Politics › Re: Revisiting Iyabo Obasanjo's Open Letter To Her Father (OBJ) In December 2013 by chiboycue: 9:11pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
PassingShot: Nigeria accused me of fraud with the Ministry of Health. As you yourself know, both in Abeokuta and Abuja I lived in your houses as a Senator. In Lagos, I stayed in my mum’s bungalow which she succeeded in getting from you when you abandoned her with six children to live in Abeokuta with Stella.
I borrowed against my four-year Senate salary to build the only house I have anywhere in the world in Lagos. I rent out the house for income. I don’t have much in terms of money but I am extremely happy. I tried to contribute my part to the development of my country but the country decided it didn’t need me. Like many educated Nigerians my age, there are countries that actually value people doing their best to contribute to society and as many of them have scattered all over the world so have many of your children.
I can speak for myself and many of them; what they are running away from is that they can’t even contribute effectively at the same time as they have to deal with constant threats to their lives by miscreants the society failed to educate; deal with lack of electricity and air pollution resulting from each household generating its own electricity, and the lack of quality healthcare or education and a total lack of sense of responsibility of almost every person you meet. Your contribution to this scenario cannot be overestimated.
You and your cronies mentioned in your letter have left the country worse than you met it at your births in the 1930’s and 1940’s. Nigeria is not the creation of any of you, and although you feel you own it and are “Mr Nigeria” deciding whether the country stays together or not, and who rules it; you don’t. Nigeria is solely the creation of the British. My dear gone Grandmother whose burial you told people not to attend, was not born a Nigerian but a proud Ijebu-Yoruba woman. Togetherness is a choice and it must serve a purpose.
As for Nigerians thinking I have their money, when it was obvious I was part of the Yar’Adua (government’s) anti-Obasanjo phenomenon that was going on at the time. The Ministry of Health and international NGOs paid for a retreat for the Senate Committee on Health. The House Committee on Health was treated exactly the same way. The monies were given to members as estacode and the rest used for accommodation, flights and feeding. While the Senate was on the retreat in Ghana, the EFCC asked the House Committee to return the monies they received for their retreat and asked us in the Senate to return ours on our return which I refused, as it was already used for the purpose it was earmarked for in the budget that year which was to work on the National Health Bill.
The House Committee had not gone on their retreat. I did nothing wrong and my colleagues and I on the retreat did our work conscientiously. I asked the EFCC not to drag my colleagues into it and I am proud I suffered alone. As is usual in a society where people who are not progressive but take pleasure in the pain of others, most Nigerians were happy, not looking at the facts of the matter, just the suffering of an Obasanjo.
As the people that stole their millions are hailed by them the innocent is punished. When the court case was thrown out because it lacked merit even against the Minister, no newspaper carried the news. The wrongful malicious prosecution of an Obasanjo was not something they wanted to report; just her downfall. But it really wasn’t about me, it was about right and wrong in society and every society gets the fruit of the seeds it sows.
How do you think God will provide good leaders to such a people? God helps those who help themselves. I have realized that as an Obasanjo I am not entitled to work in Nigeria in any capacity. I am not entitled to work in health which is my training, or in any field or anywhere in the country or participate in any business. I have learnt this lesson well and there are societies that actually think capable, well-educated people are important to their society’s progress. Apparently, unless I am eating from the dustbin, Nigerians and possibly you will not be satisfied. I thank God it has not come to that based on God-given brains and brawn.
When I left Nigeria in 1989 for graduate studies in America, you promised to pay my school fees and no living expenses. This you did and I am grateful for because, working in the kitchen and then the library at University of California, Davis and later, working on the IT desk and later as a Teaching Assistant at Cornell gave me valuable work ethics for life. I wouldn’t have it any other way. As a black woman in the early 21st century, I have achieved much and done more than most. My wish is that black girls all over the world will have the capacity to create their lives, make mistakes, learn from it and move ahead.
