Family › Re: See The GIANT Python,my Roomie Killed by cococandy(f): 11:31pm On May 31, 2015 |
tzoracle: It was actually without a knife dear..  hmm. Ok |
Family › Re: Wedding Promo From Boash Cakes And Events... by cococandy(f): 11:27pm On May 31, 2015 |
Acidosis: Help me caracta ngwanu say yes to the young man. make we attend wedding. |
Family › Re: Wedding Promo From Boash Cakes And Events... by cococandy(f): 11:09pm On May 31, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Wedding Promo From Boash Cakes And Events... by cococandy(f): 11:04pm On May 31, 2015 |
Caracta: Lol. I don talk my own na. Wetin remain? Don't mind acidosis. It's strictly business.  So no wedding |
Family › Re: See The GIANT Python,my Roomie Killed by cococandy(f): 11:02pm On May 31, 2015*. Modified: 11:44pm On May 31, 2015 |
OMG that's a really big snake.  And he killed alone without a knife. Your roommate is brave. |
Family › Re: Every Woman Should Read These by cococandy(f): 11:01pm On May 31, 2015 |
blublahd:
i certainly would accord her, her respect based on the crown of her ancestors but would certainly not kiss the ground nor whatever about her, irrespective of gender. Have some self-esteem dear, titles dont make persona. I would have kissed Mother theresa tho
you did not answer my biitch question why are you typing sideways  You're hurting my eyes |
Family › Re: Wedding Promo From Boash Cakes And Events... by cococandy(f): 11:00pm On May 31, 2015 |
Acidosis: JK
Just kidding 
I honestly want to meet you. I've lost your contacts, and I know you won't acknowledge any pm I send to you, that's why I'm making this open  this thread is hot.  Ngwa caracta talk your own. |
Family › Re: Wedding Promo From Boash Cakes And Events... by cococandy(f): 10:59pm On May 31, 2015 |
jaybee3: Easy pizzieeee
I will pick you up in my range Fly you out to the Necker in a private Jet Allow you experience peace and tranquility on the yatch Present you with a pinky and bentley as your YES gift Looks over my shoulder for mr cococandyCan you direct that proposal this way pls? Let me grab it while she's still doing shakara. |
Family › Re: Hilarious Pics Of A Wedding Ceremony by cococandy(f): 8:50pm On May 31, 2015 |
Is that a movie? |
Family › Re: Every Woman Should Read These by cococandy(f): 8:47pm On May 31, 2015*. Modified: 12:35am On Jun 01, 2015 |
bukatyne: Can you imagine a Muslim man quoting submission up and down from the Bible his own is even good. He could just say he's trying to remind a Christian sister what she believes in. What about our fellow Christian hypocrites? Someone that just got off of a lady that's not his wife or someone that just told one humongous lie won't even blink at quoting the bible for you. Conveniently forgetting what the bible says about fornication and how the devil is the father of all liars. |
Family › Re: Every Woman Should Read These by cococandy(f): 8:32pm On May 31, 2015 |
bukatyne: It said slaves should respect their masters and those who do not believe in Jesus will burn in hell.
You are a Muslim right?
Concern yourself with the parts that address you. lol.  He's forgotten that according to the bible, he's doomed to hell for all of eternity. I'm sure he doesn't believe that's his destiny. But when it comes to preaching oppression, he will rush to quote the bible. Mtchew. |
Family › Re: My 4 Yr Old's Pencil Work by cococandy(f): 5:20pm On May 31, 2015 |
Who spelled that 'dunkey' in his first question paper. That teacher needs to be flogged. Your son got the basic idea down. He will do well  |
Family › Re: Being A Strong Woman Isnt Remarkable, It's Normal - Adichie by cococandy(f): 5:17pm On May 31, 2015 |
FrancisTony: Male and Female weren't created to live together in the minds of chauvinist but I can cohabilitate peacefully with them.
I, and my future wife will live till death do us. My sons will tow my path and no man can subdue my daughter.
C'est fini!   |
Family › Re: Being A Strong Woman Isnt Remarkable, It's Normal - Adichie by cococandy(f): 5:14pm On May 31, 2015 |
bukatyne: Did you see the hilarious and pathetic thread one guy opened yesterday to discuss divorce? Are those stories from America?
