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pansophist:
Baba, I'm good. Took a break from nl. I'm studying something very intensive, and need all the focus I can get.

Good to hear from you.

Uncle Pansophist, hope you're fine?

luvyaself95:
Thanks for sharing and How much you bought the Power Bank and can you help me with it pictures

As at 9 months ago, I bought it at a price of #8500. Try and google the images; I can't upload any pics now.

MJBOLT, hope you are fine?

Don't know if Martinez39s has already gone for his sabbatical.

Sajmark, NeroStealth01, hope you guys are fine too?

I've been using the 20,000mah traveler's edition for up to 9 months now, and it's giving returns for its money. As far it's Oraimo, provided it's not cloned, it is good.

Thanks.

606thearena:
Bro please you may be right no doubt Nairalanders please how do I tap her phone and WhatsApp messages please I just need proof before I break up with her . I want concrete poof to be sure I know deep down she has cheated or she is cheating on me but I want proof that is the only way I can break up with her without remorse

I sense oneitis here. Bro, except you're getting other values from her aside sex, dump her! Or, just keep her around for sex. It is a simple "stuv".

These women don't want a relationship, what they want is fun and fvcks. Mateguarding, owning a mate are male instincts though, but in this contemporary age of ours, men must place their fingers on these instincts and direct it themselves.

You'll not marry her! In the long run, she will hook on to a man higher than you. So, why bother yourself about her?

Take your own share of the cake and leave the rest for the community. After all, she's not yours, just your turn.

Thanks.

Syes:
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That's why you need to buy her more gifts, place her on a monthly salary with allowances, build a house for her, pay all her tuition fees, buy her a car, buy her a power bank plus 2 extra batteries, feed her to stupor while you remain with "Ijebu garri'' before you can have a chance in getting out of the friendzone. Had it been you're consistent bro, you would have nutted in her a million times with multiple kids around.

The right strategy is what that matters first before consistency and persistence. Even the right strategy will fail under a poor environment, poor health, poor governmental policies, poor tools, lack of resources etc.
If you're consistent with the wrong strategy, you'll always lose 100% of the time. Also, let us not forget that more than 70% of the things that happens around us are beyond our control and full comprehension. Notwithstanding, there's need for developing oneself as it will definitely gives that one an upper hand when the opportunity is there, however, "time and chance happen to them all".

Have a nice day.

Lasunray01:
Thank you. My main concern is for our baby, i want a good life for her. What if the infidelity isn't the issue any longer but her anger persist! Cos her mum seldom goes violent with the dad, and their issue has never been on infidelity.

Separate yourself from that woman asap. She will surely tear your passport, visa and other travelling documents when next she goes haywire. Or, when she discover that she's not going with you oversea.

Stay on a low for the now, withdraw from flirting and start planning for your oversea trip sir. That woman may end up destroying your life and that of your daughter. Though, I won't lie, raising a child in a single/step parent household is not good for that child's well-being. But since the game is tilting towards your downfall and that of your child, just assume that you're a 'widower' and it's expedient you raise your child into a quality adult.

Overall, don't try to maintain peace eternally, but pretend peace with her as you begin to sail away from her.

Thanks.

heartofcity12:
You can’t make this sh*t up. Smh

When I say women are for fun and fvcks some dudes might call me crazy within. But here is a statement from the horse's mouth. Women's value is sexual. And women only need men primarily to satiate their financial needs and other deficiencies.

This woman doesn't know even know that there are cathouses for men to quench their libido and wouldn't bother looking for any familiar female to ejaculate inside. However, no place for women to go pick money. Looool.

Palazee:
Lol

What is anointing oil and vaseline doing there

The former: to pray for him. And the later: to rub on his head for more anointing.

LoL.

Jasper185:
I’m in Lagos boss

I'm in Benin at the moment. So, the ball is in your court.

Jasper185:
Pls boss I need this, how can I reach out to you

Your location?

Goodboy2000:
I have an HP Icore3 laptop 500Gb internal memory with 6GB RAM

Your location?

