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BRATISLAVA:
If you know the extent men can go to to ground their wives success so that they remain the alpha and omega on their lives, you will know that they have deep issues.

Very few men are genuinely pleased if their wife is flying high and better than them. Very few.

Maybe not very few but the ones who don’t want their wives to progress are usually the loudest because they want to poison the minds of others who do support their wives in that way.

They keep repeating lies about how successful women are bla bla bla meanwhile many homes rely on their women’s successes and the heavens haven’t fallen yet. Instead these women end up taking on more and more responsibilities just so that they won’t be judged for being proud and what not.

Damned if you. Damned if you don’t.
Isn’t it exhausting?

Very terrible

BRATISLAVA:
Most of them who say they want a productive woman are yet to meet such a powerful force. Most of them can't stomach it.

Especially if she's better than them.

They usually say those things because they expect to be better than her.

Give them a moving woman and they will begin to look for ways to tie her down with ,"she's proud", "she's not submissive," "she left the children in the care of the nanny, she's not caring for my children", "she doesn't cook for me", "call your daughter to order," "I made her", "she's emasculating me", "that big deal you had, I know you slept with that man!"

There was a case where the man burned down his wife's thriving business because he was jealous of her booming success. Then he pretended to console her about it, because she didn't know he was behind the fire. All that to reduce her and make her dependent on him and worship him.

Terrible things are going on in Nigeria.

So he’s PhD, PharmD and MD? Cool. Very cool

Hathor5:

I hope you’re doing great love

reddingtonblack:
story .... enter lounge n see how gurlz average your age are bending yansh for him.
We are men we don't need an excuse,buh if you insist, one thing women are more attracted to is money not a man's body, if not women suppose dey rush dem bricklayers ofcus! you can kip d pix 4 emergencies

you didn’t disprove what I said

StPete:
I'd be glad if you can do comparatively analysis between married men and women. Don't use the shape of this fat junky to adjudge all men

take your own advice. You judge all women the same

GboyegaD:
Eating heavy carbs late night which we are fed with by our wives so that they can justify they are taking care of us.

you’re blaming us still

od501:
This is why a whiteman will ever be better than a black man. I know one president like that will rather shot critics and hide their bodies rather than to resign.

Trump is also a white man. Abeg leave that matter.
Men’s problems transcends their race. What they all have in common is their manhood

And Trump stayed through all his damning allegations

pretydiva:
So true

they think beauty is only reserved for women.

Like they are the only “visual creatures”. Women like to see handsome and fit men too

Nigerian men keep saying married women don’t know how to keep in shape.
But 70 percent of you are pregnant without due date.
At least the women have a reasonable excuse, their bodies were making humans.
What’s y’all’s excuse biko?

descarado:
Concoction yam
Only heaven knew what I put into this.
And everybody ate, to my surprise

I was planning to make yam pottage today with gizzards. I think the universe is affirming that decision

SeaTrade:
You don't know what enemy of progress means unfortunately.
Did I try to hinder her growth?Did I do anything or say anything to limit her potentials?
I simply tied my belt and hustle more,leaving no stone unturned so that I will keep being ahead,shikena!

This is the part I’m talking about.

I believe say man suppose pass woman for things to dey right and for respect to be and she has to look up to you to fulfill your ego(yes,that is one of the things women were created for,to massage male egos).

Make sure say you always pass woman,if by chance or miracle she come pass you,better leave am go to another smallie weh you pass well well for your mental sanity

So your woman has to make sure she never progresses more than you or the relationship is over. Basically she is supposed to decline promotions, kill her business ideas, turn down academic scholarships etc if there’s a chance any of those will cause her to rise above you financially ?
If that’s not enemy of progress, then what is?

And no, women are not here to massage y’all’s egos. You will be very frustrated if you bank on that.

Enskynelson:
Of cos, they make money but they won't make themselves the head in the eyes of the world. There are so many rich men out there but the truth is that, their wives are the source of the money. A good woman has all the money yet makes her husband comfortable. How did that woman OP was talking about even get to build house and the world knows she is the one? The good woman will do same but everyone will think her husband did it.

So a woman is only good if she lets a man take credit for her efforts? Got it!!

This is enemy of progress vibes. Don’t be an enemy to your significant other.

SeaTrade:
That one no go work for me sha ooo.
Few months ago them increase my babe their salary ,the way I carry triple my efforts and sit up ehn,even me sef shock No be me you go pass lailai.
Not to talk of woman building a house and I go come pack my things go dey live with am,
Abeg ooo.
I believe say man suppose pass woman for things to dey right and for respect to be and she has to look up to you to fulfill your ego(yes,that is one of the things women were created for,to massage male egos).
When woman pass you financially ,educationally,even with common sense and exposure,whether she loves you or not you will be reduced to nothing,
Even if she don't show it,you can't stop to think it is what she thinks of you(as nothing) or you sef might feel guilty for being nothing.That's how the ego of a man works.
You and your babe go dey na una go go see her friends that just came to town or so and them go dey discuss their time in Paris on vacation or their study years for UK or dey argue which store for Milan dey sell quality or cheap pass and all those things and you go tell me say if you as a man no dey alright you go stay that kind relationship unto wetin?
Them go intimidate you die with ordinary lifestyle and your prick go dey shrink daily till e finally turn to TOTO
Make sure say you always pass woman,if by chance or miracle she come pass you,better leave am go to another smallie weh you pass well well for your mental sanity.

thorpido:
If she had informed him she was building a house,then there's no big deal about moving there.
The issue here is that she kept it a secret.

so they can’t surprise you people again?

If this story wasn’t made up, it sounds like a romantic act she did for him.

Aren’t they all?

The magnitude and blatancy of all this mess makes me sincerely want to curl up and cry.

