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I don't know why nairalanders have a penchant for derailing threads with their comments that has no meaningful contribution to a particular thread. You guys will argue, and seek for a supremacy of your ideas and at the end it has no bearing to what's is been analysed.

From page 154-160 is something else; vitiated with posts that will make anyone lose quality information. The longer the thread the more it becomes muddy for others to read or lose control, and this is not the aim of the OP.

Please, if your comment lacks verisimilitudes to the thread title, shut up! I don't see its relevancy if it is so. The faster many are able to grasp the information, the better their deliverance.

This is the only encouragement we need.

No more shalaye
We move.

Thanks and merry Christmas and a prosperous new year.

defcon4:
1. If she's a house wife, you can't expect her to foot the bills. (Mind you a house wife with no source of income will get frustrated with time).
If she has some business or is working, why not?

2. I did not mean flirt. When you dress and look good, and get those looks from people (this goes for male and female), you feel good about yourself

3.maturity, understanding and above all trust.

It's easier said than done. And now that you've seen the table turned, and viewed the other side of the coin(what I wanted actually), there is no need beating the bushing or getting engage in rigmarole arguments.

Appreciate your submission, even though you tried to beautify your assertions.

Thanks.

God bless.

defcon4:
So the child is crying, and you have zero skills in toddler handling.

Man of the year.

Let me give u advice

A while back I met a guy at the bar, every time I go there, he would be there. This perticular day he looked gloomy. I spoke to him "it's the wife right" he was like 'how did I know'

I said, your always at the bar of cause she won't be happy with you. He complained that the wife nags, and is jealous cause the children like him better and blah blah. Please not this children are below 2 years.

I told him, you have to give your wife a break, it's not easy staying at home all day. Take a day off, and do the "Mommy" work. Bath them feed them, put them to sleep. Let your wife dress like the babe she is and go visit her friends. Let guys toast her, let her come home and gist u how many admires she got. She will feel good about herself.

Do it at least once a month, you will have peace, and you will also LEARN

1. Will it also be right if she's allowed to work her ass once in a month to cater the household, pay bills and do all chores relating to the man?

2. Will it also be right if he decides to relate with young girls "just for fun?"

3. Should the woman get jealous the more if her husband comes back and relate the various tryst he had with different women?

I put these questions to you, and at present the 17 persons that liked your post.

Waiting for your arrival.

Thanks.

Krrt576:
* Throw your Honesty to waste bin ( honesty is not a value and it is also not the best policy. Honesty is a pure SCAM. [Do your research on this

Can you elucidate precisely or otherwise.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
Please, if you want the PDF send a mail to watchmanjesse5002@gmail.com

Please, don't derail this thread with your email address. If you want the book send an email to the above. Others have started sending a mail, do likewise and it will be sent to you asap.

No more shalaye.
We move.

Thanks.

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Kalatium:
Does anyone has the book, mastery by robert greene?

I Find it difficult to get the book.

Best book ever on self development, and contains appropriate knowledge on how you can finagle your way as an employee, employer or an entrepreneur. Everytime I see my mastery book I smile. It is the monk mode book according to oga @tellyoursonthis/Illimitablemen.com

After Mastery, nothing! No book comes close when it comes to the strategies highlighted in it.

Without much ado, how do you want to receive the soft copy? Witchcraft? Prayer? Teleporting? Gmail? Or........?

I'm done ranting. Lol!

Kaycee54321:
F.uck you, Bro.

So, I'm your bro, and you were trying to render the purpose of our mission useless by planting tares among our wheats. Why bro?

If you are a true bro, you will not plan to f^ck me this cold morning. You're wicked! Lol

Anyways, I know what you were trying to emphasize, but since we're moving towards a common goal, we must quickly deracinate every trees not planted by our fathers.

Thanks.

MJBOLT:
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Thank you for cancelling this shit.

Junnior:
Interesting thread I must say.

Greetings to all the bosses. I've been reading in ghost mode.

I've read a lot here, so I want to ask,

how do you make friends with a girl/lady making sure it isn't parasitic? Just good friends, assuming you're not interested in getting sexual as well. . Is it possible?

Most boy-girl friendship that I see are parasitic. The girl perpetually leeches off of the guy. Is it possible for the friendship to work if the guy doesn't give in to her demands and he doesn't want sex from her as well? If yes, please how do you do it?


Cc ubunja, LordAdam, pansophist, capslocked, mjbolt, caveAdullam, luminouz, zabiboy and others I can't remember.

Thanks in advance for your great response

To tell you the truth bro: a man and a woman can't be friends! Heartbreaking for me too when I had that epiphany. The reason is that as the friendship tarries, you will definitely develop sexual feelings for her simply because both of you are not related by blood.
You will definitely become jealous when she starts telling you about her sexual escapades, series of trysts with her boyfriend and other guys and when she fails to reciprocate her own form of the friendship when you are in dire need of it.

Your highest investment required by a woman is your time and attention and you; sexual intercourse with her, which is her highest form of investment. Is it not foolishness if you squander your investment while she preserves her own because you don't want it? Think about it bro.

Maybe you are a religious man, and that's good by the way. The only way to benefit from women without sex is by developing and demonstrating a higher social and sexual market value. If you are a man of honour and respect, women will try to bait you with sex, gifts, attention etc. Use their sexual thirst or bait as a leverage to benefit more gifts and resources from them, while you remain uncaught by the bait---a stable paradox. Here you're not getting sex but highly benefiting other substances. Or else, forget about that friendship.

