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FamilyRe: Is This The New Wickedness Stuff From Women? by CaveAdullam: 8:26am On Dec 24, 2020
defcon4:
So the child is crying, and you have zero skills in toddler handling.

Man of the year.

Let me give u advice

A while back I met a guy at the bar, every time I go there, he would be there. This perticular day he looked gloomy. I spoke to him "it's the wife right" he was like 'how did I know'

I said, your always at the bar of cause she won't be happy with you. He complained that the wife nags, and is jealous cause the children like him better and blah blah. Please not this children are below 2 years.

I told him, you have to give your wife a break, it's not easy staying at home all day. Take a day off, and do the "Mommy" work. Bath them feed them, put them to sleep. Let your wife dress like the babe she is and go visit her friends. Let guys toast her, let her come home and gist u how many admires she got. She will feel good about herself.

Do it at least once a month, you will have peace, and you will also LEARN
1. Will it also be right if she's allowed to work her ass once in a month to cater the household, pay bills and do all chores relating to the man?

2. Will it also be right if he decides to relate with young girls "just for fun?"

3. Should the woman get jealous the more if her husband comes back and relate the various tryst he had with different women?

I put these questions to you, and at present the 17 persons that liked your post.

Waiting for your arrival.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:08am On Dec 24, 2020
Don't slim fit yourself to a woman's tastes and desires. However, this can only be possible if you are a high value man who knows the worth of his shits in golds.

Women are highly motivated by emotions, if you become what she wants today, tomorrow she will desire another taste and the loop continues. And as a man, changing for the sake of women and not for positive growth and development that will be beneficial to you is highly chaotic. You will be no less better than a pawn on the chessboard.

Women don't appreciate men that are easily moulded, manipulated and maneuvered because it signifies weakness, low self-esteem, low confidence and low ambition. Rather, she prefers a man that she can easily enter his frame and form a particular structure.


Don't seek for her rewards and recognition; sex is the highest, and sex is cheap and nothing really spectacular about it to roll your head for like a wreckless dice on a casino board.

Maintain a very good, strong and reputable frame.

Maintain integrity.

Mould her as the quality leader you're and she will forever desire you.

Authority: Don't be a Simp.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:03am On Dec 23, 2020
The dreams, goals, ambitions, qualitative pursuits, etc you choose to neglect, chasing women based on your seductive skills, PUA proficiency, game efficacy will haunt you together with the women - with a schadenfreude feeling - at the finishing line.

Women don't deal with losers. Even God place a woman in Eden after a successful creation.

After exhausting your essence on them, they will hang on to another. This is called "branch swinging," a character display mostly observe in monkeys and apes. Be wise! Women want to be seen among winners, and they always wait at the finishing line. Losers disgusts women!

Don't sacrifice long term goals for short term dopamine pleasures. If you must pleasure, follow the Pareto principle: 80/20.

To a man, women and pleasures are complements. Protect your integrity and reputation with all diligence. And always strive to be a winner; winning not for the sake of women but for the building of men and promotion of civilization.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:46am On Dec 22, 2020
Women finds enjoyment in fun, because it directly fits with their emotions. To get her hooked, you must not reveal all your cards to her: when she becomes quickly familiar with it, it will cause her boredom and will seek for fun in another. 

Shred your cards to pieces, fed her with each piece, and the more she tries to fix these pieces to get a plain picture, the more she becomes enthralled trying to unravel the enigma before her. And since women already have proclivity for the dark and mysterious, she will not relent until such enigma is deciphered. 

Don't bore her. Become mysterious and unpredictable. This is the secret of good and funny conversations with women: keep her in suspense guessing your next move with her whole life, while you keep handling reasonable and productive activities. 