Moving back to Nigeria, thinking I wanted to serve was obviously a grave mistake but one brought about by the tragic incident of April 20, 2003. This was the day five people were shot dead in my car. The mother of the children was an acquaintance I had met only one day before the incident.
We had attended the same high school and university but she was there ten years earlier than I. She had also studied public health in the UK as I had in the US. It was these coincidences that made us connect on our first meeting and then she decided to visit on the Saturday of the election of 2003 when the incident occurred. I am scarred for life by that incident and I know the mother was too as we both looked back to see two men on each side of my car shooting.
I understand her trauma and her behaviour since then can be judged from that. Nigeria is a nasty place that pushes people to lose their compass. I participated in the campaigns leading to the elections that day, more because this was my first experience of electoral process in Nigeria. Growing up there were no elections and I was too young in the 1979 and 1983 elections. It was interesting to see democracy at work. When Gbenga Daniel who I campaigned for offered me a job, I probably would have declined it, if not for the memory of the dead.
I felt I had to engage in making the country progress and to avoid such incidences in the future. I don’t need to tell you or anyone what kind of governor and person Gbenga Daniel is. As usual when I found out, you would not listen to my opinion but found out for yourself. I also campaigned for Amosun for the Senate in 2003. I have had some wonderful Nigerians do good to me, I will never forget the then Minister of Women Affairs, who saw me talking in the crowd at a campaign event and was alarmed and said “bad things can happen to you out there, I will give you one of the orderlies assigned to my office to follow you”. This was the police man that died in my car that day. I never really thought bad things would happen to me, I moved around freely in society until that shooting scarred me and I accepted a police detail. I was constantly scared for my life after that.
You called me after your vengeful letter as usual, looking out for yourself and thinking you will bribe me by saying the APC will use me for the Senate. Do you really know me and what I want out of life?
Anyone that knows me knows I am done with anything political or otherwise in Nigeria. I have so much to do and think to make this world a better place than to waste it on fighting with idiots over a political post that does no good to society. That letter you wrote to the President, would you have tolerated such a letter as a sitting President? Don’t do to others what you will not allow to be done to you. The only thing I was using that was yours was the house in Abuja where I left my things when I left the country. I eventually rented it out so that the place would not fall apart but as usual you want to take that as well. You can’t have it without explaining to Nigerians how you came about the house?
As I said earlier, this is not about politics but my frustration with you as a father and a human being. I am not involved with what is currently going on in Nigeria, I don’t talk to any Nigerian other than friends on social basis. I am not involved with any political groups or affiliation. You mentioned Governor Osoba when you spoke to me, yes I was walking down the street of Cambridge, Massachussets a few months ago, when I looked up and saw him reading a map trying to cross the street.
I greeted him warmly and offered to give him a ride to where he was going. This I did not do because I wanted anything from him politically but because that is how I was raised by my mother to treat an adult who I really had no ill-will towards. Some said he was part of the people that manipulated the elections for me to lose in 2011. I don’t have any ill-will to him for that because I think they did me a favour and someone has to win and lose.
I had told you I wasn’t going to run in 2011 but you manipulated me to run; that was my mistake. Losing was a blessing. As usual you wanted me to run for your self-serving purpose to perpetuate your name in the political realm and as the liar that you are, you later denied that it was you who wanted me to run in 2011.
In 2003 I ran because I wanted to and I thought getting to the central government I will be able to contribute more to improving lives and working on legislation that impacts the country. I found that nothing gets done; every public official in Nigeria is working for himself and no one really is serving the public or the country.
The whole system, including the public themselves want oppressors, not people working for their collective progress. When no one is planning the future of a country, such a country can have no future. I won’t be your legacy, let your legacy be Nigeria in the fractured state you created beca USA.use, it was always your way or the highway.
This is the end of my communication with you for life. I pray Nigeria survives your continual intervention in its affairs.