Pukkalolo:
Nice point bro.

I discovered this thread 3days ago..I have'nt gone through it entirely, but from the few post I've read, I'm impressed. I never knew nairaland harbors smart redpill oriented guys; from the likes of Glycolysis, Ubunja, odison1, lightway and many other guys I can't remember their username now.... Keep up the good job guys...You are blessed.

I noticed a guy here making hateful speech against the females gender.

Remember the purpose of this thread is not for men to hate on the females but for men learn to master themselves and even master women.

Remember you can't master what you hate or what you abuse or judge negatively.

You can't master yourself and be at your most powerful behavior if you hate yourself and negatively judge yourself. And you can't master women if you hate them or have grudges over them.

You can only master something you are curious about and something you love. Most legit players and womanizing bad boys actually love women.

Learning to handle and deal with women is almost like learning any other skills-- guitar, piano, design, carpentry, automobile, tailoring, coding...


Using coding for example. Fews years ago when I was learning JavaScript it was not easy at all, infact I almost gave up many times but it was my curiosity and the little Passion I had for it that kept me going... Sooner than I expected the language click in my head...now I'm very good at it. Infact now I've got students I tutor on it.

It's the same idea I used in mastering women and learning how to handle them. I was curious about how women think. I was not concern about fucking them; I was just concern about saying bold/playfull/sexual stuff to them and asking them raw and unexpected questions and seeing how they repond to it...It was just fun for me.

Same way I was curious to see how different JavaScript syntax works on the browser: I was curious to see how different girls respond to the things I was saying and how I was behaving. My experience was growing...Sooner than I expected I was getting amazing results with girls...


Here's my advice, and this advice might sound counterintuitive: stop trying to get laid.

Don't get me wrong. I don't mean you should go mgtow and start avoiding women. I mean, when interacting with ladies, don't worry about fucking them or dating them.
Just focus on practicing every piece of knowledge you are gaining from this thread and focus on improving your life; the getting laid aspect will often take care of itself...

Remember, when you are too focus on getting the girl, you naturally tend to exhibit needy unattractive behavior and this in turn make the girl run away from you. But when don't give a shit about getting the girl, you naturally exhibit confident and attractive behavior without knowing, and this would even draw the girl to you.

Kings, be strong; never allow any woman manipulate you or bully you emotionally.

Don't worry about get laid; instead worry about building an attractive behavior and an attractive lifestyle...

I just hope this thread never die out...I pray many guys see it.

Stay blessed brothers

You don't want thread to die but you came here without kolanuts, dry gin, anointing oil and vaseline. Hmmm.

Anyway, I just entered CSS, you're one of my sure plug when I arrive Javascript.

Thanks for your REDPILL advice and kind words.

1. Depending on the agreement both of you had before marriage, if you both choose to be exclusively monogamous and she's still keeping to that oath, maintaining fidelity, I think you should just reduce your flirting tendency.

A. Though you flirt, but women love men that other women want to be with. This is the dread game. It improves her desire towards you and make her invest better so that the relationship can last. (Know this: no investment from a woman can surpass that of a man in a sexual relationship whether long or short or filled with manipulations. By the way, he is still the one that losses more regardless of his high investments).

She's mateguarding you, but her jealousy is over the roof. There are better ways to handle this matter from her angle rather than going haywire.

B. Your flirting tendency can also make her break her oath of fidelity in order to counter her jealousy and come back on you. However, infidelity from both sexes are different and will be weighed differently because both sexes are different. (Simply can't go into that details now).

But if she's true to her oath of fidelity, that is, you know very well that she's not cheating behind but come open to disagree with you, then, forget flirting and concentrate on your family.

2. Stop engaging with women and other people in verbal attacks. Besides, women are good at it and will always beat you hands down. So, just avoid any verbal altercation.

A woman must learn how to control her tongue though. Because men's power are tired to their ego and once that ego is insulted or threatened it is an attack on their power, hence, will always retaliate with physical force.

