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Dear logicboy,
We don't live in a perfect world, much as what you have said is true from your own point of view you have to keep asking yourself one fundamental question and that is in whose interest? Good , evil , oppression to a huge extent is all subjective. Not everyone would share in the passion you have for atheism, not everyone wants to go out there join together form a big happy body of people to take on religions.
What you have done in your own little way sparks the fire of wanting to know more in anyone willing to question what they believe in. Now that you have come back to Nigeria please be smart about how you "preach" atheism, like you said let your life and principles speak for themselves.

Me personally I couldn't be less bothered I could stroll in read laugh and move on, but we are all different.

There was nferyn, Huxley, mazaje ( ma big boss ) ..............logicboy.........someone will take over.

Not a fan of this Gej led government but I have new found respect for this guy we may disagree but he is really intelligent.
The facts of the matter therefore

1. A man should have principles and stand by it, shifting political goalposts everytime while screaming foul play makes you popular but not credible.
2. Nairaland, Twitter and social media activists still make up a minority of people who actually go there to vote. Therefore the number of times your attack on Gej is retweeted has little or no consequence on the outcome of the elections come 2015.
3. The opposition needs to 're strategize if they really want to give the pdp any meaningful fight come 2015.


My verdict: Team Gej still ahead in reality.

Sir Jonse: Gambian president, Yahya Jammeh, has warned that any gay or lesbians found in the country will “regret” being born.

During a speech on March 28th at the opening of the country’s parliament, President Jammeh said:

“Homosexuality is anti-humanity. I have never seen homosexual chicken, or turkey. If you are convicted of homosexuality in this country, there will be no mercy for offenders.

Homosexuality is anti-god, anti-human, and anti-civilization. Homosexuals are not welcome in the Gambia.

If we catch you, you will regret why you are born. I have buffalos from South Africa and Brazil and they never date each other.

We are ready to eat grass but we will not compromise on this. Allowing homosexuality means allowing satanic rights. We will not allow gays here.”

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The level of intelligence of an African president in 2013, shaking my head.

musKeeto:

Where's davidylan?

hehehehehe onlyfrank giving him a run for his money

MissRaissa: You all make a good point. I honestly can't see myself as just a housewife. I feel like I need to be an example for my future children, especially if I end up having daughters. I have nothing against housewives, in fact I strongly believe being a mom [/b]is one of the hardest jobs in this world. It is a FULL TIME job with no vacation or time off.

I am looking forward to being a wife/mother one day BUT I also need to have a career. I must have another identity other than being just so and so's wife. I love the idea of being independent.

Can I kindly correct that to say being a [b]GREAT mom is the hardest job in the world, women do not have it easy.

Dear OP,
I think it's a choice as with both sides comes different challenges. The personalities of the persons involved also plays a great role as to what they would find more suitable. The housewife has the pros of having a woman who would be at home all the time and tend to the family, on the other hand career woman can also lend a very good hand in reducing the financial burden as well as also fulfil their dreams to become relevant in society.
The way I see it, no holy grail method to marriage exists, it ultimately boils down to both people regardless of whichever path is chosen to make success of their union by remembering what's most important to both of them and if these things match, some men like me would go any length for my family some others want loads of money and a huge empire or even a great career and may or may not care as much, same applies for women here.
The traditional housewife I think is evolving and it's inevitable that with time both couples have to pay attention to the home to cover for the other. Personally I dont want a sit at home wife no one deserves that unless they want to, ultimately the kids would grow and leave, then what?

Frosbel,
Do you think that a practising Catholic would make heaven?

What is wrong with panties as a piece of clothing?

Yo,
Its very simple, be open and honest about it. Ask him to define your relationship, ask him what he thinks it is and where he thinks this heading. Be open enough to admit to him how exactly you see him and you are concerned that someone might get hurt if things are not ironed out at this stage.
The biggest problem is when you lead someone on and expecting them to "get" the message he might be thinking you are just playIng hard to get. If he is mature enough he will admit that he likes you in that way or you might be shocked that you are just sorely mistaken.

Hmmmm interesting.

How the hell do these threads make front page?

SpicyMimi: Hi my fellow Nairalanders,

okay, i have this friend who has been dating her guy for some few months now, and he also has plans of getting married to her but has never bought her any gift nor has he cared about her needs finacially. I personally told her the guy is a stingy guy and things might get ugly after marriage, but then again i might be wrong, so i need you all to share your views on this.

Also, would love to have answers to the following questions:

1. When should a guy start spending on a girl? ''For your info am not a gold-digger, i hardly collect stuffs from my boyfriend but atleast am glad he isnt the stingy type''

2. Why do guys so much believe in the word 'Give and take'?

3. Who should call more?

And for the Ladies, you could also tell us what and what your boyfriends or fiance's is doing or has done as per being in a relationship with him, same with the Male folks as well.

