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Nisland:
please if you can help me out I need work to do.

Sorry about that, I will let you know if I find something that can help.

Nisland:
no am not cheating .because am short of money.and she cannot bear it's .so she dirvoice.and married another man..

Sorry, why didnt you get a side hustle if your job was not providing enough.

Ladies, hope you now see why you should not marry broke poor men, they will use their poverty frustration to make your life miserable. Their ego will not allow them see you progressing and making more money than them

Nisland:
don't try dirvoice try to endure yourself.pleas don't try it's.because what am facing now is not well at all.let him know your mind..I beg u my sister

Did you also cheat on your wife? What exactly are you facing?

Nisland:
Thank you. God Almighty will blessed you.keep endurement.let him know and pray for your married

Hahahahahaha

Nuttella:
Life is all about sacrifices but if you marry a supportive man, you wont feel the stress, some women don't stress themselves much in marriage.

yes but majorty of them are selfish and will refuse to assist at home even when the wife is joint breadwinner.

Blissquare:
This is how some men allow themselves to be manipulated by women. No matter what she is going through, she knows the implication of ten months abstinence in marriage. She should be sober and worried instead of adamant. It is even easier for a woman that had C.S. to have sex than the one who had a vaginal birth. At the same time, there is something that you are not doing right. Maybe you should try being more romantic or stop giving her everything she asks for. Try to take your bath before making any nice and brush your teeth very well. Use perfume. I don't mean to sound harsh but you have to try all probabilities.

There is too much ignorance in this comment, no way the person writing it is female.

Hathor5:
Don't mind them. They say one thing online, do another thing offline and completely different thing abroad where they don't mind marrying single mothers of two or three. That's how quickly they can forget nature.

Honestly but why do these fools love lying to themselves online? Because what I see offline is very different.

HopeSpencer:
No health issue except that she delivered through CS 10 months ago. She has been refusing sex since then. When I recently forced her, she covered her face. As if someone was raping her. I felt rejected and hate myself.

You forced her and she covered face as if someone is raping her because guess what,

Forced sex is actually rape.

Yes, your being married doesn't change that. And here you are talking about how you felt rejected as if you are the victim here, my friend will you gedifok!!!

If she is still breastfeeding she will have very low to non existent sex drive because thats how the bodies of nursing mothers work, their sex drives nose dive because nature and evolution has programmed females to not want sex (pregnancy) when there is a little one still depending on them.

When I say marriage is not natural frustrated men will jump on my neck to start yarning rubbish. How is a man with very high sex drive supposed to cope for the two years his wife breastfeeds their baby with low sex drive? Or not even wanting sex at all. Some breast feeding moms dont even have ovulation or monthly cycle or period until they wean their babies so the vagina is extremely dry and sex is usually painful.

Stop raping your wife Mr man, help her get into the mood instead of having selfish sex like many of you married men do, you get married then start having only 30seconds sex that satisfies only yourself and yourself alone then you start wondering why your wife does not want to keep submitting her vagina for you to use like say na short time ashawo you carry.

Ladies, also avoid broke men as well.

Read this thread to know why

https://www.nairaland.com/5593245/dear-ladies-please-dont-date#85105331

Ifyyy25:
Chai!!nothing wey I no go see for nairaland, a woman’s value lies in a man’s subjective judgment and not her achievements and goals? It is well.

Can you see the rubbish these deluded creatures tell themselves?

Oh its "nature" for men to dislike single mums but it's wrong for women to dislike poor men?

Ok o

RightToReject:
I consider it petty and inhumane for anyone who holds a conviction that, aside from rape or death of husband/partner, that a woman who's a single mother automatically doesn't deserve their help.

Irreconcilable differences can make a woman who has a child to separate from her husband/partner with whom she once shared a good understanding, and by extension, will automatically become a single mother. Now imagine a situation whereby a woman becomes a single mother in this instance or similar instance and in the cause of it loses her source of income or her estranged husband/partner who was responsibly paying her alimony becomes bankrupt. The salt of a sane society is conscientiousness - not self-absorption nor servility - as far as I'm concerned.

Honestly, but inhumanity to women has been so normalized on Nairaland all these rantings here no even dey surprise me.

nenyewrites:
I'm telling you and I hate it!

Look at them talking about abstinence now, saying women should abstain if th wey dont want to be single moms, the other day they started a topic to tell girls that dont want to engage in premarital sex to stay away from dating. That post got sooo many likes, now they are talking about abstinence as if women dont get raped or deceived into having sex. Some devilish men claim they want their future wives to get pregnant so that they can be sure she is fertile, after the woman gets pregnant outside wedlock they suddenly realise they are no longer attracted to her and they dump her. Yet men will still find a way to blame her.

Anything that can he not p women or bring women happiness men are ever ready to cut it down and place their own happiness before women, they have innate hatred for women. Remove the sexual attraction they feel towards women and you will see their true hateful nature.

nenyewrites:
Why women like embarrassing themselves in front of men is something I'll never figure out. If they didn't ask this fool for money, he won't have the guts to say this rubbish.

I've come to the conclusion that 99.9% of men are selfish. They will only do things that favour them, it's never about the other person, but themselves. That is why I don't blame one girl on video that advised women not to come out and protest. She said they should leave the men to go out and protest and die because they are the ones that kept the country in this state. Very selfish beings!

The only way you can get something from a man is if you deceive him! Even if you are not feeling the sex, just moan or shout I'm cuming, so he will be happy. Even if you are a single mother, pretend you don't have a child and he will marry you. Even if you are ugly, bake your face with makeup and he will follow you like a fly to the grave. Deception is what they like, yet they pretend they hate deceptive women.

