₦airaland Forum

Chillisauce:
This is the truth babes.
Just being in the bus alone to your place of work could get you killed like 50% chance.

Arm robbers dash out every angle to steal, molest and kill people.

Yer, These jobless youth can't do anything but sit in their cave to talk about feminism.

The sun has melted lots of brains I tell you.

The gangs that sniffs smelly Pússies will soon land

Babymama1:
Women in Nigeria have no voices in justice as at yet
Things are changing gradually but it will take time to get there
We read cases where an abused woman hoes to a police station to make a report and is told to go home and reconcile with her husband
Men and mothers in law still threaten wives with taking away the children if they leave
Didn't we read it here on nairaland where a woman was told by her MIL that she didn't come into her son's house with kids and will leave without any kids.
Until that changes,women will always get the shorter end of the stick

nowwhat:
Marriage material!!!
If I'm not I guess no one is!!:-)
No I don't like to keep tabs on everything done or not done or paid for but when year after year goes by and I feel I am the only one giving emotionally, mentally, financially, spiritually to the marriage, I don't need to keep track. Even my body knows it, and the exhaustion I feel does not lie.
So then what, I guess I just say, I'm done giving and giving and giving for now?
U said I'm not marriage material?.... Marriage should not be a selfish thing right? But where's the balance? I've given every last ounce of strength and will continue to do so (minus the money of course:-)
Would someone who is not marriage material hang on for years, fighting with tooth and nail to save it? Or would they run at the first sign of trouble and say marriage is too hard??

Jahblessme:
People usually under estimate the power and satisfaction revenge brings.
Some people are naturally vengeful,tit for tat and paying back is the only way to self soothe.
Why do people spit in food, watch the other person eat it and feel joy?
How come people poison others and watch them get sick slowly while playing the attentive partner?
Revenge isn't for the weak minded or guilt ridden souls.
I find it funny when people talk like revenge cannot provide relief.
The kicker is that you think you are smart and getting away with it while I'm also enjoying myself. Hehehehee

You guys need to understand that sex isn't that big a deal for some. Its when 2/ more bodies enjoy each other.All this attaching of excess sentiment to it isn't for everyone.It is very easy to get attracted to another human being, throw in the mix of unhappily married woman and a man with a listening ear and broad shoulders to lean on and a full blown affair is born.Abi all the women cheating are aliens??

For me,do whatever lets you sleep at night.If it's getting your own back,so be it. I won't discourage o jare.If it's prayer, enjoy.If you want to live for your kids na you sabi.

I know exactly where I belong,no apologies.

Chanchit:
@cococandy, @aflyingbird and @sambarry when I say there is no law in Russia you guys were calling for my head, come and see this.

Babymama1:
And madampinkoko deactivates
Hmm

Babymama1:
We kwa
Biko tell me word
O banye go na siki one

njokusboy:
I never doubted you in any way, matter of fact, am trying hard to disagree with you...
My argument was that you would need to dispute the authenticity of God as proposed by the white men because you cannot accept that there is God because they said so and dispute that God is a He because they said so.... dats is mmy point....
Since you have admitted you doubt their story, albeit, indirectly, we are on the same page

BABE3:
as I was typing that, I knew someone from that "wives keep your mouth shut" thread will call me out.

You know what they say about expections to rules ? Yeah, you garrit.

BABE3:
He doesn't have to find out if she's not sloppy. I'm not asking her to have an affair o. This is a one-night-stand type of thing. Just sèx, no emotions involved. She wouldn't do it with a gateman or brother-in-law. That'll be very dumb


It has to be someone she hardly even knows. Someone out of state, never to be seen again. No phone numbers. No strings attached.
She has to be strong too. Not that she'll now go back home and confess her sins.

Again, if she's done with the marriage, there's no need getting even.

BABE3:
if it's a regular relationship with no kids involved, I'd advice anyone with a cheating partner to leave the relationship.

But if it's a marriage she's still interested in, with kids involved, and he's very remorseful but she still finds it hard to forgive, I'd advise her to cheat back. The idea of "getting even" eases the pain of betrayal, which is better for everyone in the long one.

The problem is, he must never find out she cheated. Ever! Coz if he does, the focus will shift from him to her.

all4naija:
African women love abusive African men a lot. I can vouch for those defending them on this thread.

coogar:
don't you just worry about me......
i am in the safest hands you can ever think of. with the wealth of experience i happen to possess, i can tell the chaff from the wheat.....all i need is to hear her speak for 2-5 minutes.

you have to admit some of us are blessed.

coogar:
if arowolo was making such excuses for abusers, no one would have married him. he was a staunch christian, a virgin male & a closet feminist.



if i were you, i would be wary of the "holier than thou" men.....with the ones who make excuses, you already know what to expect. with the she-males, may heaven help your sister or friend.

coogar:
goodluck to that babe.....

the she-male has similar attributes with akolade arowolo. hopefully, you would get arrested as an accessory to murder when your first choice maims the chic you introduced.



fat dude - ice cube
slim dude - chris tucker

babygirlfl:
Men cheat because they get away with it.

Men cheat because the women do nothing about it. They just grin and bear.

Men cheat because they know our women are too scared to do anything about it.

Men cheat because our women do not have standards for a man. The only standard is if they can provide.

Men cheat because society does not frown at it.

The famous think about the children is a big scam. I wonder why the man does not think about the children. Why should he when he knows you will think about them. If 50% of women cheated on divorced their husband, any man that is about to cheat will think about the fact that there is a 50% chance of throwing their marriage away. They might think twice before cheating unlike now that it less that 1% chance of loosing their marriage to cheating. Women until you take the bull by the horn to say we don't care what society thinks and walk away from cheating husbands especially serial cheats, cheating will sure continue to rise and women will keep enduring rather than enjoying their marriage.

taryour:
Thanks sis. NO I dint make it, my boss did. Trust you doing great and all yours. *winks*

taryour:
Very many many many congrats to you sweerie. God bless your new born and bless your home too. Welcome home honey,we all love you.

Akposy:
Madam cococandy.... I c u.... Good evening.

Herzumpther.. Whr ave u bin? Show urself oooo....i miss ur dad meals.

All4naija..... The food critic.... How r u? Are u on strike?

Efemenaxy...Migwo..... Its bin long u post food pics ooo

Kimoni... How baby?

Babyosisi.. How r u? Hope ur haters didnt get at u? Take care...it is well

Everyone....good evening.....its bin long i cook oooo.....cash no too dey hand....maybe i should post my garri pics... Night!

omote1:
lol @ touchmeder thanks.
This is my palm oil rice with ugwu, diced pomo and smoked fish..