Note- Forming is allowed.

Dear OP,
How convenient for you to suddenly reduce your friend's relationship to just one thing - Money.

1. When should a guy start spending on a girl?
It is not the primary responsibility of your boyfriend to "spend" on you. Infact when a guy starts by "spending" there is a huge probability he wants to "give and take". People are different and I am sure there are happily married couples out there whose husbands do not just dole out candy at every opportunity. Your friends parents/guardians are still alive presume or she should have a job to primarily take care of her, it's her responsibility.

2. Why guys believe in Give and take?
No guy who wants you in a serious relationship would be thinking of give and take. It's ladies like you who have formed the opinion that a guy who is a spendthrift is the correct guy and the more conservative guy is stingy. At that point it ain't rocket science, services has been paid for in cash, the payee expects service in kind for the pizza or the blackberry z10 he bought, simples.

3. Who should call more

My advice is go back and look out for the important things in a mans character that would make him a solid rock for you tomorrow instead of chasing flimsy things like who spends on you or not. Men do not want a financial or even an intellectual liability at home, grow your sense of pride as an individual most especially as a lady and whatever you do kindly stop advising your friend or anyone on what makes a marriage ugly.

Cheers.

onyfrank: The worsest moment 4 d atheist is when he is really thankful and has nobody to thank.
I thank God

Bros you too mush abeg

Front page now kai manmustwac nominate this thread biko

Biko clarify which ring you mean

The Engagement Ring
The Wedding Ring
or
The SUFFER-Ring

Shakslayer: Guys, sincerely when i was told by my colleague to drop my story on here, i didnt for once imagine it'd generate this much traffic/response. It's been awesome reading ALL your comments (sarcastic & meaningful),and am just gonna make this one post and then call it a day. This is so you dont form the wrong idea(s) about my person, as some have started forming.

I didn't regret and never will regret what i did last Friday. I can never have s*ex with a lady i just met for the first time, no matter how much affection we have or have had over time for each other. it's just not in me to do that. And from our earlier chats and phone convos, she told me it isn't right but guys generally still do it.

Lastly, yes, am a man, a real man at that, and when it comes to s*ex, and everyother ceremonies surrounding it, when i start, i dont stop till you've got enuff. I pride myself on giving the best head any woman can ever ask for and get. Yes, but that doesnt change my principle.

Thanks y'all for your warm contributions.

You don show your face eh, ehen come make I tell you some things.

DO NOT FALL FOR ALL THIS STORY STORY decent man wey you dey hear for this place. I have not said let loose and run all around having sex anyhow but abeg show moves, wetin self. The point is because of the way you look at life you have failed to see from even the most subtle to the most OBVIOUS clues she gave to you that she does not quite share that opinion. Even if self my guy wetin, you go COVER BLANKET

No wahala sha whatever rocks your boat.

weezii: @Op to me u did the right thing by keeping ur word. If not for anything u proved something to her. That thing which she is really afraid of. She thought u were like other guys but u were not.

My advice is that u should keep tryna contact her anyhow u wish but dnt use because of what happend and play mumu ooo. Some girls love guys that keep their word so dont panic. If afterall it doesnt work out between u guys then u move on with life.



No hurry for anything in life cos u will get tired of em one day...talking from experience

They agreed no sex, this slow guy just decided to suffer in silence. Trying to contact her for what?
Abegi the guys Manhood is in contention here!

okemmadu: What u did was right. Never have any regrets and be careful with such girls that can offer free s.ex without medical tests. They can be carriers of heavy growth of STDs.[color=#990000][/color]

BIKO DREX!!!

CONJI is real !

[quote author=gbaky_floor]And here I am searching for someone like you to no avail: the irony of life.[/quote]Make we hear word jare

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

You are clueless what went wrong

1. She is the one that told the cab driver to take you guys to the hotel. ( You nor even fit use your head try to tempt her to go the hotel room self she do the work for you).
2. She got to the hotel and changed her mind about going home, who the hell watches sky news with a woman in a hotel room
3. She then went on to take her bath and change to a very very looovuleeey and sezzzzzzzyyy nightie nightie for you.

The only thing [size=18pt]you come do na to go one side cover blanket[/size]
In the days of hitler na firing squad for wait you the next morning.

Nwokem the agreement was simple, no sex on the first day fine, it did not say no kissing et al!
Chai you could not even walk to the mirror compliment on her hair, her very beautiful face (even if she be atutupoyoyo) and at least touch her body ni ha!
Even ask her how on earth she expects you not a make a move on her when she is looking like that??


Me sef dey wonder if that Johnny under dia is working well

taharqa: Will you SHUT that your stinking mouth there, you HYPOCRITE.

