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It is unfortunate that the antispam bot banned me for 24 hours for making an innocuous comment on this thread before and thereafter, deleted it. Notwithstanding, the truth must prevail.

More than 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and more than 50% of the men at least possess more than 60% of the traits listed in the writeup.

The aforementioned traits ought to be embodied by all men, because it is the archetype of a virile man. A Woman need to ensure that such qualities are ostensible in a mate she has decided to submit to for making use of her womb, and limited ova. This intimacy will bring forth children that will further the promotion of civilization. With these qualities, children can be raised under strict guidance in a degenerated world, and protect his household from packs of wolves.

However, men are the real romantics, they are logical, and it will not be a herculean task for them to quickly adapt to the aforementioned traits if they really understand what it means to be masculine and feminine, and have a sound understanding of the female nature and how the intersexual dynamics work. Many men lacking in this knowledge and archetypal traits today are effeminates as a result of political correctness, social ideologies, government policies, the demands on men to perform (though an inherent trait) etc. Not only that, many young men of today didn't grow under the aegis of a high quality virile figures around their lives. A gynocentric society is not portable in raising quality male figures.

A man will go to the extreme to prove his love for the woman he loves because he thinks his love will be reciprocated by same woman; mother-cum-son relationship, of which a facade, and impossible. Regardless of the aforementioned traits he now embodies, women are still in their threshold of hypergamy, can pull the string anytime and bring to surface their hubris and histrionics. Again, the physical and legal burden on men in either long or short term relationship is enough to make men go into sexual hibernation; divorce massacres, economic ruggedness, and the work involved in raising children in a sick world.
But this is not to scare men, because a high quality man; a woman will submit to, but her hypergamous nature must not be seen as thing not worth any consideration.

Since iron sharpens iron, high quality men must seek for high quality women in their femininely pure and pristine state to ensure a successful relationship while it last. Men and women that cannot condole the shenanigans that comes with a sexual relationship should enter the MONK MODE, especially for the men if they value their inner peace, joy and happiness.

Withal, man must perform because the progress of the human population and civilization falls on his shoulder. He must take responsibility, and become like the archetypal male. Perform he must.

Thanks pansophist for such a wonderful thread.

God bless.

Kobojunkiee:
You actually measure the hymen by number of penetration recieved? You are indeed clueless about what it is and why it is. Anyways, here is information to help straighten you out .

Please be sure to pass the information on to friends and family so we stop disgracing ourselves right in the middle of the information age, claiming we are the most educated per capita.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jt5bE117eGI
https://www.nairaland.com/5858056/most-people-think-losing-virginity
https://www.nairaland.com/5858026/truth-virginity-those-not-know

No quality evidence to support your bogus claims mr man, except youtube videos repeating same story with a domino effect which only have a meaning among feminists, degenerates and wh0res.

No evidence for this claim: "intact hymen for women who has given birth to more than 20 children." Hey, wait, don't tell me how 34 of 36 pregnant women still had intact hymen, because;

1. The sample size is very small to disclaim so serious a topic on hymen.

2. No replication.

3. No study on the type of hymen possessed by these women.

4. Only recognized in the camp of few left wing scientists, and bloggers.

You proudly beat your chest like Hong Kong when you made another superficial claim that many prostitutes still have intact hymen because of A SINGLE SEX WORKER that still had some traces of hymen around her vagina; an experiment carried out in 1906. Again, this fairy tale suffers the same consequences as stated above for the pregnant women.

The links, write-ups and videos were just hammering on patriarchy, and how it has limited women sexuality without going further in examining the physical, emotional and psychological consequences full scale liberality, and debauchery have on women. It is an attempt to give a free ride to lewdness, and a false hope to those who had been involved in binge sex, lasciviousness and debauchery.

The hymen still remains a thin membrane, and can be totally ruptured, teared, or broken solely by sexual intercourse. Other activities like fingering, masturbation, tampon etc can cause it, but should be considered as outliers. Bleeding and pain might not be seen as a sign of hymen breakage; but still, it remains an outlier, as it is only experienced by few women during their first sexual intercourse. Concisely, most women experience bleeding relating to hymen breakage during their first sexual intercourse(vagina penetration.)

