₦airaland Forum

Shinjawestern:
Only Christianity give women too much freedom

Well there are women who agree with you so I don’t even blame you for saying this. They gave guys like you power to say stuff like this. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Exactly why I zero sympathy for anyone of you who gets what they deserve at the hands of terrible women

Y’all’s whole existence is just to figure out more and more devious ways to be horrendous to women

Shinjawestern:
Only Islam knows how to treat women fuckup....

I can never marry a Igbo woman


Anyway God bless the good people of Southsouth and Southwest

No one blamed the devil. We are making tiny progress

Behold your nairaland Seun

ASAPFERG:
igbos deserve nothing but death

death to all igbos

Rossikk:
He is 1000% correct.

Go fck yourselves.

The only reason any of you is alive today is that Gowon asked his troops to withdraw after you surrendered.

He could have left them to go in and finish you off completely, and eliminate 95% of your population, or even 100%.

I’m sure he’s regretting his kindness now, witnessing all the hate you devils show this country.

Worthless idiots.

Rossikk:
You are very stupid.

Worthless bunch of narcissists.

99% of people who trash Nigeria on social media are Igbos.

Calling the country all sorts of unprintable names online to smear her before the world.

Hate-filled traitors of the first order.

That’s another reason Nigerians distrust and increasingly despise you.

Go fck yourselves, you worthless demonic entities.

And if you think any of you will rule Nigeria anytime soon, you are the biggest fcking jokers on Earth.

Spit.

MTNnews:
Very true !
Cowards like your ipob father Kanu n Ikpa.

The providers only exist on NL!

1Sharon:
Are you kidding me?

Most Nigerians are poor! The women marry poor men all the time.

The hardworking wives that are hawking bread, roasting corn, farming, sometimes while pregnant and backing a second.

Do they look like they have a rich husband?

Alot of Nigerian men are not providers! The women are out there hustings just as much as they are.

If those women were not working the finances of home will suffer. Abeggg

Kingosytex:
That's exactly it. Have you asked yourself why a greater percentage of well to do women ain't faithful especially when their husbands are struggling?

This isn’t based on any type of fact. You’re just saying words

Have you asked yourself why some woman will make noise for feeding their men for a month whereas the man had been doing it for ages without raising a dust?

no y’all raise dust everyday all day. You call dependent women all types of names under the sun. And project the things you do when you’re the provider onto the women because you think they’ll treat you the same way you treat them when you have the financial upper hand. That’s why a well-to-do woman can’t breath without y’all claiming she’s rubbing it in your faces. Projection!

I'm just tryna make you see that both genders are wired differently.

I hear you

A man being with a woman isn't really obtainable and unnatural because the number of women far outweighs those of men.

How can I even take you seriously when you don’t know what you’re talking about? Where’s your population stat from? From the streets of NL? I implore thee to research first please.

Men by default are inherently polygamous, not all men can stay for like 3 months waiting for their women to heal from the wounds of schild birth before they embark on another round of selima nkuli nkuli
You get the point now? Him seeking satisfaction else where until the wife heals is understandable... I'm just giving you an instance with a woman who just gave birth.
Men and women are wired differently, a man's gbola will rise by mere sighting of a woman's cleavage and thighs, you can't really blame him. It is what it is.

Bla bla bla.

You do not want to anything to do with actual facts. If you did, you’d understand that women are sexual beings too. But because it doesn’t suit y’all contrived “facts”, women who are open about their sex drive get shamed into silence. So spare me

pocohantas:
Nope. It would be a case of "women can't handle power".

You dey mind them?

talented321:
Cococandy make i reply u ''''
Many rich women cheat on their husband well. well'' he dey happen for my area everyday.
Though it may not be a good reason for u or me but many men use those advantages to cheat''

So poor women don’t cheat?

What I’m understanding Is that if a woman has money, she has the right to cheat too

talented321:
1. He house u
2. He paid ur pride price
3. He feed's u
4. He pay all bills
5. He feed the children
6. He pays the children's school fees.
7. When your mother/father dies he is the one to spend money also when his mother/father dies he is the still the one to make all expenses
8. He walk all day to make sure u and the kids live a better life.
9. He sells his happiness for the family
10. He will be only regard as man when he produces something' but you as a woman can go into marriage without nothing
11. He know the worst u can do is to leave his house.
12. I don't like cheating but there is a different between cheating in men and cheating in woman'' the earlier u accept it the better for u
Modified :when a woman cheat it is a shame to the husband and his/her family'' while when a man cheat it is normal in the eyes of land.
A woman can become pregnant where as a man can't
13. WITH MY HANDSOME WEED'' WHILE LUCKY DUBE KEEP THE VIBE CALLED '' IT IS NOT EASY''' GOING

What I’m understanding Is that if a woman has money, she has the right to cheat too?

advanceDNA:
A man that doesn't provide will lose the respect and love he gets from his woman...it's proven fact.

