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jmoore:
Here is the picture taken 50 years ago

https://www.vanguardngr.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/rita1.jpg

the man was really handsome! see eyes abeg!!

The men are screaming " end it" well you can say that because it's a man's world.but the real question is : have you ever cheated? will you ever cheat?? when you would be/ were caught, will you end it/ did it end?? my point is pinch yourself first before pinching others.
The females may scream " end it" but wait till you get married or catch him, then you will understand that you may not really do anything for many reasons which inclusdes the realisation that love transends beyoun his genitals.it's disgusting to discover that your partner cheats on you.it makes you feel you are probably doing something wrong, infact you spend days questioning God and examining yourself.it hurts and kills the soul , depending on how strong you are; part of you may die but in all these things time heals you. you may not leave him for even your mother will advice you to stay and work it out.
The best thing is to wish and pray it doesn't happen becausr if it happens ; most of us ( females) will do nothing!!

hei! mbakwa!! not possible!! will never happen!! God forbid!! no oo!!

thankyouthankyouthankyou!! May God keep you, preserve, bless , honor, distinguish, provide and sustain you and yours'. you are blessed!!

mutter:
Difficult but very possible!
However you need to make sacrifices! Allot of sacrifices to give the children what they need.

possible yes but remember our mothers were mostly housewives because the economy was way better.also we were good children, innocent , difficult to corrupt, premarital sex was a taboo then but now ; everything in the society corrupts.you cannot even allow your children watch teevee alone because flavour or one of his likes may be teaching them sonething else.and if mummy work...
it's not just provisions but parantal care and closeness.

It depends on what you want, the quality of upbringing , education and parantal care you are ready to offer to your offspring.the larger the family the more difficult for you to really care for your children on a one-on-one basis, no matter how rich you are.coupled with the fact that both parents may be working.imagine a family with 7 children where dad and mum work.the house go be someting else especially if the sons out number the daughters.

SeverusSnape:
In my opinion, three.

Two boys and a girl.

what if you have 3 girls or 3 boys will you stop or will you want to continue to balance the equation?

wow this is a nice one.often times couples take themselves for granted.the kwy thing is know your role and play it.never ever allow a diasgreement degerate into a quarell or strife.nake up as soon as possible othwrwise you may drift apart.always work on your attitude towards each othwr.no outsider is better^{wow this is a nice one.often times couples take themselves for granted.the kwy thing is know your role and play it.never ever allow a diasgreement degerate into a quarell or strife.nake up as soon as possible othwrwise you may drift apart.always work on your attitude towards each othwr.no outsider is better}wow this is a nice one.often times couples take themselves for granted.the kwy thing is know your role and play it.never ever allow a diasgreement degerate into a quarell or strife.nake up as soon as possible othwrwise you may drift apart.always work on your attitude towards each othwr.no outsider is better

prettysassygirl:
it ain't easy at all,jes the thought of another woman caressing And making love to your hubby can make u go gaga,but with time u wld get used to it,moreover its allowed in your religion,so u shld have been anticipating it,but some quick advices,still treat him nice else u wld push him fully to the other woman,tank God u have a career,put your energy into your career and kids,it wld help lessen d pain,and finally,jes love him and don't tink abt his sex escapedes with the other woman,its a mans world.

My sister you killed it there!
the mere thought of him with another man is a serious put off.i don't know how men do it.i just fon't know.well it's a man's world.i would have said she should pray against it but since her religion permits it ...
I wish all women you have found themselves in this situation wisdom and special grace of God for healing and forging ahead.
as for those who have not seen this; may we never see it o.(amen)

you have to do the home work yourself.do you have money to add or are we working with only 100k.are you looking at a strictly temporary business or will you continue? even if you get a job.a mobile business or you want a shop?
what sort of stuffs appeal to you.do a feasibility study in your enironment.what is in constant demand but relatively scarce? that is what you may consider.you may not want to dive into a saturated narket.just look areund , study your environent and know what gives.are you mobile?
i think you should try this: fruits business.you available capital is good but may not finance some business i know but if you can get in touch with someone from the north to supply watermelon, cucumber, cabbage,irish potatoes, carrot and garden eggs.you can start from there.get a stand near the rich area( if you ask nicely you may end up not paying ground rent) make sure it's at a strategic position say a junction where people can easily park.beautifully arrange the stuffs ,and wait.they will come.as they come put on your most charming smile, speak good English while selling o.I wish you well...

the man may be a professional and beautifying his wife is not wrong.it's absolutely normal!

okay o.

baggy4luv:
not a wise decision but I have seen people do this.their reason was traffic hurdles.

my dear it's possible to live in a rented appartment and have flats elsewhere.location matters but not just that.it depends on what you really want.most houses these days are tight.if you appriciate space, you may build one of them tight houses for business purposes and enjoy space pending when you can build a comfortable appartment

There is no stipulated period of time.it depends on your goal, choice investment, kind of house and income.you may be living in a rented house for 10 yrs but earn huge income and attractive ROI.you may even build block of flats, rent them out and continue living in a comfortable rented house pending when you build a more spacious and more comfortable house...
right work, good plan and diligence plus the grace of God will see you through.i wish you the best.

alonzoiv:
To even think that they were married before and they both are educated. Educated people consulting shrines operated by illiterates. What a shame.

honestly the thing is so disgusting.
in those days , illiterates copied and strived to be like graduates but these days, graduates in good position and influence now copy illiterates.it's a big shame!!

BeauHomme:
So sad. I choose not to blame anyone because it could happen to anybody. If my dad, who's so meticulous, could make the same mistake years ago, then I think anyone can. We were just lucky that when the trigger was pulled weeks later, it was aimed at a wall.