Authority: Resist the urge to shalaye. Avoid full disclosure
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:28pm On Dec 21, 2020
Krrt576:
* Throw your Honesty to waste bin ( honesty is not a value and it is also not the best policy. Honesty is a pure SCAM. [Do your research on this
Can you elucidate precisely or otherwise.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:27am On Dec 21, 2020
If you build yourself in the way of men:honour, respect, strength, vitality, courage, integrity, power, money, status, confidence, physique, wisdom, experience and intelligence, you will be able to enact strategic control and leadership.

It starts now. Gather your points on a daily basis. If you delay or neglect, you will be rejected and gradually diffuse.

Authority: Build yourself.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 11:28am On Dec 20, 2020
CaveAdullam:
Please, if you want the PDF send a mail to watchmanjesse5002@gmail.com
Please, don't derail this thread with your email address. If you want the book send an email to the above. Others have started sending a mail, do likewise and it will be sent to you asap.

No more shalaye.
We move.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam:
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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:02am On Dec 20, 2020
Have nothing to do with long distance relationship. Players and Alphas though scarce in amount are strategically scattered all over the places, and they are potential magnets that attracts women. Alphas are the real deals and women are easily attracted to them.

If you aren't there with her, you're simply diffusing, and you will be gradually forgotten. Let her bind herself to your territory and follow your rules as you can easily determine her frame and know what she's capable of doing; her weaknesses; and her level of good and evil.

Authority: Long distance relationship is a sin. Become alpha.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam:
Kalatium:
Does anyone has the book, mastery by robert greene?

I Find it difficult to get the book.
Best book ever on self development, and contains appropriate knowledge on how you can finagle your way as an employee, employer or an entrepreneur. Everytime I see my mastery book I smile. It is the monk mode book according to oga @tellyoursonthis/Illimitablemen.com

After Mastery, nothing! No book comes close when it comes to the strategies highlighted in it.

Without much ado, how do you want to receive the soft copy? Witchcraft? Prayer? Teleporting? Gmail? Or........?

I'm done ranting. Lol!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam:
Useless is the man that loses focus of his goals and higher purpose for the sake of women.

Ignorant is the man that has a worthy goal but always dealt mercilessly by women's whims and caprices.

Moribund is the man that has no goal or knowledge about the female nature.

Balanced is the man that knows where to place his goals amidst women.

Always rise in the hierarchy.

Don't become a vagina worshipper.

Don't become a simp.

Authority: synonymous to oxygen is the redpill.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:48am On Dec 18, 2020
Kaycee54321:
F.uck you, Bro. undecided
So, I'm your bro, and you were trying to render the purpose of our mission useless by planting tares among our wheats. Why bro?

If you are a true bro, you will not plan to f^ck me this cold morning. You're wicked! Lol

Anyways, I know what you were trying to emphasize, but since we're moving towards a common goal, we must quickly deracinate every trees not planted by our fathers.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:43am On Dec 18, 2020
Don't become a candidate of her screening process. You walk pass the screening environment, and definitely, she will become bamboozled by your refusal to partake in the screening interview.

Her screening gives her a upperhand in jettisoning simps and leveraging other candidates for her gains. And as for you; she will abandon all candidates and desire to find why you aren't interested in her. Women want attention, and she will definitely go for that man that values himself, attention and resources unlike simps. If you have what they want and don't give it to them freely they will go haywire about it.

For this reason, you must up your sexual market value. It is not a day job but you must gather points everyday. The higher your sexual market value, the more you remain at rest, comfortable while women and men tries to please you.

Authority: Build yourself.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:13am On Dec 18, 2020
MJBOLT:
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Thank you for cancelling this shit.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam:
In a blue pill society: Men feast on (damaged) women e.g prostitutes and boast about it. (Damaged) women feast on men and increases their income. Men lose while women benefit.

Coins should be channeled into profitable business with high Return of investment, and you will never regret doing so.

Attract women with your sexual market value, don't allow women to feast on you, and learn to save your coins for your growth and development.

Authority: Build yourself.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:34am On Dec 16, 2020
Junnior:
Interesting thread I must say.

