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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:25am On Feb 06, 2021
DAY 37, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: if she says she's no longer interested in the relationship let her pack her loads and go. Variety is the spice of life. Abundance is the way. It is her lose!

Don't think thrice about it, don't contemplate, don't bargain, don't apologize, don't genuflect, don't start quoting useless romantic lines, don't recite any poem or sing a love song.

To be very sincere, you noticed the signs that she's going to break up with the relationship, but you ignored, which made her faster to be the first to put a halt to the relationship. Withal, don't panic! It is time for you to unburden yourself from her chains and shackles, and have the freedom to explore, and do great things for yourself, and civilization at large.

If she's no longer interested, let her go!

Authority: Respect yourself!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:30am On Feb 05, 2021
DAY 36, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: if she says she needs a break from the relationship, know that it is time for you to exit that same relationship.

No longer waste your time rationalizing.

Authority: Be assertive.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:16am On Feb 04, 2021
DAY 35, REDPILL 2021

It won't last forever, but a first timer wants a brand new car.

It won't stay long in the body, but both the healthy and sick wants fresh food. Even animals go for fresh kills.

It doesn't guarantee an overall protection of life, even sick patients desires qualified doctors.

It won't last long, but everyone desires beautifully straight clothes.


But you, as a man, do not see it as sacrosanct to engage in long/short term relationship with nubile women; pure and pristine; a woman/women you have decided to spend the rest of your life with. What a pity! If damaged women are continuously rewarded or earning the same reward as the former women, why expect them to change? They won't! The more they earn out of their entitlement mentality, gold digging, broke shaming, p^ssy selling, body hawking and hoarding, the more they feel aplomb and lose regards for men and extend deep in their hubris.

You don't need leeches around you, avoid them.

Authority: don't buy the cow when the milk is free.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:23am On Feb 03, 2021
DAY 34, REDPILL 2021

You want to be a step father right, because her mother is tall, dark, enthusiastic and caring? Hope you know that the word: step father means to step up?

You must step up to take care of a child that doesn't carry your DNA.

You must step to a child that doesn't have your name affixed to his name.

You must step up to take responsibility of a child you've little or no authority over.

You must step up to a child you can't easily direct and control.


You must step up to a child that doesn't respect you.

You must step up to a child that knows you're not his father.

You must step up to a child who you can't fully and truly say is your own.

So, is this the way you want to live your life?

Authority: Avoid single mothers.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 12:34am On Feb 02, 2021
todayboy:
True
DAY 33, REDPILL 2021


Headline: False! He is not lucky but a fool!

A man that knows his worth, his efforts, his resources and how much they worth in golds will never feel lucky knotting ties with a retired h0e. Only a man that doesn't understand "game", the tenets of TRP and who lacks the understanding of the female nature will feel lucky and thank the gods for such a worthy wife. After all "he that finds a wife finds a good thing".

In these days, where virgin women are now demarcated into various categories: Anal virgins, Vagina virgins, Oral virgins, born again virgins, overall virgins, a man must be careful in selecting a woman who he wants to spend the remaining days of his life with---the mother of his kids and his source of peace and comfort as the companion she is. Failure to do this will wreck his life and doing the job half way will also damage his life.

The essence of marrying virgins is not a show of pride neither is it a guarantee that a union will remain fixed like the sky. However, virginity in a woman is important because:

1. Women, who got deflowered by their husbands has a very low rate of divorce propensity.

2. It guarantees a high level of emotional stability, happiness and low depression in marriage. A woman that has been tossed from one player to another like a tennis ball cannot be stable in marriage. If she stayed long in a relationship with a "reckless" alpha/player, she will never see any good in her husband.

3. Virgin women lacks a prior experience of sexual escapades, as her sex life will circumvent around that which was introduced by her husband.

4. Since virgin women lacks sexual experience, they will not be able to compare their husbands with their previous lovers when it comes to bedmantic skills.

5. Womb is not a cemetery---you know what I mean.

6. It can provoke a man to go to any length with the woman he met a virgin when some crisis occurs. It can even goad him to stay longer with her and always place her first before any other woman.

