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Husband supposed to assist their wives with cooking and housework.
If the wife is co-breadwinner then her husband should not abandon chores for her.

ahiboilandgas:
when he stood up and open the door out why didn't she run out and seek help ? Or run into the rooms ? She even when looking for him and drank water from the cup .

Are you being serious right now or is this a joke?

The history of this mans abusing the girl is that the man always takes opportunity to molest that girl right from when she was seven years old, he has always been doing it so when she opened up to princess who is her foster mother princess immediately wanted to report him to the police but she was advised by friends that the case will be thrown out because the man is a popular person so she needed evidence first before she could report him to the police.
If the girl had run out like you are asking, other pedophile supporters will claim the man never did anything wrong and princess and the girl are just telling lies against him that is why the girl stayed there so that there will be enough evidence of his abusive behaviour to arrest him.

The man is a molester, I cannot understand why so many sick men are blaming the girl and princess, dont you people have daughters? Or female relative? The idiot should have not touched her, plain and simple. He went as far as sucking her fingers and doing other disgusting bullshit after she protested and instead of pedophile supporters to blame him they are asking idiotic questions and blaming the minor instead.


This is how grown women get blamed when they are raped, many men simply have no sympathy or conscience.

Nairaland rapists have come again, I knew immediately I saw the topic that they will definitely blame that child for being harassed.

Now look at the madness on display in the thread,
She sat near him so she wanted it
She don dey collect since
She is not actually a minor
Why did she not run out if she is innocent
I am sure she was seducing him with words that's why he did it
She should be flogged
A good lawyer will let him off
He should sue them for setting him up


All of you are mad animals, if not that we are on a lawless country your comments will be used to trace your identity offline and police will start monitoring you closely
The girl kept resisting that fool but he continued acting like a rapist and forcing her, in some countries you can't do that to even a mature woman and go free. As long as she resisted and said no, any other inappropriate touching will get you arrested for sexual harrassment and molestation.

Taking a car loan will turn out to be another terrible mistake.
A car is a liability, you must buy fuel all the time and perform other maintainance that cost money, and you have to be saving money to pay back the loan while shelling out money everyday to maintain the car.
Better wait till you can afford your own car like your wife said.

You see how hard submission is for women? You feel bad that your wife is always telling you what to do for your two years of marriage even if she is right, imagine women have to submit to their husbands their whole lives whether the husband get sense or not,they are expected to do it.

saphiere:
DEAR MOTHERS, DON'T LEAVE YOUR GIRL CHILD IN THE CUSTODY OF ANY MAN BE IT HER FATHER.

MAY GOD HELP US ALL.

Hahahaha
This girl I too like your stubbornness

ifyken:
Like someone has said since she has decided to take it to social media could instead of a real court then let her give us evidence of the act. She even said for 30 minutes that the girl was molested by baba ijesha,if they watched it for 30 minutes before confronting then they were watching child pornography

What are you saying for God's sake? Where did she say she watched it on cctv for 30 minutes? What if the small girl was the one that exposed him and told them he touched her for 30minutes in the past?
You people that are asking for child molestation video need serious help.

The number of pedophiles on this site is too much, they have come again to insult princess because their fellow pedophile was exposed.

Those supporting baba ijesha should not worry, the way he was exposed shamefully is the same way your rapes and molestation will be exposed in future.

Buhari is just a useless animal

Nairaland men that are asking for the video, you people are hopeless animals. You want to see videos of a child being abused abi?

That is why you idiots are living wretched lives and are not progressing and are miserable souls.

Some are even angry and insulting princess for exposing the child rapist because they didn't see the video.

Tueh, useless men. Later somebody will come and ask me why I hate males.

Rocktation:
But she clearly told you that she couldn't cook due to unavailability of water. You are the host and very likely the one with the muscles. I don't see how fetching water for your guest to prep your meal is a big deal. Unless, you want her to pay for the roof over her head, by doing all the house chores, I'm certainly not understanding what really prompted this fight.
There's probably more that you are not telling.

Of course there is more that he isn't telling. Thus story was properly garnished to make the girl look like the bad guy.
Imagine expecting her to cook everyday and fetch water because she is living in his house.

It's the girl I blame for not looking for a female to put up with instead of entitled males

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Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She was probably trying to ask where to find water since she is a visitor and doesn't know how things work in your area. When she called your attention to the unavailability of water she didn't say you should fetch water for her, you could have told her where to fetch water instead of getting worked up. Somebody discussed lack of water with you, instead of telling her where to fetch water, you started assuming she is telling you to fetch water.
This OP sounds like somebody wey no dey keep friends.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!

