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Family › Re: My Baby Is Being Strongly Affected By Jaundice, I Need Help And Solution. by cedricksly: 3:08pm On Jun 29, 2022
Singlelover:
Good morning nairalanders.

my new baby is being affected by jaundice, and all home remedies i've tried didn't work.

i've gone to the hospital to see a doctor, he said i should be placing him under the early morning sun for about 15 minutes daily, but it's not working either.

please i need help on how to cure and get rid of it so my baby can feel better.

whatever suggestion you give will be useful and will go along way, thanks.

Please my baby needs help. Help me to frontpage so i can get help in treating my baby. Thanks
do this and thank me later.... Get unrip paw paw and cut into piece and divide them in two equal part. place one part inside a small cooler or small ragolis can, add water and allow to ferment over night the other part add it to your baby cover bucket where u always save water to bath him fill it up with water as usual with the paw paw Inside, always take water from that bucket with the paw paw inside to bath him, and From the one u soak inside cooler or ragolis can be giving your baby 2.5 ml morning, afternoon and evening... If it doesn't clear up in 3days come here and call me out....... If u need to continue it, after 3 days, trow out the whole paw paw and do fresh one....
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 50k Job With A Fintech Firm Or 30k Job With A Bank by cedricksly: 3:00pm On Jun 29, 2022
chypotenti:
I am practically confused right now, which do I go for, A 50k job with a Fintech or a 30k job with a Bankhuh?
u are not confused u are just blatantly stupid... Bank job na jobhuh That suffer head job that they can kick u out anytime, to even consider it self with the pay offered means you don't know what u are doing.. Even if them decide to pay you 70k for bank job, still collect the fintech...
Politics › Re: Check Out "Before And After" Pictures Of Ike Ekweremadu’s Daughter, Sonia by cedricksly: 9:08am On Jun 27, 2022
All These their Bleaching cream wen contain steroid like hydroquinone and other heavy metals like Mercury, these are some of the things the kidney can't filter well and struggle to filter that damages the kidney.... Omoooo to what end actuallyhuh You bleach or turn white u will still be identified as a Negro
Politics › Re: Passport Of Kidney Donor In Ekweremadu's 'Organ Harvesting” Saga Shows He Is 21 by cedricksly: 6:09pm On Jun 24, 2022
DOTian:
We always like to pretend like we don't know how things go in this country because the person at the receiving end is either not one of us or don't agree with us.

If you have had a relation with kidney problems in Nigeria, and kidney problems are very common these days, you would have known that getting a donor most times depends on how much you want to pay, if the donor is not a family member.(

Obviously this guy was promised a huge sum to donate, they got to The UK and it was noticed that his kidneys can't match with hers, which means that he has to go back to Nigeria. Aware that he might not be paid as promised because he didn't donate as agreed and not sure of a good future in Nigeria after returning, he bolted away with all sorts of sickening tales.

This is the plausible pattern of events and although Ekweremmadu is not my favorite politician, this accusations of human trafficking and organs harvesting as far as I'm concerned, all look staged to dramatize the whole story for media effects.
media effect u say, maybe u think say UK na Nigeria.. First and foremost for someone to have processed a passport for a supposed donor in 2021 and bought ticket and wrote to the the embassy to support visa application, oga u should use ur head to know that the kidney has been cross examined and it matched perfectly. That issue of it didn't match does not even make sense.. Boy might be a minor and his age was boosted up to portray an adult with consent, nobody would go tru that stress or false declaration if the kidney didn't match In the first place... Just use ur head and think. He is Guilty or not does not concern me let who convince the judge beyond reasonable doubt win the case...
Career › Re: Not All Bosses Are Horrible. See Why by cedricksly: 9:14pm On Jun 22, 2022
GRAMMARJAMES:
You need to see how stunning she looks after giving birth to 3 kids . I think she'll even appreciate that more cuz she doesn't like people calling her mummy ........
oga or madam I still think it is out of place..... Calling her sweet 16 physically is actually good as a compliment maybe u have a relationship with her, but including it on ur letter does quite make a lot of sense, so I think anyway... Na u still get final say
Career › Re: Not All Bosses Are Horrible. See Why by cedricksly: 7:58pm On Jun 22, 2022
GRAMMARJAMES:
Good Morning Nairalanders...