7. Faithfulness and loyalty among virgin women is higher compare to the non virgins in marriage.

8. Low risk of sexually transmitted diseases/infections etc.


Searching for a virgin woman seems difficult these days because of liberalism, feminism, lose of the fatherhood structure in the home, disregard and decline of traditional roles and values, misinformation propagated and spread by the mainstream media, lack of awareness, lack of accountability and the enormous impunities granted unto women. However, a man who knows his worth, and the sweats and blood he leveraged to get to the king's standard he now occupies will never settle for less. Obas/Kings, don't settle for less!

Many men today, because of the bluepilled conditioning they have been gummed to and the gynocentric environment they have been raised will choose any kind of woman for marriage/long term relationship, if not for anything but to quench their sexual thirst.

Again, virgins "seems" scarce among many men today because they seek for virgins in mature, intelligent, well educated, independent, easy going, loving, good 30+ women. They have this mentality that women from age 18-23/25 are not better as the former and can't make a good wife and a good home. Meanwhile, women are inherently "redpilled/machiavellic" from birth and ready for any romantic, relationship or love game once they approach or hit maturity stage.
And if this is the case, is it not good a man should take the lesser risk by going for nubile women, fresh in the game? Besides, since he has a lot of experience he can be able to overwhelm her and make her exist in his frame and make her move around the boundaries he has assigned her. But no, many men don't see this as realistic or wise, and would rather go for the so called "career/independent" women. And these are women who has lose their feminine essence as a result of the many bullshits they've been fed with as mentioned earlier and the easy and numerous leeways that has been provided for them by both the law, government and the simphood.

Single women on the other hand are pains in the ass as you have both mother and child/children to battle psychologically with in order for them to at least retrocede some grounds for you to stand and flow easily. A child is the clear difference between a single mother and a h0e as both are one and the same and always come with a truckload of bagages that can quickly ruin a man's entire being in no less time.

To sum it up: a man must raise himself to a king's standard and he will never lack virgins. Kings never lack virgins! Simps can go for retired h0es. The virginity of a woman, and a woman still pure and pristine, who embodies the quintessence of feminity, his children who will further his pedigree raised under the aegis of true masculinity and femininity, are the "only" reasonable benefits I can see for the now when it comes to a man going into marriage or a long term relationship despite the odds against him. If a man marries a retired h0e in this day and age, he is not lucky but a FOOL! It is better not to marry than marry into burdens and problems he can't escape.

Thanks.

Authority: Kings cum virgins; simps cum h0es
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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 1:58pm On Feb 01, 2021
DAY 32, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: you own the table, and whatsoever is found on that table belongs to you. All are your labour, and resources. You must not allow her to p^ssy-manipulate to make you think her worth is vast, and yours, least comparable. You're the one doing her a favour, if she begins to feel pompous because of her vertical lips, relocate yourself, and your table.

Authority: You're the prize, so, act as one.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:01am On Jan 31, 2021
DAY 31, REDPILL 2021

So, it has been a long time, and she hasn't improve on her attitude or behavior. Why waste your short life on the track waiting for that specific day? If she truly desire you, she will break her rules, realign her demeanor, sharpen her behavior, and surrender herself to your leadership. But she will never do this if she doesn't really desire, and value you.

There's no need waiting and hoping for that time because life is short; and using it as an experimental material that is accompanied by uncertainty, and darkness is dangerous. The hands of time cannot be taken backward; it is important, and if it is never used in appropriating diligent activities, you'll gain nothing.


Your life mustn't be hindered by such, therefore, you must set yourself aloof in order to build and develop yourself. Take advantage of every tick tock sound of the clock. Her day of awakening might come, but don't wait for it, sacrificing your life in the process.

Take a U turn. Let her go! Don't condone nonsense attitude.

