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dradoyi:
We had similar discussion sometimes last month. After living with your wife for a long time.. she would be like a sister to you. As such any man that will say he has never cheated on his wife... can as well sleep wit his sister. As long as u cheat safely..ie protected n you still respect your wife for her not to know.

Alubosa:
Cococandy kindly help get the recipe from DH. 'Wouldn't mind making this for wifey this weekend. 'been thinking of what to do with those gizzards in the freezer. 'Was thinking of BBQ tho.

From the pix u posted I can see green peas, carrot, sweet corn and something close to habanero pepper.

njokusboy:


what wont i read here....

for the records, for those women that want to cheat to get back at their husbands, the kind of men you are most likely to get are gigolos who prolly have numerous sexual partners and does not give a hoot about ur well being save for the money hes getting, i find the fact that a number of women are willing to suffer the indignity of having their pvssy ravaged by a "business boy" who has prolly had 4 ladies d same day and would move on to the next one immediately since he owes you nothing...
lets see whether cheating on ur husband would iron your self esteem.
least, i forget, i hope ur new HIV status would make you feel better too.....

smellos

thorpido:
The people saying his medals should be revoked are just resenting him.He won those medals fair and square and as long as there was no evidence of cheating or doping,he keeps them.The records can't even be changed because he had a sex change.
He is not just selfish,he's crazy too.Is he the oldest man to have a sex change?

5minsmadness:
Jeeeez!

You called me to this thread.

I haven't even digested it yet,still reading through the link.

Also like I said previously, the title is misleading. The previous punishment for having carnal knowledge of an underage girl was 5yrs imprisonment. Just 5years! This is actually an improvement, an attempt to make the punishment more severe. It should be applauded. The only problem is I don't know why it wasn't extended to include ages 12 to 16. The topic should read:

Senate approves stricter punishment for carnal knowledge of girls below 12.

...and not the eye catching balderdash they wrote up there.

Just because I don't blindly worship the American way of life doesn't mean I don't see the wrongs of Nigeria too. Haba!

5minsmadness:
I don't get u.
You think I agree with this bill because nigeria did it?

5minsmadness:
Of COURSE it is!
Shuo!
So if America comes up with this type of law and backs it up with 100good reasons, you will agree?!?

5minsmadness:
Having ranted the above ^^^^^^my previous post :




It is AMAZING the high level of illiteracy among the average Nigerian youth sha. This article does not make 11yrs the legal age to have sex. Just that any age below 12 is liable to be punishable by life imprisonment. Any age above 12 is still a crime, just not punishable by life imprisonment.


The title is misleading.

5minsmadness:
And I will continue lamenting and there is nothing you can do about it.

Whether we like it or not America has a big role to play in the way our youth live their lives over here. Everyone and their mother is trying to be westernized. It shows in the way they dress, the way they talk, the way they take selfies (very annoying... We've been taking selfies for years before it became a fad) and ultimately the way they think. The truth is most youth support homosexuality simply because "america" supports it. Same with atheism, same with feminism, etc. "America" is more often than not used as a standard. Even when chimamanda writes total and absolute rubbish she is immediately hailed by our youth cos she has been 'recognized' by America. Some bimbo was saying the other day that she is the first Nigerian feminist! The day Americans change their stance in these issues you'll see the massive change of opinion in our youth as well.

So Bleep it and yeah I'll keep ranting on the ills of that misguided and misguiding country whenever I spot them for as long as I am able. I'm not going to shut my mouth and ignore them cos their government Is apparently better than mine. I know they have an influence on us and I intend to make sure in my little way that their influence doesn't drive us into the sea and oblivion faster than we are already going!

Viva LA Voce!!!!

omote1:
@cococandy oya come and take na lol. @ veave dont cry hun , am making yours specially.
so today was my no cooking day, this was dinner.

5minsmadness:
Were you born in america?
Instead of you to bemoan the fate of your fellow underpriviledged and opressed womenfolk you are here gloating. See ya life!

Make I go read the op jo!

Darkrebel666:
I have never come across a more r£tatded question than this.

Jamean:
I consider some things too trivial for an issue to be made out of it. Infact, you as the husband/father should ensure your children are provided with food and are satisfied before you think of your prospective pot-belly. Now, that's what real care givers do.

naijababe:
There must be something with number 65, na for dia i tanda too, e tire me o I just need to shift 5 and I will be happy

EfemenaXY:
I've been yo-yoing between 70kg and 72 kg jor. Being forced to tone down on the high intensive cardiovascular exercises isn't helping my case either.
Arrrgghhh! I just wanna RUN queen. Everyother exercise sort of pales when compared to running. Boring almost. This is definitely a case of the body
is willing, but the body is "weak".
No running. No dance workout. No JJ's. Mtcheew. Maybe I should cheat and go on a crash diet sef...lol!

Shollypopzz:
No one with influence has said such crap. No one is listening to those fools asking for his medals to be revoked, no one!

Babymama1:
By the way from the interviews i have seen on CNN,transgender is not about gay or lesbianism
It is not about sexuality
It is an identity they say
Transgendered people can be gay,straight of bi or even asexual kpa kpa
That is what they want you to know
This thing is not as straightforward as you think
We are not only about to redefine marriage ,we are redefining what it means to be a homo sapien

Shollypopzz:
Babez, how far?

