Cococandy's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Cococandy's Profile › Cococandy's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 472 473 474 475 476 477 478 479 480 (of 1458 pages)

Family › Re: Why I Married My Wife? by cococandy(f): 12:32am On Jul 30, 2021

Acidosis:
Your post made me emotional

aww

3 Likes

Family › Re: Why I Married My Wife? by cococandy(f): 9:48pm On Jul 29, 2021

Acidosis:
Coco

hello

Family › Re: Why I Married My Wife? by cococandy(f): 4:37pm On Jul 29, 2021

MIKOLOWISKA:
what are you doing to fix the society you hate abi you have another one to run to?

Y’all are waiting for me tell you it’s wrong to kill people extrajudicially? undecided

2 Likes

Family › Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by cococandy(f): 11:20am On Jul 29, 2021

NoToPile:
The vibes I am getting from posts on this thread is that men no longer want to be providers.

They’ve never wanted to be. Why do you think all those disgusting nicknames for women who actually let them provide exist?

1 Like

Family › Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by cococandy(f): 11:15am On Jul 29, 2021*

TarOrfeeek:
My current GF is from a single mother home.

Immediately I finished reading this topic. I will break up with her mentally.

but you won’t physically break up with her so that you can still string her along and benefit from the relationship while knowing you don’t care about her or a long term. You can’t see your own toxicity?

2 Likes

Celebrities › Re: Kelly Clarkson Ordered To Pay Brandon Blackstock N100m Monthly In Child Support by cococandy(f): 11:09am On Jul 29, 2021

Don’t mind them grin

PDPGuy:

Everywhere is silent now

Celebrities › Re: Kelly Clarkson Ordered To Pay Brandon Blackstock N100m Monthly In Child Support by cococandy(f): 3:51am On Jul 29, 2021

“BuT tHe wEst oNly fAvorS wOmen”

3 Likes 3 Shares

Family › Re: Why I Married My Wife? by cococandy(f): 10:17pm On Jul 28, 2021

Hathor5:
I don't know if I can do it. I wish I could but maybe I would chicken out. One never knows until you find yourself in this situation.

Jungle justice is wrong on many levels. Let me not even go there.

That’s so very true. However that’s how I feel in this moment. I hope to never have to find out for real.

7 Likes

Family › Re: My Wedding Estimate 4 Years Ago by cococandy(f): 9:25pm On Jul 28, 2021

pocohantas:
Wedding ceremonies are not compulsory, especially now that we are in perilous times.

I don’t know how you will write that list with numerous zeros and sleep well at night. The only people that write the price of groundnut oil and tin tomatoes themselves are people working on a very tight budget. Else you will handover the cooking to a caterer and she would multiply a plate by your estimated number of guests (e.g) N750 * 300 guests. How many litres of oil she uses wouldn’t be your business.

If you have to sit like this to bother your head about prices and inflation, scratch it. Have an indoor trad in her father’s sitting room, proceed to a registry if you want.

This is 2021 for God’s sake. The people you want to come for a wedding, some of us do not even have money for transport. If we come, we no fit spray you pass 2k.

Celebrities › Re: Biodun Stephen: I Can't Buy A Range Rover After All These Films by cococandy(f): 8:45pm On Jul 28, 2021

Does she invest? Does she have brand deals and ambassadorial jobs? It’s not enough to make good money if you only spend it, it will eventually run out

1 Like

Family › Re: Why I Married My Wife? by cococandy(f): 8:07pm On Jul 28, 2021

I would take blows for someone I know to be innocent even if I didn’t love them. If it’s someone I actually love, you’ll kill both of us there, no ifs and buts.

I can’t imagine the fear she must have felt knowing they could kill him for something he didn’t do.
I hate our society . Ugh angry

This is why I’m always ranting on jungle justice threads. Disgusting. Absolutely depraved behavior from “humans”.

Hathor5:
Would you take blows for the one you love?