Authority: Save your time.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 12:31pm On Jan 30, 2021
Emmynator:
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Then came a shit test, she came to me that she was hungry, I said "OK? What should I do?" then one other guy was like "come lemme buy food for you" and I was like "follow him", she said no, that's it me that she wants to buy food for her, I just laughed and told her that she ain't hungry then, the other guy was still persistent on buying her food, so when she saw I wouldn't bulge, she went with him, she came back with snacks, and offered me the snacks, I collected it and ate it (lol, you cannot shame the shameless

With women the way up is the way down and the way right is the way left, doing obvious things will get you nowhere.
God bless the red pill.
I literally rolled on the floor when I read that line. Lol! Oh boy! You mad o!

With women, the way up is the way down; the way right is the way left, doing obvious things will get you nowhere: A powerful quote indeed!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:32am On Jan 30, 2021
DAY 30, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: there're no six or seven steps that you must do to make a non submissive and highly belligerent woman bow to your leadership. It is a task, much difficult than all other tasks. Genuine desire; raw and organic and healthy in appearance and nature cannot be negotiated. If she's not interested, let her go! If eventually she's coerced by various influences around her e.g her parents and friends to follow you, she will pretend to be a good follower, but on the way, you become wrecked by her histrionics alongside hysterical behaviours.


If she desire you, she will follow you. Don't convince her with SMS, gifts, money, time, attention etc. Rather, use these things to edify yourself and stand on a high pedestal where you can easily select the woman that truly desire you from the ones that has come to exploit you.

Don't preach! Don't chase! Don't persuade!

Authority: become a slender beautiful flower that stands tall, though static, but able to attract the most beautiful butterflies.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:48am On Jan 29, 2021
DAY 29, REDPILL 2021.

I don't know who needs to hear this: beautiful women are not scarce but very plentiful. Don't try to quickly hook up with one because you are scared of your inability to hook another. But save your time to add more value to yourself that you may attract all the beautiful women.

Your purpose comes first. Excellence you must hook, and women should be relegated to the back stage and called as at when needed.

Authority: You first.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:39am On Jan 28, 2021
DAY 28, REDPILL 2021

Hope those getting married on a daily basis know that with women, there's no better for worse, in riches or poverty, in sickness or health "till death do us part".

In fact, she will be the one to bring that death from the pit of hell to her man when sickness, poverty or worst situations comes.

Women can't stand close to a man when his nightmares comes in the day, he is perceived as weak, and because they lack natural strength they will quickly forget about him and move to a man oozing enough strength. What shapes her reality is her emotions and comfort, any anything aside this is invisible to her. Her love is not sacrificial, she stick to her man for protection and provision, and when these qualities starts fading away, she will gradually diffuse from his ambient.

As a man, you must build yourself to the stage, where you can stand and not become weakened or fall when a woman flakes. This is life; and it's a reality. Take heart!

Authority: Swallow the redpill.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:27am On Jan 27, 2021
DAY 27, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: her kneeling down to receive an engagement ring might project submissiveness, but that in itself will not eradicate her inherent solipsistic and manipulative tendency. If you lack the ability to maintain frame and always stay in charge of the relationship, she will launch her missiles which were formerly in chains.

Authority: Maintain frame.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:26am On Jan 26, 2021
DAY 26, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: stop looking for love which is unconditional, sacrificial, freehearted and easy going in religious women. Better f^ck that shit.

Him: I will love to marry you.

Religious girl: how much do you have in your account. The amount of money in your account will determine if I will consider you for marriage or not.


Overall, seeking for an unconditional love in women is like searching for ten pins beneath the ocean; you will drown many times without locating any one. Women lack the ability to reciprocate a man's kind of love. It is impossible. In fact, it is easier for an elephant to easily pass the eye of a needle than for a woman to express a man's ideal kind of love.

If a man doesn't possess the material things of life, he becomes a scary figure to women and all around. Riches has many friends but none is a friend to a poor man. You will be value less, you will not be acknowledged, you will be scorned mentally in the minds of men and women around you. No one want to stay close to a man who can't provide.


For this reason, a man must put himself on the pedestal and sacrifice sweat and blood for his self development and improvement. Whether for show off or not, a man must strive to put himself in the place where he can gain control, fear and respect. He must become valuable and able to fortify himself against all forms of manipulations and deceit. He must strive to power!


