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How did you get the information? In other words who told you? Was it the lady herself?IF the source is right; how old are you that you cannot confront him?IF you are up to 18,you should politely let him know you're aware of what he does and ask him to stop.if you can't then speak to your dad instead.he would handle the matter discreetly.if you speak to mum ,all hell will be let loose and if she's anything close to my mother;expect your uncle to do 2months in ICU,6months in police custody before 7years jail term.just make sure you don't have a thing with the lady though

Swissheart:
Happy Birthday to the only tomato in your jollof rice.....no mind me...party rice dey sweet me one kain....where is the party?

Haha at the tomato in joljollof rice.thanks.no be only you.party rice has it's own swag.but wait o.e be like say you like food o.I'll call him that to see his reaction.

Richy4:
Tell him happy birthday. But you can always email the cake with boldness biko so we can help you celebrate properlyooooooo

it's not good in the fridge.

Thanks he will hear.check your mailbox now for the cake!

Dyt:
And no invite?
Nawa

Wishing you and him more years together
In short
All you wish yourself

Thanks.next year by His grace,you will be invited .

Dyt:
Why you mad?



Ewuro4 has blessed you both on our behalf
Hbd to him
Make sure he doesn't go work oo
Lock him up and finish it off
40 is a long time journeyye
Wishing you both a more blissful marriage

No party?
Abeg I like mogbomoya o

Lock him up and finish "it" off? Hei,wetin this innocent man do you na? Thanks. Yeah we had a small get together.40 yrs no be beans.can hardly believe it.

Mindfulness:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! May he live a long HEALTHY and PROSPEROUS life. And may your love continue to flourish. It is so nice to see a person having to say so many nice things about her spouse. This is what marriages are supposed to look like. May God bless your home.

Thanks,I appreciate.

GodnGold:
Can I sing,"jolly good fellow"...?
No my voice is terrible...Today I join my buddy chidoks to celebrate her oga...Ka chineke mere unu ihe nile unu bu n'obi n'aburo njo. Gozie unu,nye Di gi aru ike,aku n'uba,ike ifu gi n'anya nke ukwu,udo n'anuri oge nile.In Jesus name I pray...Amen

Thanks my sister,how's the family?amen to your prayers,wise one!

tpiah11:
dont know you, dont know the person you're referring to.

is he real? Does he know you are dating him?

Must you post vague info on nairaland? Must you ask nlers to help you greet someone they dont know?

if he is a nler, open a thread and put his user name on it.

Oga I didn't say you should greet him o.I said you should celebrate with me.since you don't know me just thank God with me abeg .

Dyt:
Is he beside you?

Or you were so waiting for 12 to make a thread
Woman
Goan kpetus

What's your point exactly?please don't dance your reggae in my blues.I'm awake for a reason best known to me and I'm super excited.either you share in my excitement or you pitch your tent elsewhere.

Lord have mercy! Sometimes I wonder how the abused folks carry on regardless if the risk and danger involved. The children are my major concern.witnessing such brutality is capable of making a beast out of any child.

Wow!

You should really face your front! Move on...

Poor you but don't you think it's all your fault? You saw jeep and threw caution to the wind right? When will babes start realising that being behind any kind of wheels doesn't spell financial stability. But babe wait o you felt you hit a gold mine yet you boycotted your traditional marriage party and cosponsored your wedding? Nne e get as e be o!

shoksimba:
Try wake him up and let him port...shoki de shoki its allowed..
Happy Birrthday to your better half..long life in prosperity

Hmmmm... noted.thanks too

Kimoni:
Happy birthday Oga!

Thanks

Hi guys,
Please join me in celebrating God's goodness. My Oga at the top,my truest friend, my lord and better half,the only sugar in my tea is 40 years old today!!
Congrats to him ooooo!

Lol at 'love tap'like seriously, you call mending love tap? ha! that statistics is over exaggerated joor .

You actually mentioned baby mama?? as in??

madridguy:
Do have a wonderful day and remember to pray for me.

Had a peep before going for service and prayed for you.This week shall be the best you've ever had.

madridguy:
I am a Muslim.

Okay me i'm a christian o and i'm here doing amebo.let me go and prepare for church.cheers.nice day!

If you don't have prepaid electricty meter, get more appliances like electric stove, electric kettle( if you don't have water heater). Do you cook beans alot? get a pressure pot for your beans, cowlegs and others (whenever there is power outage) You need a whistling kettle if you boil water and leave the kitchen.
Fill your gas in a plant.the road side retailers tend to fill the cylinder with air though the good ones pause and release the air but if it's at the plant , their nozzle is tight thus oxygen cannot enter plus they weigh it in front of you before and after filling to avoid overfilling sef.

madridguy:
Wonderful

No church today or are you a muslim?

madridguy:
Different people may have different opinions about it, but for me, it is undoubtedly the mother. But surely, everyone knows it has to be a united effort of both the parents to raise a family, but still there, the mother contributes more than the father. This bonding with the child is mostly due to the mother carrying the child in her womb for a good 9+ months, which attaches both of them emotionally.

