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MrRenaissance: @embolden, another one of your numerous lame comebacks. This line is stale. Whenever someone exposes your hypocrisy you cry of the person popping a vein. Girl, you are not worthy of having my veins popped out for. You are nothing but a faceless forumite, so stop attaching any importance to your being. You ain't worth shitt!!

If you had sense, you would differenciate between asslicking and having opposing views. You don't have any opposing views to mine, you are simply keeping mute as your mistress makes hate-laced posts. Why didn't you talk on the matter all these while but started crying foul when your mistress was attacked back? Your hypocrisy shows you ain't worthy of being taken serious

In case your hypocrisy and asslicking has sucked off your brain cells, here goes: seeing no wrong in bringing an innocent woman's life and family issues to NLD, not to talk of taking her pictures behind her back, shows your brain cells are dead with hypocrisy. Who are you to judge what's right or not when your head is so full of hypocrisy, you won't see anything wrong with your mistress? So the woman's pic are not her private life, but babyhater's address are her private life? Do you see how dumb you sound? *sighs*

the way you are going, I'm sure you will kill yourself if babymama commands you cos you sound like puppet in her hands. You have no mind of your own.

Engage your brain that have been dormant for years. Be a woman and stop asslikcing. With the way you are dodging the truth and making dumb comments, I'm afraid your brain cells are dead.

Get a life and free yourself from babymama's bondage, you puppet!!

No dumbo, it's not about Nigeria, it's about fools like you being called useless, and your parents too, and you are clapping your hands and encouraging your mistress. What a lost cause.

pickabeau1: Your rants are making me laff
I thought you had bade me goodnight

pickabeau1: assumptions.... cococandy

Be objective and fair rather than support on gender lines

Goodnight to you too!

pickabeau1: OK.. enjoy since you feel so..

Line with haters...?

Where was that...because I said the op wrote a hateful post?

You belive it's not hateful still?

Funny woman...

You now say you r not friends...

Ok..

Cococandy

pickabeau1: MrRenaissance

if my friend was the person disparaged by the op..i will feel bad but for a lot of people...some posters can never do wrong or maybe they get advice or e-rep from allying with some posters.. who knows

Frankly.. if people are fair irrespective whether the poster is your friend on NL or not.. things will be better

MrRenaissance: I love your posts on this thread and the way you handled that second-in-command of asslicking republic. You're the man of the year. See the way the hypocrite is calling it "hate" and yet ignored the obvious hates oozing through every pores of babyhater1's posts. Of course she would ignore them, she's an asslicker, that's what they do best - ignore the truth when it's about them and their friends. According to cococandy's hypocrisy, when babymama said her(cococandy) parents and her as well are useless and that Nigeria is useless (in babymama1's other thread), she acceded to being useless and cosigned the dumb post by using the " " emoticon. She didn't find the hate in her posts, but now, she's suddenly found hate when people decided to feed her mistress a dose of her own medicine!! What a pathetic asslicker!!

When babaymama was insulting the innocent old woman and her children, the asslicker was on this thread and kept quiet. She found no faults in her posts, she never corrected her for once (of course her mind told her babymama is wrong but her head is far up her asss for her to speak out), but when babymama1 was exposed, she found her voice. Shameless assslicker!! Tufiakwa!!

she only sees hate in other people's post as if her inconsequential standards are the benchmark to determine which posts are hating. Rubbish!! I can tolerate asslickers, but not the types that still asslicks even when their masters/mistresses are insulting them and their parents directly. What a shame.

Criticism ko hate ni!! Shioor!!

njokusboy: Lolzzz, I never said all males are Alphas and you know it.... Atleast I never championed that course, my response to you clearly states that.... Abi no be me write am... I go quote am after this....

you said 'we men are born alpha and cannot be under the jursidiction of a woman'.
when I tried to tell you that not all men are alphas,you began to fret and here you are agreeing with me at last. It is well


Neither my first post or any other posts suggested that there are no female Alphas... Check my post again, I said, "if the woman runs the home, the male is no alpha"... Stop grasping at straws to score cheap points...

so since men can't be under the jurisdiction of a female according to you,who's the female alpha leading??