I woke up with a happy heart,. and Guess what?? I've been promoted to my Boss position (HOD) while my boss has also moved up to (MP).

I've decided to send an appreciation letter to her + a super Hamper.

Check out the content of the message below,

Dear Boss,
How time flies, just like yesterday, I could remember that year, 2016 it was! when you gave me a very important career advice “” It’s better you accept the pay like that for a start than going home to start all over””. This was after my Service year with COMPANY ABC. Here I am today, living up to my career dreams, with your help. It’s an incredible work experience to work under a boss whose skills and talents are notable. I get to learn something new from you every single day! Thank you for showing me how a great leader leads, I am so proud to be led forward by a person who is not only industry-renowned but is also an amazing boss, a mother of three looking sweet 16. Saying "thank you" is not enough for me to express how grateful I am for your support over the years. You are my mentor, and everything I have achieved to date is because of you.
I am thrilled to be among the ‘Junior staff’ whom the management recognized productive, thus a promotion that comes with an incredible salary increment. I appreciate the role you played in helping me get there. Its only normal and fair for me to replicate same by making sure your MP dream is achieved. The road may be rough, target may be increased, pressure may mount but I want you to know that I will always be there to making sure all these are achieved. I promise to work hard and smart to maintain the confidence and trust you have shown in me over the years. I consider myself truly honoured to have you as my boss.
From the dept of my heart I say Thank you Ma.!
Cheers….

NB
she hasn't received her promotional letter yet, but its crystal clear sooner or later, she will as she has already been taking the role of acting MP.
For those seeking for promotion in their respective place of work, I pray God Grant your heart desires, for those still believing God for their dream Job, I pray from this moment, your Job locate you in Jesus Mighty Name.
nice one, but remove that mother if 3 sweet 16, it is irrelevant and not formal... If u ask me it is out of place in the letter....
Phones › Re: Which Network Is The Most Cost-effective For Data In Nigeria? by cedricksly: 6:14pm On Jun 21, 2022
essentialone:
Which Network is the most Cost-effective for Data in Nigeria?

MTN is a scam.
Airtel is a thief.

Please, I need your help.
believe it or not, mtn is the best regardless both cost wise and mbs. Just don't cheat urself...
Phones › Re: Which Phone Can I Get Budget 60 To 70k by cedricksly: 6:10pm On Jun 21, 2022
Starhearts:
Yes...
60,500naira is $100 4 aboki hand as at today...

Dats $100 as at todayhuh

With lotsize of 0.01

Means dat ur daily target will be $10 to $15 by trading on New York session
so your daily target would be 10 to 15% daily.. Lol it is obvious u are not a trader.
Phones › Re: Which Phone Can I Get Budget 60 To 70k by cedricksly: 6:08pm On Jun 21, 2022
Siberia01:
cool

Thanks for your contributions

I got her Sony Xperia 1 iii
lol for that ur same budget pricehuh Or u are Capping... Sony Xperia 1iii is more than a thousand dollars for new and UK used won't cost anything less than 200k.. Lol
Family › Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by cedricksly: 1:31pm On Jun 21, 2022
boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.

So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.

First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children.
He's a stay-at-home dad, lol!
My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.

Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there.
The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me.
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.

I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc.
All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.

I'm tired!

School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school.
Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.

Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.

