool. Ditto for women: find the best male that will cater for you and your offsprings, by that, you'll make your ancestors proud.

Thanks.

Cc. Dierich5, Calibrator, Zabiboy et al.