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Forum GamesRe: Look At The Person's Profile Above You And Make A Comment. by Cayon(f): 7:22pm On Nov 15, 2008
Akon wannabe huh undecided huh
Forum GamesRe: If You Were Stuck On An Island With by Cayon(f): 7:21pm On Nov 15, 2008
find the other half of his face and put them together grin
Forum GamesRe: Can You Answer A Question With A Question? Part 2 by Cayon(f): 7:20pm On Nov 15, 2008
What Is There to Know?
Forum GamesRe: Gotta Get It Off My Chest Thread by Cayon(op): 7:12pm On Nov 15, 2008
Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.

Barack Obama

CultureRe: Your Favourite Yoruba Proverbs! by Cayon(f): 6:30pm On Nov 15, 2008
The man that eats no pepper is weak, pepper is the staff of life
Nairaland GeneralRe: Attn: The 'how To' Thread - Most Especially 4 Newbies In Nairaland. by Cayon(f): 2:53pm On Nov 15, 2008
Hey Shaz:

A suggestion undecided

When viewing "who is online" Is there a way we can list the registered members first - followed by the guests (see attched).  order and unity comes to mind

merci

Forum GamesRe: Answer A Question With A Question. by Cayon(f): 7:49am On Nov 15, 2008
Ho, you when fut? shocked grin grin
Forum GamesRe: Last Person To Post In This Thread Wins by Cayon(f): 5:14am On Nov 15, 2008
good night and good luck
Poems For ReviewRe: ... by Cayon(op): 5:12am On Nov 15, 2008
Is my worth a function of my skin tone

CultureWhy? by Cayon(op): 5:01am On Nov 15, 2008
Why do African students who come to study in the US consistently outperform African-Americans in every field?
Forum GamesRe: If You Were Stuck On An Island With by Cayon(f): 4:47am On Nov 15, 2008
sexyLeamon:
angry angry angry @topic everyone for yourself
grin grin grin

@topic

hunt him down and nail him to a tree grin
Jokes EtcRe: Chris Rock On Obama ! by Cayon(f): 3:43am On Nov 15, 2008
@poster

dude, this joke is awesomely funneee. I can't stop laughing grin grin grin

5 stars wink
CultureRe: Why Are Nigerians So Abusive And Insulting? by Cayon(f): 3:36am On Nov 15, 2008
JustGood:
don't mind us. we are supposed to be very happy and throw a party when you insult us. After all, it's a joke to you and it makes you laugh.
We have to be very bad for getting angry when great personalitites like you insult us as jokes grin cheesy
Long time no see.  where were you? cheesy grin  But i aint see you complaining or running to my rescue when they  insult me.  And name one person I insulted on this forum. 
ahhh, you cna't name one eh?

Peace
Poems For ReviewRe: Chronicles Of An Only Son by Cayon(f): 3:12am On Nov 15, 2008
@ poster

I agree with all comments made. nice!!

Peace
LiteratureRe: My Book Of Rants! by Cayon(f): 3:02am On Nov 15, 2008
I was scheduled to go on a movie and dinner date with a guy(28). I get to his house. He opens the door and sprints back to his bedroom. I walk in and proceed to following him until I hear him say, "I gotta go 'cause my partner is here". Partner? STRIKE 1  grin

Note: I called to let him know I was on the way, so he knew I was coming. It was a 20 minute ride.

After he hangs up he calls out for me to come in his room. He has a huge ketchup stain of his jogging pants. So, he points it out and says he has to change. No problem. But why is he dressing out of the dirty close basket? Okay, just because the clothes are balled up in the dirty clothes hamper doesn't mean they're dirty, but they looked dirty. And once we are in the car on our way to the movies, I notice they smell dirty. STRIKE 2  grin

Note: The smell is a sweaty type smell, not too funky, but not alright either.

The movie was great! We get to the restaurant. No real conversation, because "smooth operator" has to call every Tom, D!ck, & Harry on his cell phone. STRIKE 3  grin

Note: I can't take it anymore. I have caught a major case of the ASS. The only way to cure this infection is to take this asshole home.