I'm tired!!
instead of you looking for ways out of this you are blaming a man that has written his own story already, keep Blaming him because you want someone to blame for your own issues, Na so you go watch your life waste away and end up like him..... Pick yourself up and get out of that situation.. It is okay to tell him no, you do not give people until you have nothing left to give, that is a foolish giver
Family › Re: My Brothers Wife Is Cheating, Do I Tell Him Or Mind My Business by cedricksly: 12:44pm On Jun 18, 2022
BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?
if you are not just assuming things and you truly know she is cheating for a fact or have proof, PLEASE AND PLEASE TELL YOUR BROTHER, ELSE POSTERITY WON'T BE NICE TO YOU. if he choose to continue the relationship that is his own decision to make, but please tell him.. Forget those ones saying it is not your business, forget them and do the right thing
Education › Re: UK Pervert Teacher Who Forces Pupils' Hands Down Her Trousers Jailed by cedricksly: 11:40am On Jun 16, 2022
SHINJA:
Stupid rapist....Cut her breast away and stone her to death.
lol guy calm down naaaaa a. grin[b][/b] grin I swear this made me laugh hard
Health › Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by cedricksly: 11:54am On Jun 09, 2022
Keep the baby, yes her family would flare up etc, they will eventually come around.. If you abort this baby, a day might come where either one of you or both of you would remember that move and regret it for the rest of your life.. Mark Today's date.

About her education ending, that is not true, yes the first two years of her life might seem impossible, but she can still go to school if she want to and willing to...
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by cedricksly: 10:26am On Jun 03, 2022
julie90:
I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.

Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.

Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.

I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.

I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.

This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.

Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?
your boyfriend na man witch, and an enemy of success and progress.. It you have ever thought about marrying him, this is your sign to run off, don't marry such an insecure devil.... Even if he later agrees for you to take the job, just know it is pure pretence.. And if you ever placed him as one of your reference better remove him before he spoil your name to your new employer....

NOTE : I'm a grown man saying this, so no idiot should start telling me I'm saying this because I'm female...
Technology Market › Re: Blue Inec Type Of Batteries Are Available In Kano by cedricksly: 10:40am On May 31, 2022
tetralogyfallot:
inec used, charger inusive.
are the batteries still avaialbehuh I nerd for my laptop.. Please contact me
Phones › Re: How Much Will Starlink Cost In Nigeria by cedricksly: 8:57pm On May 28, 2022
StarFist:
$99 ??
I dey mad?
lol very cheap.. Because that 1 Starlink sub can serve a university with moderate students.. You know what that meanshuh It means full street fit dey use 1 Starlink. U never understand na make u dey god Forbid there..... Starlink is a whooping 100mps it means u download 1gig in 10 seconds.. Lol u never still understand
Business › Re: My Four Bank Accounts Restricted/frozen by cedricksly: 7:10pm On May 28, 2022
LagosNissan:
Are u serious?

What could possibly lead to such flagging?
a lot of I don't care Atitude can cause it.... Bro ur bvn can be blacklisted with simple borrow me ur account to give my brother to send me money.... He might be sending ur account to someone he is trying to defraud.... And if you are into crypto P2P buying and selling please do not accept any form of third party payment, because someone might want to fraud somebody and the person ask for his account number, he will go to crypto platform and open a buy trade of the equivalent he is trying to scam somebody, and send the Crypto seller account number to the person, the person makes payment to it and he contact the seller with receipt of payment and tell the person he used his friend account to make payment and send payment proof, the person unknowingly release the Crypto asset to them and they send out and spend as they like... When who was defrauded go to law enforcement to lodge complain that someone has scammed him and present you account number as the scammer because that was where he made payment to, HOW WOULD YOU DENY IThuh let's be careful really...
Business › Re: My Four Bank Accounts Restricted/frozen by cedricksly: 7:03pm On May 28, 2022
Born2conquer:
Can it be lifted? BVN blacklisting
yes it can be lifted if you have been cleared by the law
Business › Re: My Four Bank Accounts Restricted/frozen by cedricksly: 12:50pm On May 28, 2022
fisayodayo:
Same here with a fine of 5M, over 20M frozen. Although, it was because of Bitcoin related issues.
My friend, if you go to that bank be careful if not you will be handed over to EFCC. I speak reality, you're safe if it's not btc related. I was even threatened by the bank manager last year because I wanted to transfer 8M from my account. I wish you well, get a lawyer standby to avoid harrasment.
this might be fraud related. but your account being frozen because maybe u bought and sell bitcoin with the account, is not possible.. I have had 5 of my account closed and money in it given to me as opening balance on a new account, them no dey blacklist bvn for crypto issue, his bvn has been blacklisted
Business › Re: My Four Bank Accounts Restricted/frozen by cedricksly: 12:48pm On May 28, 2022
It is your bvn that has been flagged which affected your account and it will affect every single thing bvn is used for even nin, as it is now you can't even open account with that your bvn etc... You have to sort out the issue very fast before bvn blacklisting is the worse thing that can happen to anybody in Nigeria, Trust me I'm speaking from experience
Business › Re: My Four Bank Accounts Restricted/frozen by cedricksly: 12:46pm On May 28, 2022
LagosNissan:
Nothing of such
then you might have received a third party payment from someone who might want to purchase something from you and pays you with an account not in their name.. He might be defrauding the person and uses your account to receive funds while you send him the product he bought from you....... This is the main reason I do not accept third party payment of any sort in my business
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by cedricksly: 2:31pm On May 26, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
Start earning it and you will know.