Greetings to all the bosses. I've been reading in ghost mode.

I've read a lot here, so I want to ask,

how do you make friends with a girl/lady making sure it isn't parasitic? Just good friends, assuming you're not interested in getting sexual as well. . Is it possible?

Most boy-girl friendship that I see are parasitic. The girl perpetually leeches off of the guy. Is it possible for the friendship to work if the guy doesn't give in to her demands and he doesn't want sex from her as well? If yes, please how do you do it?


Cc ubunja, LordAdam, pansophist, capslocked, mjbolt, caveAdullam, luminouz, zabiboy and others I can't remember.

Thanks in advance for your great response
To tell you the truth bro: a man and a woman can't be friends! Heartbreaking for me too when I had that epiphany. The reason is that as the friendship tarries, you will definitely develop sexual feelings for her simply because both of you are not related by blood.
You will definitely become jealous when she starts telling you about her sexual escapades, series of trysts with her boyfriend and other guys and when she fails to reciprocate her own form of the friendship when you are in dire need of it.

Your highest investment required by a woman is your time and attention and you; sexual intercourse with her, which is her highest form of investment. Is it not foolishness if you squander your investment while she preserves her own because you don't want it? Think about it bro.

Maybe you are a religious man, and that's good by the way. The only way to benefit from women without sex is by developing and demonstrating a higher social and sexual market value. If you are a man of honour and respect, women will try to bait you with sex, gifts, attention etc. Use their sexual thirst or bait as a leverage to benefit more gifts and resources from them, while you remain uncaught by the bait---a stable paradox. Here you're not getting sex but highly benefiting other substances. Or else, forget about that friendship.

Even without sexual intercourse, you must ensure that she's highly invested in the ffriendship, no form of mutuality except her investments needs it necessarily e.g business packages. Your interactions must be to leverage, nothing more; nothing less.

However, should in case you decide to get married in the future, become a high value man, and snatch a nubile woman between the age of 18-25 after she must have passed the vetting process. Though, vetting doesn't means that women can't exercised their hypergamous nature, but it will keep them on tenterhooks as the relationship tarries. No need for stupid friendship.

If you can't do this, forget about friendship with a woman and just interact with them like your sisters. It is either sexual or nothing. Or better still, you leverage. No need for piling your contact list with unnecessary persons who will not benefit you.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:07am On Dec 16, 2020
Regex:
I am being shit tested at the moment. It's funny how I figured out. I'll tell me story in giffy


Modified

It's been more than a year since I moved on from my previous relationship. Since then, I've been working on improving myself financially just so I can travel around and have fun. But that's BTW.

This girl, kept on reaching out to me. She kept calling ones I intentionally declined and the ones I answered. But I never reciprocated any of it. So last month she called me, and I was tired of her calls and all, I told her I wanted us to be strangers. She was like, we are friends, I told her, I don't keep female friends, it's either I'm fvcking you, we are colleagues or we related. The thing is I don't wanna fvck you. She off. I told her us being strangers means, you will not reach out to me anymore. Asked her "no hard feelings right" (it was a tease. I know she didn't take it lightly).

Here's the shit test.
She chatted my best buddy. A guy she knows whatever the guy does on his WhatsApp I'd know, likewise mine. And she asked this dude to give her links to purn movies... Lol that her boyfriend will soon be in town and as a virgin she doesn't wanna be too naive to him.

Well, the test here is, she knows I'd read the WhatsApp. Like my friend will show me the WhatsApp. She just want to tell me this is what I'm gonna miss about her. But you know, if she had pulled this stunt a year ago, I'd have fall flat and probably have restless night. Lol

Luminouz emmaodet biggace Skepticus GLYCOLYSISS CAVEADULLAM and others!
How come your private conversations are public to your friend? Is the trust that solid? By the way, hope you know "testosterone is a b*tch. A carrot is dangling beside the focal point of your friend.