I elected to go dutch on the dinner, and then I took him home. He had a puzzled look on his face. I hope he didn't think he was going to get some "nookie". Did he?

he is looking forward for a second date undecided angry

Background:
I have known this person for almost two years. We've become good friends. We both are single, now and thought we'd spend a little more time together. We met at work. He's very attractive and he always came to work looking good. He wore suits and nice shoes. He also smelled really good. We've been out on dates (group dates with co-workers) before, but I had never experienced anything like this.

Questions:

1. Do I tell him why I won't go out with him again? (three strikes and you are out) grin grin
2. If I don't tell him, am I being a true friend?
3. How do I discuss these issues with him?

Disclaimer Note:
This doesn't belongs to the poster. [i]This was sent to me by a friend as a joke. No animals were harm while posting this email.  Battereis not included.[/i]
LiteratureRe: Which Books/Novels Are You Currently Reading? by Cayon(f): 2:47am On Nov 15, 2008
Who Moved My Cheese

I strongly recommend everyone read this book (short, sweet and easy to read) I read it and put myself in the 4 different characters. The book deal with changes. I learned that in life I'm going to have to make hard decisions and it's going to be up to me to make the right one. I also learn that in life sometimes change can be good. Change often helps people become better people in life.

http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Who-Moved-My-Cheese/Spencer-Johnson/e/9780399144462/?itm=3

Peace
RomanceRe: Past Secrets by Cayon(f): 2:29am On Nov 15, 2008
if its a dirty sexy scandal grin - then yes
RomanceRe: Vote by Cayon(f): 2:28am On Nov 15, 2008
men
Christianity EtcRe: Prayer Of The Day by Cayon(op): 2:26am On Nov 15, 2008
We Are One

I pray we, all children of the earth, no matter our path to enlightenment, come to realize that we are one. We may walk our own paths, but we are not alone, for we walk at the same time, toward the same end/beginning. From our individual perspectives, be we Pagan, Christian, Muslim, Jew, Buddist, Taoist, or Hindu, are the same. I pray that we all feel the love of our Creator(s) and by example learn to see each other as brothers and sisters, allowing the boundary lines of religion to fade away. May the Lord and Lady bless your path. May you always have enough, and may you give enough in return. Blessed Be.

FaeAisling
RomanceRe: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by Cayon(f): 2:24am On Nov 15, 2008
@poster:

Re your subject heading . . . . .hmm tough decision

Honestly, I think its great when a woman can be at home/housewife but only if she has kids. Kids really need there parents at home when they are younger. I would love watching my kids grow up.  take them to school, be there when they get home, keep the house clean, cook etc BUT at the same time I think women should work so they can be independent and not have to always count on someone else and so they can be strong individuals also role models to their children.

Peace
Music/RadioRe: What Song U Feelin Rite Now? by Cayon(f): 1:59am On Nov 15, 2008
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Makes Me Cry by Cayon(f): 1:46am On Nov 15, 2008
RomanceRe: Dating - Kids - Husband - Now Biological Clock Ticking ? by Cayon(op): 1:41am On Nov 15, 2008
Thanks all

Blessings
Poems For ReviewRe: ... by Cayon(op): 1:38am On Nov 15, 2008
By: Melissa R. Bickel

Race

Whats the color of my Skin
If I tell will that determine the person
I am?
If so then maybe for today
I am pink, red, green, or gray.
I am for the most part
the same as you,
When I am sad then I am blue.
If I call you my sister or brother,
does that have to reflect a certain
color?
Our covering is a gift from the Divine,
so are you mocking this gift of mine?
Instead of judging by what you see,
why don't you try looking
at the inner me.
If the color of my skin determines
the person I am,
then I am invisible to you.
For I am who I am
Christianity EtcRe: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by Cayon(f): 1:35am On Nov 15, 2008
Father I give you thanks

Blessings
Christianity EtcRe: How Did Black People Become Black? by Cayon(f): 1:18am On Nov 15, 2008
What Makes A Person “Black”?

