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TheVictim01:
BLESSED will ever be this thread and all that jave contributed to it, long live TRP.
I am to come up with a thread on personal development, especially physique, fir thats my stronghold and hopefully some defence tactics (martial arts). a thread to empower one another, most crucially with capital and skills for the sake of the brotherhood, set up an annual convention for redpillers to catching some fun and sharing that which could not be aired here.
Im currently chasing 7 digits, monk mode for now.
I SEE this community in prosperity.

TheUndercover:
You either pick someone who’s complacent, sits on the couch like a sloth, but caters to your emotional needs and is available all the time. Or you pick someone ambitious with a purpose that has no availability.

Pick your poison carefully. Because if you select an available man, you will eventually become repulsed by him.

But then DONT complain and find it unacceptable for a man to be working on his purpose and deliver a better future for the family that INCLUDES YOU as a whole. You don’t know what you want. Understand that. The moment we give you what you want, you flip flop like a dying fish to the other side.

Here’s some advice. Pick a man with NO availability. Because that's a man with purpose and ambition. He is the right selection. And his unavailability is a sacrifice. He is doing everything to build a better future.

And that should constitute a degree of sacrifice on YOUR part: For you not to be a nuisance and understand to control your emotional needs and support him.

No man wants to not be available. But that’s the sacrifice we make to secure our future. If you don’t like that, then find a sloth on the couch who watches netflix all day. Or find a guy who’s loaded with inheritance money but can’t iron his own shirt.

Pick and sacrifice.

Cc Lalasticlala Seun Farano

I'm not taking the credits for this post.

SOZINN:
Coming from a woman

Junnior:
Nice write up as usual. However, I don't believe IQ is fixed. The brain muscles are no different from the torso muscles in that they can be worked on and made to be more efficient.

PETUK:
here

Emmynator:
I have a friend who is red pilled to the core, even though he isn't involved in the manosphere. He knows the red pill principles from heart and experience.
He is currently having a LTR with plans to marry, On this nugget, he said and I quote "women don't know what they want, if you want to cater for every whim of a woman, you can never satisfy her".
I was interested in listening to him more on this point, so I asked him for practical insights on how he deals with requests from his fiancée.
Here's what he said:
1. He doesn't give answer to her request immediately (even those that won't take him anything to do), the reason for this is to gauge the seriousness of the need. He said "women hardly think long term, they make request according to how they feel at the moment", so he uses delay to separate the wheat from the chaff. If she isn't persistent about it, then it probably wasn't important.
2. Make her used to rejection, he said she heard "no" so much that, she thinks twice before asking and gives more reason than "I just want it". So she doesn't bother him with requests that don't have reason to back it up.
3. Change it for her when she starts giving attitude because of rejection: she will surely try to use giving attitude to make you succumb to her, but man must warn sternly to put an end to attitude cause by rejection.
4. Give in to genuine and urgently important needs, one has to balance it by actually giving when it's absolutely necessary.

I learnt a lot from this conversation.