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Daeylar:
I found the thread An except of the pound yam advice, I can't stop laughing

OK it's 351 likes so far, I honestly thought it would be more.
Imagine the nonsense. Don't raise your voice, give him a treat.
tufia.

Elder001:
Is this sarcasm or you just typed this nonsense to garner likes?

Must everything be a gender war on this forum?

It's not a gender war, I am only being just and fair in my judgment.

Daeylar:
I remember that thread. and they were seriously serious, seriously agreeing with that comment they even called the guy a wise man. Said he has so much wisdom oh my god

What I have seen on nairaland when it concerns a man vs a woman eh.
@ bold they become whatever they want depending in how the situation benefits them, but no matter what. Always remember that a man is never wrong
That is the golden rule.
So when it benefits them, women are emotional & weaker.
When it doesn't, it becomes. Women can withstand cheating (emotional torture and pain) better than men

Of course na,
Another one is that when it suits them they say women are not polygamous and were created to stay faithful to one man.
When it doesn't suit them you see them claiming women enjoy sex as much as men and are only pretending so they should stop acting like they are doing men a favor by having sex with them.

Confused people.

LadySarah:
Chimamanda in her book'The Americanah',called it Acrobatic sex,the kind of sex that turned Obinze's brain and he left his wife.

Me thinks the woman wasnt getting sexual satisfaction, but she went for soln the wrong way instead talking to her husband.

Maybe if she had confided in her husband,once he comes here,the male folk will tell him to go and pregnant her because joblessness is making her honrny.

We never can tell it all until we hear from her side.

I loved that book mehnn
Although I didn't love how it ended. I wanted Obinze to overlook the acrobatic sex and stay in the marriage for his daughter's sake.

At bold, I also think the woman wasn't getting sexual satisfaction. But was afraid of telling her oga here.
If she had stayed faithful and come on Nairaland to ask for advice, NL resident misogynists will tell her she should manage him after all its not his fault that her vagina is now too wide from sleeping with one million men before marriage.

I remember reading on this same Nairaland, a certain thread where a married woman came to complain about her cheating husband, she said she caught the man having sex with another woman inside their matrimonial home, right on top of their matrimonial bed.
If that isn't the height of disrespect then I don't know what is.

But guess what out wonderful Nairaland men said to her? They advised her to pound yam for him and prepare his favorite soup and then in a loving respectful tone of voice she should ask him what happened that made him cheat and help him work on those problems.

That particular idiotic suggestion to pound yam for a shameless cheating husband gathered more than 500likes, and many more heartless beasts that call themselves men were cheering the person that wrote the comment and advising the wife to follow his advice.


You men deserve a taste of your own medicine.

Some idiots will tell you women find it easier to overlook cheating and forgive and in the same breathe will tell you how women are softer and more emotional than men so how can the same weaker more emotional person withstand blows and heartache better than the logical unemotional one?

And no, women can have sex without attaching emotions. Women have friends with benefits and sugar mommies keep sugar boys they sleep with on a casual basis.

No gender cheating is better or worse than the other.

I have been reading comments on this thread from ladies like cococandy and giftygirl and ladySarah and I can't help but agree with their views. Try to forgive your wife OP, God hates divorce. Find out what you were doing wrong in the marriage.
Is your phenis huge and long and fat? Does she orgasm every time you have sex?
Do you do pre-intimacy to get her in the mood before diving in?
Do you take time from your busy schedule of chasing money to show her love and romance and make her feel special?
Women love to be petted and pampered, do you show her enough love or are you assuming because you got married so you can relax and stop being romantic.
Find out what chased her into the other man's arms and work on yourself so you can give it to her.
Also pray a lot.
Fight for your marriage,, don't give up just like that.
If you divorce her what makes you so sure the next woman won't do worse?