By Robert N. Taylor



In the wake of the claims of Tiger Woods and the actions of Michael Jackson and others, a question has been raised in black internet chat rooms around the country as to whether there is a legal or biological definition of who is black

Actually, there is no law operable today which defines what percentage of “black blood” makes one black. The oft-repeated notion that one drop of black blood makes one black is a cultural definition which has neither a legal nor biological foundation.

The history of the notion can be traced to slavery and the period right after slavery called Reconstruction. Originally, in a bid to stop slaves who had been fathered by white slave owners and overseers from claiming freedom, property rights or possible inheritance, several Southern sates passed laws that in effect defined a black person as anyone with any “discernible” amount of “colored” or “African” blood.

But after slavery ended in 1865, these laws began to either die a natural death or were actually repealed during Reconstruction. The controversy which brought the race definition issue back up again was the infamous 1896 U.S. Supreme Court “separate but equal” decision in Plessy v. Ferguson.

Our high school history classes and Black History Month presentations have given us a distorted idea of who Plessy was and what he was about. We have generally been led to believe that Plessy was a black man arguing that blacks should be allowed the same accommodations as whites. This is not true. Plessy was actually a light skinned black man arguing that “he” should be given the same accommodations as whites because he had “7/8 caucasion and only 1/8 African” blood. Thus, he argued that he should not be treated as “black” under an 1890 Louisiana law requiring blacks and whites be seated in separate railway cars.

It was the Supreme Court which largely ignored Plessy’s “I am not a negro” argument and told him if he did not think he was black he would have to go back to Louisiana and argue that issue on the state level. The Court then went forward and assumed Plessy to be black and rendered its decision saying a state was within its rights to mandate separate accommodations for blacks in order to keep the races apart.

Thus, the net result of the Plessy v. Ferguson decision was two-fold: It legalized the racist “separate but equal” doctrine AND it left an attitude or mood within the nation that the highest court in the land considered all “blacks” – no matter how light in complexion or how absent of African features – to be black. This cultural attitude stuck. Although technically the Supreme Court never ruled on Plessy’s contention that he should be treated as a white man because he had been accepted as white in the Louisiana community in which he lived and because his “African blood was not discernible.”

However, it was discernible enough that the train conductor who required Plessy to sit in the “colored section” of the train felt he was black. And this in part helped to foster the notion that the government considered you black if you had just one drop of “black blood.” But, down to this very day, there is no law defining what makes one black, or white for that matter. It is basically a socio-cultural attitude based in major measure on how a person looks.

Simply put, in America, if you “look” in anyway black, you “are” black. That is not law. That is not science. It just is – a practical reality. Thus Tiger Woods’ mother may be from Thailand and Tiger may object to being called black. But it does not make a practical difference.

Further, it may be too late in history as well as potentially dangerous to be tampering with the socio-cultural definition of blackness even though the definition is a product of slavery. When the Census Bureau decided a few years ago to include a category called “mixed race” in the census, many people rightfully saw it as potentially divisive, asking what practical good does the “mixed race” category serve but to further divide people along largely artificial lines?

Finally, if one just has to ask the question, the real question should not be “who is black” but instead “who is white.” For if the theories of evolution and “out of Africa” are correct, there is only one “race” on the planet Earth and it had its origin in East Africa (around present-day Ethiopia) and then spread to all other parts of the world. Adapting to environmental conditions such as the degree of sunlight and developing in relative isolation, some groups evolved lighter skins and others evolved darker skins. Thus technically every person on the planet – from the darkest skinned person in the Congo to the lightest skinned person in Sweden – is of African ancestry.

In other words, like Plessy, we all have a degree of “African blood” whether “discernible” or not.
Christianity EtcRe: How Did Black People Become Black? by Cayon(f): 1:14am On Nov 15, 2008
Here is an interesting article from Robert.  Should you have any questions, please feel to email him.   From a personal point of view, I find him to be very knowledgeable.