Your point was that alpha has nothing to do with women and an alpha is only dominant among males... And I told you, an alpha controls his unit, his unit includes his wife... So what is your point....

in simpler terms once more. What makes you alpha is that you superceed the other males available, then of course your leadership or dominance as we would put it in your unit(bedroom) won't be in question. But first, You can't be a weakling among men and then come home to claim alpha as if the comparison is between you and your wife.you can be the leader in your home no questions but it doesn't make you an alpha among other men.


No definition of alpha states that it is the dominant male in a group of males... An Alpha is the dominant male in his pack which consists of his wives and children.... A male is the Alpha in his home... An alpha is not the Top among men, he is the top in his unit.... A woman can also be an Alpha in a pack, does it mean, its only among the females.... Hell no....

since he's the dominant male in the pack the other males are definitely beneath him. Are they still alpha? Or they get the poor consolation of being alpha in the bedroom where their females are the only ones to contend with. Why are you shooting yourself in the foot. So there are two types of alphas? Those who are real alphas and those who try to use their women to shine in pseudo-alphahood .silly


What are you even talking about... You are veering off tangent... I don't understand "the shouting, the beating, and having what it takes to be the head".... Kindly elaborate...
I reiterate, An alpha as far as the human specie is concerned is one who handles his ShIT, is in charge of his home.... In my circus, I am an Alpha... Among my peers, I am only one of the hotheads... Am I an Alpha where they are concerned, no... We are all the same... When each goes to his home, he can become an Alpha....

lmao. Have it your way then. I can't believe something this simple is making you go round in circles

crackhaus: Lol...you didn't need to do that, you miss the point.

If you're allowed to disagree with some of these points just as most women will, why was it a big deal when some dudes disagreed with the male version?

The point is only a man will understand that certain rules regarding men will not apply, just as it's only a woman that will understand that certain rules don't apply regarding them. C'est fini.

crackhaus: Lol...you didn't need to do that, you miss the point.

If you're allowed to disagree with some of these points just as most women will, why was it a big deal when some dudes disagreed with the male version?

The point is only a man will understand that certain rules regarding men will not apply, just as it's only a woman that will understand that certain rules don't apply regarding them. C'est fini.

njokusboy: My friend go and sleep, I never said all men are Alphas, I said a man who controls his home is an alpha as far as his home is concerned... Check one of my post, I also said if a woman dominates the home, than the man is no alpha....
It was you who said an alpha male is only in relation to other males and has nothing to do with women......
The first use of alpha males is in relation to a pack of wolves which is usually headed by the father.... Nd he can be overthrowned....

Chillisauce: not my biz, if them like make dem hypocrisy themselves dia. when old age come, and akamu don soar, there eyes go open .

Shout out to old single papas in the house.
I dey greet.

pickabeau1: As i noted earlier, the context was the problem which has led to this roundabout discussion

The term alpha male came from wolves or social animals where all the animals defer to one male

It could be linked to females as he has most of the ladies wanting to be around him but its actually more of leadership both among men and women.

Applications are to be found in the work place where u see that guy who is destined to be the manager etc

Not so sure in the domestic setting..

This will have worked many years ago.. but not so much now as human groupings are not as large

Also are u saying a short man cant be an alpha male

njokusboy: Lolzzz, Alpha males is first of all used in relation to a man and his woman... Go do your research... Check out all the qualities of alpha males, most are in relation to women...

You obviously do not know me, I am the first speaker in my clique, I am not the strongest, I am easily the smartest... Do I think am an alpha where my friends are concerned.... Hell no... Do they think so, hell no
In my circus, we are all equals, no one bends to the will of the other... But hey, where my woman/women is concerned, I am the Alpha..... I hold all the cards....

pickabeau1: Good you accept your usage of the term was not relevant to the context

njokusboy: Nd how does all these things you mentioned exclude women... These are all tips which make males more attractive to other women... The term Alpha male is first of all used in relation to women...
Besides, someone who is an Alpha to his women may be a nobody where his mates are concerned.... You are tall, dark and handsome... You think your male friends care about that sh1t?

njokusboy: EVERY MAN IS AN ALPHA AS FAR AS HIS HOME IS CONCERNED EXCEPT WHERE THE WOMAN LEADS THE HOME.....

apolonius: I have an issue with your defined features of the alpha male. It's mostly superficial,darling.

