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BlueRayDick:
Ofada x shrimp sauce x Egg

pocohantas:
Apt! I find it amusing that when they hate a moniker, they work tirelessly to ensure every other person hates that moniker. Like it kills them to see that there are people that do not hate you.

Acidosis:

Acidosis:
I don't think I agree with the points you've raised. Poco and I don't have the same views regarding some issues/topics on this forum and that's pretty normal. The fact is that these trolls don't even care whether she's right or wrong. They just want to attack for the same views others share. That's targeted harrasment.

What's attention-seeking btw? Sharing a few things about her private life/ job or sharing her views without direct attack at anyone? Omo, we really have a long way to go as men.

pocohantas:
If you have a problem with my ideologies, focus on it and counter me.

Edusouls:
You women are too incompetent and incomplete to be humans, no wonder the world equates you people to half humans,because ur reasoning is below par of a complete human , why deny ur HUSBAND sex at that critical moment? So why is she ur HUSBAND is it only in the time for demanding? She just deliberately wanted to torment her own husband at the worst of times, she is a very wicked and hard hearted woman, she deserves what she got..

Originalsly:
What exactly did I say that supports marital rape? ... or implied the woman deserved to die?

Originalsly:
Hmmm..... she should've let him.... knowing he was drunk.... he couldn't stand to the occasion... let alone enter where he wanted to. That itself would be a big blow to whatever ego he had left. Two lives over... children if any left to suffer in the sufferation.

Edusouls:
These women untamed behaviour is one of the Major reasons their partners loose control and go beserk, imagine ur own husband calling for sex and u keep the man hanging, women are cause of their problems 98% of the time, if u can’t handle a man and know how to make a man calm, please don’t marry..RIP..

Zchi1052:
Marry human being una say no
Say na animal una want.
She saw it coming but she still put head

prince3009:
If he had cheated now, the same wife will call him all manner of unprintable names. Abeg leave women and their matter.

Hushmoni:
Don't blame only the man, what of the woman that refused to calm the preek down. Why you go refuse your husband woman??

GeneralPula:
Ever since Chindima matter came up, I’ve lost sympathy for anything female gender..

I have no sympathy to give..

Person wey marry must fvck..

Youngsage:
Really? Wow. Thanks. Soy sauce. Noted. Will sure check it out

aboyaji:
Please guys, is it advisable to refrigerate cooked rice?

Youngsage:
Hi fam. Pls what do I do to achieve this jollof look?

I found this picture online and I've been wanting to make jollof exactly like it but it doesn't end up looking as expected. Any suggestions? I want to cook this exact jollof rice. Thanks

pocohantas:


Thank you Coco!

Raydans:
Nawa o. Because he made reference to your pussy!!!
You shouldn't take it here serious if you aren't guilty as charged

You should have just insulted him back in same light and leave his mother out it. No be the mama insult you.

The innocent mama fit dey village now dey break firewood.

descarado:
Join me

descarado:
I have read a publication on this. Women are compelled to work in naija. This doesn't mean all women anyway. If giving a choice, majority will love to stay at home.

A well known fact. Money is a determinant here. Whoever controls the money controls every other thing. Why is it that from the moment we are of age, we see men as milking machine?
Boyfriend, husband, even guys on friend zone.

What I'm trying yo say is when we srt being independent, we will have some power be it house or society. For now, it's just few. And those that are not to such level will pull you down if you want to fight for them.
We are our problem. Other societies have evolved.

Hathor5:
I agree with many points you have raised here but a few.

However, you and Coco are missing the point in this discussion.

For now men are leaders and as such they should take responsibility for the state of the country.

Could more women be leaders? Sure. Should women fight for a more egalitarian society. Most certainly.

But as long as men are the heads/captains/leaders they have to learn to take responsibility and should be held accountable.

If we go by your line of argument Buhari should be justified to refuse to take any responsibility because other parties have not won the election.

descarado:
That is thr Cross of the matter. Women in other countries were vilified,killed, made outcast but it paid off.

We allowed our society to place that docility on us.
We allowed society to dictate.

It's not even culture but imported religions. Now we mix that with cultur and say that's how it was during the old. Even if it's cultural, culture evolves.
We are just going in circles.
Society shame you if you decide to be a single mum. Decide not to marry. Even a divorced lady is always evil. Our fellow women hail and praise men because they butter their bread. No gift, no boyfriend. We are our own problem cos we are very lazy( sorry to use this). An average naija woman want to sit at home and watch TV while maid do everything for her and oga credits her account.
It's not the man's fault here. We don't want to be independent. If naija women change, our men will adjust. Check history.
No change in this world if women don't fight for it.

descarado:
In ti's very issue, I will very much love to blame the men only but reality is that it takes 2 to tango.
Our when are not better either.

Britain, America, China, Japan, South korea etc has very male dominated society back in the days, worst than what our women have ever experienced. I think in France, men have official concubine. Wives duties is to sew clothes and give birth and just stay in the house while the concubines are highly travelled, respected and influential etc. Courtesans were officially trained. They are women with power and respect. The reason a mere mistress was able to name a country Nigeria and no hell was raised. In China or Korea, women have little or no value. But you know what?
These women fought with everything in them. Read books or watch historical movies( real events that were adapted into movies from books) and see how far these women went to make history.
They fought a male dominated society, fought and fought and look at them now. They are still fighting.
In Nigeria,our parents even fought more than us.
Do we fight at all? (Mothers from childhood has already made his male child superior to her daughter. Its still mother's that train these oya and they turn out this way. After seeing how their husbands treated them, they still trained their sons to take the footsteps of their fathers.)
Why?
Cos our men are using psychological warfare on us through religion. Not that they practice what they preach but because it gives them power to control women hence their popular quote. Submission.
Society and culture has embraced it subconsciously that women see their husbands as mini gods instead of human and partner.

When women collectively push for their rights, heaven will not fall.
Men will have no choice either but to succumb. But, have we ever done that in our various families not to talk of society?
Hmm.

InvertedHammer:
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You will be surprised at how many wealthy Nigerians that have already fallen in love with her and are working behind the scene to get her released. Once out, she will be flown out of the country.

Don't think every big man is busy. Some men cannot wrap their heads around the fact that such an innocent-looking chameleon could kill especially when the little guy between their legs are cheering them on.

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mysticwarrior:
you are very correct, but come to think of it did you noticed how good looking and relaxed she appears, doesn't look like someone in a Nigerian police detention.

pocohantas:
Well said. The way I feel about most males here is the same way I feel about women like her. Women who make it their day job to put other women down just to appear virtuous to men here. Those men that were hailing her and calling her wife material should help her, because I doubt she would help a sister in this position.

Pardon my insensitivity.

descarado:
Cake people, I throwey salute o

mariahAngel:
I love cakes.