Is this not the man who ignored his wife while she was having a miscarriage just so she could serve him food? Yea, not a surprising opinion from him.

descarado:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Z5UMH8trWE

Mark refused to visit Nigeria. Don't blame him anyway.
Cococandy, come and see your brother in naija.

Wonder why he toured with miss Nigeria when sisiyemmie and other naija food vloggers are there. Na dem go give him correct definition of naija cuisines.

I’m not familiar with this guy. I watched a few minutes from the beginning and it seems quite interesting but the video is over a hour long. (Ain’t nobody gat time for that. When it’s not Netflix )

But solostar is right, maybe those other creators wouldn’t have been open to the cuisine he wanted to try.

You for sprinkle salt on top walahi

It looks too good

Akposy:
Thanks.
The texture of the crust was okay. However, it wasn't like commercial pizza because I didn't use enough Mozzarella cheese. I also made a terrible mistake (e pain me)...I totally forgot to spice (salt) my tomato sauce. It was just tasteless. The taste came from the crust, beef and cheese. I think the tomato (pizza) sauce determines how sweet and sour a pizza taste. I've learnt..


Your pic is nice. The blue colored background is cool. Awesome

Disgusting creep

Eroms4life17:
Men you really need that orgasm before you do something crazy. Henceforth u are ignored

fabiano09:
Shut up jare,you're very toxic, carry your coconut head off the topic if other peoples assertions bother you,even though they might be right eventually

you’re a disgusting creep.

blazebaba:
Aunty okocandy abii wetin dem call you...you dont have to be toxic like that....afterall she is a lady like you are and you guys knows how you go just leave guy for portharcourt talk say you wan go visit ur uncle for benin.....and precise it was just assumptions...

I am toxic? Because I’m not scrolling by patting y’all dumbasses on the back for making xtupid comments about a missing girl? That’s what makes me toxic?

I’m convinced all the words you guys throw around to describe people who don’t agree with you is just projection in your part. You read the vomit-inducing comments your pedophilic pals plastered all over the thread and it didn’t strike you as toxic. Because you’re just as depraved as they are.

Hamiltonii:
The question u should ask yourself is: All the other missing girls, how did they turn out? The 'small girl' in Lagos, Delta, Calabar etc all ended up fücking their respective pricks. Whether she's the daughter of a pastor, imam, professor, tailor... ALL girls are born to fück once their vagina begins to secret fluid simple.

Xtupid

If you’re questioning why these disgusting comments make me angry, then you’re lost and do not deserve a response.

No matter what your experience with teenagers is, it doesn’t excuse being disgusting at the slightest chance you get.

Eroms4life17:
Such hate and anger. When last did you have an orgasm? Seriously u need it so u relax( That's a joke). I have followed up lots of these stories and I work with teenagers for 17 years. I know what very teenage girls can do when they are not happy at home, or get introduced into sex early or have a new boyfriend. Most times they run after him and will only be found safe after declaring her missing. I will be surprised if she's harmed in any way. Please follow this story and tackle me if am wrong. She is safe. She's with a guy. She will be found and the family will not tell us how she was found. Matter close

Pain:
Where is our collective humanity and empathy?? Going by the comments so far... This is a lost and heartless generation !!!

It’s your fellow men.

I knew if I opened this thread, it would be filled with grown men making disgusting comments about a missing child. What does her looking or not looking like her age contribute to her being found?
Disgusting animals.

The point is not her age or what she looks like: the point is that she’s missing and her family is concerned. Whether she’s 35 or 70 or 16, she’s a missing person and if you animals have nothing to contribute, then don’t comment.
I wonder what women ever did to y’all except exist.
Depraved and beyond reprehensible. Your parents should be ashamed

Eroms4life17:
This one 17? Lord have mercy. Let them check her boyfriend house. Check ma signature

Hamiltonii:
Keep deceiving yourself. Are you telling the world you cannot say this girl is sexually active and fücking?

DannyG8:
As I no get useful information ,
I done fall for the girl ooh
See fine
Pretty
Come beautiful
And sexy join

She fit dey her boyfriend house like this jare

gawu1:
#17yearsOldGirl#
If the girl on the pictures is still 17 years old, then I have to believe that nnamdi Kanu is still a virgin

blazebaba:
You call this girl 17teen..i go don bend down greet am finish be that if no be op wey just dey tell me.nawa oh..i hope nothing happens to her shaa...or maybe na one shap guy use dick camp am down...

Paulianfa:
How can she be 17? Full grown girl wia toto dey scratch am, dey enjoy with in aboby somewhere...
See the full moon breast eheh, but the girl meks sense shaaa.
She will come back on Sunday...

Tomesocial:
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And yes real ID and SSN..

shut up scammer. That’s how you people ruin Nigeria’s name abroad and end up in jail. Thief

bukatyne:
1. That means men bring more to a marriage since they are the major financial partners. I think emotional support is equally important. I was under the weather some years ago and trust me, I needed my family to care for me. I wouldn't have survived without them irrespective of the amount of money in my bank account.

That’s not what it means.
Because both accrue in different ways doesn’t mean one is really more valuable than the other. Like you said, all the money in world wouldn’t have made a difference to you if you didn’t have that support at the time you were unwell.
Money is just required to purchase literally anything you need to survive these days hence the earning partner often feels like they bring more to the marriage even if that’s the only thing they do. But it’s subjective so everyone will have a different opinion on it

4. I don't expect someone who was out of job for that amount of years to bounce back immediately. I however believe you cannot hate me and like my money/emotional support. If you think I am not good enough to stay married to, biko leave my money alone just how I would not expect you to support me financially.

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@bold depends on what led to the divorce. The person paying alimony might very well want and initiate the divorce. So it’s not like their spouse wants to divorce them and take their money.

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Why are you guys like this?