₦airaland Forum

Chiefjosy:
Bleep off

lefulefu:
if u have to meet a stranger for the first time then meet him an open area with ppl around and not in a secluded area or a hotel or u can carry someone along with u. Being security concious is bae.

Ziggylady:
You see this innate sadistic instinct most of you nairaland males have towards ladies will certainly ruin you all sooner or later

..I mean we know Nigeria is hellish for most of the citizens no thanks to you males,but females are not the reason why you are wretched,frustrated and starving!..females are not the cause of your sufferings!..quit pouring your frustrations out on females and maybe life will be better for most of you.

There are countless males who have been victims of these ritualistic murders so you lots are not immune from from being murdered for rituals or whatever..

Keep empowering those murderers until you or your loved ones becomes a victim

Chiefjosy:
So them tell you say the rapist Dey nairaland. Seems you’re mad

don4real18:
Will you shut up! You should be referring to your father and brothers.

Daeylar:
This thread is so calm, so peaceful. Let op type the same thing but just put F on his moniker and switch genders in the story.
They will use golddigger and wicked woman to run op out from this forum and use that as a stepping stone to start their usual insult of Nigerian women.

So you guys do the same thing Nigerian women do (looking for a partner that is financially stable), but when women do it, it is called good digging, when men do, it's called being realistic.

Nigerian men.

traihit:
Ma or sir, (whichever category you belong to), you would have made sense arguing like a scholar without including insult. Now you've shown that you're not worthy of engaging in argument with me cos I don't deal with insulting folks like you. Once again, I still say it: our society is focusing more on girls and abandoning the boys while the agberos, Boko-harams, ISWAPS and all form of miscreants are increasingly making use of the boys. If you don't like my argument, ban me from using the internet.

technicallyrich:
Two biafrans.one from igbo and the other from esan in delta state.
The last and the least our afonja neigbours.
This is welcome development.

pocohantas:
I just had to ignore their rants. I wonder what brought in NGO into this. I guess they have a problem reading, lil wonder 3girls came top...

Amhappy:
Nigeria is a very complex society. I remember when i was serving and my friend was sick so we visited the government hospital and it was in a very bad state. While chatting with the CMD,he told us that its more than 3 times since he took over efforts have been made to renovate the hospital. But when the money arrives the villagers will mobilize to the hospital and demand that the money should be shared instead.

Pipedreams:
Lmao..who needs marriage. If i need sex...ashawo cheap wella...if i need home food. I can employ a calabar nanny for 15k monthly that will cook all exceellent meals without wahala...men marry just to procreate and for societal reasons..many women are ready to be baby mamas so why does a man need marriage. If a lady stays in her fathers house over a certain age. Shes a shame to her family

UjuJoan2:
He made you risk your life to undergo an unwarranted major surgery, because of sex? Your husband has a big problem, but so do you.

Do you even love yourself? Do you want to live to cater for your daughter and have more kids? Do you want your parents to bury you? All because you don't want your husband to cheat?

So let him cheat. Let him take his perverted sex life somewhere else. You are not some Hooker, you are his wife, his partner, his soulmate. Why do you think he doesn't respect that? Because you let him!

I understand that sex among young people these days is kinky, but what you are describing up there is crazy and sick. You need to get yourself out of that situation before it's too late

Don't tell anyone, don't involve family or friends. But take your stand and stick to it. Let him cheat if he wants to. In any case how long do you think you can keep up with all that? He will definitely cheat eventually, unless he seeks help.

Chubhie:
Resist the urge to rationalise it. No human, not even animals or trees deserves such.

Our women are not happy with the men. Most of these injustices again the feminine were carry over from our ancestors. It's difficult being a woman so don't add salt to their injuries.

As an old man, I will share a secret with you. Do you know that how you treat your nanny, workers and that sweet naive girl next door who you took advantage off knowing she can't refuse you have ripple effect on the collective?

If today, the feminine succeeds in upstaging the natural order of the masculine not for balance and respect but for revenge, It would be brutal and yet poetic justice.

May yours truly and his seeds be exempted from that madness. Amin.

Elder0001:
You're a fraud..

Elder0001:
The man stops being head of the home..
Cooking and house chores become the responsibility of both partners.

Bride price seizes to exist.

Though I don't support men who treat their wives like slaves in the name of tradition and submission because their wives are housewives/jobless.

Most men who tell their wives to quit their jobs/careers to take care of kids always complain later even if they don't complain at home no matter how rich they are.

Elder0001:
Leave me alone na

Elder0001:
I don't like derailing people's threads.

Elder0001:
How's this question in anyway related to the topic being discussed?

Elder0001:
Nobody is forcing women to stay in such marriages !
Blame it on your fellow women who refuse to be financially independent for their own good before going into marriage .
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InyinyaAgbaOku:
Equality means sameness, from the dictionary. So men aren't equal to women.
Men And their xtics should not be the subject of a woman's completeness cos that means changing your nature.

Equity states that despite our differences, you can enjoy same Human Rights.
The highest form of inequality is to make sure group equal to what they aren't. Women are the ones that will burn out in this process

Eberechi24:
I have every right to preach what I believe. it's up to you to accept or reject it(am not forcing It on anybody) fortunately, we are feminists in acceptance or in denial.

Poshriel:
This post really expressed your inner most mind..
The break down is simply epic..

Thank again for asking for my details..

0109427349, GTB. Ogunlolu Adedayo

Raalsalghul:
Why won't I know you with all your incoherent rants on Nairaland whenever the word "Men" is mentioned. Provided we have few folks here insulting women, common sense says direct your frustration at them rather the male gender in general. You have issues dear. Still enough time to sort them before it consumes you. Peace