Sincerely, Iyabo Obasanjo, DVM, PhD
Massachusetts,
USA OBJ may have had his shortcomings in the past but he made the right choice of his open letter to Nigerian youths and the reasons he gave for supporting H. E Mr Peter Obi as the next President come this year. I think we should commend for his choice of the in coming President and the reasons he gave for making his choice |
Romance › Re: I Insulted My Girlfriend How Do I Apologise by chiboycue: 7:14pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
h0pze3: 4get about dat bitch  You need to apologize her. You insulted her because she allowed you to sleep with her. Your disagreement with her is not enough reason to her foul names. If na ya sister Dem insult like that you go like am ? |
Christianity Etc › Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by chiboycue: 2:37pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
ebubeson: You may have heard "no sex before marriage" from various people, articles, media etc. You may have also heard people encouraging partners not to have sex until they marry. But the question is, what truly is "no sex before marriage?"
Does it mean not having sex with each other before marriage, but having sex with other people your are not dating till you do wedding with the person you are dating? Or does it mean total sexual abstinence from everyone until marriage? The later is correct. no sex before marriage simply means no marriage no sex. It also means sex after marriage. For example Mr. A marries Miss AB. If Mr. A wants to have sex, then Mr A must do so with Miss AB because Mr. A is married to Miss AB. Mr A must not have sex with any other person except Miss AB. But If Mr A is not married to Miss AB, then Mr A cannot have sex with Miss AB or any other lady except he is married first to Miss AB. It is after he marries Miss AB that he can start having sex with her. This is God's instruction. |
Politics › Re: 2023: How Could You Imagine Beating This Kind Of APC Team? (Photo) by chiboycue: 9:05pm On Dec 16, 2022 |
blamingthedevil: no be say you no get sense. How could you imagine beating this kind of a team? How? You dey craze!!!
https://twitter.com/donteju/status/1603023101297582083 If Croatian Team could beats Brazilian Team in the World Cup Competition thereby kicking the Brazilian out of the competition, then the youthful OBIdent Team would possibly beat this aging APC Team and kick them out of the Presidential competition. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Biden Signs Same-sex Marriage Into Law amid funfare (Video, Photos) by chiboycue: 11:24pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
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Properties › Re: My Landlady And Her Daughter Want To Finish Me! by chiboycue: 7:52pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
Oberhiri141: Ever since i packed into my new house, my landlady and her daughter have been disturbing my life one way or the other. One day, I gave my landlady 10kg of mama gold rice which was given to me at my place of work and then the following morning she called me and asked me to lend her 10k.
I think she has taken my kindness for weakness and as for her daughter, her own inordinate request for money is unbearable. If it's not meatpie today then it's recharge card or even hair cream.
Please, Elders in the house, how can I cope with this burden? What was your motives of your giving your landlady 10kg of mama gold rice ? What was your motives for giving your landlord's daughter money ? Who send you ? My candid advice to you is that you should stop fraternizing with your land lady and her daughter. Just be minding your business. Familiarity breeds contempt |
Politics › Re: Only Peter Obi Worries Us, Atiku Cannot Win – APC’s Osita Okechukwu by chiboycue: 7:37pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Worshippers At Shiloh 2022 React To Peter Obi's Presence (Video) by chiboycue: 7:13pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Starhearts: U need mental health therapy...
Tell.me d state obi will win He can't win any states in South West, North Central, North East, North West.... He can only get 25% in d South east because of IPOB...
