₦airaland Forum

OP sorry about the beating and your trauma. Your friend was wrong and should be arrested ASAP but I think you sef should have refused the girl's advances from the first time she asked for a kiss. You have traits of a betrayer and a back stabber in you, sorry to say.

The Kennedy guy was your friend from nursery, primary, secondary and university, he used to fight people for you and protected you from harm but you still get mind to kiss him girlfriend behind his back. Kennedy overreacted and was wrong to assault you but let's not pretend that 100% of the fault is on him, you are a male, you could have overpowered that girl and walked out of the house when she asked for a kiss then went straight to warn your friend like a true friend should do, but you stayed there and actually kissed her.
That one no do you, you went ahead to have sex with her later on. Haba
How can your conscience allow you have sex with the fiancee of a guy you have been close to for more than 20 years if your heart is truly as pure as you want to make it seem?
There are guys who spend the night with girls and dont touch them or attempt anything, many guys in fact. Why could you not control yourself or pushed the girl off and shouted at her if you are not a traitor at heart? Sorry ooo, I dont mean to sound harsh but you really need to look inwards. Thanks


As for mumu Kennedy and idiot Kachi, your own nemesis is waiting for you.

Jealous and wicked men are everywhere.

Let everyone be careful. Maybe his wealth was paining them or his happiness.

Some people you dont have to offend them before they try to harm you, your happiness and success is enough for them to hate you and start looking for how to hurt you.

If it was a Nigerian girl idiot men on Nairaland will come in their thousands to insult her and say she seduced him, she didnt look her age, she don dey fvck since, she set the guy up, secondary school girls these are corrupt, she liked it and she is pretending cos she got caught,

All the idiotic statements they made for the 14yr old in baba ijesha case.

I have had a total of four roommates and only one of them manage try small. The other three na ogbologbo.

One of them came to live with me cos she wasn't allocated hostel space and she told me was squatting until she could buy space from another person, I was counting down days until she left because she no dey do anything for house, doesn't contribute money or do housework and inconsiderate. If she fell sick I always tended to her, bought fruits and drugs and cooked for her till she got better but if I fell sick she will dissapear for the next one week to her other friends house and only return when I was healthy again. Always telling stories of how her dad suffered financial setback in his business and how they are now suffering in their family when they used to enjoy before. One day she let it slip in conversation that her boyfriend usually gives her sizeable allowance monthly
I was angry cos she bin dey pretend say she no get shigbai since she started living with me.

The second one was fun to hang around, but she was very dirty, she had a very bad body odor that always made me uncomfortable. She would put the pillow under her armpit to sleep at night and when she comot am the next day you cannot take the pillow near your face if not you will just start vomiting. She used tissue paper for pad instead of proper sanitary pads like always. The tissue was always breaking apart and small pieces will fall from her underwear whenever she changed in the room. That's how she will leave the blood stained tissue on the rug and go out. Her hair na another thing. Anytime she wanted to lose her attachment she will expect me to help and me I could not do it because of how dirty and stinky the hair would be by then, with thick white clumps of dirt embedded in her scalp. She go come dey vex say why I no dey help her loose her attach and I couldn't tell her why because she go pick offence.

anselm791:
You can't blame Nairaland for the stereotype that ashewos has already caused.
And if nobody is speaking out now, it's simply because that cant speak anymore.

Ashawos did not cause any stereotype. The average Nigerian man is extremely misogynistic and has borderline hatred for women. Is Nigeria the only country with ashawo? In western countries the women are worse but rape is still regarded as a serious offence.

Rape victims cannot speak because they will be ridiculed and told to shut up. Just look at that baba ijesha case.

Tufiakwa, very disgusting country.

If a woman was the one exploiting men for favours you idiots would have insulted all the women in Nigeria but since men are the guilty party you are insulting Nigeria and Nigerians like say na Nigerian women dey rape helpless IDP refugees.

MALES, STOP RAPING WOMEN OO! STOP TAKING ADVANTAGE OF WOMEN THAT NEED YOUR HELP! THIS IS A MALE PROBLEM, STOP LETTING YOUR SEX DRIVES RUIN PEOPLE'S LIVES AND HAPPINESS.


We have not even setttled the ini humoren case and baba ijesha and the 14yr old girl raped by 7 guys, una don release another one again.

if his version of the story is true that means he has raped other girls that got away alive.

This is why rape victims should not be shamed. The girls he raped in the past probably tbought of the stigma that will follow them if they came out to expose him that's why they kept silent. Imagine if one of them had come to speak out on nairaland, she will be called ashawo, accused of going to meet the guy for hookup, told to stop telling lies to destroy an innocent man's reputation, blablabla.

Infact the day Hiny's death was reported on nairaland, the mods had to hide a lot of posts on front page that called her an ashawo and other stupid insults.

phazotron:
E touch you na why you dey lash out

Confusion gender

E no touch me but the thing is too much, men should use reason and ethics when dealing with females plain and simple. All these advice and complain is very irritating, there is no one size fits all when it comes to human relationships. What works for a might not work for b.

The only sensible thing to pick from op post is that rape or forcing a girl is a no go area.

MasterRahl:
It is saddening. But I counted 7 posts though, not 57.

Really?
Go count am again, na 57

Today alone there are 57 posts on front page about girls/women. Nairaland men una no get work?

They dont see blacks as humans, they see them as animals thats why

KingClown:
you accused them of being hypocrites


do you have proof ?

if you're calling someone on their bullshit make sure you have solid evidence.