As your income increases, your taste increases. Those that know, know.
not necessarily, just speak for yourself.... For me as my income increases my lifestyle doesn't change greatly with it... When I was working for someone my salary moved up 4times consecutively before I change my living space, not because I wanted to, but because it became a necessity... Na this mind set of when your income increase your taste increase with it make una dey stagnated in same job that someone else who might even be earning lesser than you and doing better than you... I'm talking from experience aiit even if RN I don't work for nobody my lifestyle remains the same and RN I save 85% of my earnings and spend 15% as against spending 80% and saving 20% then I was working for someone with almost similar take home..
Family › Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by cedricksly: 2:18pm On May 26, 2022
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!
might just be that she feels the baby was never meant to happen in the first place or thinks the baby would put her life to a pause for the next 2 to 3 years,, which is a wrong thinking. Don't blame your self for her no being responsible, just take the baby to your mother of she isn't that old or needs support from a nanny herself.. No give ur 5months to nanny abeg.. Bro it can't get worse than this, it will only get better... God Forbid (assuming she died during child birth) won't you take care and raise your babyhuh Me I started staying with my grandma from 3 months not that my mother abandoned me anyway because the stress on her then was too much going to work and coming morning and evening to get me my grandma(paternal) asked her to leave me with her, Na so I dey with her till 11years. So bro you and the baby go survive, her eyes go soon clear, just patient small and ignore her completely.. ALL I WANT YOU TO KNOW IS THAT YOUR BABY IS NOT SAFE WITH HER..
Health › Re: My Wound Is Taking Forever To Heal (Graphic) by cedricksly: 2:08pm On May 26, 2022
Cakkie:
I'm 22. Can I be diabetic at this age?
diabetics knows no age... Just that it is more common among the older generation... Go for blood sugar test...
Career › Re: Contract Staff Job At 3 Oil Companies As An Explorer, Is It Possible? by cedricksly: 7:39am On May 26, 2022
IsaacNewton869:
Hello everyone, hello geoscientist and engineers in the house, I'm a 300l of geology department from one of prestigious state university around the south South.

So I will be doing my Undergraduate Internship program Immediately strike is call off, actually I wish to do it in ExxonMobil or Total, but to me I know everything isn't about connection

So I want any experience staff here to explain on how I can make it to ExxonMobil or total even after my graduation

2, I also have a question that has been bothering me for a while now, is it possible to be a contract staff in many oil companies, to me I think is good, they will only call when they need you and pay you well, even if one Bleep up, u still know that u have a place in other companies too and u won't be bothered

3, do oil company employ geologist and geophysicist as an explorer or a drilling engineer

4, who did they need most between geoscientist (petroleum geologist, geochemist, geophysicist as an explorer, geological engineer, reservoir geologist) and

Engineers ( chemical engineer, mechanical engineer, civil engineer and electrical engineer)
Who do they employ most

Thanks
.
lol u never know how Nigeria dey work na why
Health › Re: My Wound Is Taking Forever To Heal (Graphic) by cedricksly: 7:33am On May 26, 2022
Cakkie:
Good day, all. I'll be brief.

The first thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7063080/ampicillin-capsule-dry-heal-open


Pls my wound have refused to heal despite applying various medications on it (chloramphenicol, ampicillin, penicillin ointment, injection powder).