Withal, since you're no longer interested in her, cut off every lines that will bring back her memories to you, that includes not reading your friend's whatsapp messages concerning her especially. It's time you prove an abundance mindset.

Ignore and pass is the best method to handle this shit test.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:53am On Dec 16, 2020
The sinking sand moment: that period when you think you can't love another woman except her; you can't replace her; you can't find another woman like her; you're scared of losing her; you act accordingly to please her; you cry over her and you disagree with everyone because of her.

Authority: Have an abundance mindset.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:03pm On Dec 15, 2020
Compguy:
I'm I being simpy
So my supposed gf decided to prank me last night, say she had a thing with a guy, they had sex, and she's probably pregnant.
She begged me that I should stay with her and still love her. I told her upfront I can't do that if she could do that kinda thing, then she obviously don't love me.
After that, she began to plead she's sorry and she only tried to prank me. I immediately dismissed her and told her I wasn't interested in talking about any of what she has to say.

I know she was trying to test me. but is ignoring her the best thing to do?

It's 24hours now and I haven't talked to her. She's been begging for my attention..

PS: I have a way to confirm if she actually did it though.
Should in case you haven't received the baptism of TRP, quickly do because your village people want you to shed premium tears this end of year.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:37am On Dec 13, 2020
If you allow yourself to become mesmerized and incapacitated by sex, thereby neglecting her histrionics and bad behaviours and misdemeanors, you will definitely become a slave in your kingdom.

As normal humans separate themselves from the clinically and psychological disordered, so a man must separate himself from such kind of women.

Authority: value your purpose and little life over her.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 11:59am On Dec 12, 2020
JasperVII:
And funny enough if you refuse they won't waste time in calling you names. Recently two of my female course mates have labelled me "wicked and stingy" cos I refused to buy them things and also refused to help them go buy.
The essence of not saying "NO" blatantly is because as humans we're interdependent. No man can do all things by his own abilities as he must definitely require the assistance of others as he climbs the ladder to victory.

Definitely, one way or the other; directly or indirectly, he will certainly require her help, and since women have a record book of emotions, they will crosscheck to determine if you are on the dark or light side. You get right.

Hey caveadullam, but you said women don't appreciate your good gestures as time passes. Yes, they don't, and that is why you must reward her on a MUTUAL SCALE: YOU DO FOR ME; I DO FOR YOU. Now, she knows that you always deliver if she does her part, and don't have an idea about the prize of the current need you definitely want her for. Rather than been a simp that gave her whatever she wants without any form of labour on her side. You must be frugal with your coins, knowing when to give the least or highest coin. In a mutual relationship no one suffers. However, you can as well become PARASITIC as a form of leverage on your side. Don't allow others become a parasite on yourself.

Life is a game: you must be coquettish in all your approach, maintaining balance or knowing when to go to the extreme as per particular time.

Redpill is beyond the intersexual dynamics.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:06am On Dec 12, 2020
dunmorris:
One Shit hole is shit testing me, guys how will i further reply this lady badly. This time around, i want to deal with them.
Women are naturally redpilled and don't know its terminologies or how it really operates; they just act it. But you, you know what is TRP and its terminologies; you act it without revealing it especially to the female folks. Don't expect her to stop the test and go straight to the point, she doesn't see herself as a "wh0re" and will never act so. They are very knack.

Her: I need some money.

Me: come to my house to collect it.

Her: send it.

Me: If you're seriously in need of money come with your legs and collect it.

Immediately, the topic will change. You've placed yourself in a position of "generosity", she can't accuse you wrongly but see it as a failure on her side.

There are many other ways you can finagle your way, just be relax, mirror their words and actions back to them and see as things move smoothly.

You don't just say no blatantly. You play along knowing the concept of the game from the onset to the last line.


Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:12am On Dec 12, 2020
Wherever simps are clogging, women experience a truckload of attentions and favours; amplification of their hubris; and become the empress ruling the kingdom. They court simps on a parasitic level, as simps has nothing to benefit, and always at the losing end.

