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LOL if I got a dollar everytime the word 'virgin' is used on nairaland, I'll be stanky rich by now. sheesh. una no dey tire?

Cold. .  .Not in the mood, Bio office hour. . .

Tired. . . don't wanna go. .  . quiz tomorrow.

Clueless. termite lab report. finish up. ugghhh!!!

Work. FML!!! deposit check. got ripped off  Psych reading. WTF??

Damn, it's a small world. Missed you girl!!! Yeah, I know I sound crazy these days.

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=333460.msg4729262#msg4729262 date=1255496919]another confused female on NL[/quote]You're far too kind.

koolchicco:
I even got confused reading her post.

Right, exactly what happens when a post wasn't directed to you.

Purple and pink. P^2!!!!

Submissive coo subjective nee.

I'm gonna go with Bawomolo on this one.

@poster, good for you.

As for me, if I feel that the person is right or worth listening to anyway , I'll just be like 'whatever' but I'll reflect on it and apply the changes.

But if it's an irrelevant person, s(he) is getting cussed out. no reflection whatsoever!! Naw, after the cussing out, I still reflect on it and if s(he) is right, I try to make myself better. . .just to score myself more points against the person, adding one thing I do better than him/her.

LOL for real ^^

chika98:
He tells you he is sorry and won't dare do it again and you go back only for the whole cycle to begin all over again. Classic!

Yeah, that's how it starts, for the most part.

I think when people said 'physical abuse', they meant repeated ones, not just a one time thing. Of course, the 'love' would make you forgive the first time. Although, I'm not even sure if I'll forgive if I were in that position. It's one thing to forgive though, it's another to continue with the abuser.

tithe:
And u won't be that lucky

Do I know you? you must be mistaking me for someone.

Anywayz. . .Amaka, I'm telling you you'll get used to the nairaland fools. not worth it.

LOL but they're already having their cake and eating it too. From what I see these days, it's the whorish men who marry the best wives. Beats me, honestly.  

It just means women need to step up their game. Waiting for Karma is like waiting for a new-born baby boy to grow beards. I'm just saying.  

Get feisty!!!

LOL but some of the guys are virgins themselves 

I remember mentioning that in a rap freestyle a while back. Anywayz, it's more funny than irritating to me. cuz me nuh care, man!!! (emphasis on the accent) 
Don't worry, you'll get used to it.

chic2pimp:
IMPOSSICANT.   For starters 8 years is too short and no 2 the fact that there was no kids involved would be taken into account.

8 years is too short Anywayz, child or no child, she's getting something, right? While in Nigeria, she basically gets kicked out of the house like a homeless.

posakosa:
I know of a woman who was married for 11 years and only because she couldn't give birth the man woke up one day, after he decided he didnt' want her anymore and left to marry a choir member, he left this woman with MASSIVE CREDIT CARD DEBT.  

Now, that's just wrong. When it comes to marriage, yes the husband did her wrong but for "relationships", what were you thinking?

This reminds me of a video I watched on facebook where this man said that if you're not married, you're single. I totally agree, people get way ahead of themselves these days in a so-called relationship. They start playing house when they're not even married. C'mon, that shit gets boring, mostly on the guy's part 'cause he's already getting the most of the woman without even putting a ring on it.   Anyway, women should shine their eyes and quit complaining.

posakosa:
Ok fine, fornication is bad as everyone says!

What do you say in this situation: a woman MARRIED to her husband for 8 years but she cannot give birth and her husband leaves her for a young woman ?


Are you saying that this man is justified and his former wife is in fact USELESS because she cannot bear a child ?

That one na another issue!! In Nigeria that you'll see such nonsense happening.

In America anyway, the woman gets half. God save the man leaving his wife, esp. if he makes more money. God bless America!!!  

Lmfao chamotex spit something

Ebonyeyes:
Im sure if you put a bag on it you wouldnt be fussed

LOL exactly. Matter of fact, I heard a dude say that not long ago.
So long as he can't see her ugly face, he's good to go.

spikedcylinder:
In so many cases, the underlying intention doesn't even matter. You must be pretty darn hot for all the men to want to shag you, innit?

LOL, I guess. But then, they say most men will shag anything. Sometimes, it's the way the supposed women carry themselves.

LOL this topic is funny. Shagging and destructing the lives of women, haha.

I guess it all has to do with self-esteem. If the woman who had sex with the supposed man didn't see it as a biggie but as a fulfillment of her sexual desires, how has her life been destroyed? These days, how many guys really propose to a girl before she agrees to have sex with him? I'm just saying.

Using marriage as an excuse is just   unrealistic. If you're going by the bible, the sex comes after marriage. So, why delude yourself and do it with the notion that he's going to marry you? Remember that humans cannot be completely trusted, being what we are - humans!! If you're going to do it, just do it with no regrets. You both used each other, unless of course you ended up getting pregnant in a supposedly "protected sex" then you should be mad. Other than that, I dunno what to tell ya.  

Chei!!!!! Na wa oo

@poster, so are you now back in naija? If you're not, then I don't know what to tell you.

Popular in demand. haha. I don't know about that.

I've never seen a female who EVERY guy wants. C'mon!! But then I guess it depends on the intentions of the guys.

Most aren't love-related, mostly lust.

Homework, tryna get ahead of myself. haha insider!!

Dinner with the girls. hmmm

Can't wait to talk to him.

Determined to get at least 8 hours of sleep tonight. sheesh, what's wrong with you, chiogo?

chic2pimp:
Look @ em' buncha gloryhunters. _shior

Abeg let the NBA start jare. Make I watch my fav players CP3 & D-WADE do their thing

Exactly!! I love me some CP3 too!!!

Hope Moonstone doesn't see this. where's she anyway?

Honey, it was a joke.
And I dunno what they speak. who cares? 

I laugh in Guatemalan.
if that's a language.

Seriously, Amaka. . .even if Sagamite gets the pictures himself, he's still not taking permission from the profile owners. so what gives?
At the end of the day, people will change their profile pics so it doesn't really matter.

lmao

I love Genny!!!