92 Likes 6 Shares

Family › Re: Is It Right To Hide Or Belittle Yourself To Find "Wife Material? by cococandy(f): 7:41am On Jul 27, 2021

If you lie to a potential spouse that you’re uneducated, squatting with your brother etc in order to test them, what are they supposed to fall in love with? The idea of living with your brother?

Stop playing unnecessary games in relationships. It’s childish.

14 Likes

Properties › Re: Agents And Landlords Exploit House Seekers In Lagos by cococandy(f): 7:55pm On Jul 26, 2021

It’s crazy.

5 Likes 2 Shares

Family › Re: How Did You Overcome This In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:37am On Jul 26, 2021

mariahAngel:

You know, I was thinking about the topic yesterday and ways one can cope with the situation, and the bolded actually crossed my mind.

Game changer. Do it.

One of the reasons (I think) why friends will hardly reach out might be because they feel since that their friend is married, he or she no longer needs them, while the married friend will feel abandoned by friends.

That’s right. It’s such a cycle that someone needs to break it. It helps if the single friends know that their married friends don’t suddenly feel like they are better for being married. My friends know that I consider every woman equal. All that rubbish of according married women “more respect” because of marriage doesn’t fly with me.

Distance is the one that you can’t really help. You have to bear it and find ways around it.

2 Likes

Family › Re: How Did You Overcome This In Your Marriage? by cococandy(f): 9:58am On Jul 26, 2021

That moving away part is a big one. Extended family and some not so serious friends that might once in a while occupy your day usually become non-existent once you move away. If you don’t reach out, none of them will. And funny thing is that when you do reach out, they’ll ask why you haven’t called since angry

.

You just make sure you really like the person you married because it’s going to be you and them for a long long time.

Here’s what works for me.

Plan lots of family activities and outings. Insert vacations and staycations whenever possible. Look I legit book hotel stays in locations that are a few minutes away from my house just to switch things up grin

. Dress up and go there and pretend like you’re visiting from afar and see your city from a visitor’s perspective. Get creative babe.

Between raising the kids, building a career, planning and executing family activities etc. you won’t have a lot of time to feel lonely.

However, There are times when you will inevitably feel it. Call your friends, video chat with them ( you don’t have to visit), text them or chat on social media. If you have siblings, get closer to them even if not physically. I can be on the phone with any of my sisters for hours just doing laundry together and giggling over nothing. Before you know it, it’s bedtime.

Cultivate a hobby. Things like gardening (if you have a green thumb) shopping, content creating on social media etc can be great pastimes. In fact sometimes you won’t know when the day just breezed by. Go to yoga, a local gym in your area, or take your kids to a kid-friendly play zone.

7 Likes 4 Shares

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:51pm On Jul 25, 2021

greatestofall:
God please deliver me from all of these temptation bikonu. Small pity my sister that is all I'm asking for; just shikini pity on my salivary glands bikonu.

ndo

1 Like

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:01pm On Jul 25, 2021

breadplanets:
stop

1 Like

Health › Re: Why Do Women Hardly Have Heart Attack? by cococandy(f): 2:55pm On Jul 24, 2021

Women do. Our symptoms are often overlooked or misdiagnosed.

Family › Re: Well, She Called Off Our Wedding. by cococandy(f): 6:03pm On Jul 23, 2021

As in. Very irritating. Ndi “my pastor said” undecided

Don’t get me started on those ones that call their pastors daddy. I’ll slap you. I don’t want to hear it grin

mariahAngel:
Op, next time, avoid any lady who can’t decide on anything without consulting, (then as time goes) and making you speak with her pastor, because for such ladies who don’t seem to have minds of their own (nor can make decisions for themselves), whatever pastor says is final!
There’s nothing more irritating than discussing and agreeing on something, then she goes on to discuss them with pastor.

You’re better off without her. Trust me!

22 Likes

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:29pm On Jul 23, 2021

descarado:
Na the pan.

take the credit joor

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:36pm On Jul 23, 2021

descarado:
Used spelt and plain flour 6:4.

