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Ezemarcel:
that advice you asked him to avoid is what is putting food on my table

When you hear about something especially in a random post ....all you do is to do your own research

I'm in manager level in IP Capital, forget it soon or later that tin would go down like other forex Trading platform before them. You know why? Because there is a guarantee of % of profit that would be made which in forex is almost not true, no guarantees in forex even if na u dey trade am or na bot dey trade am, if u like u call it AI bot blah blah... So guy relax

majamajic:
Just open a bar

Make sure u televise football , BBQ and pepper soup
People hang out every day

U make 1k or more from every 12 bottles sold , that's the fastest money making low budget business in nigeria now , with 700k u are good to go , u can even open 2 with 1.5m

a bar with bbq spot, televise football, for 700k. Lol it seem u think this is 2014..... U know how much renting a place would cost? Do u know how much tables and chairs would cost? U know how much for TV and electricity generating set?? It is obvious you have no knowledge about the business you are introducing someone to.

Richsteemit:
Invest in prop firm.

50K can get u a prop firm account

what is this about?? Can u explain a bit, I'm interested

Is this product still available?

Dalil8:
What's to stop other non - western countries from buying Russian oil and military equipments?

Russia has the largest arms industry in the world.

even countries that are not self sufficient are also joining the sanction, lol, what a joke

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

there is no manual to life, neither is there an holy grail.

CoronaVirusPro:
No wonder you have two union pay cards

I think that card is for foolish people

like your father right Idiot.. Una go just open mouth dey talk anyhow, instead of u to ask how I got it... I got it in the country in case u want to know. Does that mean I can use it when I'm in Nigeria

CoronaVirusPro:
Which country are you?

Tell me!

Two Union pay cards? Are you kidding me? That country must be one shiithole

oga I'm with you here in Nigeria, always ask sensible questions like how did I get it, where do I use it and how is the payment like, the fact that u are limited to mastercard and visa card and maybe the stupid verve card does not mean other payment processors aren't there.. Even in world card spending unipay comes first even if you combine mastercard and visa card together in terms of market shares... I have a lot to say about union pay card but no need exposing the benefits.... Do you know ur local atm machine accepts the union pay card?

CoronaVirusPro:
Union pay


Comedy!

Who accepts union pay? Union Bank?

coming from who hasn't left the shores of this hell hole Nigeria.... I have two union pay cards even tho I'm with you here in Nigeria. Unipay is legendary to use if you know how

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Vickyvice:
Foolish man. U start war by invading them. The war is fought and Defended only in Ukraine, yet you say until they stop defend, u will not stop fighting. Truth is, Ukraine, defeated Russia, man to man. If Ukraine fighting force, arms and ammunitions dey half of Russia own, they will over run Russia

it is obvious you do not know ur history... Too bad u give comment about an issue on a public forum without knowing the root cause.... Go and read and educate urself

darediamond:
You are as Wicked as the War Mongers in Washington and London!

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Goodvibes8:
My girlfriend is a Banker at GTB (not a contract staff). I just love her unconditionally. I thought she was different from other ladies. My girlfriend is cheating on me with an elderly ugly man.

She switched off her phone for 2 days, since on Tuesday. The first day I noticed, I was scared for her safety because she don't behave like that.

I called her very close friend and she said she haven't heard from her too but I shouldn't worry that she's fine.

Then I knew something was fishy. I live in Ogun state, so I went to Lagos early this morning as at 4:45am hoping to see her at home before she go to work.

When I got to her house, I saw her neighbor (she haven't seen me before else she would have lied to me as well) so I asked after my girlfriend and she said she has not been around since on Sunday.

In my mind, I was like since Sunday? Well, I know since last week, she has been acting strange. I noticed she's always quick to discharge me whenever we're on call.

I just went straight to her office at ikeja. I met with a security man and i asked if miss Lydia (not her real name) has come to office this morning? He said no but she will soon come afterall work starts by 8am and it's just 7am.

I just sat inside my car looking angry and curious. As at 7:25am, a car dropped her. I came down from my car immediately to approach her.

I was like so this is the ugly slowpoke you have been staying with since on Sunday that made you switched off your phone abi? She even have guts to ask what am I doing in Lag?

This is a girl I have never cheated on her before. Despite I am good looking, dark and tall with a good physique.

