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Following. For me, I think you should marry someone who doesn't give you stress, nor makes falling in love frustrating. A lady who has a lot of pride in her, is also a no go area if you want to have sanity in marriage cos you'd end up always having to beg her when there's a disagreement. That can be frustrating to any man. Once tried falling in love with someone like that and I was ready to make sacrifices to just make it work but the more I tried, the more I got frustrated. Despite her being even older than me and being a single mom, I didn't mind. Was trying to focus solely on her good side. When I could no longer cope with being on her case, I just kept quiet and stopped all forms of communication with her and I told myself then, that at my age, I should not be chasing a lady that is close to xyz yrs, for a whole year because I want date. It doesn't make sense.

blackaxe78:
It would have been appreciated if you personalized your conclusion. When you became a mouth piece for lots?

Unfortunately, it isn't even my own experience but the experiences of a whole lot of people. From social media to the real world, we have people sharing their pains, we read about them in the news, we see some on the road... When some of us complain, it's not because we are directly affected. We speak up for those who would never be able to voice out their frustrations.

Anything to unseat buhari and apc, should be the objective of all well meaning Nigerians. The past 3 years have been years of woes and pains for a lot of Nigerians. We can't allow things continue like this for another four years.

How many of them died and got buried secretly?

Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

This is a new level of low. However, I'd say something to you. Your decision not to trust any man again would only hurt you and you alone. While you are hurting yourself and bearing grudges against the male folks, they would be living their lives and be happy while you continue keeping hot coals in your chest for no reason. Truth is, both your bf and his friend, are two idiots. I can't imagine sharing intimate details of a person I'm dating, with a friend under any circumstance... Life is too short to make yourself perpetually unhappy because someone else decided to be foolish. Let go of the disappointment, get yourself a king who would cherish and respect you, and live your life to the fullest.

this doesn't sound like an apology. she was still justifying her actions. i don't like people who are slow to think but quick to speak;they are usually a whole lot of trouble.

All I can see here, is an arrogant airhead of a lady who obviously talks before thinking. You got away with it and instead of keeping quiet and enjoying your home, you decided to bring it to social media. Now, your in-laws would see it and see you for the true person you are...

all of the above.

Ayus34:
The issue is not if he can afford it Or not but why not declared it under the asset declaration oath?

So u can easily defend saraki but due to your hatred for Tinubu you careless to know his achievement before joining politics.
For your information, Tinubu resigned as the national Treasurer of Mobil oil....this is not a local company or govt business, but an international multi organization, an American owned organization, if you want to be fair and just to your self, you will know mere connection can not take you to that height if you not intellectually sound, and also a poor man cannot fund NADECO during the military era,it takes a moneybag.
This is not to clear Tinubu of any corruption allegations because I don't trust any nija politicians but your hatred for him should not blind you from recognising his achievement... You should be objective in your thinking to have a good analytical mindset,that is what it takes to contribute meaningfully to your world.
Not just throwing tantrum like a core looser,who is bittered by other people's achievement.
If you can't celebrate other people's achievement no inw will celebrate yours because it will be difficult for you to have any.

Stop spewing gibberish and learn to comprehend. I never defended Saraki in anyway and I started by saying 99.9% of politicians in Nigeria are corrupt. Tinubu and Saraki are same of the same;no difference.

Lol. As much as I believe 99.9% of politicians are corrupt, this post is dead on arrival for two reasons. One is the fact that the post lists Saraki as a "suspected owner" which is synonymous with it being a rumour. Secondly, with the rich family history of the Saraki's and his position as a former bank owner/businessman, it doesn't make sense to say he cannot afford it. Before we even go as far as Saraki, can someone help us explain how Tinubu amassed so much wealth in Lagos from 1999-2007 up till date?

A lot of people in this world need to be shot in the head and brain, for being stupid and mentally deranged. What kind of nonsense is this?

Bastard child that would have been better off aborted in the womb. How can you kill a person who gave you life and brought you into this world after suffering to carry you in her womb for 9 months?

I hope the people of the state would be wise enough to answer the governor properly with their votes, when the time comes.

foolish talk. i've always held the opinion that this sowore of a guy is clueless about governance and isn't different from those currently in power and he just confirmed it. before you start talking about paying a certain amount as minimum wage,common sense should tell you that you'd need to get to the seat of power first,understand the structure of government's current liabilities and debts,and so many other things,before you can start saying this is how you intend to spend the money. talking about minimum wage being 100,000 naira,how do you expect private businesses trying to stay afloat in this ailing economy to be able to pay 100,000 to all theeir staffs as minimum wage? or is the minimum wage basically for government employees? sowore is at best a clueless clown who doesnt even know his left from his right when it comes to governance/politics. he should go and sit down somewhere and focus on his sahara reporters and spare us all these bullshit he is spewing.

Olatara:
Nobody is hating on him, just admit you are wrong and stop throwing tantrums.

Admit that I am wrong about what exactly? Did you see me saying that davido actually has a private jet? Or you are commenting based on what that ret.ard low life said?

Lol. This is an open secret but in 2019, a lot will be revealed and this vote buying won't work everywhere.