South south is gone.... Your village people are deceiving you big time. Mr Peter Obi would win by God's grace |
Politics › Re: Worshippers At Shiloh 2022 React To Peter Obi's Presence (Video) by chiboycue: 7:12pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
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Fashion › Re: When You See A Woman With Waist Beads, What Usually Comes To Your Mind? Be Hones by chiboycue: 6:02pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
What usually come to my mind is to check if she is wearing leg chain or nose ring as well |
Politics › Re: Worshippers At Shiloh 2022 React To Peter Obi's Presence (Video) by chiboycue: 6:08am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Mr. Peter Obi deserves to be the next President come 2023. He is currently the best Presidential Candidate. He is the Man of the Nigerian People. |
Politics › Re: Bashir Ahmad Mocks Peter Obi For Items He Donated To Flood Victims by chiboycue: 8:15pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
Some one like HE Mr Peter OBi made contributions to better the lives of flood victimscand the likes of Bashir Ahmad are busy criticizing him insteading of appreciating hid efforts.
What effort has the likes of Bashir Ahmad made to better the lives of the flood victims? |
Politics › Re: Police Officer On Duty Caught On Camera Drunk (picture,video) by chiboycue: 8:04pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
I don't think it is proper for you to share this video online. Do you want the Police man to loose his job on account of your shared video ? |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Who Is Contesting Against Me Lives In Lagos - Tinubu (pic/vid by chiboycue: 2:33pm On Oct 18, 2022 |
Is Senator Asiwaju Bola Tinubu originally from Lagos State ? |
Politics › Re: "I Did Not Voluntarily Step Down For Peter Obi" - Faduri Oluwadare Joseph by chiboycue: 5:29pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
@fadojoe Let asume you emerged the LP Presidential flagbearer, do you think you would be able to defeat the likes of Senator Tinubu and Alhaji Atiku ??
Would your presence as Presidential flagbearer be felt as much as that of Mr Peter Obi ?? |
Crime › Re: Gang Of Turkey's To 'Receive Death Penalty' After Breaking Man's hips by chiboycue: 8:56pm On Oct 12, 2022 |
These gang of turkey accompanied by roster must be very mean and vicious. I would not be surprised if they belong to confraternity secret cult.
They should be executed immediately and their corpses used to prepare sumptuous meals to serve as a detterant to other turkeys with gangster tendencies. |
Politics › Re: LP Accused Peter Obi Of Demolishing Their Billboards In 2013 (Video) by chiboycue: 5:27pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Inspite of his shirt comings in the past, Peter Obi is the best Presidential Candidate to be elected in 2023.
His presence and contribution to the Labour Party has made the party a force to reckon with. |
Business › Re: Can A Woman Who Runs Beer Parlor Business Still Be Faithful To Her Husband? by chiboycue: 3:01pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Any one running a peer parlour/ hotel/ restaurant business can still be faithful to his/ her spouse once the person is disciplined and not either lustful or a manizer/womanizer |
Family › Re: Rebuttal- Complex Marital Issue Https://www.nairaland.co by chiboycue: 7:42pm On Oct 07, 2022*. Modified: 9:48pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
Marriage is not easy o. Personally I have learnt some things from my married life and I am still learning new things about marriage everyday.
Marriage brings an imperfect man and an imperfect woman legally together for companionship, procreation, satisfy sexual urges and tolerance.
They both should learn to tolerate one another weaknesses knowing fully well that nobody is perfect. The wife should learn to be submissive to her husband while the husband should love the wife as much as he loves self. The two of them have become one and they should pray together. Praying together is very important irrespective of the distance. Also proclaiming blessings upon the lives of your spouse and not curses on your spouses is important.