Your wife always abusing you indicates a high level of disrespect! And that disrespect is as a result of you always engaging with her in her emotional tantrums. You must start learning to punish her psychologically, because I'm not in support of domestic violence. Start from here: Become dominant. Withdraw attention. Withdraw resources.

3. Truth be spoken, for her to always destroy your home appliances in her emotional hystericity, indicates that you've lost dominance. Such behavior implies disrespect...two agressive people can't stay under one roof. She's behaving like a parody of a man, and that you don't need.

4. Take yourself and kid oversea. You'll still continue to flirt and her with her agressive nature; couple that in a country that the family/divorce laws rips the man/husband into pieces, you'll regret your life!

(However, for the sake of your kid because they are the ones that suffers the aftermath of parental separation, both of you must resolve your differences and grow above it). This will fail 99% of the time, just start preparing on how you can raise your kid into a quality adult in the absence of the mother.

This is an evolutionary game in vogue.

Let her go!

Thanks.

Goodboy2000:
How do I go into this programming?

Help me.
Thank you bro

I bought a mega IT bundle from one nairalander here. You might have come across that mega bundle.

If you have a laptop plus external drive of about 500gb, I will transfer all the courses and you select the ones you want for free.

The main "koko" is a good laptop of at least 8gig RAM. You can settle for 4gig RAM if it is upgradeable in order to start for the main time.

Thanks.

Lordcassy:
The article is kinda of gay....both sexes can not be equally vain...
When a man get to obsessed with vain beauty...I believe it depletes his masculinity, the reason all male cross dresser/transgender act Feminine...but are totally useless
Humans are not lower animals but primates....it is a total different ball game with primate...
Our beauty as man,reside in our ability to survive and the quality of our life(that is why women would not go near a malnourished or sick guy)..
Across all primate except the bonobos...the alpha get the women, not because he is beautiful but because he is strong and capable..which thus make him beautiful...

That is why for most of our history, men have been conquerors...all the women want to get laid with gengis Khan, does not matter if he has brushed or not....

Yes Lord. I agree.

If you gradually follow this discussion to this current page, you'll see some of my posts on this same article.

1. First of all, understanding woman/human nature is one thing, but knowing how they express themselves in different environment in regards to their nature is another thing. And this is where many clashes with the REDPILL.

2. Women will always respond to dominance, and other masculine traits in men because of protection and provision. In fact, these masculine traits are what defines men, hence, many men still had the opportunity to contribute their genes to the gene pool. Our ancestors were the more masculine men in their tribes, hence, we are living today. The aforementioned is the beta side of hypergamy, that is, for long term relationship.

On the alpha side, women will prefer beautiful men(lean or slim) because it signifies good health, then, quality offsprings. A handsome man devoid of masculinity can still get it easy with women than an ugly/average looking Joe. Women are materialistic and myopic and will judge things from a superficial level. Only after they've frolicked with these handsome men, that is for a short term relationship will they now settle down for the men on the beta side.

3. Now, this game doesn't play exactly this way, there are a lot of variations and factors that underlys. For example, women can choose men on the aforementioned beta side for short term mating because strong and dominant men are adventurous. And settle for a beautiful man for a long term relationship if he can provide but lacks dominance and other positive masculine traits. Understanding hypergamy is paramount.

4. Still on beauty, remember that humans fall for the halo and horns effect. Which means that we are positive towards beautiful people and less positive towards ugly people respectively.

So, you see, a beautiful man like I said before will always come first for women before the average looking Joe.

5. But the good thing about male's beauty is that it doesn't diminish like that of women. A man born beautiful is lucky but the average looking Joe have a great chance in becoming more attractive and appealing if he makes the gym his friend. No matter how ugly a man is, the stress and pain in the gym will bring out his internally locked beauty into the physical facially and bodily.