I don't know what to do. I'm heart broken . She hasn't even call me till now. This is a girl I have sacrificed a lot for.

you sacrificed a lot for her because you wanted to, count your losses and move on... Take this last advise from a brother; NEVER YOU FORGIVE A CHEATING GIRLFRIEND, EVER!!!!! e get why

Error401:
Urgent pls
Is she really pregnant?
I think the line is too faint to proof pregnancy damn
She insisted that she missed her period but this result isn't convincing enough!

Pls help me urgently

man up bro.... Congratulations you are gonna be a daddy

omolasho:
Good evening house, need your opinion concerning something that just happened to me yesterday.

This is the thing, there is this young lady who happened to be my colleague at work, not the same office though. I can say we had only spoken once.

She walked to my seat posing like she would tell me something in the ear only for her to kiss my cheek with a smile on her face then walked away.

Other people were around but I guess none noticed. It was weird because nobody had boldly flirted on me like she did.

Please i don't want to just jump into escapades with her, rather I want to know the whys behind her action and what I should do.

Thanks you.

even Jesus christ was betrayed with a kiss

Riplogic:
My friend was chatting on whatsapp with someone, the person told him he will hack his simcard, transfer his airtime and deactivate his WhatsApp. Then my friend received this message that his line has been linked to this number on the image. The guy now has already deducted my friend's airtime, we don't know what the guy will do next. How can we unlink the guy's number before he do worst.

the sim card was not hacked, the sim card was used to register another sim....

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

your problem is pride, if she gives that money to you out of goodwill and my younger brother, and u are hear ranting on why she gives u money, you are Ungrateful and proud.. Next time if u do not want her money, before leaving anywhere she is, give her money, and she would accept, but I guess you can't

iLegendd:
I have been using VoguePay for years in my online bookstore and have never had a single issue with them. Their charge is perfect.

Whenever someone makes a purchase, they alert me immediately with an SMS and an email. After 5 days or less, they automatically transfer the money to my GTB.

They are probably the best. No, not probably the best — it's the BEST. I'll never think of changing them as long as they don't change and hike price like GTPay.

Link to the bookstore powered by VoguePay: https://shop.wetclef.com

please bro i need recommendations to receive payment in usd, can I use voguepay in that regards Or do you have any recommendations?

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

never lent a friend or family member money you are not willing to loose... This will make you grow and make you keep friendship and family ties stronger...... Instead of u lending a friend 10k dash the person 3k or what u can afford.....

wirinet:
My problem with the OP is that he himself has some degree of blame. He did not monitor the diet his wife was feeding his mum for 10 days since the househelp. Was he not communicating with his wife or his mother the whole 10 days.
I am not exonorating the wife. In fact I think poisoning is a more plausible explanation that simple excessive salt. But he himself should have been more involved with his mum's diet since he is aware of how crucial it is.

As I said we can only reach conclusions after the autopsy result is done.

I do not blame the wife because this was not a deliberate action.. Reason is he already said it the wife love salt, a salt quantity the wife might Consider little might be too much for the mom. Moreover the mom is not dead, the mom woke up from coma on 31st why then is he still dragging the matter.....

wirinet:
What proof do you have that the wife's action directly led to the death of his mum? This is an old woman that suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She could have died from high blood sugar, low blood sugar or heart attack.

We have to wait for the autopsy and toxicology result before we can conclude what killed her.

leave that one to be talking rubbish..... The mom has not even died.... The woman is alive... He forgets so fast what the wife Consider mild salt might be too much for the mother.... Because he said it already the wife love salt

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

saying alone u don't think you can stay with her after apologising say how stupid u are truly..... I read the topic and was disappointed, she fed your mother same food Y'all ate, wen your mom tasted the food and the salt was more than the usual, why didn't she reject it, did she spoon fed her? I'm not trying to blame your mother here, but give the poor woman(your wife) a break, u said it already, she is a salt lover, what she might consider mild salt might be too much for your mum, have you thought about that.... You are just being unnecessarily dramatic, this isn't a way to show how much you love your mom, it was a mistake anybody even u could make. And the doctor isn't God neither would he know for certain ur wife fed your mom more than twice, everything is based on assumption and recommendation.... I was wanting to read where u will point out how ur wife has been treating ur mother badly or maltreating her etc... Take this from a fellow brother who has a mother and he is the first son out of 3 boys.. If you drive that woman or treat her wrongly because of this incident, you will leave to regret it for the rest of ur life....

