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crackhaus:
See your head like my kind...

See your teeth like "see your head" troublemaker!

Rukkydelta:
thank God

Haba,I couldn't have been. We did stuffs like that to catch our fun.we celebrated everything including FESTAC

[quote author=crackhaus post=41154647]Telling some of you stuck-up entitled girls the truth is what you consider rude.

Don't burst a nerve on my account, just understand that you come off as selfish, broke, or both...whether you like to hear it or not.

And quite entitled too... Get sense.[/quote


How you read me is inconsequential. You are absolutely entitled to your opinion.calling me names just tells me your kind.goodbye dear,I shall not reply you again on this matter.

Rukkydelta:
Are you a lesbian ?

No! I went to all girls boarding school

Eketem:
This is if you want to add crib, carrier, stroller etc. For the basics 100k should do.

If oga has no money he can break save some more from now till January but by January he needs to start saving money for hospital bill and immunisation. Rotavirus is every month for the first three months and the cheapest you Will get it is 16k. He should pray it's a vagin-al birth because CS is much more expensive.

These expenses is what young couples should be planning during courtship not big wedding


Also all these parents demanding this and that should realise that a couple would have to deal with this when they marry

My thoughts exactly.

Hilarious!especially the "buhari maka why" part.

crackhaus:
And what if I may ask is the woman's quota to be contributed in a relationship, apart from the sex and emotional support that lazy, broke, and selfish women will not let us hear word about?

That quote was directed to someone else .If you have anthing meaningful to contribute as per the topic,please let's hear you.

crackhaus:
Jesus!!
And these are the kind of girls and women that come on NL to call themselves feminists... Lol

Madame, you're not old-fashioned...you're just selfish, or broke, or both.

First of all, I don't claim to be a feminist.You have no right to call me unwarranted names just because you must insult someone. My financial status is not your business neither is it open for discussion. If you feel you shouldn't give gifts to women,say so without being rude.Next time you want to fight please pick your regular partners.peace!

Wow,this is a sweet one.though I have my own family now,I miss being with my parents and siblings.we laughed a lot and as I read through this piece,I remembered again how good we were till tragedy struck...
God bless the woman whose womb carried me,God rest the soul of the man that fathered me,God bless and prosper my siblings,God bless the OP and God bless y'all.

raumdeuter:
Why not the other way round?

I.e the woman hustle to plant a smile on the man's face

Judging from what I see everyday,it's usually the man that does the hustling.

Cutehector:
jeeeez! Ok am done with you! Givin of gifts is not necessary.. Giving of gifts is not mandatory, giving of gifts is optional..



I neva said givn of gifts is a no no in relationships.. And let me tell u, in all my years of dating, none of my exes has eva bought me any gift, but i have done that.. To show u d level of stinginess in all of dem.. Buh guess wat, dat did not reduce my love for dem all..

I see...

raumdeuter:
Maybe the woman too should give the man gifts more. or whats she contributing to the man's life

There are few women who are not in relationship because of what they gain from it

Well for me both parties ought to give but me thinks the man should always hustle to plant a smile on his woman's face. It looks like I'm really old fashioned...

Cutehector:
u still dont get it do u. Love does not centre on gifts! I will break dis ur head for u to understand oo..

Ok in dating you ruled out exchange of gifts,in marriage nko?
You are not permitted to break my head until you answer all my questions.

Cutehector:
yes a man can date a woman without givin her gifts... If she doesnt require it, its not necesary.. The love and attemtion and care is most important!

Please can she offer gifts to him? What happens when they eventually get married?

Cutehector:
bia, e b like say u too like material gifts! It neva boils and will neva boil down to giving... If you are the type dat loves a guy due to his gifts den dat is ur problem. I pity the guy dats gona love u anyways.

Sir I'm not materialistic.Please we are speaking generally,don't narrow it down to me. Are you really saying that a man can date/marry a woman without giving her gifts?if you are against the maga thing that's ok but ruling out exchange of gifts is really hard to swallow

raumdeuter:
Not true

If your girlfriend or wife has her own money and buys stuff for herself nko?