Hmmm. I don't know why I have a feeling that this girl isn't being totally honest with her account of things.

This Adeboye pikin sef, lacks wisdom. His father ordained a woman whose husband is a Muslim, as a pastor in rccg and he's here talking about how rccg is a threat to Islam. It's obvious wisdom is far from this dude cos he's indirectly showing us the double standards of his father as a G.O of that church.

Adiwana:
Lmao.one was even telling him to stay humble and he will go far.Lol Bunch of clowns on this thread that cant even afford Bicycle giving advise to a self made multi millionaire.He cant afford a private jet and people should have seen it as a form of trolling or self promotion from the first time he made mention of it and not be happy that he cant afford it.Same peoples life are shiit

I tell you. You need to see how that other idiot was quoting me in his posts like he was going to be given a plate of fried rice for being sure that davido couldn't afford a private jet. Funny thing is that I never stated in my initial post that the dude could afford it. I just advised him that he couldn't say with all certainty that it's impossible cos he doesn't have access to the guys financial information. Finish! He starts getting excited like a kid, spamming my mentions with nonsense.

It's funny how a nuisance on the thread is getting all excited about being right that davido couldn't afford a private jet, like his life depends on it. Hatred and envy will destroy a lot of people. Most of the people cursing him out and shouting about him being bursted, don't even have an assured future. Tomorrow now, you will see them dropping account nos up and down on threads for charity, begging for 2000 naira to eat. People with misplaced priorities.

seborrhic:
Where is that imp @chronique?
I told u to go buy common sense at the abbatoir for free when you argued like an illiterate that Davido could afford a jet.
Nairaland being filled everyday with semi illiterates who have refused to make you of their commonsense.

One thing is certain about you and that is the fact that you're an idiot and you lack brains. If only your parents had used original condoms, they would have spared us the harrowing experience of having a nuisance like you on Nairaland. I simply told you that you do not have access to his finances and cannot "authoritatively" claim that he cannot afford a jet. It's not my business to defend or argue that davido can afford a jet or not... If not that you are a pathetic low life with no future to look up to, you wouldn't be wasting your time and life arguing over who can afford a jet and who can't. People are busy chasing their dreams and making use of their time properly, you are here swearing and fighting about who can afford what or not like your life depends on it. How old exactly are you? You should be ashamed of yourself. Now that you're very sure that davido cannot afford a private jet, how has it helped your life? Have you grown richer, taller or fatter? Has it added money to your bank account? You this swine, get the fvck off my mentions and go focus on your pathetic miserable life. While at it, keep updating us and helping us to analyse the logistics of those who can afford what and those who can't. Scallywag!!!

If that guy isn't sacked, parents should protest by making arrangements to pull their kids out of that school. This is totally unacceptable.

Like buhari, like ministers, like associates.

Movement

As if it's today that the bill was sent to the executive.

Pasca07:
you even have time for all this low life

The things I see here, baffles me. Hatred and envy is very common amongst most poor people. Yesterday, I was at a mechanic workshop and if you see how this danfo driver was ranting and cursing to a private car owner, telling him he is lucky cos he would have brushed the guy's car and the highest thing is that he would help the man pack body filler and paint on it and nothing would happen. Nobody can tell him to go and buy a new car for the man... He starts talking about how some people like their car so much and some even like it more than their kids and was saying most of them are buying the cars with loan.... I was marveled at the amount of envy coming from this guy. That's why I usually avoid them on the road cos they are just bitter about their pathetic lives. The other day, someone was swearing and claiming davido couldn't afford the jet. Another was swearing and claiming he didn't buy Porsche for chioma;why can't people just be happy for others when they are successful?

seborrhic:
You probably the type that envied Evans the kidnapper.
I don't have the same mindset as you do,so till lizard grows teeth,you won't have the sense to understand what I mean by the logistics not matching.
Buy sense,the common one,and use it.

Your type are always on Nairaland and social media making so much noise but in real life, are just empty vessels who never amount to anything meaningful in life. You sit down somewhere and start analyzing how someone cannot afford a thing, without having access to any financial information about the person in question but you are almost very certain he can't afford it. If that isn't acute foolishness and chronic stupidity, I don't know what it is. I'm done exchanging words with cyber miscreants and nuisances.

Pasca07:
keep your fucking dirty poor mouth shut,if u see old school plane can you recognize it? You even talk about not showing the interior it shows you are too poor to watch the video because of data...someone is even comparing him with psquare and don jazzy? David is from Rich family while 2face and co are hustlers

Leave them alone. That's what hatred and envy does to people.

seborrhic:
Still can't and won't believe davido owns a jet.
The logistics just don't match.

Hatred and envy is bad. Don't let it consume you.

coolh3ad:
She is hiding something my brother. It's either she is dating someone else or she is into "coded" runs.

Area!!! I sight you.

Since he has refused to sign it despite the fact that the election sequence has been taken out of the bill, there's no need for the national assembly to approve any stupid 230bn for election to purchase card readers and equipments.

Hmm. The good and bad side of social media. People have found love on facebook and people have lost lives via facebook. Whatever you choose to do, just be extremely careful.