It's getting to two months now. I'm really tired nairalanders. Pls help me out, I have spent all the money on me trying to get it healed but all to no avail.

Doctors, Pharmacists, Nurses and experienced health personels in the house pls I really need your sincere advice.


Pls help me get to the front page. I believe there are a lot of experienced folks in this forum. Pls help me out guys.
it is not healing because you have high sugar in your system..... You might even be diabetic self..... High sugar in the blood stream does not make injury heal faster, some does not heal at all...
Technology Market › Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by cedricksly: 1:50pm On May 25, 2022
Haywhy433:
Soundcore 3 sealed brand new 28k

Call/whatsapp 081384339..37
still available??
Family › Re: My Stingy Elder Brother by cedricksly: 5:33pm On May 23, 2022
Idiot entitled begger having a choice... You think your brother owe you anythinghuh Mumu
Politics › Re: Body Language Of Yaradua's Mother When Presidential Aspirants Visited Her by cedricksly: 3:54pm On May 21, 2022
chrisxxx:
I think the body language of Yaradua's mother when four different presidential candidates of different parties visited her tells where her heart lies.
forget your conspiracy theory and take this from me... A typical fulani/hausa would prefer their own ram or goat to be president before ever considering another Ethnicity... They are built like that.
Romance › Re: Help - I'm About To Start Dating Two Sisters (accidentally) At The Same Time. by cedricksly: 3:50pm On May 21, 2022
questioner:
I'd like to summarize my issue, Confused on the way forward.

1. I met this beautiful babe at a restaurant - pretty face, fresh baby skin, nice catwalk. She was damn proportionate, average boobs, average butt, avg hips, average height, angelic look, you can take her anywhere kinda girl.
She leaves the restaurant some minutes before I do.

2. While driving out, I notice she's still at the bus stop waiting for a bus/cab, so I beckon her and gave her a lift home. We exchanged numbers.

3. Called her two days later asking to hang out, she was hesitant but I persisted and she later agreed

4. We chill out at a bar in the evening but she wasn't acting too friendly, not answering my questions and just behaving hesitant.
Infact, a friend I met at the bar wondered if i offended her, I explained we just met and don't know her too well.
Luckily, it was one of those Real Madrid Champion's league match days where Benzema was rescuing Madrid from the brink, which made up for her boredom.

5. We were about leaving when she got a call from her younger sister who said she was nearby with a mutual friend of theirs, so younger sis (YS) agreed to join us and then I'll drop them at home together.

6. YS came into the bar and behold she was a stunner! As beautiful as the older sis (OS) but she (YS) had huge boobs and was tall - not kidding but video vixen stuff.
Almost every man around turned as she made her way to us. I mean Those boobs was bouncing as she came in
She also turned out to be the life of the party extrovert, came in with a big smile, greeting everybody on sight and immediately initiating conversations.
infact about 3 guys came to the table adjacent us, just to take her number while we were there.

7. So I ordered another round of drinks and meat and peppersoup and since YS was easier to talk to, I was more comfortable
asking her about what they wanted to take etc, which annoyed the OS who asked why I was talking to her YS while she was with me.

8. It came to a head, when YS wanted to request for an extra bottle of water , I couldn't hear cos of loud music, so I placed me hand across her shoulder to pull her mouth nearer my ears (innocent action, believe me) so I can hear her. I suddenly got a slap in the back from OS who warned me not to try what I did again and totally stopped talking to me - I wrote her off after that incident.

9. Shortly after that, we decided to go home, I managed to slip my biz card secretly into YS hands and whispered call me, she looked annoyed and said 'why?'

10. Dropped the girls home and practically forgot about them, I felt OS was no go area and didn't think YS was going to call back...

11. Some days later, very early in the morning, my phoen went boooom....YS was calling and asking why I told her to call me. I suggested we meet later in the day.