Therefore, until a reasonable scientific evidence supports your bogus claims, and that of your confederates, we will stick to the religious and cultural importance of the hymen and virginity and observations on a general scale.

To this end, I will leave you with a question. If the hymen is still intact in many mothers and prostitutes, what then, is the essence of HYMENOPLASTY/HYMENORAPPHY?

Thanks.

Anti spam banned me o. But the spam gave me some inspirations.

But here is another dose.

Kobojunkiee:
Not even close!
Most every woman has a hymen, and even those who have had 20 babies can still have their hymen intact.

You have to educate yourselves, not continue wallowing in ignorance!

Wonderful. This will be a great knowledge revolution and unlearning on my side if such bogus and ambiguous claim comes out true. Somewhere, you even mentioned prostitutes having an intact hymens.

Like you said: "even those---women, mothers----who have had 20 babies----children, can still have their hymen intact.".............in addition to the thousands of penis penetrations they have received via their vagina opening. Wonderful!

I will make sure I watch all the videos you posted, as I have already started, and read all associated links.

The truth must prevail.

My paddy them: skepticus, glycolysiss, ubunja, regex, pansophist, dpsychologist, martinez39s, I think is time to update our knowledge and software oooo.

Lets go.

MhisTahrah:
Nigerian men- Women who have no jobs or means of livelihood are liabilities in marriage.

From our evolutionary days, women were nurturers, took care of their children and the weak people among them, while the men were hunters, protectors and major providers for the family. Even from the Christian Bible, men were assigned to till the ground, and women to experience labour pain yearly or as the case maybe. Men and women of old were capable of performing their activities and carrying out their responsibilities, and still able to love each other. Men proved to be men by leading, women by submitting, children by living according to their parents instructions and lifestyle. This was a very balanced equation.

However, there was a shift in this balanced equation because of different revolutionary phase humans encountered; Agricultural revolution, industrial revolution, technological revolution, and sexual revolution. These revolutions in themselves are good but they come with inevitable unintended consequences. For example:

1. Men were no longer close to their wives and children as a result of office works,

2. Women neglected their innate and biological desires: to raise children and have a wonderful family, and seek full scale independence,

3. Children became liberal and degenerated because they lack proper parental guidance.

4. The government rewarded anyone who will work for them without no care for the nuclear family,

5. Introduction of birth control pills which is messing a lot females without them being aware of it, etc.

A high quality man who can provide for and protect his family does not require his wife to work, and will not see her as a liability, because a woman cannot serve two masters at the same time. It is either her husband or her boss. This is not a free ride to gossiping, laziness, nonchalant behaviours. There are many ways a man can engage a full time house wife;

1. Open a business for her so that she can be able to device proper time allocation for her husband and children, because for her they must come first.

2. Assign minor works to her e.g she can help you to do minor office works at home like typing, arranging files, sending emails, writing etc.

3. If you're an entrepreneur, give her some roles to play e.g analysis of goods, accounting details, taking inventory etc.

4. Encourage her to start writing novels, books, articles etc.

5. Begin to think about other sources of income and how to established and start it running. Use her brain.

There are not too many differences between the male and female brain, but I think if women are conditioned to act according to their brain capacity, they will do fine in their own suit.

No man want a full time zombie housewife.

MhisTahrah:
Nigerian men- Career women, independent women are unsuitable for marriage.

Career women are masculine. They exhibit masculine traits because they want to climb to the top by wrestling with men and other females. Aggression is for the male, and when a woman suppresses her feminine traits, she becomes aggressive and seen as a man. And as you know, men don't get attracted to---masculine women---men.

Career women have sacrificed their biology for wages, and cannot really perform like real feminine women. They don't have respect for men below them, and always seek to become like the men on top. They are unattractive!

This should not be confused with independent women(entrepreneurs) that make good cash for themselves, do not leverage their body for money and gifts, and of course, they are very few in numbers.

Independence is not the ideal state for a woman, If a woman sacrifices her career in becoming a scientist, she can raise many scientists among her children. But because of the revolutions I mentioned before, women are forced to work. If she can't serve her boss more than her husband, she gets sacked, and if she serve her boss more; her family is neglected.

So, to at least maneuver this problem: become independent for the main time, get engaged to a high quality man by maintaining your femininity, and dump your career for family when fully married. You cannot serve two matters synchronously.