This was an INTERNAL PARTY ELECTION within his party, and unfortunately NO LAW in Nigeria compels any political party to observe elections in their Primaries. Parties could do as they please as long as it follows their own constitutions (that was never written to ensure internal democracy in their various parties). The law which would have made it compulsory for Primary Elections to be held within political parties which some few members of the NA was pushing in early 2011 was shot down by virtually every political party, lead by ACN. In fact, I recall with alarm how virtually every ACN leader both within the NA and outside (led by your master, Tinubu) argued vociferously that parties should be completely left to produce their own candidates the way they see fit cos they (the parties) had to choose only candidates that would pursue their Agenda and Manifesto. They ALL killed that Bill. Till today, Tinubu SELECTS virtually every internal Candidate in ACN.

So dont come here and Pontificate on issues like this at all. I dont suffer a HYPOCRITE a moment's space.

I insist that the SUDDEN attack on Gov Akpabio is simply cos of his emergence as Chair of the PDP Governor's Forum who are in Strong support of GEJ, PERIOD. That much is too transparent. Thank God, the man is arguably the most performing INFRASTRUCTURE wise perhaps since the advent of Democracy in 1999, else we for no hear word on that angle again.

Bunch of sillly DESPERADOS.

The real question is what does the PDP guidelines on internal elections say?

Thread of the day lwkmd front page biko lmaoooooo

onyfrank: i knw u wil talk abt 'steam.'
so lets assume ur 'theory' is correct - water 'evaporates' and leaves the sweat and urine.
According to u pple, this 'evaporated' water now rains down as 'pure' water without d urine and sweat.
D question nw is, what hapend to all the sweat and urine? Did it disapeared? Or is it 'conservative mass?'
ok, dat 'pure' water nw falls down and mixes with d left behind urine & sweat and we are jst back to where we started.
Ehhh.

Abi o where did all the yellow yellow things go lwkmd

Front page please!

How can one classify something meant to express your love for your partner a sin. These laws were made by people who do not face the challenges you face today.. they got married at 17 an 19, how the hell do you expect anyone that is 30 to be a virgin? A few people by choice yes but this is against natural instincts, why the hell would God care who you hug and kiss? There's many people dying in Syria by the day that's a better problem to fix.

A goat has no business with rocket science. Life surely can be easier, whats the use arguing these things.

All these signs have been there since the beginning ever. Try something else

Hi guys,
I am kinda not new but kinda new to forex. Left it a long time ago, I didnt learn too well. Can you guys kindly point me in a direction, platforms, trainings and stuff like that.
Thanks.

Shaking my head, that alams pardon is something I cannot wrap my head around. It was a political move for sure but why

Idowuogbo: She no no dat wan wen she dey shout "ouch! Foxy, fevk me! Yeh! Foxy! Drill me! Haaaa! Foxy, it go tear o" abi? abegi! Typical! Always blaming d spermmm donors.

Jisox! Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

The guy na dog? Abi drilling machine, Foxy don drill her mean say na only she go carry the wahala? Lesson for her, screen the drilling machines you introduce into your well.

[quote author=Foxy_Ultimate]The same bedroom wey carry come Nairaland?

If you hate me just spell am out, no be to push me go do hat trick na [/quote]O boy holster your weapon oh!
You be messi?

DOnt worry eh Seun go give you Belle D'or 2013

faya down!

[quote author=Foxy_Ultimate]Which of this many questions you wan make I answer now?

If na court now, judge go suspend you and collect you ribbon and wig for gross misdeamour which is equal to using multiple questions to wear down the thinking faculty of a witness.[/quote]Laugh don scatter my belle

Na you know make una carry una drama go bedroom.

[quote author=Foxy_Ultimate]No be guys dey raise issue of abortion first?

Why be say na her raise am before I even get anything to say?[/quote]Oga story teller,
Na you go carry the pikin? You go marry her? Bia better start behaving like a man, if you know say you nor fit take care of pikin why you carry that ya thing chook inside without raincoat eh? Now you want make she born am, you go pay? You go marry her? Pay for her school?

Idowuogbo: Point ko scores ni! He's stingy cus he refused abortion? Wtf? Hian! Dis is a serious something o! Fair enough, na she go transport d pikin, but! U can expect him to just go by her word without a pregnancy test na! Chris, engage ur brain abeg! It's 2013...

LAugh don scatter my belle BUHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Why would the guy come here and be asking yeye kweshun if he never do test ni? What I am saying is that he has to appreciate how having a child would affect the life of the girl? If her papa drive her comot house can he foot the bill? And if she drops out of school because of it can he pay for her to finish school after her papa don drive her comot house?
Having a baby you are not ready for is a life changing experience, he is not even ready to get married to her, he don reduce her market value seriously ni, while he can jump about and have fun with the next best kim kardashiyusufa round the block eh??