"...looks,sex appeal,..."Are you kidding me?Yes,bodily beauty is great but reiterating it in various ways makes mockery of the concept of the man.A man is a man;'alpha male','real man' are such dubious concepts and adjectives that give false meanings and corruption to the man identity are postmodernism's cocktail of shit.

Great to see leadership there,but I expected high features like intelligence,emotional maturity and a capacity for love and affection,visionary-professionally and in core indices of his life,and refined mannerisms. I can go on and on.

What do you think darling,and how are you?

solazo: If there’s anything a man hates in his life, it’s a nagging wife. Please stop nagging. #MarriedWomen

sure thing. I hate nags too.women pls don't nag. It's not healthy

Your husband is not a ‘project’. He’s not yours to change or fix or mould. Please he is yours to love. #MarriedWomen

agreed.marry who you can live with not who you can't stand but intend to change

A nagging wife is like water going drip-drip-drip on a rainy day. How can you keep her quiet? (Proverbs 27:15 GNB) #MarriedWomen

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Stop looking at your husband to be the one to make you happy. That’s actually your job, not his. #MarriedWomen

hmm. Skeptical about this. I know everyone should try as much as possible to be responsible for their own happiness. But it's not wrong to expect your spouse to do things sometimes with your happiness as their point of focus.

A husband’s greatest need in this world of marriage is to be respected by his wife. #MarriedWomen

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When you give to your husband without expectations, then God somehow begins to meet your expectations. #MarriedWomen

sounds like sunday sermon. 'Sow a seed of faith and God will make it grow'.praise the lord. sisters

Your husband truly wants you to be happy but he really doesn’t want to be blamed when you’re not happy. #MarriedWomen

then he better step up to it. and yes he'll be blamed if the unhappiness is a direct result of his in/action

Look in the mirror & learn to love what you see. A woman who loves her body takes care of it for her husband. Love your body. #MarriedWomen

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The successful mathematics in marriage is to give 100% and expect nothing in return. #MarriedWomen

disagree.partners should discuss and agree on what they expect from each other. Financially and emotionally. If they didn't need each other they wouldn't be getting married in the first place.

Stop expecting your husband to be what he’s not. Unmet expectations will be the greatest source of sorrow in your marriage. #MarriedWomen

agreed. Unrealistic expectations can ruin

You have to make forgiveness a habit. In big things and in little things. Forgive. Forgive. Forgive. #MarriedWomen

agreed 50percent. How many times will one forgive battery and side chicks saga? In the grave or when in the hospital to collect HIV pills? There's a limit to forgiveness

I’m not sure your friends will give you objective advice about your husband. Why make them your counsellors. #MarriedWomen

tick. Bring your issues to this faceless forum than tell it to your friends whom you can't even vouch for their sincerity and love for you.

Try to overcome little annoyances, like when your husband leaves a wet towel on the bed. #MarriedWomen

tick. As long as he's not full blown slob it doesn't really matter

Men are not wired like women and your husband doesn’t even know he is being insensitive to your needs. Tell him nicely #MarriedWomen

ok. tick

Stop saying “I will leave you one day” or “I want a divorce” whenever you quarrel. In the end it will backfire. #MarriedWomen

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Stop being so needy, it drains your husband. #MarriedWomen

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Never criticize your husband. It builds resentment in him. #MarriedWomen

mature adults should be able to handle healthy criticism. That's not to be confused with mockery. Some women with their sharp tongues don't know the difference between the two. So I get where he's coming from with this

Why don’t you compliment your husband on what he does right rather than tear him down for what he does wrong? #MarriedWomen

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When your husband does something you appreciate, it’s nice to let him know. #MarriedWomen

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Do you realize that the more you try to force your husband to do something or restrict him, the more he’ll try to escape? #MarriedWomen

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Why do you even bother going through his text messages? There’s no need. Stop it. #MarriedWomen

snoop doggie. pls stop.can't stand folks who do that.

