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Sterope:
Ice cream

Is it not them again?

I’m just very happy that her husband is standing with her.
The people claiming they care about him more than he does care about himself are just pretentious jackasses. Or plain jealous.

They’ve been hating this woman from the beginning because she’s divorced. therefore, not good enough for a second chance much less a second chance with royalty.

The rancid bitterness against someone they don’t personally know. Tufia. Like for real how do they know all this stuff they are claiming? Even with clear evidence that she’s been maliciously treated differently than Kate, it’s like yea she should be okay with that.

I never cease to be amazed at how hard some of them go in condemnation of her. Without knowing her from Adam. Shocking.

All those “she knew what she signing up for” people, you really mean she should be okay with being belittled and disrespected for no reason?

How’s the self-hate tasting?

Why don’t you raise your kids then? If they really come first to you.
They come first but you’re putting the sole responsibility on someone else. How’s that?

Kelvin3476:
Our maid will never wash my wears, cook or serve me food, unless she will accept anything that cmes out of it. THATS WHY I SAID WHEN MY KIDS ARE GETTING MATURED TO DO ALL THESE THINGS, THEN SHE IS FREE TO FLY TO ANY PLC. I WILL SUPPORT EVERY OF SHE DOINGS, UNLESS IT WILL HAMPER MY KIDS UP BRINGING . MY KIDS COMES 1ST

If you understand the need for equality, then you’re a feminist. It’s really that simple. Feminism is nothing more than that.

Y’all stop falling for the mis-definition and gaslighting that misogynists apply in making you malign feminism. It’s simply about equality and nothing more.

ibuildstuff:
Reading ur story I just felt like we have same parents. How ur dad treated ur mom is exactly how my dad treated my mom. I get so furious and angry with him at times. His actions n inactions affected me n my sister life. But we know better now.

I think is common with the older generation men but alot of us new generation are learning, there's no way I could treat a woman the way my dad treated my mom.

I'm not even a feminist but I understand the need for equality amoung men n women. So I do my best in my own little way I can.

Mikester:
[color=navy] Contradict me with facts or shut up[/color]

I’m assuming you think your opinion is fact.
“Patriarchy is nurturing”. To who? To the myriads of men and women who have been hurt by toxic masculinity?
Mtchew

The fact that you expect me to waste my time discussing it with you. The Silly entitlement.

The worst part is that you believe this hogwash

Mikester:
[color=navy]So many modern women have nothing interesting to say. All they want to do is to exploit their sexuality for material or societal gain. They do not create anything of objective value.

This is the sad thing about women's rights.
You cannot out of kindness, fairness and modern thinking grant them a few liberties, preserve society and be done with it. Oh no. Once the foot's in the door, it never ends. They will push for more until the universe itself explodes.

It starts with "we want freely available access to birth control and the right to work, and choose who we marry"

And it ends with frivolous divorce, broken homes, widespread misandry, feminine sons, masculine daughters and the complete demonisation of any & all things masculine. What gain have Feminism brought so far even to the women it claims to help?

Patriarchy nurtures women, emancipation harms them. No protection. No provision. Stressful careers and decision making. No guidance. Insecurity. Mental damage from promiscuity. A string of regrets. Women are family creatures. Hyper individualistic autonomy is damaging for them.

Patriarchy is nurturing and protective. The backbone of civilization. No advanced society can survive without it.

Furthermore, paternalism is God's love in man.
You have daddy issues when you didn't receive enough paternal love. It's that simple. Independence isn't the answer to that, no matter how much you brand it as freedom or liberty and turn to degeneracy to cope. None of that will save you.



Happy International Women's Day.[/color]

Hathor5:
What happened to for better for worse?

they only remember it when the guy is cheating or beating the woman. But when an actual situation that requires that commitment comes, it’s silence. It’s not like he was deceived into the marriage.

OP listen to those who are asking you to step outside. But before then, set your wife free.
She might be lucky to conceive with someone else.