Aunty, I'm waiting.

On what thread did I accuse them of being hypocrites, because I know say no be this thread.

KingClown:
do you have proof ?

Yes, they type like frustrated losers

So no girl in her right senses will be dying to date them

Especially the ones in this thread.

KingClown:
you again ?


wetin concern feminists and romance ?

Nairaland men too dey lie, I came to expose their lies.

Even the ones wey girls no dey gree for their begging go come here to make noise.

Please Op aa
Anybody that comes here to tell you stories off how one broke guy became a millionaire overnight and his ex girlfriend was regretting is telling you lies.

The boys on this site, majority are broke as aa
Joke that's why they want females tolerate broke guys.

Ladyhippolyta88:
A word of advice that boy you quoted is not worth it he is a sick Boy who is nothing offline but coming online to feel funky if you go through his post you will see that he is misogynistic and sexist.He is also dull and a university drop out don't waste your time on him he is a menace on every thread

Thanks for the heads up

Op please ignore the stupid advice from bitter poverty stricken males on this thread, Nigeria is just to hard for anyone to marry a broke parasite, nothing like marry him then e go better in future, many people who married for e go better are still struggling to survive years later. Trust me if she marries him now, whatever love she thinks she has for him will wilt and die when she has to constantly carry the stress of providing, and trust Nigerian men, the husband will not humble himself even if she is the one feeding him, she will e playing role of submitter and breadwinner.


Just ignore the frustrated males on this forum, they hate females and will give you advice that will destroy your life. Men are busy looking for hardworking babes with jobs to marry but they will tell women to put up with broke guys.

Nonsense

BRATISLAVA:
I keep saying they've lost their humanity. These people walk and move amongst us. You can only pity and woman or girl they get involved with, even their future children. Misogyny only leads to murder of women.

I believe it's a few people with multiple monikers who handle the first page of such reports, then their minions do the rest.

If you've noticed, the popular monikers never commented on the baba ijesha page, but their alternates were used to express their disgusting ideas. Now they are back.

Its honestly tiring.
I cannot wrap my head around it, they hate women but males are the ones who perpetuate violence and cause more problems in society but they don't correct their fellow males. They even encourage their bad behavior sometimes.
I feel sorry for women that have to raise female children in such a messed up society. B

BRATISLAVA:
The way they go about trivializing anything that involves women and girls tells a lot about men. They will always turn real issues around, twisting and turning on their penieses, to make it about themselves rather than dealing with what their gender does. Somehow they are always victims, even when they are the perpetrators.

Of course they hate to hear about women and girls. Isn't it obvious?

Most of them are guilty, so they pretend it doesn't exist.

Majority of males hate women. It's a sad fact but true. That's why they keep striving to keep women inferior and angrily fight against any cause that improves the wellbeing of women.

Just go into any thread where a woman was reported to have been raped or killed and see how deep seated their hatred is with the way they blame and shame the victim.

BRATISLAVA:
Keep trying to deflect.

Are men and boys as much at risk of rape and murder for the same reasons? Vulnerable perpetrators. You will keep hearing it until men learn to control their urges and stop trying to deflect things and trivialize them once it concerns women and girls

In one week, what have the headlines been, very vulnerable men and boys?

You are right, females are more vulnerable than males,
Men are usually the perpetrators of crimes against women, 80% of the time but they are heartless beasts so instead of sympathizing they pretend that they don't know.

Dapcity247:
100% correct
Any man that can't provide for his household must be scorned and if he depends on his wife for financial assistance , he's a weak man, even if she's assisting it must be very little or insignificant, a man must become high valued in the socio-economic heirachy before he chooses to settle down and marry


The wife must be Feminine, submissive, non-combative, compliant, not a headache, chaste, non-arguementative, fit and in shape, not fat, sweet, gentle, respectful ,must cook and clean

Story

Hunger go finish to of them. In thriving countries one source of income does not work then is it now poverty ridden Nigeria it wants to work?

Abrahamic religion are the reason why people dont use common sense and coorporate to make their lives easier, women can join in providing but the husband should help out to make her work at home easier. The rules are not set in stone.

One source of income cannot work in Nigeria where people are underpaid and overworked, it just can't work unless the husband is earning serious millions which only happens on very few cases.

Dapcity247:
Men are for production
Women are for reproduction


Men are success objects
Women are success objects


Men are providers
Women are house keepers



Both genders should know their traditional gender roles and perform them effectively

Ok then men should stop complaining when their wives refuse to work or insist on being full time housewives.
Stop calling jobless wives liabilities because according to you everybody get role

Beyonce has no personality whatsoever, very dull person. Not celebrity material. I think she got chosen because of her looks because some people she sang with in the same group had angelic voices but they were disqualified.

cococandy:
I still want give benefit of doubt.

Me I sha know that majority are definitely men. Na their sex drive dey control their brain.

cococandy:
Majority of those 400,000 are probably men

Probably abi definitely?

Black men have severe inferiority complex, no white man or woman will announce their engagement to a black person as if na achievement.

Naijatask:
The day I stopped visiting the darkweb, was the day I mistakenly opened a webpage containing child porn.

I puked at the sight of what I saw, and immediately uninstalled the browser, which enables me to view .onion webpages :/

Why did you install the browser in the first place

Some male animals on Nairaland will start looking for the website on the thread hoping to see child porn. One idiot is already asking for the name of the site.

Just look at the selfishness and entitlement from males on this thread.

You people want women to spend on you but start shouting "liability" when women expect you to spend on them.

Hypocrites