6. If you have also observed, you will notice that males are becoming as beautiful as women, but most showing a low level of masculinity. From our evolutionary days, we know that men selected beautiful women and beautiful women selected dominant men(these summarizes your point). But now it seems women are selecting for beautiful men too; may not be obvious but it's gradual. And women on the otherhand are still more beautiful plus becoming more of a caricature man especially through the advent of social media and feminism. Simply put: boys are becoming more beautiful plus effeminate while women are still beautiful plus becoming masculine(caricature male).

7. For men, striving towards a good physique plus becoming more masculine is what's vital whether born beautiful or ugly.

A beautiful man will have high chances of producing many offsprings and same with a strong man. An ugly man, an ugly woman, a feminized man, a masculinized woman will suffer great limitations in the evolutionary game because only the beautiful and strong are selected. However, the gym makes both men and women beautiful and strong. Plus positive feminity and positive masculinity= Garden of Eden.

Dear lord: DAY 38, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Upgrade

Lordcassy:
From the mouth of the gods to your hands
Word!!!!

Before gods, come lords.

All hail the great lord, Lordcassy. Thy gods await thee.

Bless us o Lord. Let the eyes of thy servants see your glory.

The laptop you bought with a receipt and your name in it. Except otherwise.

Stop acting like a feminized man. Inform security personnels about it, tell them that she stole your laptop and immediately broke up with you. Record the calls you will have with her and use it as an attached evidence to your laptop's receipt.

Have a nice day.

Martinez39s:
Una get time and energy to be arguing with women? I don pass that level. Gentlemen and ladies, who wanna break bread with men and enjoy my Cold Stone & oryza sativa on cold?

How will I get some of those things? I need it asap.

Ladycewhy:
After all the back and forth of needless counter points ,in your summary;

Men are just upset that women no longer obey , submit, adhere to instructions.
And also men are upset with the government made up of 99% men . :-

At least the counter points made your pvssy drips. Hahahaha!

For the third paragraph, an intelligent person will know the difference between rules and their exceptions. And it is these exceptions---the few men in power and government compared to the majority of men among the masses you all normally draw your points from.

Rules count, not the exceptions. At least from there, solutions can be proffered.

Have a nice day.

Bon voyage!

MrCuteking:
You’re very intelligent. Believe me, no matter how solid your point is, it will never convince a stubborn woman.

Your point is the best on this thread.

On a norms I do ignore many of these nonsensical threads because it normally reeks of dumbness by the op and her likes.

I replied because many men and women are being bamboozled by the prevalence of these lies without really going down to the root. And also for the sake of some readers in search of some clarifications in regards to this matter at hand. Though, there are more to it.

Thanks for your kind words.

MrCuteking:
You’re very intelligent. Believe me, no matter how solid your point is, it will never convince a stubborn woman.

Your point is the best on this thread.

On a norms I do ignore many of these nonsensical threads because it normally reeks of dumbness by op and her likes.

I replied because many men and women are being bamboozled by the prevalent of these lies without really going down to the root. And also for the sake of some readers in search of clarifications in regards to this matter at hand. Though, there are more to it.

Thanks for your kind words.

Walkee:
your number 5 point is wrong, offsprings are of zero benefit to a man. As a man you gain nothing from having children. 99% of the time you will be long dead before they even get a job and are able to support you if you fell off on the way and majority of the time they won't even support you even if you were alive.
Children only love a father who provide, children love their mother whether she was able to provide for them or not. My step mother abandoned her children when my father died, they still loved her.
Women abort children, dump new born babies in gutters everyday yet everyone still believes a mother's love for her children is greatest thing in the world.

Take a look at your WhatsApp status, everybody is "hustling for my mama" nobody hustles for the papa. Listen to all the musicians, "their mothers prayed for them" no father prayed for their children.
As a man once you have children you become a slave. You work and earn 100k, you give your wife 80k for food and school fees, you send 10k your mother, and use the remaining 10k for transport.

An average married man don't have 2 good pairs of shoes whereas his wife has numerous heels and good clothes.
Abeg I don tire to type.

I stated that already.