Even in marriage, very selfish beings. Stingy! Waiting for saliva to finish from their wife's mouth in the name of begging before they give her one naira. I just like how my sisters deal with them when they get old and down with all kinds of diseases, both hbp and prostate cancer. Their wives ensure they work hard and save their money, and because of this long term accumulation, they always have enough at old age, while the wicked, stingy men who have either been sacked from work or too old to continue business will be left penniless and live the rest of their years less than a man!

The only men who live a happy old age are those who channelled their love to their children or loved their wives wholeheartedly and were never stingy! So, for the young men supporting Reno, continue. Women will always find their way, but you guys, if you don't die before 40, will live the rest of your lives as slave to your wives!

See how the thing dey make you vex, na now you know say them selfish well well?

I have always known, its this their innate selfishness that makes them inconsiderate of women and always create societal and religious laws that relegate women and elevate men.

Unfortunately for women they have all the compassion and love and kindness because they can't help it, their hormonal and chemical biological set up makes them soft hearted so that they can properly raise offspring.

pozehnani:
Please don't misquote me. I never said she has vagina odour. Read my comment again; Carefully this time.

No, bye.

iamyemiakins:
That's how cheating husbands/men behave to their wives/partners. Little things from their wives/partners triggers their sensitivity, anger and disgust.

Very true

pozehnani:
SMH.. it is arguments like this that has made the op refuse to see where she has a problem which may not be her fault.
It's just like the case of some women with body odour who do not know or can't smell it cos they've gotten used to that odour.

I dont know why women especially some married ones don't like to take to corrections. Think all you want but I'm a lady and I can tell you 30% of women don't know how to take care of their bodies or should i say, stop taking care of their bodies once they start having children. Come at me all you want, I don't care! I've addressed a couple of them who are now doing it right while some remain adamant.


You can keep trying to figure out why your once loving husband is suddenly irritated. Instead of taking out practical steps to put things in order first to know where the problem lies.

Op, please it's up to you to do those things I advised or not. I'm not in anyways forcing you to carry out those tips.

Let's all make our contributions and suggestions without rubbishing others.

Peace.

Who told you she has vagina odor or lubrication problems or any problems at all? What if her husband is just an insensitive person that has lost interest in his wife?
Why not find out whether she has vaginal problems before giving her solutions that disrupt her vaginal functions and make things worse if her vagina is functioning normally?
When a man is irritated with a woman even if she is very clean and in tip top shape everything about her will irritate him, whether clean or dirty

This man has slept around and compares his wife's body and sexual prowess with that of younger girls outside and is now no longer attracted to her but let's ignore that and blame the woman as always.

Peace

Fountainofyouth:
The lady just told typed that she can't keep up cos he was introduced to new pleasures when he cheated, she said she's clean down there, etc, but somehow, you feel you are right with your funny problem detection? Lol,

And what has the bold got to do with the sex problem? Where is the correlation?

That person is probably a man, Nairaland men are sick shits that can pretend to be women so as to mislead women.

Vyolet:
That is the problem when you keep forgiving cheats, they keep you on your toes and make you seem like you are the problem.

I wonder how he will feel if you were in his shoes, you would have been sent back to your father house...

I am so irritated with the gaslighting wives of cheating husbands face. His girlfriend outside the marriage taught him new pleasures and then he now treats his wife like shit because of her but the wife is expected to forgive and bear the blame, look at stupid solutions people are giving here;
-She is supposed to avoid getting too wet so that she will not irritate him,
She should look for a good time to ask nicely for preintimacy that should be a normal part of marriage sexual relations
She should shook ice iceblock inside toto and bear the pain and discomfort to please her cheating husband.

Nigerian wives are trying ooo

All states in Nigeria better buckle up and find out where their own palliatives are and claim them.

Every single person on earth has showed sympathy and compassion for the victims of police brutality in the past few days,
Everybody on earth has showed kindness and understanding,
Everyone except the president of the country with protesters

Modified

samuelchimmy:
if you read my post very well. You will know that I am speaking from a point of anger. I am not tribalistic. But I will posting screengrabs of Arewa supporting this massacres... Here is Bashir Ahmed tweeting dead or alive

I think DoA means dead on arrival which means he thinks the protest is dead on arrival, very insensitive comment to make but na malu brain dey talk so no surprises there.

What else do you expect from cow brains?

Abi you don't know they reason like cattle?

I just have to ask this question again, is Buhari still alive?
Is the so called president of Nigeria still alive?


I hope all you hopeless idiots that are still supporting him can now see how heartless and non chalant the man is?

officialbeffinb:
video please

Video is in the Twitter link inside the first post on page one aka Op's post.

7x856:
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You are doing a good job, no mind that werey

bjtinz:
That's TVC naa

Thanks, I modified

It happened about five minutes ago, the topic of discussion was on #End Sars and the guest speaker was critisizing the action of the soldiers shooting live bullets at civilian for crowd control instead of using tear gas or water cannons,

Then the host of the show started speaking frantically and in a panicked voice that people were at their gates trying to break their way in, for now they are not showing anything again,

I will try to find and post the video.


Modified,

https://twitter.com/ijayocean/status/1318836812736040960?s=20


Please click the above link to view the video of the show before it was taken off air, Nairaland doesn't allow posting of videos.

So it's a cybercrime for someone to make a video asking soldiers not to shoot innocent civilians?

cococandy:
Well historically women are usually more trained to uphold a marriage. To build their homes. To persevere and endure. Because it’s supposed to be their prize. Their reward for being “good”.


There’s no doubt things won’t improve if we keep doing things the same way and expect a different result.

Very true