Trulydude:
Hello House,
Please I have a dicey situations here, can you give your input.
After concluding my youth service at Firm ABC in Lagos, the company wanted to retain me with a gross salary of 100k, but I don't want the job, I am an engineering graduate with average skills and so much potentials. I hate the job just because of it's description, it is base on trial and error and sometimes a lot of energy and effort is used to deliver some services, Moreover, the job is frustrating and tiring and also I don't think I see any likelihood of carrier growth from that job; because as an engineer you are to work under the supervision of a registered engineer before you get COREN certification.

Then, company CDE gave me another offer for 70k Gross, and the company is Telecoms company and I see a lot of potential with this new company, though the pay is something else.

So, please I need some experts views, comments and recommendations; which one should I go for?

you have already condemned and ridicule the first job and express your hatred for it... What exactly do you need advise for? Because it is obvious you have made your decision

SayAsSeen:
Hello friends, I'd like to ask intelligent and older minds for advise about an issue before I react.

My wife's elder brother is visiting my house and my wife has been serving his food first before serving and bringing my good, in my own house.


Please I just want to ask if this is wrong or right or even just normal?

I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.

NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.

She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.

I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.

I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it.

I am a strong believer of common sense and respect and her actions this morning lack both! It would have take her less than 30 seconds to give me my food then go wake and serve her brother!

Is she told me she needed money for something and I put my younger sister's need over her's-no matter how tribal her's might be-i know how she'd react and the amount of making up I'd have to do.

I am trying to be very mature about this, that's why I keeping things anonymous?

Besides I'd like to know, I possibly can't be the only person who has experienced this sort of situation because they say there's nothing new under the sun. Please who has ever felt this way, I am very understanding and if something irks me, it would irk every body else too.


Wish I could explain better

oga I'm a guy too and there is nothing wrong with it, u read meaning to every little things you should ignore that's the genesis of u causing problem in your own home... Most times my own lady serve her brothers first before serving me, because she would not want to serve me food and have to leave my presence to attend to her brother's food.. So she rather serve them first and bring in my own or our food to eat, if she isn't eating, she is watching me eat and gist with me incase I need anything .... So Mr man don't create a problem that isn't there

Take oranges, before una dey eat like person wen new come out from prison

When I see things like this I am super appreciative to my own lady. because women who don't joke with their husband stomach are rare to find... There is a difference between cooking for your husband and not joking with his stomach my brother May she live very long to take proper care of you, she no go die untimely Lai Lai...

CBTxFactor:
Thank you for your understanding.

please sir I have a question, please is the gtb virtual naira prepaid card linked to my gtb account?? And does it have a different USD limit from the card linked to my account?? Please ur input would be appreciated as I'm trying to create one, Also how is it loaded.. Tha k you heaps

Mylife89:
I and my gf started a new relationship and it's been going well, two weeks ago which was her birthday, we both came to lagos to spend quality time and have fun for two weeks.

while on the vacation, I checked her phone and noticed there was a guy who wished her happy birthday and told her he had a gift for her, she responded and deleted the message

The next day I checked her phone, I didn't see the chat with the guy and I was sure my eyes saw an unread message the previous day.

Four days ago she told me she wants to go she a female.friend, when I confronted her she then mentioned that she wants to go pick up the gift from her male friend, the same guy that she earlier told me about that he is just a friend.

I'm sad cos with all the love I'm beginning to show towards her she isn't satisfied but thinking about another guys gift and attention.

We both quarreled over the issue and I made it clear that if she ever goes to see the guy and I find out it will be the end of our relationship.


Women are truly strange.

it is just a gift oga, stop behaving like a spoilt baby.... Why feeling insecure because your babe is offered a gift by another male, if you were giving her gift in the first place, no matter how small. Person wen wan Chop ur girlfriend u never even know am... She lied to you initially because she feel you would be a nagging cry baby whivh you just proved right. GROW UP OGA

Mariangeles:
Have you considered the fact that your wife might be going or might've gone through postpartum depression, which might've led to that behaviour?

Were she and your mum having problems before your wife got pregnant and had a baby?

N.B. Postpartum depression is not an excuse for bad behaviour, it is real.

I just wanted to attack u now, but then I saw your last paragraph... Lol

GonzalezAguero:
He is probably used to it... endurance and all I guess.. nothing spiritual there..

lol endurance bawo.... One does not get used to hot water, your skin isn't built to resist it....

nairavsdollars:
good move. i fully support it. Just feeding fat on Boko Haram fight

very nice move... That is if them no still kill this one the way them kill the last one via arranged plan crash