Authority: Love yourself first.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:34am On Jan 25, 2021
DAY 25, REDPILL 2021

Instead of running helter shelter trying to secure a place for her in the market, channel that energy in bolstering your own market value. You let her find expression in you. The glory of a woman is her man. The duty of a woman is her man and family. Anything aside this is zero!

Don't be like the sculptor who having spent time in making and beautifying a gigantic figure becomes jaded and ugly after work. You must be much more beautiful than the figure you create, because it is you that gives the figure life and existence. Without you there will be no figure!

Authority: maintain and make yourself beautiful.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:16am On Jan 24, 2021
heartofcity12:
#TRP
DAY 24, REDPILL 2021

Headline: we'll not put our "time and energy" into women that (only) "want" us!

There's a difference between want and need. If you want something, and can't have it, there're substitutes which can serve same purpose e.g toothpastes, clothes, cars etc. Meaning: you can do without these things or you can go for their substitutes when the one you solely desire is unavailable. And by the way, if you find substitutes much better or at the same level with the major one you desire, you will continue to use the substitutes or jettison the major one so that you can truly have time to experience it, after all variety is the spice of life.

However, things you "need" have no substitutes, e.g water, money etc. If you don't have them as at when needed you will draw nigh to distress, despondency, and lose of heart.

Why am I saying this? Firstly, a high value man don't put his "time and energy" into any woman. That's an investment, and such investments always turns out negative for the man. Rather, a man should spend his time and energy on himself alone, and women feed from the crumbs that falls off. Yes! Crumbs are minuscule, and it takes an avalanche of time feeding on crumbs, and those that feed on crumbs are always affixed to those that eats the real bread. The more time a high value man spend eating bread, that is, investing his time and energy on himself, the more women congeal to him. Or, to be lenient, follow the Pareto principle (80/20) when distributing your time and energy towards women. By the way, a woman is already dating a high value man from the first point she saw him. Therefore, no need putting (much) time and energy into her.

Secondly, she "wants" you, which means that you're are replaceable. A high value man is irreplaceable, remove him from the equation, and it will forever remain unbalanced! By the way, it will take a huge amount of time and energy and sacrifice for a lady to have a plethora of high value men and decides to play chess with their minds. In fact, women don't want high value men, they need them as fire desires material things to destroy.

Thirdly, you don't convince a woman that's already interested in you---the green light approach. You flow with the tides, if she's interested, you invite, and lead, no need convincing because it will spoil the vibe. She's yours.

Nonetheless, what you posted is correct cause understanding nuances is not a day's job, but just had to key in because of some terminologies used.


Thanks.

Authority: where the treasure of a man is there his heart lies. Your time and energy are your treasures, if you put them on women; regardless of whether she's interested or not, your heart will always pursue her, and you know women are emotional, precarious and flakes easily. If you do this, she will ghost you! To avoid this, let your treasure be you and for you alone. The world is wicked and shitty, and nobody gives a shit about you. Like I will always say: value your short life.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:37am On Jan 23, 2021
DAY 23, REDPILL 2021

Signs that you're running round cycles:

Searching for ways to make her love you.

Reading love magazines and novels on how to make her happy.

Listening to Wednesday and Friday radio news discussion to learn her to make her stick to you.

Exiting your boundary to make her look like a goddess.

You neglect self development for her welfare.


You sacrifice your career for her career.

You sacrifice your time in trying to prove that you're always there for her.

Acting ludicrously and stupid just to make her blush.

You postpone important assignments because of her.

Always think she's a unicorn.

And above all, which is the stupidest, you always seek her advice before you do anything and her advice is always final.

Authority: value your short life.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:39am On Jan 22, 2021
DAY 22, REDPILL 2021

Remember: she has a truckload of backups, if you render yourself cheap and useless before her---tiring yourself to feed her voracious solipsistic appetite, she will tossed you behind, and replaced you with another back up.

She's not your everything, and neither are you her one and only.