Almunjid:
Jamb Questions (2018)

Section B theory
Answer all questions

1. Wetin dem dey do for BBN self?
2. List 3 talents wey this so called Miracle get?
3. Na who BBN help?
4. ...


Hahahaha Lol

you couldn't come up with a fourth question? Let me help you out

4. I resemble Google abi wetin make you dey type bbn questions give me?

nwabuwa:
thanks, I almost lost the sight, I went to an eye hospital where I was given eye drop which was taken care of it until the next two days that I went for check up. the white or fake white man that I met that day , discarded the earlier drops and gave me his, I couldn't see the next morning after using the eye drops. I changed hospital, where I was told that the drops the first hospital gave were wrong for such issues. my dear, the second hospital controlled the pains and eventually the wound healed but the scar is still on. the second doctor still referred me to another hospital which I ve not been to due to distance. ..

Do you remember the names of all the eyedrops they gave you, from the first hospital to the white man to the second hospital? I want to know their actual effectiveness.


And please try to go to the second hospital you were referred to as soon as possible.

Shortyy:
Did you draw it?

Yes


















No.
I didn't draw it.

O my God, this guy is such a bore. Even his pictures look like boredom.

If not for sentimental Nigerians that were looking for romance this type of boring person no suppose win bbn.

nwabuwa:
have a similar issue. optician said it will go with time, this is over six months my vision is not yet clear or is operation the only option.

How old are you? The older you are the longer it will take to clear. it's like if you injured your skin and it leaves a scar, it will take time for the scar to clear. Same with cornea.

Shortyy:
That is a beautiful drawing

Tainks

rexbuton:
That's neither cataract nor glaucoma.

That is a corneal infiltrate/Corneal ulcer as a result of Keratitis, and yes it is potentially blinding if not managed urgently and it extends to cover your pupil.

It is an emergency, you should see an eye specialist as soon as possible.

Is there any discharge? What is the name of the eye drop you used? A steroid?

You're a doctor ba?
I just tire for those shouting cataract and glaucoma upandan.
Cloudy vision must always be cataract in some people's minds.

KingLinglee:
You can't make an effective diagnoses on here...

The Op complained of cloudy substance in the eye, and that's a major symptom of cataract..

Corneal cancer shouldn't be ruled out also.. But cataract is the best bet

Please sir can you see the lens or how did you determine it is opacity of lens aka cataract?
Thanks

KingLinglee:
Cataract

Please go see an optician

Please it's not cataract at all

looks like corneal ulcer or corneal scarring.
maybe the foreign object that went into your eye scratched the cornea and the aftermath of the wound is the scar you see there.

okwabayi:
I swear women always search for the weirdest porn. How did you find it if not via google?.

we all know men are the greatest consumers of Porn but you can keep lying to yourself.
This is where I found it, not google:

https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/they-have-an-organization-for-pedophiles-you-guys.1818221/

And they have an active website and advocacy group too.
The website is virped.org or virtual pedophiles for short. Their useless group is Nambla.org, it stands for association of man/boy love or something like that.
God forbid, I want to vomit.
How have these animals not been arrested since?

They have discussions with each other like normal people and tell each other there is nothing wrong with being attracted to small children, they are trying very hard to join LGBT (lesbianism, gay, bisexual, transexual) and trying to gain acceptance into normal society.


How sick can these men be?
Parents protect your children please, there are beasts in animal skin that are fantasizing about sleeping with little children and they are now getting bolder and outspoken.
These days due to the poor economy parents have to leave their kids of even less than a year in care of other adults unfortunately. God help our children and protect them from these beastly pedos.

Can you imagine the fckery going on here?
A thread was started for women to pour their hearts out and as usual men have come here to display their woman hate and destroy the thread before it even takes off. Only one person has actually shared a detailed story and the woman hate train is already in full gear. Starting from that troll Wilfredpat who is pretending to be female to the ones who are already jumping in to say the thread will be full of lies to the one who outrightly called the victim of molestation a liar.

Nairaland men are something else.

One of them is even trying to undermine female sexual harrassment by claiming without any statistical findings, that boys get molested a lot while that of girls is significantly less. Instead of him to condemn rape of both males and females.
The biggest fool among them is saying 10percent of the blame lies on the head of the girl that shared her story.

Funny thing is that when they shared their own stories in the first thread no woman came to claim they were lying or came to start sharing percentage of blame. Yet slowpoke!c nairaland men are always going on about feminists and man haters when this entire forum is a den of woman haters and bashers.