Ginaz:
Cococandy I feel this isn't the right time to argue with him about abortions or infertility. Soothing words would be more than preferable.

Your argument on the topic is absolutely unnecessary.

Very well.

But This is also not the right time to advise him to go find another woman. Wonder why those posts are okay but my factual posts about abortion not being the cause of infertility is not at the right time.

I do think it’s appropriate because for one I’m not arguing with him. I’m giving him factual information.

Maybe if he stops dwelling on the wrong cause of his problem, a solution might come his way sooner.

The resentment he feels towards his wife, I’m sure she knows and feels it too. Negative feelings and stress can hinder the hormonal conditions that increase the possibilities of conception.

IntentionTremor:
YES it is common knowledge that D and C's INCREASES risk of future female infertility. But your scientific links to prove otherwise here will be highly appreciated. Thanks

It does not. But your mind is made up and you’ll probably only align with posts that help you resent your wife some more.

It’s not my responsibility to provide you information that’s readily available.

Good luck though.

IntentionTremor:
Fertility supplements. And yes, the pregnancy was natural - achieved via routine sexual intercourse without my pouring sperm into a lab specimen bottle and eggs extracted etc.
By fertility treatmemt I meant supplements, not regular fertility meds as such. Expensive supplements by the way. Google is my friend about what exactly? Thanks

Okay.

About google. It’s your friend on learning whether abortions cause infertility or not.

Don’t read opinion pieces though. Read scientific papers.

IntentionTremor:
The first pregnancy was after some rounds of fertility treatment after two years wait. All the same it's history. The way forward is the main thing now.
Are you sure about your conclusion, that RARELY does abortions (D n C) cause infertility?
Well , feel free to educate my ignorance. Thanks

In your OP you implied it was a natural pregnancy. Now you’re saying it was after fertility treatments.
Okay.

Google is your friend sha. Unless you’re going to pay me for the education

What happened to their wives and children?

I hope your brother is innocent. I wish him fair justice.

Alcohol use and adultery are not crimes. I doubt he was charged to court with that. Seems exaggerated. She might accuse him of those, but no one will drag him to court for using alcohol or cheating.

However if he did physically abuse his kids & his wife, or if he forged anything relating to his paperwork to stay in and work in the country, then he’s in for a hard time. I hope he’s innocent of those allegations.

Marital rape might be very hard to prove.

Don’t deliberately choose to be ignorant. Abortions rarely (if ever) cause infertility.
If it made her infertile where did the first pregnancy that you lost at birth come from?

Mtchew

IntentionTremor:
Ya, I am also on that thread with my main moniker, followed the topic some years ago and still following. I got a lot of encouragement and network from that thread during our IVFs.
The solution to the infertility is a HYSTERECTOMY. Just so you have a picture of what it's like. Spare me the diagnosis for the internet's sake. I verbally abused the gynaecologist the day he told us that in his office.
If the past is related to the present predicament I don't know. But my mind tells me if the abortion wasn't done this whole thing wouldn't have been there in the first place..

The sun is too hot

Lady, If this really was your worst fear,
you shouldn’t have done the 3some,

or maybe made him wear protection with her

or have a 3some with him and another dude. All na content.

But you took the maximum risk knowing the potential outcome.

That’s really really good.

Mstravelindiva:
Thank you. I spent about $1700 USD for my flight and hotel (7 nights, 8 days lodged at The Sheraton Grand Dubai) and about another $600-800 USD on transportation, food, tours, shopping and activities.

So rude.
She doesn’t owe you information sha.
You can do your own research.
Or ask nicely .

People sef

Legionx:
There is no need to share your travel experience just to show pictures

How much did it cost you in travel expenses
How much to lodge a hotel
How much are restaurants.

We have seen pictures of Dubai before, yours is valueless.