Or are you saying all women have to be dependent on men to look good

Are you equally saying that if your wife has money that you won't buy her stuffs?Well I've always thought that it's the duty of a man to take care of his woman especially his wife regardless of her financial status.I stand to be corrected but that is what I see everyday,that is what I believe.
I had to look at that piece again,the author said he has to contribute something no matter how broke he may be and that's okay by me

Cutehector:
abegi... Spare me d lecture... U ladies just finding ways to justify guys spendn on yall... Look let me tell u, if u gat money, u dnt need a man to shower u gifts..

OK,I'll not lecture you but all I know is that when you love(not limited to the man/woman relationship) you tend to seek to please the parties involved by doing stuffs to make them smile.It all boils down to giving.I didn't say being exploited o.I said giving.

[quote author=JustHere2Observ post=41012186]Oh my lawd, that's a lot of cuteness...my ovaries are tingling[/quote

LOL!

Awwwwwwwwww,I just love this baby!

Mariecakes:
Not always true

Are you saying that it's possible to date/curt a woman without contributing anything to her wellbeing,no input whatsoever?

Godfullsam:
Is this an advice or what

An observation...

MrHighSea:
Op, go n charge ur phone,

What's wrong with my phone?

Cutehector:
i dnt need to buy a girl"s love with material gifts!

Sir,but reaching out is not synonymous with buying love na. Love is technical y'know.

Cutehector:
Just dont be a maga!

But don't forget to contribute your quota

How true?

Mine was when I was in JSS 3,there was this senior Oby I was dying for.I was even planning to Val her and most of my friends and classmates knew.even some dorm mates knew.Just few days before Val form 3girls misbehaved and she asked us all to abandon our lunch kneel down outside.we all knelt down and I was poking my nose unknowingly then snr oby thundered"You,stand up" I happily stood up,so glad that I was noticed.Her next statement embarrassed me so much that my knees wobbled. "Why are you picking your nose?what sort of a dirty habit is that or do you think you're in your village? That's how you guys feel yet you're so bush bla bla bla..."
The shame wey bin catch bin no get part 2.when I got to the dorm I tore the Val card I bought for her.my friends even came to my corner for condolence visit...

Leaving or staying is entirely up to you. Make sure you weigh your options objectively. It's your life,most people that will tell you to leave him will not be there for you .The ones that will likely be there for you have asked you to stay but again you are an adult capable of making your decisions and carrying your cross. This is entirely up to you.

Young03:
Bro, Run for ur life


track her calls nah...every call she answers u will hear it even if ur in China

Abeg how do they track calls?

God bless the author and the poster of this beautiful piece. You both are made in heaven.I know that some folks will still come here and sing the 'it doesn't matter' song
It's absolutely sickening and totally disgusting to see innocent children exposed to such decadence by the very people that are burdened with the responsibility of guiding them alright.
Just few days back,my son and I walked into a shop to pick stuffs.The music was playing and the shop owner asked my baby to dance,after much urging my son bent down to dance the way he knows,the way we do it in church. Instead of the guy to applaud him,he said the poor boy didn't know how to dance and asked if that was how he danced at parties because he didn't do one of them street dance. I sharply interrupted him and praised my boy before telling him that he only watches selected movies and that he doesn't participate in dancing competition.
When I see some children pass by I wonder if their mothers weren't at home when they probably left but when I see their mothers or fathers coming along I just watch on...
Sexualizing young children especially the girl child is wrong,it's the worst form of child abuse.parents please note this.Our parents didn't do this to us,why then should we do this to the next generation?

I don't know if to believe or discard this story,all I know is that judging by the demonic irresponsibility displayed by older men and the reckless ungodliness displayed by children of these days ;this story may be true.

Congratulations! Wish you a good life,home and family.plenty plenty blessings,fruitfulness all the way. I really like the reception area.

tpiar:
no more separation of genders.

what woman can do, man can do better.

So there is no more saperation of powers abi na job specifications for each gender?
Well joke apart I sincerely think the wedding cake things are for ladies . Imagine the guy hustling for cake and the babe for drinks,e fit no pure o.