Seun forum is where all the woman haters and misorgynists come to pour frustrations out on women even on a thread like this where any sensible person with a conscience will show sympathy for victims.

Tufia!

And its not even helping matters that woman hating topics keep getting moved to front page to draw traffic.

Also, ladies never allow a man use you for 100% house work or child care.

They must assist at least 50% since you no longer benefit anything financially from them and you even support the house with your money sef.

After all na their name the pikin dey bear.

Bye

Mariangeles:
She didn't ??

Ya think ya comment upset me...?? " you are just upset about my earlier posts"
Incase you haven't noticed, I know how to defend myself honey !

ok

Mariangeles:
The so-called female just offended and insulted your race and you failed to call her out for that...you didn't even realize it 'cause you were blinded
See what I was talking about??
She thinks she's superior to you because she's half European and you're from "A SHYTEHOLE COUNTRY"

WAKE UP AND FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHT TO RESPECT BECAUSE YOU'RE A HUMAN BEING!

lmao, she did not insult my race anywhere, you are just upset about my earlier posts. Calm down and take it easy with the caplocks

postmann:
And the African woman belongs in another race!

The earlier you realise you're imprisoned by your own misandria, the earlier you'd have embarked on your mental freedom.

Am not misandrist. I just want women to be considered equal human beings like men.
We also have our valuable roles to play in society, we are not less intelligent or less moral than men so how are women inferior again?

I want equal respect and regard for women that's all.

Mindfulness:
I know their kind. They are forming alpha online, because in their narrow-minded world view there are only two categories of men, while in fact they have been rejected by women a 1000 times at least. They suffer from self-esteem issues but pretend to be the sexiest man alive when in fact they have obvious deficiencies and shortcomings. I would get more specific but do not want to hurt innocent bystanders.

It is so obvious, it is irritating. Which successful man will spend hours online trying to convince people how great he is when people reflect it back to him every day offline? Abeg!

Buch of i*diots.

Don't mind them jare.
Alpha male online, bunch of nobodies offline.

Mindfulness:
Loved by everyone and living among males who have been enjoying stable electricity for decades and who are now building robots that will serve them in everything while you are still trying to train low self-esteem women to obey you.

Keep calling them beta from your SHYTEHOLE Mr Omega

Funny thing is that African men are the most disrespected and least taken seriously of all races. It's very sad.
Instead of trying to restore respect and regain a honorable position among other races majority of them are looking for how to dominate their women and forcing inferior status on them.
They are too scared to face men of other races so they take out their ego issues on women. I bet you if they go to any western country they would be extremely careful of how they address white women and would show them respect.
But they will see their fellow African women and talk thrash to them

Hanseel1:
Men are the ones abusing women up and down not the other way round.

Very true.

[quote author=Hanseel1 post=70966457][/quote]Lol, don't get worked up over that little issue abeg.
Some NL females like forming objective and unbiased so that they won't loose their Nairaland boyfriends. If they show their support for fellow women they will be pronounced man hating feminist and lose admirers.
Its a normal sturvs.

Mariangeles:
Fixed !

Hilarious.
Go start the thread then.

This one is for women.

Mariangeles:
It goes both ways...some men too suffer A LOT in the hands of their wives but most of them don't speak out

Start another thread to advocate men's rights. This one is for women.

Mariangeles:
Do you feel threatened and dominated by a man ??
Maybe it's the environment you grew up in...

If you really understand the inner strength and ability a woman possess, then there'd be no need for these debates and name calling...
To most men, their wives is THEIR SANCTUARY, THEIR COMFORT, THEIR HAPPY PLACE!

What page did you start reading from?
This is the reason I gave before.

CHoccolaTE:
It's really not about me to be honest.
Everyday on Facebook I see different horror stories of women who are being treated like crap in their marriages by men who consider themselves God's and dictators in their marriage. Marriage is all about mutual love and understanding from both parties not bullying or bossing your partner around because you saw 'wives submit' in the Bible.

This topic is for men ad women that have the wrong idea.