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Crackhaus.
Oya come and read.
Is he still a women's pastor?

They complain because in many such cases,the men don't take up the other responsibility of home keeping. Finance isn't all that's needed in a home. Getting it is 50percent of the work in the marriage.
When it's all left to the woman,the man should shift focus towards doing the wife's duty in the home.

But most won't.so in essence it's like leaving 100percent of the work to the woman.
And no one likes to be alone in a marriage.

BTW men complain too when all the financing is left to them. Some Even go as far as abusing their wives because they feel they are dependent and can't survive without them.
That's why all women are adviced to be independent to avoid abuse or minimize the effects of abuse. If men weren't complaining and bashing their wives because of dependence,that message won't be making the rounds to the ear of every growing 21st century female.

So OP do your research well. Men complain A LOT too. If all the spending is left to them. FACT!

No one should leave all financial responsibility to the other unless they have an arrangement and agreement that is fair to both of them where one makes all the money and the other faces all the other aspects of the marriage.

'So what' you ask? Well you're the one who has to live with the hate.
Heavy burden for you bro.
Like I said you have comprehension issues.
you don't know what digression means if you think leaving the molest case to focus on gay bashing isn't deviating from the thread.

Okoro akpa aki

lawanson44: you are the one who is the mumu cos you left the content of the topic and digressed! And if i hate feminists, so what? Anu ofia!!

Blame the guys.
They won't let fair ladies rest.
If you're very dark there's no way you won't have a twinge of self consciousness at all the hullabaloo about fair girls.
Sad thing is we prefer them dark and select them above white guys.
But they betray us and run after white/fairer girls as if they are goddesses.

Are Men are so feeble minded that they can't decide whether or not to be faithful but have to rely on karma to push them into the arms of a prostitute because wifey must have done something in the past?.

what about those who cheat on the wives they married as virgins? Whose karma are the ladies suffering from?

And the women who cheat on their husbands,can we say it serves the husbands right because they must have done that in their past before marriage?

Interesting to know that we don't have to be responsible for our actions now
Let karma take the fall afterall the victim must have done something in the past to justify our mistreating them

Look for a job OP

OP walk.
Fast too

Beeevan babe!!!
You wan kill person with food?
Omo that na one year's store of soups and stews all cooked at once o.
Hehehe.
Your freezer will be groaning from the weight.

Good work. Looks delicious.

You obviously have comprehension issues.
If the molested child was a girl,do you think her father won't beat up the molester the same way he did for his son?
I'm sure he would.
Are you saying the offense would have been
more bearable if commited by a grown woman against the little boy? Is it worse now because it was done by a man?
I think not.
Which goes to say that the first offense here is sexzual assault against a minor.
Molest is molest. Whether by male or female babysitter and whether the victim is a boy or a girl,it is the same thing.

I hope my explanation makes sense to you.

Which therefore makes your comment about hating feminists portray you for the bigoted mumu that you are.I still don't get how you folks don't get tired of repeating yourselves

lawanson44: See why i don't like feminists? The article is centered on a male child for now so cut it. By the way, it would surprise you to know that most female nannies molest their male wards

Boy or girl a victim is a victim.
And the consequences are the same.
Make it about the offense and not the offenders's sexuality.

And no I'm not pro-gay. I just see you guys effectively derailing this thread

femi4: R u trying to protecting the gay right?

Imagine going for a boy househelp to take care of your boy and believing that you ve blocked any/all traces of rape only to discover that you have a gay as an house help

Lighten up. It's a joke

tmx21: stop jumping into conclusion or you probably goin'a break a leg. Therock5555, i sight you. *pour-strate, stand up and sir-loot to greet*

Iberibe gi nwere nafdac number.

So hair and recharge card equals ownership.
I'm pretty sure she gives you wifely services too probably worth more than your pennies but hasn't tried to lay claim to you or control your movement.
Do you think your recharge card and hair money is worth her love?
And you're halfway to start insulting her parents too.
#chewing gum boys everywhere#

okparaugo: Oga, inasmuch as I will do as you said, because i am literate, tolerant and self controlled, it will be subject to her explanation when she comes back. I know her temperament and she doesn't like talking when she is busy.