We already know u women don't love us.....u only love how we care for you....
so yeah... while it's not morally or religiously right a woman is technically free to cheat if the husband is useless... Ur penîs cannot be stronging when u are not a feeding ur family and paying the bills

Kingosytex:
Why is being broke considered normal for a woman?

Have you asked yourself why broke women don't even see themselves as being broke?
Have you asked yourself why many Reginas are jumping into the hands of Neds and not the other way round?
Have you seen a broke, jobless man waiting for a rich woman to come marry him?
A rich man marry a broke lady, they will tag it love is blind but when a broke man marries a rich lady, the man will be tagged a gold digger and an opportunist. Have you asked yourself why it's so?

These ones are hating because she’d never give them the time of day so they are faking morality they don’t even have. If she says yes to any of them, see how their story will change automatically. Lol

Dexy4yah:
Na still shit full inside dat nyansh

ChristianMuslim:
Dickhead

Jozibrainz99:
Certified Olosho

scrupulousblog:
Olosho o!!!!!

popeclave:
High rated olosho

JayDaily2:
Retired sexual midfielder with tattoos, sexual traumas and surgically inflated physique.

Somewhere only we know

🎶 I walked across an empty land
I knew the pathway like the back of my hand
I felt the earth beneath my feet
Sat by the river and it made me complete
Oh, simple thing, where have you gone?
I'm getting old, and I need something to rely on
So, tell me when you're gonna let me in
I'm getting tired, and I need somewhere to begin
I came across a fallen tree
I felt the branches of it looking at me
Is this the place we used to love?
Is this the place that I've been dreaming of?
Oh, simple thing, where have you gone?
I'm getting old, and I need something to rely on
So, tell me when you're gonna let me in
I'm getting tired, and I need somewhere to begin
And if you have a minute, why don't we go
Talk about it somewhere only we know?
This could be the end of everything
So, why don't we go somewhere only we know?
Somewhere only we know
Oh, simple thing, where have you gone?
I'm getting old, and I need something to rely on
So, tell me when you're gonna let me in
I'm getting tired, and I need somewhere to begin
And if you have a minute, why don't we go
Talk about it somewhere only we know?
This could be the end of everything
So, why don't we go?
So, why don't we go?
Ooh, oh-oh
Ah, oh
This could be the end of everything
So, why don't we go somewhere only we know?
Somewhere only we know
Somewhere only we know 🎶


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWih3fGnQ7I

talented321:
coco'' your reasoning is right.
Why do u give such unnecessary reason, if i give u wealth today, don't u know how to manage that wealth? Pls

How is it unnecessary?

I was just giving you an example of something from my perspective that money can’t solve. For me, no matter how much money I have, if I raise loveless miserable children, I would feel like like I failed. And the solution to it won’t be more money.

So you’re telling me that truly in your opinion anything money can’t solve nothing can solve it. Truly? I feel like you haven’t paused yet to think about it thoroughly. You’ll find I’m right. Money is important but it’s not everything

talented321:
Lol''' Cococandy' oya enlight me

So many scenarios.

If you failed your kids for example and they have grown to become miserable adults who don’t love you, no amount of money can fix that. Yet handling it differently might fix it whereas money was unable to do so.

Just off the top of my head.

talented321:
Any problem money can't solve'' nothing can solve it. Do u accept this? abi

Absolutely not true.

Smh at caption

poseidon12:
12.5m within a year of moving abroad? Got to be cocaine things or fraud.

that’s what you think? Smh

Why would you sell your house. Mtchew. Senseless

talented321:
Fine'' between rich people and poor people who are more miserable?
Take nigeria for example.

The questions is not whether it’s better to be rich or poor. Obviously it’s better to be rich because money solves a lot of problems.

The questions is “is money everything?” And the answer is no. It’s not everything

ednut1:
Person no graduate or get job but you married him 😏

aren’t you guys the ones that chastise them for being gold diggers if they want a man who’s got something going for himself?