Constant communication irrespective of the distance apart is very important in marriage. Forgiving one another is also important marriage and abusing your spouse is very wrong. Listening ( and not being distracted) to your spouse when he or she is talking is vital
Couples should learn to resolve their matters privately and may not involve a third party like their parents or siblings in their matters. Develop your love languages. |
Politics › Re: Sowore To Obi: You've Been Scammed. Your 'dallas Citizenship' Award Is Worthless by chiboycue: 6:59pm On Oct 05, 2022*. Modified: 7:18pm On Oct 05, 2022 |
Sowore is nagging because he knows, deep down in his heart, that he can never be as successful as Mr Peter Obi. Sowore is overwhelmed by the grace upon Mr Peter Obi. |
Politics › Re: Princewill: Split Votes Between Supporters Of Obi, Atiku May Give Tinubu Victory by chiboycue: 9:23am On Oct 04, 2022 |
Peterobiisathie: https://www.thecable.ng/tonye-princewill-split-votes-between-supporters-of-obi-atiku-may-give-tinubu-victory/amp I feel we should be careful in voting someone that is physically, medically and psychologically fit to take valuable decisions that would add value to the lives of all Nigeria irrespective of his religious, ethnic and political affliations. Please, the questions are between Senator Tinubu, Alhaji Atiku and Mr Peter Obi, who is: a. physically, medically and psychologically fit to be elected as President come 2023 ? b. able to preside over the affairs of the nation ? and c. improve the standard of living of all Nigerians ? |
Crime › Re: Police Recover Decomposed Bodies Of 2 Ladies Inside CMD's Office In Kwara by chiboycue: 4:55pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Some people are just evil. Shedding blood with no remorse or fear of God. May God deliver us from them all |
Business › Re: I Mistakenly Borrowed From A Loan App #15,000 To Pay #19,500 In 2 Weeks [Pics] by chiboycue: 10:42am On Oct 02, 2022 |
Sorry to hear that you mistakenly applied for a loan which was approved. I guess you would be very careful when next you decide to play around any loan app subsequently. I hope you would be able to repay back the loan on time to avoid embarrassing text messages being sent to your contacts if you fail to repay the loan. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi's Kano Visit: See How Northerners Responded To Adamu Garba's Attack by chiboycue: 1:06pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
It seems that the emergence of Mr Peter Obi as a Presidential candidate is given some persons like Adamu Garba sleepless night. Mr Peter Obi dressed like a Nigerian and he was called upon to address his fellow Nigerians. If Adamu Garba has an issue with him, he should not vote for him in the next Presidential election because his criticism does not hold waters.
As for me and my family, we are OBIDIENT. |
Romance › Re: Does A Sleep Over Mean We Will Probably Have Sex? by chiboycue: 12:42pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
No. A sleep over does not mean that we would probably have sex.
Are you satisfied with my honest answer ? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran’s All-female Police Squad Units Dragging Hijab Protestors To Death Row Pris by chiboycue: 12:32pm On Sep 24, 2022 |
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Family › Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by chiboycue: 8:49pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
Your daughter did bad to give birth to your grandson at the age of 17 years, however, you need to forgive her just as God forgives us our tresspasses. You need to handle the matter like a matured parent.
Since you said you disowned her, you need to reown her and your grandchild back by accepting them back into your house and be supportive to her and your grandson. Have the mindset that your grandchild is a blessing to you and he or she could be an important figure in future. Your grandchild is a part of you that still bears some of your genes that was passed to him or her through your daughter. The summary is forgive them, accepted them back and support them morally and financially. |
Politics › Re: Throwback Picture Of Peter Obi Sleeping During A Meeting by chiboycue: 6:08pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Obi is receiving inspiration on how to make Nigeria better, come 2023 |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Queen Elizabeth II: World Leaders Pay Tribute To Uk's Longest-serving Monarch by chiboycue: 10:57pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
May the soul of Queen Elizabeth continue to rest in peace.
All hail King Charles III. Long may his reign be.
We are still being colonized by the North whether we like it or not. I prefer the British colonial rule to the Northern colonial rule.
I pray that the Igbos would be one and united just as the North are one and support their own whole heartedly.
Vote Wisely come 2023 |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Queen Elizabeth II: World Leaders Pay Tribute To Uk's Longest-serving Monarch by chiboycue: 10:56pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: King Charles III Officially Names William, Kate, Prince And Princess Of Wales by chiboycue: 10:40pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: “Bye Bye For Obidients” – Senator Nnamani Asks Supporters To Dump Peter Obi by chiboycue: 7:40pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
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