What exactly is the problem here? You wanted her to fetch water for you to baff and flush toilet instead of going to her friends house to cook because your accommodating her now means she is your mairuwa.

She got angry and took some money and left

I know you will paint a picture to make yourself look like the good guy on this story. No be today.
How exactly did you talk to her that made her leave angrily? How loud did you shout or how many rude words did you use?
Are you sure you have never done anything offensive to her before this thing happened because even if you have you no go talk am for here. I don already know that one.
Maybe you have even been doing insensitive things to her since and she didn't talk because she is your guest and did not want to offend you.

That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

You see am?
You now expect her to become your cook because you dey accommodate her. And your fellow guys will support you and say she is supposed to cook for you since she is in your house. If a lady accommodating a guy expects the guy to always give her money from time to time, the same guys supporting you go insult am.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

There is nothing more painful to a person that is receiving help than being reminded that you are helping them. You for kuku tell am make she pack comot your house than reminding her that you are her benefactor like say she no first know. You decided to help a person then you now want to constantly remind them that you are helping them.

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

Who was cooking the food she came in to eat? I am very sure it was not you.

Abeg pack that girls things out of your house let her find her way instead of this pettiness,

Mr benefactor.

Lol men have serious mental problems

You idiots should just be gay in peace and leave girls alone instead of weeping and wailing every day onto girls matter


Fools

JovialJune:
Would you like to be banned? Or what is with the name calling?

Some of these idiots write provocative words to get a reaction from you or from any random female because that is the only way they can get to engage in any type of conversation with girls.
They are very wretched and ugly and illiterate offline so no female goes near them.

It's better to just ignore their stupidity.

Aflix:
Miss Choccolate probably expected females on Nairaland to support her blind views. Shame you are the only one supporting the topic.

I love being a lone ranger, I don't do cliques

KingClown:
you're still talking shit.


I've asked you questions that you're unable to answer.

you asked for black men contributions to society and I gave you (specifically Nigerian men)

yet you turn deaf to my replies.

it is ridiculously to say black man haven't contributed to society.

just try and bring this arguement in public and see how they will finish you cos besides hatred you don't have valid points. you have been saying the same thing over and over.



I feel bad for the men that know you and I genuinely feel bad for you too.

in your haste to type insults and win arguments you started imagining things. where did I ask for black men inventions?

are you confused?

nobody said black men dont have inventions, they do. black men have inventions and black women have inventions but the stark truth remains that white men have contributed far more in the world of technology and inventions than black men and black men are just basing their own so called inventions off the groundwork laid down by white men.

if you want to claim women are inferior to men based on inventions then dont complain when white men are racist to you and call you inferior race.

dominique:
Does being built to rule mean running your country to the ground? The men leading us, where exactly are they leading us to? How well are they leading us? You African men with zero creativity, productivity, leadership skills or brain power for anything tangible think you're in a position to bring down the female gender to feel better about yourselves.

My sister that went to an all girl's school (queen's college) was comparing old students whatsapp group with someone that went to Saint Gregory's college (an all boys school). The old girls whatsapp group was very transparent and accountable with funds, every kobo spent was accounted for and the treasurer gave regular statement of accounts. The old boys group was an entirely different story. From embezzlement of funds to insults to death threats. All the school projects and reunion they were planing towards have been suspended as a result of millions of naira vanishing into thin air. They have broken into cliques where members of each clique will be throwing insults at one other even dragging their families in their mess. These are the people that are supposed to be better leaders and resource managers o. Ordinary whatsapp group, they're embezzling money what will they now do in a political leadership position?

Name one, just one black dominated country governed by men that is doing well today.

Very brilliant post.

The idiot's will still look for how to blame women for Nigerian problems after reading your post.


If women were in charge of the country and things get messed up males will not waste time to blame and insult all women. Now they are in charge and Nigeria keeps getting worse every day they will still never agree that Male leaders are to blame.

obynzo:
@OP you are right in some instances, but it goes for both genders but the scenarios you pointed out are more common with Women.

I have an experience before I got married, then I was a struggling guy working as a contract staff in MTN. There was a girl I wanted to ask out on a relationship hoping then that it would lead to marriage. This girl was treating me badly and making mockery of me then and her friends were urging her on. Do you know the surprising thing one of her friends then a pregnant married woman in her front would be urging her to not look at me that I no reach am and that I am a borderline stalker that my love for her is somehow, but would come to me in private to borrow her money and she would be bad mouthing her friend that she doesn't have sense that here is a guy who really cares for her and she is doing the guy anyhow.