For someone when she wants to make her hair, I pay, when she wants recharge card, I pay, when she wants to buy stuff, I pay, then I ask you where you are going to, you tell me its your family matter. That's crap.

Where was your family when i was maintaining part of your upkeep ?

May God have mercy on you.
Insurbodination as in what?

As your employee or your gardener?
What one won't read on NL

Mere boyfriend is talking of insurbodination.
o jesu.

If she has a private family problem,must she tell you? What are you to her?
Even wives can keep some embarrassing details about their immediate family(parents or siblings) from their husbands especially if the privacy of the family is involved here how much more a mere use and dump boyfriend.

okparaugo: Sexylogan, we have been casual/far friends for 3 years and just became close recently. I do not suspect her. I know her Ex at least online. Let me say her love is still new.

From the little I know about ladies, if they want to do a runs, they won't even tell you where they are going. At least I don't live with her.

But I view this as insurbodination.

I won't talk to her till she explains.

All these punny hunters
Prowling profiles looking for who to send pm.

Quote me and grow a horn

This isn't even about being gay or whatever.
I'm sure the dad would have done the same if the child was a baby girl.
@ogtavia

Besides a straight person has a higher chance of molesting your kid/s than a gay person. So you guys should stop making about the gayness and make it about the offense.

IMO,that father did a good job.
I hope the mofo rots in jail at least he's adult now(18).imagine molesting an innocent 8yr old boy for 3 years and no one knew
Shudders#
Edited

If your wife does that,check yourself well.
Something is missing

If he promises not to interfere in her religion and worship system,then I don't see the harm.
It would have been worse if she's from a very different religion.
Over religious people tend to be troublesome when paired with other over religious people too.
If he's open minded and tolerant of her beliefs.
What's the problem then?
Unless she's afraid he'll influence her

She's a brilliant woman.

The things we read here

EfemenaXY: The fantasies of a teenage boy.

@OP: what's funny about what you posted? Will you still find it funny if it was the other way round?

Mtchew.

No one. Everyone can't be the same of course.
Let husbands and wives hold each other to the same standards and forget what happens in the outside world

ifyalways: Uhhhm, who sets the "standards" for everyone's marriage?
Whose standards fit all?


Back to topic, I can and I will, depending on some circumstances.

If he had the child before he married me and only found out after our wedding,maybe because the woman hid the child from him,then I'll understand. Even in that case,if the babymama can't take care of the child,her mother can. If her mother can't,then as a last resort his mother(my MIL can)
No child from another womb will grow in my house except one we both adopted together. WILLINGLY


But if he had the child during our marriage,it's open doors. Everybody find your way.
We'll hold each other to the same standards.
If he'll divorce me for cheating on him only,he'll definitely never even forgive me enough to accept another man's pregnancy in our home.
Why should it be any different between us?

Women let us have standards pls.

I wonder if he really believed a dead person (his wife) appeared to him in his dream.
Preposterous

Idowuogbo:
Wikid

Well Here's hoping the spice comes back

EfemenaXY: Let's just say the infamous nland crash and loss of data took the wind out of my sails. That aside, the motivating factor for me then was, I guess being on a roll after escaping alcatraz, then being thrown back in (with everyone else). So it was some sort of inmate joint / respite. The build up of events around that time was what made it fun...

[s]But er...I've been re-baptized (like Chillisauce)[/s]

EfemenaXY: I've lost interest jare.

Snapping those pics was starting to eat into my time.

It sure is boring around here these days.
All sections too BTW

Ok babes.
More power to your elbows.

edwife: My dear soon,my kids dey complain why mummy always snap food all the time

I am so busy that all i do nowadays is cook and eat immediately then rush to something else.

Sweetpotato/yam porridge
Chicken pie
Double delight cake(vanilla chocolate combination) no icing.

Ha why is this thread cold na?
The heat is supposed to be on in the ktichen all the time.

Edwife
Efemenaxy
Chillisauce
Nkemm88
The chef ladies all. Pls come spice here up