And who deceived Nigerians they have better marriages or lower rates of divorce when it is everyday new story at that igando and ejigbo court houses. The problem with Nigerians is that we love to solve other people's problems before ours. |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 4:14pm On May 31, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I get.. his insight was ok i still dont know what the point of the thread was anyway
telling us that males contribute to infertility is not world changing Maaybe the magnitude of male contribution at which point research methodology and sampling techniques come in. the point of the thread is/are 1) ladies need to lady up and demand fertility tests from their prospective husbands just as they demand from them. 2) TTC couples need to understand that the man is as much a culprit as the wife so the pressure needs to be reduced on the wife. 3)general education of the public. Just that many of them may not read it or be on NL. But this information needs to be out there like polio vaccination. The ignorance is high. We always hear about barren women but hung like that for the impotent men. Even when the wife is fertile and the man is sterile, she's termed a barren woman. The local person out there needs to know that anyone could be responsible for childlessness in a marriage Should I continue? |
Family › Re: Every Woman Should Read These by cococandy(f): 4:06pm On May 31, 2015 |
Ok we have heard |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 4:03pm On May 31, 2015 |
pickabeau1: your comment on age of biden being the reason hilary is better.. apology accepted
no issues... already u hassle me again... is there anything wrong in asking for translation
ok o... it means "shebi una don see why I like xynerise" I Hope you understand pidgin sha. Because I no fit speak English pass that one again. |
Christianity Etc › Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by cococandy(f): 3:59pm On May 31, 2015 |
So out of every 100 men, only one will be faithful. And you're that one?  Toks2008: before now i would have sworn that i was discussing with an intellectually sound lady but im just been proved wrong.
out of billions of men in the world if out of 1 billion 1% will be 100million men that do not cheat. I hope this simple arithmetic will explain the basis for my statistical illustration so save your baseless sarcastic remark of why my marriage was before or watever you mean. |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 3:58pm On May 31, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Xynerise or anyone else
Pls can u translate the Igbo stuff on.the thread Amebo. What do you want to know. How did I even malign you? Ok I'm sorry |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 3:15pm On May 31, 2015 |
Ok so what do you have to say about these dangerous sperm destroying habits of our young men these days. What's your advice for them pickabeau1: nope..i meant his chances are hampered by his age..u need to stop reading meanings into peoples posts..
ask
however you have no say in whether joe or hilary come forth
this will be settled at the DNC n she is the front runner |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 3:13pm On May 31, 2015 |
babyosisi: Cococandy please don't join in derailing this thread Thanks i won't. Not this delicious thread. |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 3:08pm On May 31, 2015 |
pickabeau1: u mean joe biden?
hes an old man na lmao. So Hilary will only beat him because he's old? Nice way of trying to undermine her evident victory. Pls........ |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 3:05pm On May 31, 2015 |
pickabeau1: i think she has a solid chance
the GOP have not even identified a candidate the economy is doing better so the democrats are perceived as better economy managers at the moment also there is a perception that since a black man has gotten there, maybe its a woman's turn take the politics to politics section  Anyway Hilary is sure of two votes from me and my DH. That's two votes more than Joe is gonna get. |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 3:01pm On May 31, 2015 |
babyosisi: That is another thread altogether This tells you that most things we heard growing up were pure lies fabricated by men and forced on society Something I've known even since when I was a child. I used to be the very inquisitive child growing up and something's didn't just make sense when I heard them. I'd wonder why then but no satisfactory answers. But now I know why. |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 2:59pm On May 31, 2015 |
Your typical nairaland dude will deactivate first be accepting any fact that's not in his favor. Leave the mathematicians When I need help for calculus exams now, I won't find any of them  The habits that some men engage in which could prevent them from having kids or having healthy kids are so many that even without a survey one can rightfully gauge the proportion of men in a given area who are at risk. Some don't even know that they need to give up drinking alcohol before trying to conceive to avoid producing weak sperm cells that may not fertilize the egg or if it does could put the child at some risk. Drinking and smoking and partying around every weekend and sometimes during the week is kind of like a habit for many guys. Sleeping around is not condemned amongst them. Yet they will be the first to start looking at the woman's face when they get married and can't have kids even though some of them (the guys) spent their youth engaging in activities that's harmful to their reproductive health. http://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/oct/03/bmj-open-sperm-quality-alcohol-five-units-study-semenDrinking just five units of alcohol every week could reduce the quality of a man’s sperm, new research suggests. And the more alcohol consumed, the weaker the quality of the sperm, the study found. Men of a reproductive age should be advised to steer clear of habitual drinking, the authors said Jahblessme: Sooo funny that all this mathematics and scrutiny of publishing and sample size number wasn't more debated when the thread was about Nigerian women being the greatest cheaters in the world or the one about 40% of dads not being the fathers of first borns.