Authority: Have your own backup.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:28am On Jan 21, 2021
DAY 21, REDPILL 2021

Remember: the effect of the pill within you is not to give you knowledge about how to annihilate women and their manipulative skills, but to fortify you by the constant rumination of the pill, to meet women at the level of their game, and win them constantly.

Women are natural manipulators, and what is natural you can't annihilate, rather, you find possible ways to blend with it to yield outcomes that will bring benefits to you. Same with the work of a sailor, he channels the rudder of his ship to his destination amidst all headwinds.

Authority: Swallow the redpill.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:46am On Jan 20, 2021
DAY 20, REDPILL 2021

Infants don't seek for excitement, but a man brings them into his excitement, and by the beauty of their faces, the dimples in their cheeks, their innocence and purity, it rekindles the fire that birth his excitement. The purity of a young son/daughter, a man's little facsimile, gives him a joyful heart and strengthens his instinctual power for protection.

Women ought to exhibit these characteristics, with discrepancies only in age and body size when compared to a child. But these days, you can hardly find women who exhibits such traits, instead for them to be accepted into excitement, they rush into it at a tender age, and in return, get damaged.

However, if you are able to find a child in a woman, she's the unicorn I'm referring to, and if you don't contain, tame and lead her, she will diffuse easily. And the question: do unicorns exists?

Authority: Swallow the Redpill.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:55am On Jan 19, 2021
DAY 19, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: you're not a non governmental or governmental organisation nor a charity organisation. If you expend your energy in squandering the little resources you've earned through hard work and labour, in exchange for sex or a "serious" relationship, you will end up friendzoned, bottled, frustrated and ignored. And end in shame and disappointment.

Authority: value yourself and your resources.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:38am On Jan 18, 2021
DAY 18, REDPILL 2021

A woman cannot make a man become a masculine figure because she lacks the logic and mental fortitude to really decipher the inner core of a man---what makes him strong, his protective instinct, his leadership skills, his source of provision, his propensity for fighting war, his sacrificial role, his desire to occupy the top, his confidence, his appetite for risk taking.

Stop finding your purpose by listening to your woman's advice or walking according to the steps she prescribes for you. Even without a father, a mother cannot solely mould a man into complete virility.

You're not a baby boy, you must mould yourself and give it a virile shape. No woman is coming to help you.

Authority: Find quality males and become part of them.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:09am On Jan 17, 2021
DAY 17, REDPILL 2021

They told you that if you're extremely nice; buy her gifts; send her logs and series of texts; take her on several romantic dates; worship her; adore her; respect her; and put her on a pedestal higher than you, she will love you, and even "love you for who you are". All these were lies!

You went from the beginning, progress to the middle, and even became extreme on the scale of niceness, but yet, you got nothing in return. You were played, deceived, manipulated, and became an object of disgust.

Now, your eyes are opened, you've seen reality for what it is, the scales no longer blind your eyes, your fantasies shattered, your dream of happy and ever after cancelled.

Henceforth, become tyrannical against any thing that will insist in dragging you backward to your former state. Be firm! Maintain frame! Even if she exit the relationship it is her lose. You're a god, and gods don't lose. Stand up, and continue to march forward to your destination, and that which will make you become respectful, and desired.

No more simping! You're neither a coward nor a fool and you must properly edify yourself to a higher standard that you may not be seen as one.

Authority: Focus.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:48am On Jan 16, 2021
DAY 16, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: if she can't prostrate herself in a submissive manner, then, she is not ready to be with you in your kingdom.

You've access to many maidens which you can upheave to a queen's standard. So, do not settle down for one that is belligerent and lacks the fibres to follow your ruling and respect you.

Authority: Act like a king.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 11:58am On Jan 15, 2021
DAY 15, REDPILL 2021

D!ck swinging is a method modern day women are using in determining dominant men and to hold them on tenterhooks. They no longer vet through the lens and auspices of a masculine figure behind them. They've become damaged in their own liberation and excitement.

As her body counts increases; the lesser her ability to pair bond with her husband or desired partner. You can't find faithfulness in a woman that dated and had several partners in the past.