Peace

Robert N. Taylor Media Services
SirajT12@yahoo.com
202-657-8872


Human Life Began In Africa –

“Eve” Was A Black Woman Who Lived 200,000 Years Ago

By Robert N. Taylor

        (RNTN) Basing their conclusions on the most recent DNA research studies, paleo-anthropologists now believe that human beings first evolved in East Africa around 200,000 years ago and from there migrated to Central Asia about 40,000 to 50,000 years ago and then populated Europe and the Americas 12,000 to 15,000 years ago. Thus, from an evolutionary perspective, everyone in the world – from the darkest-skinned person in the Congo to the lightest-skinned person in Sweden – is of African ancestry.

        According to Professor Spencer Wells, “It looks like Central Asia was settled really early, around 40,000 years ago, as humans came out of Africa. We can trace back to regional ‘Adams.” Wells is with the Wellcome Trust Centre for Human Genetics in Oxford, England. However, other paleo-anthropologists believe we can actually trace human history back to the original “Eve.”

        Paleo-anthropologist James Q. Jacobs has written, “Genetic comparisons provide evidence that all living human populations can be traced along maternal lines of descent to a woman who lived in Africa about 200,000 years ago.” This thesis was originally advanced by Berkeley University researchers Allan Wilson and Rebecca Cann in 1992. Their research is based on rates of change in mitochondrial DNA (mtDNA). This DNA is contributed by the female side of the family line. It is ideal for tracing human evolutionary history because mutations accumulate steadily and rapidly and are not eliminated by natural selection like much of the DNA contributed by the male side.

        While there are differences of opinion, the dominant view among scientists is that the original home or “garden of Eden” for man was somewhere in East Africa – probably the Hadar or Afar region of Ethiopia where in 1974 anthropologist Donald Johanson and his crew discovered the famous “Lucy” skeletal remains. Other possible sites are the Laetoli in northern Tanzania, the Lake Rudolph site in Kenya, or Olduvai Gorge in Tanzania.

        It appears that humans began to leave Africa around 40,000 years ago as the Last Ice Age was drawing to an end. As the ice melted, parts of Asia and Europe became habitable by humans. By 12,000 years ago the mile deep sheets of ice that had covered North America were gone and humans began to migrate there over land bridges from Siberia into Alaska. Those land bridges no longer exist.

        “Races” evolved as the peoples who left Africa developed in relative isolation from one another. Those living in areas of intense sunlight developed dark skins as a protection against the sun’s ultraviolet (UV) rays while those who had migrated to areas of less intense sunlight evolved lighter skins so that enough UV rays could penetrate to synthesize adequate amounts of vitamin D. Professor Stephen Jay Gould postulates, for example, that a relatively dark people who migrated to Europe from Africa or Asia could become light or “white” within as little as 2,000 years in response to the less intense sunlight.

        Vitamin D – the sunshine vitamin – protects against many cancers. But dark-skinned people who live in sun-poor regions often lack adequate amounts of vitamin D. This may explain why certain cancers in America are more common among blacks than whites. The dark skin protects against skin cancer from UV rays but blocks the adequate production of vitamin D.

            (An exception is the Inuit (the people we call Eskimos). They live in a sun poor environment but have relatively dark skins. This may be because they get plenty of vitamin D from a diet rich in seafood.)
Forum GamesRe: Answer A Question With A Question. by Cayon(f): 2:32pm On Nov 14, 2008
why not yes?
Forum GamesRe: If You Were Stuck On An Island With by Cayon(f): 2:29pm On Nov 14, 2008
Squeeze all the juice out of her and make lemonade
Forum GamesRe: Please Don't Post Here! by Cayon(f): 2:28pm On Nov 14, 2008
bonjour mon amour
Forum GamesRe: Ask A Question, Get A Wrong Answer! by Cayon(f): 2:26pm On Nov 14, 2008
think i am related to Farrakhan


Did you miss me? grin

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