12. Picked her up (at junction some distance away from their house) and brought her to my place. While I was still thinking of how to break the ice, she was already stylishly bombarding me with questions.
Do you stay alone in this big house - Yes
What job do you do - Banker
Are you married - No
Do you have kids - No
You must be old O ? - Just 31+
What about my sister - Nothing between us, I have not spoken to her since that day and that was also the first time we met

She seemed satisfied with all my answers cos she relaxed and became very chatty

13. She came back to my place the next evening and this time around we got smashing, it was mind blowing, she was amazing, energetic and that her long legs were put to good use.
I would have called her a 10/10 overall and one for the long haul aside the fact that she said she dropped out of Uni while her older sis is a graduate

14. She later warned we should keep things on the low for now cos her sister might not be happy.

15. Everything seemed to be going well until bang...bout a week later, I got a call from OS, she was obviously trying to win me back asking why I didn't call her back and sh*t
I just responded politely but she wasn't deterred, she kept calling like every other day, while I only called back once a while
in fact, I had to lie that I had gone for a training and would be away for the next 3 weeks.

16. Problem is, the 3 weeks will expire this weekend and this girl (OS) has promised to give me what she failed to do weeks earlier.
Talking smack about how she wanted to spend the night at my place but she was so angry back then bla bla and how she's looking forward to me being back.

Herein, lies my dilemma
Younger sister is hooked and we have a little secret going
Older sister is also getting hooked and she wanna be starting something
Me, the beneficiary (or is it victim), I don confuse - both girls are top tier babes

What do I do?

a) Do the right thing and continue with YS

b) Do the right thing and stop the low key games with YS, and go for OS

c) Do the right thing and enjoy life with both sisters, shebi I no force them

Frankly, I would have gone with option C, na the stuff of dreams, but the things I am hearing these days about babes,
I dey cautious about safety, these girls are sisters and if they find out, nobody knows wetin dem fit do.

But NL people, what do you think ?
thank God you never smash OS, Allow her be, make una be friends and nothing more, she has her chance and she blew it... Don't Go and be the reason why two sisters are at war..... But it is important to also note that your relationship with YS won't last because it is obvious she is moving fats because of what she saw, your house etc... So my advise forget OS And dey take the low key route with YS and where e crash leave am at that. Please Don smash two sisters e get why
Business › Re: Wrong Credit Alert , How Do I Locate And Refund The Owner by cedricksly: 12:26pm On May 21, 2022
bobchigar:
Hello Nairalanders.

I feel like seeking your advise about how I can accelerate the process of returning the money that I guess was wrongly transferred to my personal bank account.

About two months ago, I received credit alert of about ₦200k in one of my savings accounts. Based on the narration of the credit alert, it shows that It was done through ATM and I did not do any transaction to have been expecting such money.
I have been expecting to get alert for reversal of the transaction but the money is still sitting in my bank account.

I have also been expecting my banker to have contacted me for approval to reverse the transaction but I have not been contacted by my banker.

I was considering the option of complaining to my banker to trace the owner from their ends but some people discouraged me from doing so; stating that those bankers may conspire with someone and falsely claim the money.

I have been thinking of possibilities of tracing the owner by myself but credit alert did not state the details of the account from which the money was transferred to my bank account.

I am feeling concerned for the person who did the transfer because his fund has been tied down.

A banker told me that the owner must have complained to his/her bank but banks ways of attending to the customers complain is slow but definitely they will contact me for reversal.

Do I keep my fingers crossed and be expecting my banker to contact me for reversal approval?
or
Complain to my banker to help me locate the owner of the transaction?

Or any other suggestions will be welcome from you but my objective is to hasten process of returning the money to the true owner.

Thank you.
also at times God bless people in mysterious ways, some time last two year I was so down on cash and needed a break through badly... Suddenly I got 12,000 from a name Joe **** and I felt it was a mistake complained to bank and they said nobody has laid claim to the money yet that if he does I will be called... The next month I got same amount from same person, now this was making me feel uncomfortable as I wasn't exacting any of such, the 3rd month same amount, that was when I said to myself might just be God and confirmed that was not an error transfer.. I kept getting that money for 19months around same time, but I never touched it, I finally spent the money last month after waiting that long and nobody paid claim to it....

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