You will have to compete and outwit every simulacrum of her past partners before you can be able to tame her and the probability you can be able to carryout this task as her partner is equal to zilch.

Authority: Virgins only. Avoid damaged women.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:35am On Jan 14, 2021
DAY 14, REDPILL 2021

Women always come and go. They fluctuates and are never stable.

Allies always stay, but if they leave, they are gone forever.

Don't allow the vacillating attitudes of women destroy the connections you've with solid allies---friends and family.

If you scorn your siblings because of a woman you're a simp.

If you insult your parents because of a woman you're an idiot.

If you close the door against your friends because of a woman you're a betrayal.

Authority: keep your allies tight.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam:
DAY 13, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: you mustn't wait for her to break all the rules before you dump her. If she breaks the most essential rules consciously or consistently, dump her!

Not keeping to rules has a domino effect, if one is consistently disregarded, other rules become nun and void.

If your love for p^ssy blind your eyes and makes you neglect the signs of the red flags, you will end up disgraced and destroyed.

Authority: Kings, don't tolerate nonsense.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 12:23am On Jan 12, 2021
TheUndercover:
Women have a propensity to distract you from your mission. Do not permit this.

I won't say much about this so I won't be termed as too stoic or too serious about Life, but if you keep doing that because you think you're kind of amazing or something else hmm... I leave you to it.

Many Great Men have fallen through that path. When they were in the act, they felt they were on top of the world; but when reality dawned on them, they wished for a second chance to make things right which they will never get.

A man that can't control his sexual urge won't go far in Life. Don't damage future opportunities because of few minutes of pleasure today. There's more to look forward to. At the end of the line, you have absolutely NOTHING to achieve on that path, but you definitely have A LOT MORE to lose.
In addition to your wise saying:


DAY 12, REDPILL 2021


As usual, the redpill is amoral, but people fail to juxtapose long term goals with short term goals. That's human nature, always graving for short term dopamine pleasures. We want to satisfy our animal instinct in whatever way, and method without first knowing its outcome---wear, stagnate or elevate us.

My senior colleagues that were into spinning plates thinking that's all about life have nothing to write home about. One even died of HIV. All of them frustrated! They thought life was all about women, booze, drugs, and party. These were men with money, but as the sunset, twilight came, and the demons started crawling out of their shells. Felix Dennis in one of his books said he lost good allies because of drugs, booze and wh0res which caused a serious damage to his health of which he is still bearing the scar. He even had not less than fourteen mistresses who he placed on monthly stipend. He had the money, fame, and popularity. But after he was able to snatch his life back from death, he dumped all wh0res, and gave up bad habits. Are you tempted to call them simps? Except for Felix Dennis, those colleagues of mine are women magnet, many girls, ladies, baby mamas put their lives at stake for them. They were pure players.

This is not a matter of morality or immorality, it is simple common sense! You will observe that great men who striked great chord in history were aloof from women. This is not to say a man should clip his d!ck or not do whatever he chooses to do with his reproductive organ, but that in every dealings he has with a woman, he loses, whether he likes it or not (except for Leverage, p!mp!ng, gold digging or other machiavellian purposes which must be done with caution, and a high degree of smartness). Even if reproduction doesn't occur as a result of sexual intercourse with a woman, he loses semen, and energy, while she protects her limited eggs, and profits more from the sexual exhibition because it takes a longer time for women to reach orgasm, and as a man in order to boost his ego, he must definitely try to bring her near sexual satisfaction but meanwhile, he experienced ejaculation hours ago. What if she reproduces? Then, he has mother, and child, to take care of. Same thing, he lose! Therefore, a man must be wiser than a serpent around them.

What about our biological nature? That's why we are not like other lower animals, we have willpower, the ability to know what is good for us, and what will help us survive in the long run.

The only way a man can smother his lose is to ensure that in his pursuit for pleasures he must endeavor to build a strong legacy that will stand, and speak for him when he's no longer alive. He doesn't know when death will come knocking on his door. It is good he make good use of his time, and the little opportunity he has. Women come, and go but if the time he ought to use in doing relevant things is trade off for women, regret it will be at last.

