By undoing you mean not being married. Right ? Because I know that to you guys, that’s the worst thing that can happen to a woman. And when you see women who tell you they are happily single, it shatters your mind. You just can’t believe there are women whose existence do not center around finding and keeping a man. How confusing that must be
zed7: Now that polygamy is frowned upon, the number if old, frustrated and unmarried women has tripled far more than our grandparents generation. It's even going to get worse in a few years. Hook up, feminism and lesbianism is eventually going to be the female species undoing.
hammerT: Who said i listen to Candace or defend Tate?
So, y were u so shook about discussing Mark of the beast , endtime stuff over the internet?
That has been on my mind and i want to understand.
You must have misunderstood my post. I’m saying you are talking about avoiding the mark of the beast while on the internet where your every footprint is traceable. If you’re really that concerned you should avoid the internet.
Your self interest should be marrying someone who agrees with your life philosophy instead of seeking out those who don’t and throw tantrums when they don’t want to tow the line you’re inevitably going to try to force them to. Common sense
Gamesmart: What makes sense is that everyone has the freedom to walk away from what they don't like or want.
What does not makes sense is demanding people do things in your self-interest, when you don't operate in their self-interest. Actually, you are known to operate solely in your own self-interest as well, but get annoyed that men now do same of focusing on their own self-interest.
You guys will never stay with the women who accept the things you want. You want to force yourselves on women who have a different mindset and that’s your problem.
There’s are tons of women who don’t mind sharing a husband, there are pick mes who will go fight the side chick for you and claim your were jazzed, it’s not your fault bla bla bla.
But you don’t want those women. You want women who have made it clear they expect to be treated the same way as you. then you turn around and cry they don’t want to be like the other type of women who clearly you don’t even want or you’d have gone for them in the first place . Make it make sense
It’s the way y’all yarn rubbish under the guise of making sense for me. Lol
shortgun: Aunty calm down, i didn't say older women are worthless, I said their marital value decreases as they age just as the marital values of men increases with age. Most women want a financial stable man for a committed relationship or marriage and most financial stable men are not in their twenties. Most men want's a flawless skinned girl with perky breasts and most females with these features are in their twenties.
...and yes I do tell my female siblings to net a man while age is still on their side.
Originalsly: The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. You are now a father ... in fact ... a baby daddy ... you need to first be a man ... and then a father. Where is your say in this matter that concerns your child and baby mama? You live on your own ... she lives with her siblings only... and your baby ... why can't you spend time with her to help out with your baby? is it pride?... that you cannot be seen going to her home? Did she tell you her younger brother can take care of her siblings? ... or you and your parents just know he can? Can he cook? ... wash?... manage the home? I can bet my life your family is pretty well off and look down on people below their status. You clearly did not consider for a moment what she is saying. Your parents should be telling you to go stay with her to help out ... or better ...your mother should be by her side to guide and help her through this stage. BTW ... where are her parents? That girl is a single parent to her siblings and now a young mother ... dumped while pregnant or soon after giving birth by her baby daddy. She has to be very strong not to suffer from post partum with all this added drama to her life. Do you even be eeing your daughter?... playing with her?.... holding her?... building a bond? Bro... be a man... and fast.
Tob456: I have an almost 8 months old daughter with my ex girlfriend. My daughter was sick for 2 weeks and she was admitted to the hospital for a week and 3 days my family were very supportive as usual.
My daughter is doing so much better and she got discharged last week friday I give God all the glory.
The problem on ground is because my ex girlfriend leaves alone with her younger ones she doesn't have an adult who will help her to monitor the baby health so my parents asked her if she can come and stay with them for a week or two so they will be monitoring ans helping her with the baby she can go back to her place when she us fully recovered. They've told her to bring her last born with her too but she refused saying she can't leave all her siblings alone but her 23 years old younger brother who just returned home from a different state can look after her other siblings in her absent.
I don't live with my parents I live alone and I wanted her to stay with my parents so we can all share the responsibility of taking care of our daughter but she declined.
My parents and I are not so happy with but we can't force her .
What do you guys think about this. Is she right or wrong for declining my parents request ?
maybe she doesn’t trust the brother to take care of her younger siblings by himself. How many of you young men are proficient care givers?