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Crime › Re: Man Who Raped An 8-Year-Old Boy In Akwa Ibom Sentenced To Life Imprisonment by cococandy(f): 11:18am On Mar 18, 2021
Draslo:
Who said men can't? I've met some nymphomaniacs in my short time on this planet and they're all women. Of different nationalities even. So give it a rest. Don't generalise a gender by one person's offense.
keep the same energy when all women get generalized for a few women’s offenses.
Romance › Re: Bodybuilder Who Married Sex Doll Gets New Wife - Massive Chicken With Human Head by cococandy(f): 11:41pm On Mar 17, 2021
OROSUNBOLB:
Everything ! Would he have resorted to inanimate objects for his sexual satisfactions if he had any regards or affection for the women folks ? You don't see it as an insult to your gender ?
if he has no regard or affection for us, that’s his problem.It’s a “he problem”. Not a “we problem”.

It can’t be an insult to women when women don’t need his affection to be validated. Some men like other men. He happens to like inanimate objects. None of that insults us.

Does that make sense now?
Romance › Re: Bodybuilder Who Married Sex Doll Gets New Wife - Massive Chicken With Human Head by cococandy(f): 11:28pm On Mar 17, 2021
OROSUNBOLB:
Why should I,please ?
what have women got to do
with it?
Romance › Re: Bodybuilder Who Married Sex Doll Gets New Wife - Massive Chicken With Human Head by cococandy(f): 11:07pm On Mar 17, 2021
OROSUNBOLB:
What an insult to womanhood ? How on earth would anybody think a lifeless effigy is better than a human being ? ! Indeed,God is great !
leave women out of it please.
Romance › Re: Bodybuilder Who Married Sex Doll Gets New Wife - Massive Chicken With Human Head by cococandy(f): 11:06pm On Mar 17, 2021
Mgtow. Beautiful
Romance › Re: ‘Is There Anything Wrong With Stealing A Good Man From An Ungrateful Woman?’ by cococandy(f): 10:37pm On Mar 17, 2021
Ndi pick me have come again. If he’s a good man he won’t be “stolen”. He will end the first relationship before starting one with you.
Family › Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by cococandy(f): 10:03pm On Mar 17, 2021
He clearly didn’t create the thread for advice on what to do.
He came to see if people will join him to chastise his wife. He still hasn’t gotten the message that his provision is grossly inadequate.

loveymom:
cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy

The OP said “kind enough to take the kids” grin cheesy grin cheesy

So that the woman will be chasing him every month for the #25k upkeep. He will now send when he feels like , because this kind man na to go get new girlfriend after all body no be firewood for men and konji na bastard. grin grin grin cheesy grin
He will now start taking care of girlfriend and neglect the triplets, all because if mama eat pikin them must eat too abi na Muchechechecheche cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
Family › Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by cococandy(f): 6:25pm On Mar 17, 2021
Prospertochu:
I will not divorce her, it's up to her to decide what's best for her to do, if she want to stay with me and be happy with 25k fine and if she decide to leave, that will be fine with me because I won't stop her, if she is kind enough to take the kids with her it's fine and I will be sending that 25k to her for the kids upkeep.
no you better keep the 3 children and take care of them by yourself like he so kindly advised you to.
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman Kills Her Husband In Delta Over Extramarital Affair (Photos) by cococandy(f): 6:19pm On Mar 17, 2021
ABANGWABOI:
Getting a man or not doesn't determine your happiness.. but your comments shows how Bitter and empty you are as well, Quit being unnecessary pained about the male folks and see yourself blossom more.. Presently, things that has to do with the male folks lives rent free in your head yet you claim you don't need a man, if you don't need a man then you should be "Indifferent" towards them not bitter..
#Peace
Of course all women are bitter when they challenge you. Stale. grin

Simply because you couldn’t answer why you thought threatening me with lack of man is supposed to make me scared.
Celebrities › Re: Reno Omokri's Wife Replies A Follower Who Called Reno Her 'Crush' by cococandy(f): 2:23pm On Mar 17, 2021
lekki1444:
shocked reno get wife ? poor woman have to put up with that loquacious noisemaker
grin
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman Kills Her Husband In Delta Over Extramarital Affair (Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:20pm On Mar 17, 2021
BurntSoul:
But sincerely if u Don't mind, u must had gotten over a hundred and one advances that u rightly snubbed.