Men have difficulty conditioning their time with women; an hour always seem like a minute with them, and they expend more hours because romance is sweet to a man. If a man is not selfish with his time, and attention around women, he will miss out in life.

Yes, some men can still have the upper hand no matter their escapades, and that I know. I'm aware of this exception but the rule as it is observed among majority is what I just explained.

Authority: whatever it is about women around you, be very careful, and wise because to catch a thief you must think like a thief.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:00am On Jan 11, 2021
ubunja:
the RedPill has been misrepresented in a couple of instances on this thread. Guys have bended the RedPill to suit their morals, standards and economic level. The RedPill is simply putting yourself first. Doing what's most profitable to you that your conscience can live with. To one man cheating maybe the pinnacle of the redpill experience. To another it maybe disgusting and vile. Choose your level. Take what you are most comfortable with and leave the rest on the table. Do what is congruent with your character.
Francis95, take proper note @bolded. Another answer from Baba. Lol

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:58am On Jan 11, 2021
LordAdam16:
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What you're describing is called spinning plates.

It's a fancy term for the age-old practice of high SMV men having mistresses/concubines/consorts.

The consensus in TRP is that an abundant mindset is key. You already know why. What you do with the skirts you have in abundance is up to you. If you're a moralist, they're just there in your orbit and you're not having conjugal relations with them. There's nothing wrong with that.

If you're an anti-moralist and can deal with the unique challenges of having an SO + mistresses, there's nothing stopping you either. However, not every guy is cut out for that.

Obviously, you're also not going to find a lot of material on how to spin plates effectively in or out of TRP; even though a lot of women are amenable to this arrangement.

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With that said, adopting TRP nuggets does not preclude you from having your own guiding principles, values, personal ordinances, or morals (if you're a moralist). TRP is about improving yourself and understanding the female psyche (nature). TRP gives you a blueprint, but your journey of self-development and -improvement goes well beyond.

I'll give you an instance. When it comes to skirts:

A. I don't stick my **** in crazies.
B. I don't sh*t where I eat.
C. To move from acquaintance to friend, the skirt has to be sexually attracted to me (in addition to being of value to me; and I don't mean basic sh*t I can hire someone to do for minimum wage like food or laundry).

This ain't strictly TRP. Just personal standards and values. If you're far up in your TRP or even life journey, odds are you have a couple of your own values.

If one of these is you'd always be exclusive to one skirt. That's totally okay! I'm not a moralist, so if yours is to spin plates, don't expect an objection from me. Conversely, don't expect vocal moralists to let you off easy.

-Lord
Francis95, this is the answer. Read very carefully.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:45am On Jan 11, 2021
DAY 11, REDPILL 2021

"Scope Insensitivity": when you're in a terrible situation, the amount of help she renders is very very small when compared to the help, the gifts, favours, love you've previously shown to her.

She will claim that she's doing her best, but that is the best she will continue to do even as your problem is in a crescendo. If it is 50%, that it is, and it is final. No more, no less. Worst case scenario, if solutions are not nearby, she will dump you.

Women, only stand with you when you're strong and at the top. When you're weak, and drown to the bottom, you become and object of scorn, and disgrace.

Authority: Be wise!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:11pm On Jan 10, 2021
DAY 10, REDPILL 2021

SELECTING A WOMAN FROM THE STANDPOINT OF LOSING HER. PART 4/4

The Fisherman's mentality: the ocean is the hope of the fisherman, and a repertoire of the resources he desires. He's not scared of losing fishes because the ocean is a reservoir of fishes. He has the opportunity to harvest as many fishes because he's in the place of abundance, and can simply separate good fishes from bad fishes. Since fishes comes in different species, and sizes, he's not bothered about the ones that rottens. Inasmuch he has a ship, and a large fishing net compare to the one that has a little canoe, and a fishing hook, he will definitely dwell in abundance.

Authority: Have an abundance mindset. Elevate yourself.

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