I will open bakery soon

it’s so symmetrical

1 Like

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:35pm On Jul 23, 2021

descarado:
I can see toasted sesame seed

Well done mami

yes

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:07pm On Jul 23, 2021

stevebond007:
Ok. If you don't mind you can make a thread like Akposy, for your nice cooking

I don’t cook that much anymore. Also I like this thread cheesy

9 Likes

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:59pm On Jul 23, 2021

stevebond007:
Is coco on IG?

nope

1 Like

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:47pm On Jul 23, 2021

Abdul240:
@cococandy can u share what ingredients u use for the meat pie

https://www.nairaland.com/4408985/homemade-meat-pie-recipe

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:45pm On Jul 23, 2021

Food

60 Likes 6 Shares

Family › Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by cococandy(f): 5:52pm On Jul 22, 2021

All the regurgitated and passed around incel talking points devoid of fact or common sense.
The women who have multiple sexual partners beg to disagree with you

Next.

Walkee:
calm down. Most men are useless and worthless and majority of women would have nothing to do with them. Women are hypergamous. Davido despite his records of knocking ladies up and leaving them would still fucck 80% of girls in Nigeria without condom and they will gladly throw away their postinor 2. Nature design men to be polygamous to fill the earth and women to be hypergamous.
Women were built to be chaste. The only reason your husband care about you when you are pregnant is because he subconsciously believe women are chaste.

2 Likes

Family › Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by cococandy(f): 5:05pm On Jul 22, 2021

Walkee:
a man's "value" doesn't reduce with sexual activities. A boy who has fuccked all the girls in his compound or department would be hailed as a champion while a girl who fuccked all the boys in his compound would disparaged and dismissed as a worthless whorre.
A boy is shamed for being a virgin while a girl is hailed for being a virgin

Because you people don’t have sense. grin

Unless you’re secretly saying boys should be sleeping with each other. That way they can accrue their high body count and be worthy of praise and all the girls will have no body count in order to be worthy of your admiration.
You really typed something that makes 0 sense given that men and women are equal in number on this earth and posted thinking you’ve provided a reason for the foolishness. But all you’ve done is highlight how illogical and dumb many of you are when it comes to matters concerning women and sex.

5 Likes

Family › Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by cococandy(f): 5:01pm On Jul 22, 2021

BuyAndSellStuff:
For me its not culture related.
Raising a female child in these immoral times is scary when I think of it.

Imagine watching my own daughter's sextape with one guy ramming her senselessly going viral online. Chai!!

I'll kill her then take my own life.

What a sad existence. What is wrong with you people?
Does your daughters body belong to you? Yikes
Disgusting.

And What exactly are you contributing to uphold societal morality? You’re one of those who don’t mind what you do other men’s daughters but when it comes to you, you want to end the world.

3 Likes

Celebrities › Re: Emanuella Celebrates 11th Birthday With Cute Pictures by cococandy(f): 4:55pm On Jul 22, 2021

Ololadekiniun:
Kids are now on NL Oh God

What kid?

This is his post. He was senior in school to someone who already completed nysc. He’s a disgusting pedophile

https://www.nairaland.com/6426742/lady-celebrates-mom-she-completes#99296411

went to the same secondary school (city college) with her, she's always happy like forever.

Was in ss3 while she was in ss2.
and we all love her shaa.

1 Like

Celebrities › Re: Emanuella Celebrates 11th Birthday With Cute Pictures by cococandy(f): 4:52pm On Jul 22, 2021

Klass99:
You dey vex o!

he’s talking about an 11 year old child embarassed

3 Likes

Celebrities › Re: Emanuella Celebrates 11th Birthday With Cute Pictures by cococandy(f): 1:05pm On Jul 22, 2021

Iliveforever:
And How old do you think I am?

shut your xtupid putrid mouth. Weren’t you the one who commented how you went to secondary school with one lady who was shared on this forum after her youth service. Now you want to be 11 years old because you saw a child that your disgusting self can’t wait to corrupt?

6 Likes

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 472 473 474 475 476 477 478 479 480 (of 1458 pages)