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I just knew that I will see all sorts of nonsense from the males on nairaland immediately I read OP story and I was not wrong.

Nigerian men are the biggest hypocrites you will ever see anywhere in this world, which man can stay by his wife when she is being useless, not doing chores, not taking care of children, not bringing money, not even attempting to be productive under the guise of being depressed, which Nigerian man can stay by that woman and cook for her, clean up after her, provide for her, show her respect and love and take care of the kids while lovingly motivating her to get back on her feet? I bet none of the foolish men on this thread can tolerate that amount of rubbish but you hypocrites want women to do all that and more for a useless husband.

Many men even cheat on their wives when they are pregnant and sick or when they just give birth because they dont have the tolerance or patience to go through hard times with her.

In this same Nigeria if a man is the one providing everything for his wife while she works as a full time housewife the man will never respect her or treat her like an equal and in many cases he will display open injustice and high handedness because he knows she has nowhere to go. For example look at FFK the way he abused his wives and beats them up, even when they are pregnant just because he is very rich and spends a lot on them, that is the mindset of an average Nigerian man, once they become sole breadwinners, they expect you to turn into a mindless slave that they can boss around any time they feel like.
But they expect women to be sole breadwinners and housewives and submissive and loving and non complaining and supportive all at once.

And yes, a man will take care of his family for years and nobody hears of it but when a woman does it the world will hear of it, you know why? Because while a man provides, his wife takes care of the homefront and the children and even the man himself, cooking, cleaning, washing,shopping, etc. But when women provide men become utterly useless, they are too arrogant to cook and clean and go to market for their wife and children, they are too arrogant to take over house chores from the wife so they end up DOUBLING the amount of work the woman does and she speaks out and lets people know she is under extreme stress that's why you always hear of it.


@Op no matter what decision you choose to make, DO NOT leave your child alone with that man, I know you are feeling frustration at the way things are but please don't make your innocent child suffer because of his irresponsible father. Continue taking care of your child.

What kind of stupid news is this? Laycon rock nengi backside after winning big brother.

Chai, what a very useless website nairaland is turning to.

Don't be too fast to let that man into your life, he can visit his son under your supervision but no marriage for now untill he finds his feet. He sounds like a lazy and confused person. There are guys that will use that 8 years to become millionaires or even relocate to a better country with a good job but this your guy could not even achieve anything meaningful this whole time when he had no support what makes you think he will suddenly become successful when he knows you will be there to feed him and take care of him?
All these guys telling you to accept him back will never tell their fellow men to accept a woman who abandoned her child for years. They will say you went to do ashawo work now you are back for forgiveness with all your STDs.

Ask yourself this question, if that your guy had become very wealthy and successful in his life do you really think he will come back to marry you? Or he will look for another younger, more beautiful girl without kids to marry.

Abeg use your head. Love dies very very very fast when there is suffering and poverty. Use your head.

Gilbertase:
wow! That's interesting. Soon as i saw your mention, i googled the topic/video, and check this, that was the only story of a groom's dad doing that...but i couldnt find anything about it being a skit or fake. Do you have the link that points this out? Kindly share if you do.

The story has been online for under a day..just within the last 24hrs. I may have happened earlier tho, but it just made it to the internet.

Yes, the couple in the video are popular on YouTube for doing pranks.
I can't search for the video now sorry.

Gilbertase:
i disagree.

Me I agree.




The video is a comedy skit sha, people there are actors.

Gilbertase:
barring the likelihood that the father is mentally sick, which i can sort of assume he isn't, based on his calm yet direct demeanour, it is clear he MUST have had a/damn good reason(s) for speaking up when he did, reasons that shouldnt be discarded/ discountenanced. The video analysis explained it exactly as I would. That man was taking one last stand trying to save his son from what could well be grand misfortune. At least that way no one can say he didnt try. But hey, the groom made his choice.