But when you answer the questions above, it makes sense

Beautiful post and perspective

Mstravelindiva:
Awww, thank you, traveling is my passion! I love new experiences, meeting new people and learning about their culture. That’s how you learn about others...visiting their home, tasting their foods and “intentionally” looking to experience life through their eyes. Everything that glitters isn’t gold, so while it’s great to experience all the fun things in life, it’s equally as important to realize that many don’t have this opportunity. So, I personally try to see life from their perspective, which is such a humbling and educational experience. It opens your eyes and forces you to do better and help others, because ultimately “it’s not about me”.

Trust me, EVERY country has its issues, some just do a really great job keeping it out of the limelight. And it’s easy to prejudge others based on what we see on the media (and they tend to portray Black counties poorly). If I didn’t know better, I’d think this was intentional.

I travel to educate myself and it has been such a humbling and fulfilling experience. It allows me to count my blessings, but more importantly appreciate, respect and celebrate the beautiful life and culture of others!

Thank you for taking the time to read my travel posts, I appreciate you!

Sending you positive vibes friend!

It’s very PG but enjoyable. I’m proud of Davido

Your logic is so upside down. SMH.
Where does one even begin to unpack it from?

IamPlato:
if you can accept homosexuality I hope you can accept if your husband marries a second wife or if you kids start masturbating, or your grown up starts doing drugs and feels happy with it... You will obviously not be comfortable with these things and you would seek a way out.

Since you feel it's about happiness then you should have no say in these if it happens to your close ones


There is a lot you people need to think about.


There are homosexuals today who regret ever going into the act and they hate the rest of the world for supporting it, you haven't heard half the story, when you do you will know who needs help, if it me or you and the homosexuals


Bye

I’m sure you also believe Trump is the anointed one of God. Just the idea of letting other people live their lives while you live yours is too hard for you you’re breaking out in sweats.

Doofus

doxijaw:
No you need help. Another lost negro living in the west.

You guys are so useless in the grand scheme thing's you can't see.

BLM wants to destroy the family unit, led by a Nigerian female sponsored by George Soros.

Consider yourself a dumbass negro working to destroy the black race.

What do you get, yeah pittance from the white man, in the end your black ass will be put back where you belong if they choose.

You guys will never wake up, dinfu nutthin blacks, you must see how they the White's talk about you behind your backs.

Sounds like you’re the one who needs help.

Imagine thinking you know what’s better for someone else. The arrogance

IamPlato:
they need help, it is your duty to make them see it...


Have sex through anus and taking in shit into the penis does that sound normal?

Everything is wrong with homosexuality...

Your opinion counts, this minding my business is fucking destroying this damn planet.


You all should stop this rubbish and say the truth.

People get influenced these days into becoming homosexuals, Peers pressure and influence are turning young people into something else, how would you feel if your daughter comes home and suddenly starts showing homosexual qualities.

IamPlato:
is Homosexuality Normal To You

my opinion on gay people doesn’t count. I’m not gay. I don’t get to decide what’s normal for them.

72 hour shift? God forbid. Anything after 16 hours is dangerous. After 12 hours I feel like I’m even pushing it.
Imagine not being paid on top of that for 3 months.

Just senseless. Senseless and inhumane.

This old man is an agbaya

Jokes on you. Animals practice homosexuality all the time

Anigreat:








Assuming homosexuality was a natural or q normal thing then you'll see a male dog running after a male dog for sexual satisfaction, you'll see a male cocck running after a male cocck for sexual satisfaction etc, Same thing with lesbianism, you'll see a female cat running after female cat for sexual satisfaction, a female goat desperate in search of female goat for sexual satisfaction etc...if animals with their shallowed brains can be attracted to the opposite sex for sexual satisfaction, i dont know what's wrong with human beings. The devil is really at war with mankind.


I detest gay
God himself detest them, reason he reduced Sodom and Gomorrah to dust.

Kidnap hundreds? How?

chatinent:
That's because you toast everything in skirt you see with no intention of marriage.

Build your life, the perfect match will come by. You don't need to validate your wooing skills by deceiving random girls.

You are welcome.
Have a nice century.

l lmao