MhisTahrah:
Same Nigerian men want virgin brides but are well-known fornicators in their neighborhood.Geez!

Life is a game full of manipulations here and there. You either shield yourself or learn the game to win or learn how to counter the game to not become a victim.

Sexual intercourse above age 18 is consensual my dear. A woman ought to know the man who is ready for marriage or not. If she fails the test, become enthralled by his seductive tongue, no one is to be blamed. I'm not a partner of hypocrisy, but this is life, nobody cares about your morality. If you're ignorant of the game it is your fault.

It is not a crime to desire and want anything for yourself, if you work for it, you will get it. Men must beware of women who has come to parasitize on them, and women must beware of men who just want a taste of their flesh.

Nonetheless, the foolish and ignorant dwells among us, they will be leveraged, used and dumped: this is the very core of the game.

Thanks.

realtalk19:
I just hope you are perfect enough not to have flaws , very tolerating and never get pissed.

There is no perfect human anywhere.

Nothing is 100% perfect. I burst your bubbles right?

Mistakes, flaws, errors, glitches are part of life, they make life worth living, and makes interesting; the story of how we achieve our individual success above all odds.

However, there are silly mistakes: the ones young women engaged in as a result of so called independence, and full scale liberality. Take for example, the corollary effect of debauchery, lasciviousness, juvenile exuberance is; pain, depression, low quality and value, incurable sicknesses and a host of other psychological and emotional disorders all because of a reckless lifestyle. These are silly mistakes because you engaged in it to gratify your sensual pleasures and not on the road to success.

Like I said before, those qualities are inherent in women. Men of old knew this and how invaluable it is for women, and made them almost secluded women from the outside world. If women are not seriously under control and under the auspices of real masculine men, the result is: what we see daily on instagram, facebook, youtube and the mother of them all; feminism. Our progenitors were not stupid, but because of a change in the sexual market place, government and social policies, women became untamed, left to decide for themselves, not surrounded by protectors any longer but now exposed to predators. Women only come to the knowledge of this fact when they are close to the wall, but by then, it is too late.

So, the qualities pansophist listed are as easy as feeding yourself, except you've veered far from it. However, there's always a second chance, use the knowledge to correct your foibles, and fortify yourself against future errors. The knowledge is not for yourself only, but for every young female around you, and most especially your daughters.

Jostling to become a paragon of perfection is ridiculous, as no one can become it. Be the best you can by:

1. Becoming analytical and logical and observatory,

2. Lovely, humble, gracious, conservative and kind,

3. Ruthless against stupidity, ignorance, procrastination, laziness, temptations, low quality things, arrogance,

4. Ready to learn, unlearn and relearn,

5. Understanding the basic principle of important matters before attacking anyone.

Nevertheless, move towards perfection.

Thanks.

pansophist:
Wife material.

CaveAdullam, I found a wife for you

Loooooool. Thank you sir.

Shortyy:
Oga I not get time to dey read all those trash. Virgin or no virgin, someone that will be promiscuous will be promiscuous.

And if I find a good woman I'll introduce her to my bro. Virgin or no virgin.

You don't have the time to read, but you have time to expose your low IQ about a fact you lack knowledge of, and still acts strong even in the presence of pictorial statistical evidences.

Now, every sound and logical person can judge for himself or herself if virginity is relevant for marriage or not. The truth is open for all to behold.

Bon voyage.

Shortyy:
You're still posting nonsense abi?

All my course mates that married when we were in school were runs girls, who married men they met in bars. High class men for that matter. And most of them are overseas with their hubbies.

But you will never advice any of your brother or male relative to marry a runs girl. Hypocrisy at its core.

And for your info, many men who occupy top positions are simps e.g politicians. The reason you see jobless girls with a very low IQ and mental capacity displaying houses, cars, bags and shoes they cannot afford based on their own ability.

More than 80% of men lack an understanding of the female nature, and they will commit to any woman in as much they satisfy their libido. And of course, many are rich, high quality, famous e.g Will Smith, but that an absolute simp when it comes to women. They are pawns in women's chess board, the ones you call MAGA, ATM, sugar daddies, etc.