Maybe ur specifications is outta the world. If u can tell me the specifics of a man u want, u will get married by December
The battle ahead is still long and hard.
Here’s another one assuming marriage by December is a gift that I should be excited for. You don’t even realize you’re doing it that’s the funny thing about it.

Why do you guys assume these things?
Who tells you to dangle marriage or lack of it as a gift/threat? Exhausting.

Men are not a prize. A relationship is just that. A relationship. It’s only for the people in it. It’s doesn’t make anyone better than another; single or not.

Use your December marriage and marry yourself sir wink
Family › Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by cococandy(f): 2:15pm On Mar 17, 2021
Toks2008:
lol @Ode, do i blame you? It is the internet and cheap android phones that has given so many dirty mannered ladies like you the chance to insult at will. A lady who has no manners is a reflection of the type of mother that raised her.
the man is the one who needs side hustle not this woman.
Unless there’s someone else who will come sit at home with the kids while she goes out hustling It’s not doable. please stop. So she’ll tie one on her head, one her back and one in front of her so that she can earn money?

Food business, shop business, work from home etc. do people even realize there’s daily market hustle to do go in order to buy the food/shop sale items?
Who’s cooking that bulk food with 3 babies on hand? Who will be setting up the store ?
Is she allowed to breathe at all? To even live?
How will she pay the employee that’s supposed to stay in the so-called store? do you know small businesses don’t make profit in the beginning until they are established very well. How can this person sustain an employee until then?

Any advice involving her working at this stage is impractical. It is made under the assumption that caring for those babies is not already exhausting enough that she should have extra time and energy for something else.

The man needs another job and a side hustle in addition to his current job. Yes he needs 3 jobs. Or one very well paid job. Either way the money is on him to bring at this point. Unless he can provide relief for the wife at home so that she can go hustle.
Family › Re: Why Men Lose Interest In Their Wife After Some Years Of Marriage by cococandy(f): 2:04pm On Mar 17, 2021
Klass99:
I am open to learning one or two useful things from a male perspective. I like what that user Theophorus shared, it was valuable information.

I'm looking forward to a female perspective as well and hoping Kanwulia or others share their experience. And I am truthfully not seeing it the way you and Hathor are.
that’s cool cool
Family › Re: Why Men Lose Interest In Their Wife After Some Years Of Marriage by cococandy(f): 2:00pm On Mar 17, 2021
pocohantas:
No try am o! grin grin
they are not ready to talk to women. They are just busy talking at us
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman Kills Her Husband In Delta Over Extramarital Affair (Photos) by cococandy(f): 1:58pm On Mar 17, 2021
BurntSoul:
Redpillers... grin
grin
Family › Re: Why Men Lose Interest In Their Wife After Some Years Of Marriage by cococandy(f): 1:23pm On Mar 17, 2021
Klass99:
I don't see it that way, I see it as an avenue for learning something new.
it’s just another woman-bashing thread. Nothing to learn here. Nothing but women this, women that. Bla and bla oh bla

The man gradually gets tired of the Nagging and find solace in something/someone else
Ask them to congregate let’s discuss what makes women loose interest and maybe even consider seeking solace outside, then the world will literally start to end on this thread grin

No we can’t have that. It’s only the husband man that’s allowed to get bored and take his attention away from the wife.
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman Kills Her Husband In Delta Over Extramarital Affair (Photos) by cococandy(f):
ABANGWABOI:
You are a single mom and not proud of it.. I thought you girls were bold enough of y'all indulgences, never knew y'all still have elements of shame within..
I can now see where the bitterness is coming from..
and if you continue this way, it would be so difficult for you to get a man to call your own..
what if I never get a man to call my own?
What happens then?
Is that in any way going to make my life worse than anyone else’s? Will that cause my existence on earth to stop? I’m just trying to understand something sir.