A mother has an undetectable bond with her child, unlike many fathers. She always does her best, to make her family happy. Mothers always sacrifice a lot, for the happiness of her husband and children. She can have a job, and still take care of everything else, from cooking, looking after the children, maintaining the house. Fathers usually go to jobs, and return home for dinner, and that's usually the case in almost every family. Yes, fathers do care about their children, but cannot do many things, like the mother can to her child. When a child is emotionally hurt, or confused, it is the mother he goes to for answers, and to feel good about them. The mother also has a deep emotional attachment with her children, unlike the fathers. A child does need both the parents to grow up, at different stages of his life, but even in an unfortunate case of having a single parent; he/she would always prefer their mother over father.

So I come to a conclusion, that mothers are most definitely the more important figure in the raising of a family.

God bless the real Mothers.

You are right about the mother thing.mothers often make huge sacrifices to keep hone going.these days they contribute mre than fathers however there is this confidence and security that the prescence of a father gives in a home.When you have a father, you feel secured, both mother and children have a pillar, a haven, someone to
lean on.the defender, theirprotection and security,the decision maker.a chest to lean and rest on when the challenges of life come plaguing...
Both parents are extremely important and necessary in breeding good, balanced and confident children.

chichriso:
You can't say both because one must be more valuable than the other

In my opinion, none is more valuable.both are equally valuable.look up to see my reason.
These days; there is no clear cut role for parents in most families. initially it was father makes money, mother stays at home to give home training but now couples work and join and combine to take care of their homes.men now bathe and dress their children for school while the mother is makes and packs lunch for everyone to ensure they all leave the house by 7:30am

both are equally important and none is more important.
Reason: In the first place, most parents complement each other.they blend to make a home.they make a team and the qualities lacking in a man is often found in his wife vice versa.
Now in bringing up a child this same team that is needed to keep the home going is useful. In most cases a parent may be permissive while the other is strict.if you leave a child in the custody of only the very permissive parent, the child will tend to be very pampered spoilt. On the other hand if you leave that same child in the custody of only the strict parent, the child may end up being timid. But both parents will most definately team up to produce a confident and disciplined child..it's a team work thing.
Growing up, most of us preferred the permissive parent but right now , we look back and appriciate the one that beat us with 'turn garri' abi na lie i talk.
These days sef, their roles are intertwined.

Wow! Congrats! happy for you. May God bless and keep this one. May she and her siblings take care if you guys in your old age.may she usher in laughter, favour and joy into your home. she's big o! what did she weigh?

Aminat508:
Is dis real?

My thought exactly!

OZAOEKPE:
Baby, we are in a wicked world.

That 's why we should take preventive spiritual measures rather than the curative ones.i know folks that wouldn't go to churh, wouldn't pray or even peep into the bible yet when danger strikes they end up in the hands of fake pastors because they have nothing to sustain them spiritually.there is no short cut in spiritual battle..no one can pray for yoy like yourself.

ennon92:
Thank God I'm a man.

Copy copy...

Yeah, these praises work many miracles...

But why will live in a house for about 6 yrs without knowing the landlord.what if it's the agent that has been inflating the price? ( though that's not the case here)

Most times we attach unnecessary impotrance to strange dreams which could be as a result to negative thoughts and imaginations, fears, state of mind,malaria and even pregnancy(yes while pregnant, at a point i started dreaming nasty dreams including seeing dead relatives .I worried till i read from "What to expect when you are expecting" that such dreams are normal in pregnancies with dxplainations.)
It's true that you get warnings from dreams but satan has basterdized it in order to subject the sons of men to the bondage of fear.
Remove your mind from this fears.don't pray and fast because of them.pray and fast for God to bless you and favour your cause.praying out of fear yields no fruit.leave those dream and focus on real life.since you are a christian , anytime those night traps callef dreams come plead the blood of Jesus Christ and go your way.
I close with this : one of my pastors humorously said once; if you dream that you were climbing NEPA pole in your dream, does that qualify you to resume work in NEPA office the next morning? yoy already know the answer.crave God's blessings when you are having it rough .make your ways to please God too then the blessings will start streaming in.
You are blessed.
**Important: please don't go to native doctors o.not the one in the village nor the ones that wear suit in cities..if you truly need deliverance, repent of your sins, confess Christ as your Lord and savior, pray always.take holy communion always.live a righteaus life and things will go well.there is no short cut to God and success.people fall prey to native doctors and fake pastors because they want short cut.

Note: Please nobody should attack me.this is just my opinion.what works for me.the Op has every right to take or disregard it.thanks in advance.