Your husband needs time to chill in his ‘man cave’. Please leave him alone. #MarriedWomen

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You may not understand why he loves to watch sports or violent movies. You don’t have to understand. Give him his space. #MarriedWomen
Focus on what you love about your husband and please leave the rest. It’s not for you to change him, that’s God’s job. #MarriedWomen

no need to try understand. Just fall asleep with your head in his lap. He'll wake you when he's done with his soccer and horror movies

And yes focus on his good sides.

Make the bed. Thank you. #MarriedWomen

no problem

If you try to control, restrict or cage your husband it will take away that ‘thing’ that makes him a man. He’s a free spirit. #MarriedWomen

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Speak clearly. You will be angry with your husband and he will have no idea of what he said or did to annoy you. #MarriedWomen

ok.

Don’t walk away after you’ve spoken your mind to your husband. He will hold it against you and bring it up later. #MarriedWomen

ok

Don’t give your husband the ‘cold shoulder treatment’. He will escape from home. #MarriedWomen

ok

Stop waiting for your husband to arrange a date or give you what you want, take responsibility and create it yourself. #MarriedWomen

ok

Criticism and control will only make your husband shut you out. #MarriedWomen
control is bad. Criticism when healthy is not bad

Sex is a core need for your husband. It anchors his soul to yours. #MarriedWomen
Frequent meaningful physical intimacy is what connects your husband’s heart to yours. #MarriedWomen
Pet your husband. Massage his shoulders. Give him a manicure. #MarriedWomen
If you shut your husband away from physical intimacy then you’ve cut off his most important connection to you in his world. #MarriedWomen

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You have to love your husband even when he is unlovable. #MarriedWomen

hmm. Depends on what's making him unlovable at the moment.

Serve your husband even when it seems he doesn’t appreciate your service. #MarriedWomen

Tell me 'hey woman where's my food and why didn't you do my laundry' (in a harsh tone too?)
sorry dude on you're on your own until you show some appreciation

Be sensitive to your husband’s physical needs even when you’re tired. You can do all things thro’ Christ who strengthens you. #MarriedWomen
agreed 5o percent

Please stop airing your dirty laundry in public. Your husband just hates it #MarriedWomen
Teach your children to respect their father. Make them see him as a hero. #MarriedWomen
Please make your house a welcoming home. #MarriedWomen

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This night out thing with the ‘girls’ is really a risky thing you’re doing. #MarriedWomen

mmm. Ok

Protect your husband. There are she-wolves out there. #MarriedWomen

how? Iron boxers and padlock on his kini? Unless he tripped and fell into a wide open pucci,I don't see how it's her job to protect him from his wandering blokos(if he has one that is)

Do all things without grumbling and complaining. #MarriedWomen

depends on what it is. Open to mischievous interpretation

It’s not nice when your husband is the subject of your girlfriend’s gossip and petty quarrels. He’s a man. Protect him. #MarriedWomen
Pick your battles. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Don’t fight over little matters. You only stress yourself out. #MarriedWomen

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Be very careful about reading romance novels. They give you a false illusion of life. #MarriedWomen
Please stop comparing your husband with anyone else’s. Do you know how they live? #MarriedWomen
Accept your husband for what he is and not what you want him to be. #MarriedWomen

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crackhaus: I have read it.
Did you read it, and do you agree with everything 100%?

njokusboy: But then, we men were made Alpha, we are leaders of the pack, no sane man would subject himself to a womans jurisdiction.. We have standards...

Blessedwhite: Cococandy hope i've answered your question

Blessedwhite: sometimes we have to go out of our limit to make a success . So i understand you stand

Blessedwhite: Cococandy
i disagree on the shift of duty . For an urhobo man like were i came from that is unrealistic . And men complain but not to the notice of neighbours

lawanson44: Yes i do hate them and i am glad many men are becoming aware of the evils of feminism and standing up against it. Gone are the days when women like you will engage in any misdemeanor and men would say"Just overlook it...after all she is a woman". No amount of ranting can change that. Comprehension my foot! Now run along and go cook indomie for dinner, eat and sleep away your misery into a new week while you continue with your miserable lonely life.