However, I said that from a genetic point of view; surviving into future generations via the gene pool is an instinctual benefits to both fathers and mothers. That's the goal of of our genes. Marriage is just to help raise quality children that can help fathers carry on with their legacies when they die.

Overall, you're on point. I agree!

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Biglittlelois:
A truckload of trash.....as expected....combined with lies and whatabouism with a little dose of Kruger effect...


The earlier you dings realise feminism is not out to shortchange your way of life, the better for you all to be at peace....on a second thought, enlighten yourselves through Google with a beginners guide on the definition of feminism, then go from there[/s]

[s]The next time you want to gaslight, truth or a semblance of truth should be your watchword. Eve never blamed Adam for the apple, instead Adam blamed Eve for giving him the apple as if she forced the apple down his throat, which coincidentally is what is prevalent today, you men will never take the blame for your wrong doing, you all prefer to push it to the so called "weak" gender just to feel good with yourselves

Op made good points here that everyone has noticed, from multiple threads of insults and degradation of women, to pure hateful lies and assumptions. She took us back to the past of how it all began, from female mutilation to education denial, bride price, rights to vote and so many ills, all you could come up with is "cherry picking" as if it never existed[/s]

[s]Look around you today, you keep using the rants of women being opportunistic as if it is the time of old where women are married off to men who can provide while she makes the home, and even at that, our mamas are still hard working market women and farmers. You claim we are opportunistic, how many of you will marry a woman who isnt working or can't stand on her own today? Women everywhere, from the market place to shops and offices are doing exploits yet you come here to rant on and on, whereas you all are cheating working mothers in the process cos at the end of the day, they are made to have multiple responsibilities of taking care of the children, the home and run 9-5 jobs, while you men only run 9-5 jobs[/s]

[s]You men destroy the world from the time of old till now, from world war 1&2, the holocaust, Hiroshima, Pearl Harbour, to the corruption nuisances of Nigeria, armed robbery, cultism, kidnapping, terrorism etc. Look at what China, Russia and USA are doing today, showing and threatening each other because of ego and comparison of who has more military might than the other, you men keep destroying the world over and over again and you expect women to fight your wars for you because? If women were to rule the world today, there will be no wars, instead every nation will be keeping malice which is a good thing cos there will peace, life long peace, so get this fact into your thinking faculty today. And yet in all the nonsense you men keep doing in the world today, you don't see any female ranting and crying and wailing about it making it a gender war, instead you little men will scratch your faces in pain cos women did this and that, opening threads filled with[/s]
[s]gnashing of teeth on women, look at the redpill thread, more than one thousand pages filled with dissecting women(I can never understand the level of joblessness and excruciating pains going on there, it is an abnormal behavior cum mental disorder)like we are the cause of world problem, you men caused segregation, gender war, and tribal racism on this forum, go to politics section and see how emotionally daft you all are intellectually with your tribal wars,[/s]

[s]You guys are not logical beings, you have shown that over and over again with your consistent cries every single day, and Op is simply right in all she said, she made good points except you want to twist instances and real life issues just to suit your baseless narrative, accept these facts and move on, we are not your problem, you are your own problem, so do well to deal with your insecurities and hatred of women without dragging us into it.[/s]

The blame game again and again.

Violence is an evolved nature in men, but yet it is through this violence men has used in turning the world around. Violence is a trait that enabled men to protect their territories, resources, wives and children. It was a survival strategy against enemy tribes and wild animals. However, we are no longer in the wild and violence has decrease greatly.

By the way, intra-specie violence amongst women has also been researched on as women were violent towards other females that has males with resources. The hidden female oestrus cycle is a fact that correlates with this fact. So, you see men and women used violence as a tool for their survival.

Now what about the innovations, discoveries, inventions, science and technology etc that is prevalent as a result of men's effort? You see, this blame game always make you all blind to what's truly the reality and make you settle down for the exceptions.

Women now has greater freedom as never before, and we are still waiting for a landslide victory in many sectors that's as a result of female exclusivity. Still waiting for you all to demonstrate your ultimate independence.

"Abeg getat".

Have a nice day.