Many don't know that placing a laptop on their laps exposes the balls to excess heat and can reduce sperm count over time.
Excess alcohol,cigarettes all can be culprits. Even a guy with undescended testicle will join and blame wife. Plenty refuse to go and get checked and the lady ends up running helter skelter till she falls into the hands of a sharp shooter pastor or those PH baby farmers.
TTC is very dicey and can even push a person to insanity if care is not taken.. Endless tests,depression, se x when u no get energy,ovulation spotting,ivf..its a very difficult cycle.
Oya birth only girls naaa,woman carry blame immediately.Upon all the education of who donates y chromosome,the woman is still blamed.
We have a long way to go shaa but we are getting there. It starts with the ladies being able to speak up.We have a problem,WE are going for tests.Not woman we have a problem,you will go.for tests,15 girls did abortion for me in uni,it can't be my fault. 
In other news,Linda ikeji blog carrying gist about one OSI Umenyiora who just married ex miss world 2011 a few days ago.Apparently had a gf who's been with him for ages exposed the texts he sent her last week. The man was saying they should continue but have to be more careful,he loves her,she has power over him and new wife..plenty plenty things.. Thank God women are no longer hiding these men.Leila's God is alive,make she do fast go for tests. Wonder what footing the marriage will continue on.Lagoon tinz.
Of course the blogger is blaming the 'mistress' conveniently forgetting who is engaged,who is making the vows and that the chick knew him from teetee.
The marriage will never ever be the same..sorry Leila
Na this kain guy de ask 'abortion' and se xual history question pass 
Ladies shine ya eyes. |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 2:46pm On May 31, 2015 |
 Okwa unu ahula ihe mere m jiri fu xynerise na-anya.  xynerise: This shiit is beginning to sound dumb. A man's world when some women are the bread winner of the family? A man's world when some women beat up their husbands like a child? A man's world when some men don't know how to run a home and quit alcoholism? My friend, no one owns the world.
I do educate my friends who have the stereotypes that the women determine the sex of a child, the ability to be pregnant and all that silly craps. We need to reduce the burden, both emotional and physical burden we put on these women and face reality.
Don't go out smoking and making alcohol your best buddy and ignore the effect in future. Your village people who always blame the woman for everything should be flogged and show them 2015 calendar because they still look at 1900 calendar. |
Christianity Etc › Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by cococandy(f): 2:36pm On May 31, 2015 |
No wonder your marriage was "before" You claim you will and have never cheated. Yet you believe. And I've always said that 99% of men will cheat in marriage. You're the holy 1% abi? this early Sunday morning una just dey yarn rubbish anyhow.  Toks2008: [b]Free cocoa get this straight. I have been married before and i know exactly what the institution feels like.
Please advice any lady or guy you know to find out very well about the past marriage of a divorcee who wants to start an affair with them because once a divorcee most times is always a divorce especially if a man divorcees his wife for any other reason asides sexual infidelity or if the lady divorcees the man asides UNREPENTANT ARBITRARY WIFE BATTERING and not because of irreconcilable differences or sexual infidelity.
Only immature ladies divorce their hubby because of sexual infidelity except they will never get married a gain or even be with any other man because 98% of men will cheat on their wives.