RIP to the son
Comfort to the family

wow that was a close shot.thank God for your family o.
yes, comfort to the family.

kestolove95:
D guy no wetin him do..no b ibo ne...na dia way bdat

i never knew females' talk like this till i started visiting Naira land

oh may the soul of that poor child rest in peace.
i don't know why parents leave their guns carelessly and loaded too( maybe corked) that was how my family friend shot his first cousin to death at about seven yrs old while acting.the question still remains: why they leave bullets in these guns ( when they are not security operatives) were the guns corked or did the children cork the guns? why leave your room open when it's not safe, 'abi dem dey follow them from village'? are we talking of the permissible double barrel or are these guns illegally acquired? so many questions are involved.what marvels me is that since these kids probably havent shot before; how then did they manage the impact of the shot??

Nitefury:
This has always been my thought on most cheating wives. They all accept the man is out there working his backside out to provide theirs and the children's needs (and wants) so they can be comfortable, hence they cannot leave the marriage. But at the same time they still want him treating them like they were in a courtship period buying flowers, fancy dinners, beach walks etc.

From the investigation, you'll even see that most of the ladies in question have been on the site for sometime and he wasn't their first. The question now is, why did they stop seeing the first or second person they met on the site?. It's either because they got used to him and got tired or decided to still look for another partner because they get away with it, while still enjoying the sweats of their husbands working by staying married. See the lady who even said her husband had no time for cheating. I keep saying it, cheating remains a choice people make.

I don't support cheating in marriage o but the truth is that most men chane after marriage especially after two or three children.yes i know that there are bills to be paid, higher goals, aspirations and all but if a man there is no harm in planning fun / romantic moments every once in a while .men can be so engrossed in work and most times when they want to unwind, they prefer their fellow guys or one random runs girl.it's annoying that your husband cannot take you out on a date but hangs out every other evening yet he claims to be very busy.
you wooed her with flowers, she loves flowerz that was why she followed you.now that you got her you suddenly stop sending flowers check am baw.t
that does not mean that cheating is right o but nen should learn to balance the equation there is nothing as wonderful as holding hands in the public with your husband, steal kisses and flirt with him in the public.it is stimulating as well as healing

Oh!

No!

The thing is just so terrible.i don't know what has gotten into men, infact men and women these days .sexual immorality every where.why don't people realise that sex is a serious thing.that it's spiritual, that it's a covenant.men lust after their children's and grand children's age mates, women run after youner men, some married men no longer go after single babes but widows and other peoples's wives.chaos and attrocities every where.a lady getting pregnant for a married man with children.the list goes on and on...
these things have their effect.check out any home where one or both partner cheats; there are always issues, quarells and dissatisfaction, disagreement et al.it destroys love and peace.it destroys the home yet some people are so unrepentant!
indeed our for father lived longer but na we see nonsense pass them!

honestly the thing tire me o.their reactions are so unlike them when hungry starting from my dad(God rest his soul) to my uncle and his majesty.that one will so whine and whine until one will think i don't feed him well.

eghuan1:
let me educate you on what abortion is. You see, abortion, us the willful termination of a pregnancy. it has to be conscious effort. that is to say the person procuring (not commiting as our people are used to saying) abortion has to do it by herself (taking drugs) or doctor (through and operation), that my friend is termed wishful termination of pregnancy Which is some places is wrong. But there is another level of abortion, where the pregnancy will lead to death of the woman and her feotus and so a doctor can with the concent of the woman or her relations, terminate the pregnancy. This my friend, is not wrong. You should not base your entire knowledge on topics on Religious understand alone. there are various perspectives to a topic of discuss.

you dished out half information and now you ate sounfing as if i'm dumb.i know what an abortion is.you never me ntioned medical adv ice when you gave the example since you knew the woman so well.no matter what you think , if it's not medically adviced it's a sin.and next time when narrating. a story give full details.

hmnnnnnn!i don't know why some men make promises they never intended keeping.your friend is lucky that she contracted a legal marriage.i know a lovely woman who they promised wedding after traditional marriage.the moment she got pregnant the guy changed story.each time she laments i tell her she shouldn't have gotten pregnant and she asks if it was wrong to have trusted her husband .i keep shut because husband and wife matter too deep.
sha your friend can fashi the church blessing and press for the relocation.let her appeal to his sense of reasoning.sharing toilet is one hell of a task

this boy too sharp for his age o.you want him to say uncle benjamin is lying abi? e no go work for you.
on a serious note,you guys should mark him well o.teach him honesty and admitting his wrong deeds.i smell a future lawyer

modify the topic.it's 'armless'
@topic: amazing...

wow indeed. i rejoice with you.i love it when men attribute their success and achievements to God.it's a guarantee for preservation and progress.Thank God for you.may God bless your hussles more and more.may He keep, protect, grow and beautify your family.Shalom!

awwwwww.lovely

eghuan1:
1) pastor worship

2) multiple offerings and donations

3) flamboyant lifestyles of some church leaders while there are members who cannot affored to feed themselves

4) there was a church I was invited to and a woman was given an opportunity to ask a question and she said what if her daughter gets pregnant and procure abortion, the second time she gets pregnant again, what will she do, the pastor's wife was quick to say that the woman and her daughter will go tto hell. As soon as she said that, I picked up my bible and left the church never to return there again (for me, in if a pastor's wife could pass judgement on the alter, i wwonder what the pastor will do)

5) dating within the leadership, especially university fellowship. (try to find out the real purpose of LOVE FEAST among BLW, this is my opinion though)

6) etc.

i dont understand point 4. is abortion not a sin.does it not lead to hell?

1:infidelity
2:laziness
3:irresponsibility( failure in fufiling your duties and obligations to each other)

to keep the mouth fresh. the one that irritates me us gum chewing especially if it's a male chewing noisly!