Even without sexual intercourse, you must ensure that she's highly invested in the ffriendship, no form of mutuality except her investments needs it necessarily e.g business packages. Your interactions must be to leverage, nothing more; nothing less.

However, should in case you decide to get married in the future, become a high value man, and snatch a nubile woman between the age of 18-25 after she must have passed the vetting process. Though, vetting doesn't means that women can't exercised their hypergamous nature, but it will keep them on tenterhooks as the relationship tarries. No need for stupid friendship.

If you can't do this, forget about friendship with a woman and just interact with them like your sisters. It is either sexual or nothing. Or better still, you leverage. No need for piling your contact list with unnecessary persons who will not benefit you.

Thanks.

Regex:
I am being shit tested at the moment. It's funny how I figured out. I'll tell me story in giffy


Modified

It's been more than a year since I moved on from my previous relationship. Since then, I've been working on improving myself financially just so I can travel around and have fun. But that's BTW.

This girl, kept on reaching out to me. She kept calling ones I intentionally declined and the ones I answered. But I never reciprocated any of it. So last month she called me, and I was tired of her calls and all, I told her I wanted us to be strangers. She was like, we are friends, I told her, I don't keep female friends, it's either I'm fvcking you, we are colleagues or we related. The thing is I don't wanna fvck you. She off. I told her us being strangers means, you will not reach out to me anymore. Asked her "no hard feelings right" (it was a tease. I know she didn't take it lightly).

Here's the shit test.
She chatted my best buddy. A guy she knows whatever the guy does on his WhatsApp I'd know, likewise mine. And she asked this dude to give her links to purn movies... Lol that her boyfriend will soon be in town and as a virgin she doesn't wanna be too naive to him.

Well, the test here is, she knows I'd read the WhatsApp. Like my friend will show me the WhatsApp. She just want to tell me this is what I'm gonna miss about her. But you know, if she had pulled this stunt a year ago, I'd have fall flat and probably have restless night. Lol

Luminouz emmaodet biggace Skepticus GLYCOLYSISS CAVEADULLAM and others!

How come your private conversations are public to your friend? Is the trust that solid? By the way, hope you know "testosterone is a b*tch. A carrot is dangling beside the focal point of your friend.

Withal, since you're no longer interested in her, cut off every lines that will bring back her memories to you, that includes not reading your friend's whatsapp messages concerning her especially. It's time you prove an abundance mindset.

Ignore and pass is the best method to handle this shit test.

Thanks.

Compguy:
I'm I being simpy
So my supposed gf decided to prank me last night, say she had a thing with a guy, they had sex, and she's probably pregnant.
She begged me that I should stay with her and still love her. I told her upfront I can't do that if she could do that kinda thing, then she obviously don't love me.
After that, she began to plead she's sorry and she only tried to prank me. I immediately dismissed her and told her I wasn't interested in talking about any of what she has to say.

I know she was trying to test me. but is ignoring her the best thing to do?

It's 24hours now and I haven't talked to her. She's been begging for my attention..

PS: I have a way to confirm if she actually did it though.

Should in case you haven't received the baptism of TRP, quickly do because your village people want you to shed premium tears this end of year.

JasperVII:
And funny enough if you refuse they won't waste time in calling you names. Recently two of my female course mates have labelled me "wicked and stingy" cos I refused to buy them things and also refused to help them go buy.

The essence of not saying "NO" blatantly is because as humans we're interdependent. No man can do all things by his own abilities as he must definitely require the assistance of others as he climbs the ladder to victory.

Definitely, one way or the other; directly or indirectly, he will certainly require her help, and since women have a record book of emotions, they will crosscheck to determine if you are on the dark or light side. You get right.

Hey caveadullam, but you said women don't appreciate your good gestures as time passes. Yes, they don't, and that is why you must reward her on a MUTUAL SCALE: YOU DO FOR ME; I DO FOR YOU. Now, she knows that you always deliver if she does her part, and don't have an idea about the prize of the current need you definitely want her for. Rather than been a simp that gave her whatever she wants without any form of labour on her side. You must be frugal with your coins, knowing when to give the least or highest coin. In a mutual relationship no one suffers. However, you can as well become PARASITIC as a form of leverage on your side. Don't allow others become a parasite on yourself.

Life is a game: you must be coquettish in all your approach, maintaining balance or knowing when to go to the extreme as per particular time.

Redpill is beyond the intersexual dynamics.

Thanks.

dunmorris:
One Shit hole is shit testing me, guys how will i further reply this lady badly. This time around, i want to deal with them.

Women are naturally redpilled and don't know its terminologies or how it really operates; they just act it. But you, you know what is TRP and its terminologies; you act it without revealing it especially to the female folks. Don't expect her to stop the test and go straight to the point, she doesn't see herself as a "wh0re" and will never act so. They are very knack.

Her: I need some money.

Me: come to my house to collect it.

Her: send it.

Me: If you're seriously in need of money come with your legs and collect it.

Immediately, the topic will change. You've placed yourself in a position of "generosity", she can't accuse you wrongly but see it as a failure on her side.

There are many other ways you can finagle your way, just be relax, mirror their words and actions back to them and see as things move smoothly.

You don't just say no blatantly. You play along knowing the concept of the game from the onset to the last line.


Thanks.