Enice:
We have two presidents in Nigeria. One is the real president sworn to office to govern real people, and real issue. The other is the online president, sworn to office by social media pundits to make hypothetical statements, imaginary postulations and lies. He gives these pundits the feel good mood. The main aim of the online president is to remain relevant till 2031 when he will be a great grandfather.

okay

That’s why enjoying today is the best gift you can give yourself. Tomorrow is not guaranteed

sukkot:
From the dust you came and to the dust you shall return. So everything we are and everything we build and we feel is so important is all dust and everything including us will all crumble back into dust and so millions of civilizations are buried in the dust under our feet and none of you walking around today will be walking around 100 years from now. From the dust you came and to the dust you shall return. You and everything you thought was important will crumble into the dust. Your house and car will crumble into the dust. Your children will crumble into the dust . And so it feels like we are in some irrelevant hamster wheel just churning along with time and then get obliterated into dust. Regenerated with time and then obliterated into the dust. Your degrees and titles will go into that dust with you . Your air of superiority and self importance will vanish into that dust with you. You are irrelevant. Just a regeneration of time that would be grounded back into the dust. And so I ask ? Why do we try ? Why do we bother ? Why do we think what we are doing is so important ? Why do we strive ? What’s the point ? Why the arrogance and ego ? A dusty substance with an ego and he would soon be crumbled back into the dust .why why why ?

doggedfighter:
Nice reply !

Thank you!

Because you can be rich and still be miserable

Caleycash:
Including the men no one is happy, divorce is a failure in terms of marriage and family

They may not be happy about the divorce. I don’t think anyone goes into marriage hoping it fails. So obviously they won’t be happy that it didn’t work out

But it doesn’t mean they have no happiness in their lives as individuals. Two different things. So when you say there’s no happy divorced person, you’re coming across as if you mean that once someone gets divorced, they’ll never be happy again.

They will be. Just not about the divorce.
And eventually it gets behind them. And they move on. And find happiness in other things

Caleycash:
Quit deluding yourself, no Divorced woman is happy... divorce shows FAILURE in one major aspect of life!

Are there divorced men who are happy?

AllenSpencer:
🤣🤣🤣🤣

Social media president!

NomborPhilip10:
Social Media President

But social media is where the people spend their time. Seems like he’s more engaging than the person that was actually sworn to office.

Even if his case doesn’t go as he and everyone hopes, it says something that such a good amount of people are listening to him

Komu1048:
U r always pained wen some wise women won’t allow u have ur turn on a rich man’s money

Mmm. That’s what it is

I’m dying to be some rich man’s side piece

Kobojunkie:
A seriously damaged individual at that.

And that’s why I don’t blame those who refuse to build together with the men. I’m as much as I personally prefer such system, I wouldn’t advice it for a woman existing in such an unfair system where she can do all that and her reward will be to “fast and pray” and hope he doesn’t decide to repay her with callousness

That’s why you people like Nigerian marriage system. A marriage where the woman can invest this heavily, her time, her money, her body, her youth, everything!

and all she gets is to be at the mercy of the man. She’s sounding like an idiot because after 20-30 years she’s afraid of someone else coming to take what she worked for. If she wasn’t afraid she won’t put up with the blatant disrespect.

When you see systems set up to combat such unfair imbalances of power, y’all cry and call it emasculation. Ngwanu

nedekid:
Sister know this people personally. This lady and the husband started life small, small. Both lawyers. She believed him him when he had nothing, just a skinny young man. She is chiefs daughter. Raised in a proper home, humble, as they struggled together. She will go abroad, work and use the money to buy equipments for her passion, tailoring. This man worked in one small cubicle of an office in one company in ogba. When kids started comming, the ladys parents house was where the kids will be dropped for days to allow the young couple free movement. There was no fantastic money then.
Overtime fate smiled in this family and they became wealthy, billionaires. The man, a perfect gentleman. Never knew he could add weight though as he was a slim fine man then, still handsome now.
Perfect family, just a mistake with that lady ie an affair. She hooked patanity of her second child on the man.
What do you expect his wife of over 30 years, marraige they had in their youth to do? Everything they own, they built together. Mind you, the wife too is a lawyer just as her husband.
Abeg, she should go all out, stick to her husband and make sure that lady does not destroy anything.
The man should make sure he makes a proper will protecting his family and domicile assets in trusts with his wife and kids as beneficiaries. If not, should anything happen to him, that intruder will fight them to the end.

Lol

Kobojunkie:
Why do folks still feed themselves such cock-and-bull tales abeg!

How do you know you’re the father of both?