Why did you think to use this as a threat? What makes getting a man the ultimate prize? If I never get a man, what happens then?
Family › Re: Nigerian Man Thrown Out By His White Lover For Not Cooking by cococandy(f): 3:34am On Mar 17, 2021
Ardar:
Serves the Nigerian mail right if its true.

Shebi Nigerian women including their mothers are useless. These mails will shamelessly demand their fellow human being to respect and submit to them like a slave but when they meet foreigners, you won't hear pim from them lipsrsealed

Imagine going to work to hustle only to find out your stupid stay at home boyfriend couldn't even prepare food for you to eat after the day's hard work, probably the idiot thought this is Nigeria where they see their mothers selling akara and bread to contribute financially to the household with the burden of six children only to come back and cook and clean while their fathers go to a local bar after work to chill with friends.
They still don’t regard it as anything.

Was it not yesterday where they were asking what a new mom of triplets was contributing to the family. Asking why she was not working.


Most of them have/had working moms who still held down the home front (double the responsibility of their dads) yet they are always on NL claiming women bring nothing to the home.
Sigh
Romance › Re: I Just Found Out Her Hiding Place by cococandy(f): 12:00am On Mar 17, 2021
It’s that cheap to hire police . Wow
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman Kills Her Husband In Delta Over Extramarital Affair (Photos) by cococandy(f): 11:58pm On Mar 16, 2021
ABANGWABOI:
Permit me to ask ??
Are you a single mother ??
it’s not your business
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman Kills Her Husband In Delta Over Extramarital Affair (Photos) by cococandy(f): 11:49pm On Mar 16, 2021
ABANGWABOI:
Pls don't quote me again..
Not interested in threading words with a demented coyote lacking empathy, rationality and wisdom in anything.
very rational of you to condemn all single moms because of the actions of this woman. Mtchew
Christianity Etc › Re: How Prophet Daniel Abodunrin Was Killed By Lions At U.I. Zoo In 1991 In Ibadan by cococandy(f): 8:00pm On Mar 16, 2021
He was a victim of super religious brainwashing
Romance › Re: Would you date an atheist? by cococandy(f): 7:00pm On Mar 16, 2021
Shouldn’t have let him go. Just saying wink wink

Most religious people are that way because they fear punishment in the after life . In fact the good they do is not from a place of love. It’s in hopes of a reward. And they are the most judgmental self righteous people ever. Yes self-own I know.

An atheist who is good to people despite not believing in eternal reward is indeed a good person with a great heart. Does good for goodness sake. Can’t beat that.

Klass99:
Lol grin. I dated him because;

1. Dude spoke my love languages without me ever revealing what they were - the thing bust my head die cheesy

2. He had class, great taste and a strong sense of responsibility towards self and family I admired - he still does.

3. He was older and mature, I actually like my men older than me. Like fine wine, men get better with age is not a myth at all. Younger men or the ones in my age group are in the habit of sending photos of their peepee, calling you baby or sweetheart within a short time of meeting you, it's a huge turn off and there was none of that with him.

4. We could carry on delightful conversations via chats and in person, he never texted in short hand (another thing that tripped me to pieces) our conversations were meaningful, they had depth and substance.

5. I'm a health and fitness conscious person, I liked that at his age he was trim, fit and healthy not to mention good looking cheesy and he worked out every week. It was easy to get him the ideal valentine gift last year.

6. Our first date was so cool. We did a movie @ the cinema, sat down to a light meal of pizza/ drinks afterwards and gisted for 2 hours just getting to know ourselves.