Your runs girls classmates were subtle and good in their games.

Shortyy:
Virginity or what not isn't a criteria for a peaceful and successful marriage. And there are virgins who married for years and still no child.

This messed up mentality of some of you men is very disgusting.

PURE LIE!!!! LIE FROM THE BOTTOMLESS PART OF HELL.

Shortyy:
God will bless who he'll bless no matter what.

For your information:
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.

Now lets see who's talking nonsense, and know the truth about virginity.

Shortyy:
In other words a 26 year old lady shouldn't marry because a hymen has cut.

I'm sorry to say this, but this is a very useless post.

The average age of menstruation in women is between 8-14years. The essence it starts early is to quickly prepare women to make good use of their fertility, because as they grow older their fertility decreases which is fully collaborated in menopause: age 40 and above.

Now, a very large percentage of women, to be lenient enough; 70% and above, are approach for marriage immediately they hit their first menstruation, and begin to develop womanly qualities at puberty/adolescence. Since 18 years of age is when she becomes an adult and a legal age of consent, men in hordes will begin to fight for her attention in order to claim her personally. Many will declare their marriage proposals, but because she is naive, beautiful, young and can garner attention from all the cardinal points, she will decline their proposals, and cling to the men and bad boys who just want a taste of her flesh, and move away when satiated. All these happen between age 18-25.

In the age range of 18-25, many women are still young, fertile, beautiful and elegant. As a result of the sexual market deregulation, confusion on what it really means to be feminine or masculine, social obfuscation, liberalism, poor economic system, crazy ideologies and poor parental training, women resist their innate biological and natural ordination: which is to raise and nurture a family under the auspices and home of an alpha man. Instead, they focus on nonsensical careers, become social media narcissist; garnering likes, exposing their genitals for cheap pays, disrespecting good young men with marriageable potentials, enter into lion dens where they become objects of depravity, embellishing themselves in masculine traits. All these factors listed jeopardizes her fertility, and put her at a great risk as she approaches the wall---age 30.

Like I said earlier virginity/the presence of a hymen should be the first and necessary prerequisite any reasonable and high quality man should consider in a woman before committing to her in a long term relationship or marriage between age 18-25, because women at this stage are highly fertile, and still beautiful. Women around age 25-30 can also qualify if they are virgins with a high percentage of femininity. Although, at this age range it is difficult to find such women, and many put masks of superiority in order to mimic high quality women, and manipulate innocent and ignorant men into commitment.

So, any woman can get married to whomever she desires depending on her subtlety and manipulations. In this present day, many women eat their cake when young, and have it back when they catch a beta male on tenterhook. This is possible because more than 80% of men were raised in a gynocentric and blue pilled society to please women, dance to their tunes and satisfy their desires dangling the slogan: HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE before their faces.

My advice is for men who through thick and thin has upheaved themselves to the upper echelons and other males below the pyramid.

So, a lady above 26 who is not a virgin or one who is a repentant wh0re can still get married, but not to a high quality man who understands the outer and inner layers of the female nature, and how the intersexual dynamics works.

Thanks.

pansophist:
In other words, the aformentioned qualities are too much or unreasonable to seek out for? Damn.

Nothing there is difficult for a woman. It is as simple as ABC as it requires little muscular work and a good dose of mental capacity. In fact, all women were born with the aforementioned qualities, but squandered it away out of negligence, liberality, ignorance, and poor parental upbringing. Only when they are done with their debauchery days, and decide to settle down will they begin to discover and analyse the mistakes they've made in the past. Many of them are lucky though, because since majority of men has veered off from virility traits, they still settle for such kind of women----They've found true love at last. Loooooooool.

If women will not settle for less, men also must raise the bar and not settle for less also. This is stable enough.

Ride on jare.

Nice one from pansophist.

A little add: women by default are machiavellians, they know when, where, and how to mimic to any situation regardless of whether it's good or bad. Women, especially those who are approaching the wall, hit the wall or past the wall will play the chameleon game effectively, pretending to pass your vetting scrutinization. Many of them at their epiphany phase or wall phase, will then discover a need for a religious salvation, and begin to act as wise sages. And any man that approaches them in their religious salvation phase will definitely fall for their whims, with little or no cognizance of their past.