Too much supply causes a reduction in the value of a product.

Authority: Don't be a simp.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:44am On Dec 11, 2020
Wherever Simps are gathered, men who're most worthy of rewards and favours are jettisoned for painted faces and augmented bodies.

Don't be a simp.

Authority: Men first.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:52pm On Dec 10, 2020
ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT(AWALT): Yeah, my mama and sisters inclusive, and all other XX chromosomes related to me by blood or handshake or mere admiration.

Teacher: How do you save your money?

Olodo student: don't give women.

Authority: You prove to be wise if you don't spend your hard coins on b!tches.

Martinez39s, I cited the mention, you're the olodo student.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:54am On Dec 08, 2020
The more you try to please her; the more it becomes impossible to please her. She will definitely use it as a leverage to bolster her ego, treat you as bullshit, and substitute you for another.

Let her derive her pleasure from your pleasures.

Authority: Make yourself happy and she will automatically become happy.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 3:38pm On Dec 07, 2020
As the rain flows downward to the earth, so happiness ought to flow from a man to his woman.

As the cloud doesn't need the earth for nourishment, so a man mustn't depend on a woman for his existence.

As the ground gazes upward for water, so a woman must towards her man. If she becomes histrionic and rebellious like the desert, she will perish without water. Water here is pure masculinity, and any woman lacking it in her life will live miserably e.g feminists.


As the cloud doesn't give the earth all its water, so a man must act towards his woman; if he's completely opened, he will be quickly exhausted and abandoned.

As the cloud leaves the earth dried during the sunny days, so a man must towards his woman, because only true scarcity of materials, a material becomes valuable and appreciated.

You give her life and not the other way round.

You don't need her but she definitely needs you.

Authority: Take the upper hand.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 11:28am On Dec 06, 2020
Becoming more virile on a daily basis will enable you to know women who are worthy of your rewards and commitment, and thereby forcing wh0res into extinction. Pure masculinity must dovetail with pure femininity.

Stop rewarding b!tches with your time, money, resources and most especially testosterones.

Don't be a simp.

Authority: make women great again.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:00am On Dec 05, 2020
Towards simps; the gate is tight and sealed, but alphas hold the keys---I'm talking about women you know.

Authority: Be virile.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam:
I don't know who needs to hear this: you're just an ephemeral actor in her series. All your actionable moves, diehard scenes, sacrifices, gifts, adulation of her, romanticism, etc. will be forgotten when another actor start featuring.

Women's appreciation is but for a moment. When you're no longer able to bolster her emotional ego; she will definitely migrate to another zone.

Don't be a simp.

Authority: value yourself and your resources.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 4:52pm On Dec 03, 2020
i926:
Here we go again..
Not same for men. And this is what simps occupying the helms of top positions has reduced the law, men and the society to. Feminism needs egalatarianism between men and women in the family; in the workplace; in wages, but not in the law court. They claim their weaknesses in the law court, and sing the songs of "we need to be protected" but are free to do whatever they like without accountability, reprimanding etc.

Now, we can see that society holds men to a stringent level of ethical standards and morality; will punish them for sexual crimes lacking tangible evidences; and send them to the prison yards to waste away their precious lives. What of women? Yeah, they can go freely.

We can't opt out of this game. The redpill has come to stay, and we must strive towards altering these superficial and gender biased laws, and hold everyone accountable to their feet. The redpill doesn't end in intersexual dynamics, we must wage war against what is outside the course of humanity. Men are robbed daily by both women and the law court with the government sponsoring their agenda. We must fight against it by spreading the knowledge of TRP and taking all necessary actions.

Lets move towards occupying top positions and change things for our good, and the good of humanity.

As for the this woman: she will get caught up again red-handed, but this time will pay for her crimes. Insha Allah.

We must move.

Thanks.

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