As for the career part please note that some women have left their marriage because of this. My ex practically told me to give her a break because she wants to pursue a career and i told her point blank that except she is planning to climb the career ladder by been slutty,i see no reason why any sane lady should leave her marriage to build a career no matter what especially when the man is not topping her from doing so.
When it comes to age, we all say age is nothing but a number but please lets be realistic, its not so easy to be in a relationship or marriage with a woman older than you because a man should be the head in the real sense and any form of alteration may only be coped with but will not naturalkly get balanced but nevertheless i dont see the age thing as a factor but the first two explained above holds water.[/b] |
Christianity Etc › Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by cococandy(f): 2:28pm On May 31, 2015 |
RedBenson: Op, nice one there.
@ No. 4: The Feminist, we seem to have so much of this type of ladies these days especially by the traits they show on this forum. Sophyrocks, freecocoa, cococandy, khia come to mind and these are women either grudgingly married or still looking for a man to marry. TheSonOfMark, come check out how your feminist sisters will come defend theirselves here. because you wanted to add me to your list and you do don't know how to bold facedly say we are still looking for a man to marry, you had to add grudgingly married  Nairaland. Ok they tied me to a tree and married me off against my wish. I hope that settles it for you. |
Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 6:09am On May 31, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Bombshell As Fertility Study In Nigeria Shows Male Infertility Rates Higher by cococandy(f): 5:41am On May 31, 2015 |
kilode100: We are solidly behind you.
Every corner in lagos sells herbs and drugs for man power... They drink different concoctions just for man power and it has been on for ages... Ghanaians have even capitalised on their infertility, even Guinness is not left out... Check out their latest entrant Orijin... They will never check themselves...
My friend was married to a guy who had fertility issues, he never told her, her in-laws were breathing down her neck every now and then, well they eventually sent her packing and she remarried immediately and took in o.. Her former hubby is still there battling his problems o...
95% of infertility problem always lies with the men. you don change the statistics  |
Health › Re: 10 Reasons For Male Infertility In Nigeria by cococandy(f): 4:02am On May 31, 2015 |
Smokers. Men who are highly addicted to tobacco or nicotine are prone to producing defective sperm cells which could lead to lack of conception in their female mates or high rate of miscarriage When the females take in. http://www.buffalo.edu/news/releases/2003/01/6042.htmlBUFFALO, N.Y. -- Fertility researchers at the University at Buffalo have shown that nicotine and cotinine, a substance produced by nicotine's breakdown, cause sperm to change in ways that could reduce fertility potential. - Some excerpt from few studies. http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/news/20100910/smokers-sperm-less-fertilePrevious studies show that men who smoke are less fertile than men who don't smoke. Now a research team led by Mohamad Eid Hammadeh, PhD, professor of obstetrics and gynecology a the University of the Saarland, Homburg/Saar, Germany, have learned why.
Human sperm cells carry two tiny, highly charged proteins called protamine 1 and protamine 2. Nature keeps them in a perfectly balanced one-to-one relationship. But in smokers, Hammadeh and colleagues find, sperm cells carry too little protamine 2. This imbalance makes them highly vulnerable to DNA damage.
"The DNA alphabet of these sperm has one or two letters missing. And this cannot be repaired," Hammadeh tells WebMD. "When we inject these damaged sperm into an egg cell, the sperm is not capable of fertilizing the cell. And even if it does, the [miscarriage] rate is very high." http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3719292/had a fertility rate of 80% while the recovery group for 1.0 mg/kg B.W. had a fertility rate of 60% (Table 3). Female rats cohabited with male rats from the high-dose group did not conceive throughout the study period. However, these effects were reversible after nicotine was withdrawn from the rats. There are many other studies out there which prove it. So gentlemen if you and your wife are trying to conceive or if you hope to marry and have a child someday, you might want to consider withdrawing from smoking and your body time (it could take a few years depending on how addicted to smoking you are) to heal and stop producing damaged sperm cells which can't fertilize an egg or can't survive the womb even after fertilization. |
Family › Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by cococandy(f): 3:36am On May 31, 2015 |
simiolu1: Been sleepin since 8pm. Just woke up some mins ago ok. Good morning then |