First of all, I don't understand what the fuss is about. Bruce Jenner is just another transgender. In fact, I think his choice to change is very selfish. If you are going to change, change before you have kids. Change before you deceive women into thinking you are who you are.

Look at his kids. Imagine how this decision affects them; Their father is now their mother??

I bet you that if this was an African American family, Bruce and the entire Katrashian family will not receive the praises they receive in the media today. They would be called ghetto and all sorts of names.

Kim got famaous from a porn tape. She got pregnant for a rapper while legally married to another man. Khloe married a coke addict and . Kylie is a high school drop-out. She is 17 and dating a grown man aged 25; she is a social media slut who posts naked pics like her older sister for fame. Kourtney has two kids out of wedlock. Rob is an overweight bastard who is sexually attracted to his sister- Kim.

Bruce/Caitlyn is NOT a hero, he is not the first transgender and he would not be the last. Nothing he has done is courageous, he is selfish. After three wives and five kids, you realize you do not feel like a man? Fvck him to the power of infinity! He is a damaged man who failed his kids.

bushdoc9919:
READ THE ARTICLE.....

The law about underage molestation HAS NOT CHANGED...IT IS STILL ILLEGAL TO MOLEST AN UNDER 18 YEAR OLD.

What the law says is that if the underaged child is below 11 years old....the punishment becomes tougher!

And it was Sen Anyanwu of Imo who formulated the law....

Reread the article...it is not that hard!

bukatyne:
We don tey for this game

Babymama1:
I had not made that connection till now
I always would think impossible MILs who won't back off are just nasty women or women who love their sons so much and are only watching out for his welfare and inadvertently going about it the wrong way,this is the first time I am making the connection that many of these women were probably neglected by their own husbands and stayed for their children,built their lives around their sons and now cannot stand seeing another woman being treated the way she would have liked to be treated.
This is an epiphany

mizcyn:
We women have failed our sons how do we expect men to treat us well, imagine a son angry with the father for not treating the mother right and the mother says it's the wife that makes the home. He then gets married beats and cheats on his wife and when she cries out he says are you better than my mother, she kept her home despite everything, what are you going through that's new, learn to keep your home
. who is to blame mother or son. or is it the mil that dil will complain to about her travails in the marriage and the mil will side her son ,and tell her to bear. We women need to work on ourselves, it starts and ends with us. I know a lady who advised her fellow lady to stay and pray for her husband who beat her up and gave her a gaping wound because she confronted his mistress, the matter for hand e plenty for ground

Zi:
Babymama, lemme talk to you.

I read that thread in awe and fear. Because more or less I was putting myself in the ladies shoes as I read along.

Pls permit me to introduce myself properly, the reason is as you will see below. I am a female, aged 26 plus. I was a top shot as an undergraduate student in Nigeria currently doing my Masters in Power Engineering abroad, I have more that average looks (so you won't say its lack of opportunity) and I have never had sex (in any of its forms) all because I believe in the sanctity of marriage.

A long time ago, I made up my mind sex has to wait for marriage, but if paraventure I find out my husband is cheating on me, that is the day he declared that marriage an open marriage. Reading that thread, I am consolidating my plan. All I will do is lay in wait and get concrete evidences with dates attached to the clips so he can't deny he didn't open that door. We will both be passing through it freely.

Yes, I'm not holding back virginity to impress him or anybody for that matter, I simply want to obey God. But if he, (my husband), has to respect that decision. If he decides to cheat, hehehe, I will show him that what is good for the geese is also good for the gander. Period!

See, I'm not ready to leave my marriage for anyone, kpatakpata he will be the one to run not me. I'm not ready for any drama or tears or sucidev episodes etc. We will simply drift drift into open marriage and I will really make up for all my long wait.

I have started preparing myself for whatever dieases we both have to share and die in. You can't cheat on me and still put me in emotional trauma, mbanu!

All in all, I pray God to give me a man that values marriage and is ready to keep his vows till death do us path. He will be the happiest man on earth because I'm gonna live for him.

Sorry if my post offends you, just venting.

Floodgater:
It couldnt have been captured better than this.
In that "politician ashawo cheating thread and similar threads" they remained in their holes but if the OP opens a thread and say divorce cheating husbands, they will creep out of their holes to say she is the worse adviser, including the ugly one that always end with "radio" looking for young girls he thinks he can flex muscle with because he is flexing muscle with the over 20years younger naive girl he married.
Now Op says stay and cheat back, they are asking what happened to divorced.
Surely women are stepping up only that women are also the ones slowing the pace. I wont be surprised if the statement "cheating is in the DNA of a man" was first said by a Nigerian woman.

Stillfire:
Lol! May God deliver us from all these two-faced Idibias. God would rather you are hot or cold, not two faced.
Even the bible allows for divorce from a cheating partner.
I advice every christian woman to read her bible for the love of God.
If they bring one, you bring two verses that shatters their argument.
Only a weak female would still be threatened by all these scare tactics in the 21st century.