We all have a moment of change, but women change not for the sake of change itself, it is a subtle act of game and manipulation; an attempt to eat their cake during the h0e/party phase, and desire it back during the epiphany/salvation phase. What propel this change is because of a decline in beauty, attention, age, fertility and to quickly latch onto a man for marriage.

Therefore, as a man, entering into a long term relationship or marriage, the vetting process for women should be between the ages of 18-25, using the "virgin/hymen" requirement as a prerequisite. If a woman is a virgin, there is a very high probability of passing other tests. In addition to the vetting process: stir all forms of emotions in her; anger, pain, joy, gladness, anxiety etc. This is to determine her balance and extremes, and how to counter it when you eventually commit to her.

You don't need to like this, a man that has upheave himself to a king standard will never find problem searching and finally engaged himself to a virgin with a high dose of femininity. Other lower men can settle for repentant wh0res who wear a facade of intellect, logic, good behaviour, good character etc.

So, as a man, become high quality in every areas of your life, and only commit to a high quality woman. Settling for less is an unbalanced equation and a waste of your resources. Take a detailed analysis of her past, her sexual escapades, her social behaviour, ideologies and belief system.

Do not commit to a woman in her epiphany phase, because it is foolish to buy the cow when the milk is free. If she freely gave the milk in the past, there's no need paying for it in the present. Do not be deceived by the appearance of the cow, it is a facade.

Thanks.

God bless.

Ubunja, make sure this article, and every reply of yours on this thread is hijack into a book.

You're a gem. I keep thanking God for using you as an instrument for my liberation.

mickelkingz:
Good day guys... weldon..
I have a question to ask, Those the TRP tells us that women dont have feeling for us?

No. For thousands of years, men and women evolved together regardless of their polarity, to ensure that the human gene pool do not go into extinction. Without feelings for each other, the succession of the human race up to this moment would not have been possible. Both genders are complementary to each other, where the man lacks; the woman supplements, and where the woman lacks; the man supplements: a very balanced intersexual dynamic.

So, having sexual feelings for a woman is purely biological, psychological and evolutionary. Ditto for women.

However, due to a series of transition from our oldest evolutionary phase; agricultural, industrial, economic, sexual revolution etc, there has been a major misnomer between what it means to be masculine or feminine. As a result of this; men who still carried distinctive traits of the human primogenitors swung into action to ascertain the cause of this misnomer, horrendous attitudes and recent incompatibility between the male and female gender gave rise to the redpill. But as you must know, TRP, also extends to every facets of the human life; economy, religion, politics, health etc.

TRP makes us to know, and understand the underlying truth between both genders, their actions and conducts, what they are naturally designed for, and how they can work perfectly to ensure the continuity of the human civillization.

mickelkingz:
or their intentional play their games to trick men?

Naturally, societal modifications included, women as a result of their hypergamy always go for men occupying the acme in the pyramid. These are the high tier men: men who are psychologically sound, financially stable, respected and feared in the society, have connections, magnets every one both far and wide, does things the way that best fits them, and answer to no one.

Women because of their weak nature and predisposition, will get affixed to these men to satisfy their major needs which are: protection from other harmful males, provision for her and her children, leadership for the day to day execution of the family affairs. All these were shaped into women naturally and throughout the evolutionary days, and because men are now weak, they need to develop more manipulations and subtlety, and tricks like you've said to gratify their innate desires.

mickelkingz:
a friend say woman wey love you love you" and He's praying for God to give him a good woman. am thinking is these any restriction to it..

Although, good women that is, women in their natural purity and femininity these days are very very rare, but exists. These are the top tier women reserved for the top tier men. If you desire such kinds of women, upheave yourself to the apex of the pyramid where the top tier men occupies. If you stay in this position women from all corners of the earth; good, bad, beautiful and ugly will be attracted to you thereby enabling you to sample, scan, scrutinize and see what each woman possesses, and finally settle for the one that meet your qualifications.

mickelkingz:
cuz have simp I won't lie. the babe says so many tgings to me, even promise me heaven and earth, that she won't leave.. she's a virgin though which now, she's a non virgin. which i did, but we dont date anymore.. but the feeling of her still come once in my mind.
want to know if theres such dream in reality.. (feeling or good wife or coming back together again.