Fast forward when things improved for me and I moved on to a far better job and got married, this babe started avoiding me out of shame. The thing is that mostly among women especially women of the same age bracket, they are the worst people to turn to for advice.

You are a married man that's why she is avoiding you, she has no business with you anymore. If she was still contacting and calling you you would have said she is now begging you for relationship.

KingClown:


it's obvious you don't know anything about Civilization.


inventions is one part of civilization

growing, modifying and sustaining an invention is another part.


it's funny you have the guts to sit down behind your keypad and berate people who contributed to society when you haven't contributed a dime.






which white man helped seun build nairaland ?

is it a white man that made it possible for you to sit in your house and process online transactions through companies like paystack and flutter wave ?


the roads and bridges you walk on which white man built them ?

you use dangote products but you're here talking shit.

the fuel in your generator and vehicle are you the one that extracted and refined it ?

I'll be shocked if you even know how fuel is produced.

the likes of jumia nigeria, iroko tv, glo are all products of black men.


we have Nigerian car manufacturing companies like Nord and innoson here in Nigeria all done by black men

Nord will soon start production of electric trucks.



the malls you go shopping, are you the one that built them ?




your problem is that you're ignorant, stubborn and misogynistic


drop that shallow thinking and ask God to heal you cos it wouldn't do you any good.

youll end up single and hurting and nobody really cares.


besides causing DNA drama what have your fellow black women created that society has benefited from ?

cos without men you will be living in a fucking jungle.

Every single thing you mentioned was built on ground work laid down by white men.
Every irokotv or website, white people are the majority of people that invented computers and perfected programming languages. White men and women.

If inventions determine superiority then you are inferior to the white man as a black man. You men like claiming women are inferior because of inventions when it is very well known that patriarchal and religious laws limited women's exposure and education for centuries.

You men are destructive, you kill, oppress women, rape them, ritual killers and serial killers are majorly men. Criminals and violent psychopaths are mostly men, Yahoo boys, thieves, scammers, child rapists every evil act you can think of is mostly perpetuated by males. Since you want to claim all men are superior to women because of inventions of some men then you must also agree that all men are violent criminals because your gender is leading in criminality and vices.

DEMZEE:
And yet women will still come and suck our violent and rapist dicks.

U have such a low IQ to the extent that u are not even proud of ur race and ur skin color. No wonder the democrats are using u people as victims tuehhhhhhh. U always amaze me with ur rationalizations and stupidity sha.

U are part of the people that proves that blacks have the lowest IQ amongst all the races in the world.

Pathetic!

I am very glad my comment pained you into writing profanities.

Good

KingClown:
1. Saheed Adepoju-----He is the inventor of the INYE-1 & 2, tablet computers designed for the African market.


2 Seyi Oyesola ---------- He is credited with the co-invention of CompactOR or the “Hospital in a Box”, a solar- powered life-saving operating room which can be transported to remote areas of Africa and set up within minutes.


3 Jelani Aliyu-------He is credited with designing General Motors’ leading auto brand, Chevrolet Volt.

4 Ndubuisi Ekekwe ----------He is credited with the development of microchips used in minimally invasive surgical robots


5 Col. Oviemo Ovadje (Rtd.)---------Credits: Oviemo is a Nigerian medical Doctor who is credited with the invention of the Emergency Auto Transfusion System (EAT-SET), which is an effective, low-cost and affordable blood auto-transfusion mechanism that saves patients in developing countries. He has patented the invention in nine (9) countries.


6 Cyprian Emeka Uzoh------------Credits: He holds more than 126 United States issued patents and over 160 patents worldwide in semiconductor technology including U.S. Patent No. 6709562 , “method of making electroplated interconnection structures on integrated circuit chips” , which earned him the inventor of the year award in 2006 from the New York Intellectual Property Association.


7 Kunle Olukotun----------Credits: He is well known for leading the Stanford Hydra research project which developed one of the first chip multiprocessors with support for thread-level speculation (TLS).


8 Sebastine Chinonye Omeh---------- Credits: He is best known for his research into the use of wind- propelled turbines to generate electricity.

9. Shehu Saleh Balami--------Credits: He is credited with designing a solid-fuel rocket.


10 Yemi Adesokan---------He was selected by expert judges of the Technology Review of the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) in the United States of America for his discovery work on drug- resistant infections. He was honored by the MIT in 2011 because of his innovative work.




your pride will still not allow you to tell me thank you for educating you.



there are still many Nigerian guys I haven't mentioned .......I'm just waiting for you to say pim.


you're using naira land and you have the guts to insult Nigerian men, lol.