What if the father has no good reason for doing it?
What if he is just a troublemaker?
The man is not trying to save his son from anything he is an attention seeker, he could have stopped the son or spoken to him days or hours before the wedding proper.

bjprodint:
what if i am a baby mama to just one man,am i still queen?

Yes, yes you are

Sixfeetbelle:
He shouldn't be cool with his business as he doesn't know tomorrow. Nigeria does not have the economy where you can be cool with just one source of income. Can you imagine the financial burden that will fall on her if his business folds and he takes at least a year to find his footing?

Can you imagine the stress she's going through presently while managing 3 businesses against his one business as well as proper running of the home?

Do you think they rake in equal amount of income from their individual business pocket?

Do you think their financial duties are shared based on their individual pockets or based on who brings in more income?

Can you now tell me confidently after going through all points that I have raised that she isn't justified in thinking whether the man deserves a gift or not?

This is a very sensible post, the wife is buying things for her kids to make them happy and instead of lefulefu husband to become more hardworking so he can also improve his children's lives he is demanding snacks.

Men these days are just so useless and entitled.

Gilbertase:
If that boy went ahead with that wedding, in the not-too-distant-future, he will remember that day and cry premium tears. No doubt about that.

Why will he cry premium tears?

Lazy entitled people need to be pampered and get gifts just because they are husbands?
Wetin I no go see for nairaland?

If not that I can't quit feminism because dem take am swear for me I for don hang boot due to the kind stupidity I see many women displaying.

JaneYave:
Can't this thing be done online? Besides,in this pandemic,the quenes will be stressful.I just hope it can be done in any branch in the world so that people will not be forced to travel back to Nigeria at a time like this

It cannot be done online, registering personal information on people's bank accounts requires some biometric information like thumb printing and picture of your face that the bank will have to take by themselves to prevent forgery.
That's how you know how insensitive Buhari government is, they dont even care about the fact that people are abroad or that covid 19 exists.

Kleenatics:
You have always been a notorious tribalist on Nairaland.


You want me to dig out your posts??

I don't even know who you are and here you are reciting my supposed autobiography.

Kleenatics:
Says the Igbo woman supporting Ozo because he's Igbo


Madam your tears are very delicious and we would like to see more of it especially on day 71.

Hahhaha

Enjoy your bandwagon jare
Nothing do you

So I am now Igbo because I said Ozo deserves to win more than corn guy? I am Igbo because I pointed out the truth?

I am not even surprised because that's how mindless cattle reason.

LilMissRobbie:
Myn. d44 Muki..na2

Is it against nairaland rules to request financial assistance?

Allnacruise:
Well

The fact is people spinned the pity party for him, he didn't spin it himself
He didn't create himself though!!

Top contestants have bandwagon...
Ozo has bandwagons...some people are supporting him solely because he is handsome??


What do you say to that


Then talking about content...you don spoil am

So what them happens to people that have more content than Ozo??

Don't you think your reasoning is also as a result of Bandwagon for OZO??



Lastly. .you are mistaken about the tribe issue


It's only natural for majority of Laycon fans to be Yoruba

Same way majority of OZO fans are Igbo
(Can we then say Igbo people supporting him are doing so because he is Igbo) Cubana as an example



So Mr or Mrs Chocolate

Just rest

Mr man you can tell yourself whatever helps you sleep at night.

Threebear:
There is still hope dear .
Vote him this week .

Oga hope no dey for ozo let's not lie to ourselves

Many people who dont even watch the show are supporting laycon based on tribe, they are just happy a yoruba guy is winning this year.

Yes I said it. Anybody that's pained should come and fight me in my house.

Allnacruise:
Poor contestants like Trikytee??



Well Ozo still has a chance

It's not as if they tied your hands not to vote for him


He's currently battling with Dora for 1st position

So get into formation and stop yarning dust


You no need all this talk now

Laycon physical appearance screamed poverty out of all the other contestants the first day.
Trickytee looked better than him. That's why laycon drew people's attention and gained bandwagon herd of sheep fans.