Swallow the redpill without water.

She's gone, focus on another. But if you decide to wait and hope, welcome to Disneyland.

mickelkingz:
cuz now my mind is brutal for women. I fvk but no love.

Be brutal against yourself first. Conquer the bluepill scales still veiling your eyes. This is the course of TRP. Though, it made us understand women and how the intersexual dynamic works, it still does not give men the leeway to become misogynistic, albeit, some men do become because of the brutal, bitter and raw truth spelt out by TRP.

Rather than becoming ennui, seldom, and brutal, focus your energy on how to become a better man. Become productive and elevate yourself to sit in the same position with the men in the upper echelons. Upgrade and continue to upgrade yourself, do not become despondent as a result of the female nature.

You can't find love in f^cking around; bitter truth. It is an attempt to bolster your ego by gaining pride in notch counts. And as you must know, sex ranks low among the basic things required of great men.

Focus on yourself and your career, and if eventually a woman choose you---rather than f^cking around around and looking for a good woman to choose---you will enjoy a good love life while it last. (Women are highly dramatic.) And if you value your peace and intelligence, remain single. Women come with a truckload of troubles.

Women are the most beautiful among creatures. Beautiful in their face and shape. Worthy to behold, and pleasurable when our skins meet. See them the way you see beautiful flowers, insects, architectural designs, pure rivers and streams. They are like children, and the way a mother handles her child, so a man ought to handle his woman.

Thanks.

God bless.

Some persons are having glitches with these "miseducation", because they have erroneously alluded it to mean zombeism on the part of the woman.

I think the choice of word here cause these glitches: control vs lead. Glitch fixed!

Alright, women want to be led under a dominant and masculine man who knows his onions and what it takes to be masculine as the author of the thread has made us known.(Please, take note of the social vices and habits common among male which in the long run are detrimental to their health e.g smoking).

Women share the chromosome(X allele) and the hormones(dopamine, prolactin, oxytocin) that are also peculiar to men. And a brain also. For this reason, both sexes will exhibit the recessive traits of the other even though the polarity between them is enormous.

Therefore, men do not seek absolute zombeism in women, but women who at least display a reasonable amount of logic; for handling controversial matters, independence; to carry out work within her femininity and household, smartness; to maneuver her way around difficult hedges, boldness; to face her fears, and intelligence;to proffer solutions to any problem in the relationship.

The media, government, bad economy, technology has decrepit femininity and masculinity, and the corollary effect is what we all are experiencing presently. A great misnomer indeed!

Ubunja has done a nice work here, and I know that if this information enters a wider scale, it will go a long way in restoring femininity and masculinity.

Thanks.

God bless.

Beirut01:
This pansophist guy is actually evolved. The guy is smart. I mean very smart cuz I'm beginning to resonate with most of These things now.

Ahhhh, I've simped and girls have always used me with nothing to gain from them. Even yesterday, I still simped but I can't discuss cuz I don't want people here to ......

The fact that you ingest redpill on a daily basis do not mean you will definitely become inconspicuous to shit tests, but rather become a shit test proof. The redpill ought to be a mirror for every man; you look into it daily to see your foibles, errors, failures, and take necessary corrections were needed. Women were born to shit test men, and without shit tests; men will lose dominance, become nonchalant and fatigued with the ways of life and civilization. Shit tests makes a man know that he must maintain frame and keep balance 24/7(always gusto and alert).

So, even if you simp, quickly stand up, gaze into the redpill mirror, analyse were you've erred, clean up and continue to move on. It is a gradual process: the more you grow in redpill wisdom, knowledge and understanding, the more you become stronger for more shit tests, and funnily the lesser the shit tests, because most people you now interact with know your frame and familiar with the boundary you've assigned to them-----women most especially. They (women) will shit tests you because of their nature, but will definitely try as much as possible not to offend you with their histrionics, because you've proven to be the lion of the jungle that no one will/can mess up with, and go scot free.

Only God, the unborn and the dead are free of mistakes, failures and flaws.

And as for pansophist: he's a genius. And same with every one here, too worthy and many to start mentioning.

Bro, go, and simp no more.

God bless all the brothers in the house.

And no shalaye for m and f simping monikers.

We simply move.

God bless.