Most of the people you named are researchers and co- inventors, all the others worked on groundwork previously laid down but white men to design whatever they patented.
Nothing spectacular about your list.

White people have contributed far greater than black people to modern inventions. That means you as a black man are inferior to white men.

Stop trying to take credit for white people work.

Lol, someone wrote that " Its a man's world that is why the world is a terrible place to be in"
That's my best statement in this thread


Useless violent and rapist criminal gender, all they know is how to run women down. Especially men of the black race, they are just useless thrash.

When you tell them they are useless they will started talking about inventions of white men.

KingClown:
90% of men are responsible for the civilization you're enjoying.

I should call seun for you ?

Call him for what?

You males are destructive, the majority of modern inventions are from white men, not black men, I don't know why black men like taking credit for white men inventions.

Ilamina:
He left
I miss him so much

I used too bully all the cameroonians about bakassi, so they left

I regret, wish they come back
I won't talk about bakassi again

Send him message or call him na

I miss the old Nairaland honestly, I come here less and less everyday.

This place is now crap, you oldies that still post regularly deserve an award from Seun.

apatheticme:
Apt!

Men are actually big babies!

Observe them from birth till adulthood and you'll notice their very first instinct is to make a mountain out of a mole hill, grumble over every little difficulty or challenge then blame the next available female around for their woes!

Most of them are so inept that they practically depend on women folk for everything! Just like the average male depends on Mother's milk, he also expects mother to fix everything for him! Mom, where is my food, Mom, where is my socks, Mom, where is my cloth etc And then the cycle continues when he marries or begins to date! He automatically expects the woman to do everything, while he only provides!

Well, the problem now is times have changed! The Average male realizes he can't really 'provide' as such again, seeing as global economy is not so buoyant like before and bills keep piling up. He then resorts to cheap blackmail as well as reverse psychology to bully the female into assuming the role of the provider while still performing other chores like a slave.

Women have always been more resilient in the face of adversity compared to their male counterparts.

However, there will always be few exceptions and outliers!

Wow, you hit the nail on the head.

They would never agree that they are whiny and refuse to be accountable for anything, everything is the fault of women.

They ruined the economy and plunged the entire globe into an economic mess with their terrible leadership skills and massive corruption now they have started demanding that women should be breadwinners to make life easier for them

Very silly and selfish gender

But onila you've really been long in Nairaland sha oo,

What about camnewton4prez, do you two still talk?

Verysmart101:
I pray all ur male children will experience same situation so we will see how u will accept this nonsense.

Hahahaha

If na man dey cheat on him jobless wife people will still blame and insult the woman for being a jobless liability.

When a woman does it suddenly you men want to start crying

BLOODYSPERM:
Any gender that shames the other gender controls the dynamic in that culture

In western societies it's women that shame men via toxic masculinity
In Africa it's men that shame women as Hoes

In western societies women shame men?
You have no bloody idea what you're talking about

Lol, males do the shaming universally, women are judged harshly for things men do that get overlooked, slut shaming, irresponsible behaviour, bad parenting, wanton drinking and smoking, etc

Males all over the world simply enjoy making women miserable. No be today, no be only for Africa

Its entitlement and inability to reason objectively.

Nairaland males always complain about how girls took their money or cheated on them or refused to give them sex. All of which are silly and petty relationship issues.

Females also get cheated on, deceived, used both for sex and money, get their time wasted by unserious guys untill they are almost or above 30years, they get raped, they get molested, in buses and cars they get groped by men, they get robbed, scammed, their houses are burgled by males, women and girls have a lot more reason to complain about males but because they have more emotional maturity they suck it up and move on, unlike crybaby men and boys

afroxyz:
Then why not leave the house and continue your fuckkery outside? Aince she has money let her leave the home then. You want to eat your cake and have it, fucking outside and maintaing the prestige that comes with being married. Vipers

What about the lazy fool that is waiting for his wife to feed him but wants to maintain the prestige of being married? He should leave first.

ehay:
Please what happens to a woman when her husband cheats on their matrimonial bed ?

They will come and you it's better for men to cheat because men dont feel emotions and blablabla

Only God can save males from their selfishness

Eyaaaaa

Sorry ooo Op, I am sure when you were busy screenshoting and editing WhatsApp chat to show nairalander you no know say na bashing you go receive join
This thread really didn't go the way of other similar threads na the Op dey receive bashing
I bet you thought it was going to be your girlfriend receiving insults that's if the whole story is true sef and it's not your jobless attention seeking ass chatting with yourself

Sorry ehnn

Have some painkiller for the heartbreak an disappointment of your failed thread