Please tell me, how could I not have dated this man? Atheist or not? I decided a long time ago that I was never going to deny myself the company of good a man, simply because a relationship won't lead to marriage.

Just answering your question has me thinking of him and all my memories of him are pleasant. It's his birthday April 1, I think I'm going to have a surprise gift delivered to him, even though we drifted apart and haven't spoken to each other for a while, I like this guy. Have I satisfied your amebo curiosity? grin
Crime › Re: Man Killed In Zamfara While Trying To Protect Wife From Rape On Wedding Night by cococandy(f): 6:50pm On Mar 16, 2021
whodeyhere:
You seem to have HUGE issues with men... be calming down na. He died honourably though, RIP to him.
men have issues with us. I’m just responding to it. You people turn blind when women are continually harassed, raped and their pain is mocked.
Then when we respond mildly, we have issues cheesy. Na so.

If a woman was the culprit trying fro rape someone, all the comments here would be generally condemning every single woman on earth for one woman’s actions and you won’t have a problem with those generalizations.

Typically gaslighting bloke.
Crime › Re: Man Killed In Zamfara While Trying To Protect Wife From Rape On Wedding Night by cococandy(f): 3:04pm On Mar 16, 2021
Draslo:
I just hope for his sake that she remains celibate for life.
doesn’t compute
Crime › Re: Man Killed In Zamfara While Trying To Protect Wife From Rape On Wedding Night by cococandy(f): 3:03pm On Mar 16, 2021
When men won’t let this world have peace sha. Trying to rape another man’s wife. On their wedding night for that matter.
Bro code gone wrong. RIP to the dead
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman Kills Her Husband In Delta Over Extramarital Affair (Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:41pm On Mar 16, 2021
pocohantas:
There must b a way to blame the woman. Shebi they were on another thread supporting Pete Edochie. They never see anything. grin
the illogic of it
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman Kills Her Husband In Delta Over Extramarital Affair (Photos) by cococandy(f): 2:40pm On Mar 16, 2021
Because it’s very brilliant to assume her previous marriage caused her to kill this man.

Doofus reasoning
JasonIbori:
Please shut up and sit down....


Do well to mention me when you come up with something brilliant.




Thanks...
Politics › Re: Ahmed Wase: Nigerians Abroad Threaten To Withhold $23b Remittance by cococandy(f): 2:39pm On Mar 16, 2021
I never asked you to explain this. Lol.
Has nothing to do with my post .
richmanrichard:
when we say 'remittance' we mean funds coming into the country. The bank takes their charges on each dollar/money same as d govt. The remaining goes to the friends and family. The funds keeps circulating and benefitting everyone. If d remittance is used to buy goverment bonds or normally shares+ stock; it still puts money into d government coven and also d banks. Your relatives working in d banks are payed frm interests frm these diaspora remittances. You as an indipendent enteuprenuer gets this same remittance when you offer any of your services abroad.When you do any online business with any foreigner; you are also paid frm these remittances
. Should i continue mesdam?
Crime › Re: Pregnant Woman Kills Her Husband In Delta Over Extramarital Affair (Photos) by cococandy(f): 1:44pm On Mar 16, 2021
Starzo:
many single mothers are toxic. They feel betrayed by the previous men in their life and so carry a hidden grudge against the male gender.

Na so I go do mumu tell one of them wey carry pikin for back 'sorry o' when she nearly fall from one wooden flyover. Next thing wey follow na insults like, 'sorry for urself' and other things.
Me I nor dull too I still give her back sharp sharp
Fallacious way of reasoning
Politics › Re: Ahmed Wase: Nigerians Abroad Threaten To Withhold $23b Remittance by cococandy(f): 1:39pm On Mar 16, 2021
Haha. When did we meet and plan to withdraw this remittances biko. Please speak for yourself people.

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