Ozo has always given content and came out on top in many contests in that house. He deserves the win more than corn guy but unfortunately for him many people are supporting contestants based on tribe

If not that Nigerians are expert bandwagoners that love throwing pity parties for poor contestants Ozo would have won this years big brother naija.

He deserves it.

Mehnnn

That aladura church that vee attends are really some powerful miracle workers

Imagine from almost being evicted when Erica was disqualified and being weakest link in the house she and her boyfriend are now in finals.

White garments church na you biko

Thank Gid I didn't waste time following this year big brother, what a total disappointment the whole thing was.

These criminal shits are still whining on a female thread after 14 pages.

Tueh, foolish he goats.

Ladycewhy:
with the way these creatures spit vile here one would have thought they were all that .


I would rather be a baby mama to a white man than to ever be married to a Nigerian man. Nigerian men are such pieces of shit I tell you. Very corrupt,vile ,wicked and misogynistic dolts.Disgusting things to ever walk the face of the earth.spits.lets not forget that Nigerian men are the only ones in west africa willing to marry their ancestors just for papers .


Honestly, it's rather ironic that Nigerian men will blame women for their woes ,soon they will accuse women of being the cause of corona virus ,they are dumb like that

Lol

Don't mind the criminal good for nothing whiners

Ladycewhy:
lol, for a group of men who rape their own daughters in that country ,you Nigerian men are not all that, spits. It's actually men who have to be tolerated and put up with as far as Nigeria is concerned.


I am sure the useless tradition and religion is the reason why many women still put up with creatures from that country.Nigerian women dey try sha.

@bolded is a bloody epidemic in Nigeria
Along with Male scammers and Male ritual killers and Male armed robbers and Male car snatchers and Male rapists and Male serial killers

Just imagine the multitude of problems these goats cause on earth yet they are the ones endlessly whining and complaining about others.

Ladycewhy:
Nigerian women dey try sha, putting up with such creatures is not an easy task.

They are really trying,
Problem causing backward sex obsessed societal rejects.
Tueh,
Tufiakwa for the useless pieces of shit.
I knew before I opened the thread that the frustrated rats would have successfully derailed it with their eternal whining and I wasnt wrong

Just look at the mess, 11 pages of complaining and whinging, their excuse is that women would not contribute to the thread so they decided to help us contribute so that the thread will not waste

But they will not post in politics or education topics so that those threads won't waste.

Goats.

So team scratch and sniff no get content to write about their guy abi why are they still convulsing on Erica mata?

Modified

majamajic:
The only problem is she can't sit at a place for long periods of time , during painting task unnoticed it and about other times again

Imagine

What kind of lifetime punishment is that just because of big nyash?

Dotez:
Still natural,depends on how u see it

Cos dey use the fat in her body

Yea, I know she did the fat injection type but some women do the same fat injection and end up looking deformed.

DrakeBlend:
The dokita sha finished work there... No cap!!!

No be small finish work

The thing just make sense finish inside that her dress

Vianna:
Trickytee self no believe in himself .

He should thank Erica's disqualification for that else he should ave joined Lucy.

Am glad he stayed, I have been pitying the guy for his every week standing since begining.

Who did Nengi yansh surgery?

The person really tried oo...

The thing kind of look natural

The same Nigerians that were doing watchnight the time ozo and nengi slept in HOH room are the ones throwing insults left and right at Erica.
Hypocrisy and Nigerians na 5 and 6

If future big brother females will have the sense nengi has and avoid any type of sexual activity in the house the same people will complain that they are pretending or they are very boring.

Erica really messed up sha, I hope she will be able to recover from the backlash and insults she will receive after leaving the house.

I don tire for this years big brother sef, since it became obvious from day one that Mr scratch and sniff will win the money the whole thing just became so boring.